I hear you katnip, I will sit down with her tonight and tell her what inside my heart.I remember 2 years back how she looked liken how she was so frightened, and he niece who helped her to come in the first place to dubai, but her niece living in Aus now, and far away from telling her not to fall for this man again....her niece is a strong woman and stood up for this man, I remember that this man told her 2 years back he wants her to live with him after 2 years him living with the other woman...this man have his plan going on track....but my house help is being as you said, thinking this is her last chance to be with a man....I'll try to put some sense into her brain, and she is totally free to do anything with her life, and not to go back to this man.It's not about staying with me anymore, I did start my process finding another house help and did received responses....
In the end, the maid is really an individual with her own hopes and aspirations. Maybe she feels she won't find another man at her age (don't know how old she is, but some women have this concern).If you really feel worried you can sit her down and have a chat about it. Whatever her decision you'd have at least said your part and never regret that you stayed quiet.
I feel awful that our house help doesn't want to renew her contract with us, that she wants to go back home, as her estranged husband finally dumped his (other wife )and his child from her.....The thing is her - so called - husband wants her to leave her job with us and find another job in UAE, or if she finished her time with us, she can leave for her home country....and start living with him again....I know she is not perfect - like any human - but I can see she is ruining her life one more time, for a man who throw her to the streets from her marriage house so he can have this house to his new wife....how he traumatized her, how he a banded their son - he is a teen right now - and how she is a wonderful woman that she is falling for this man again....I know it's not my problem, but sometimes you can't help knowing and waiting for a disaster to happen....I was thinking it was time to move on, but the look at my children's faces when I told them that - the name - will leave us, my eldest said to her he is sorry and won't be naughty again, and he wants her to stay with us....she was crying as well, but the pain my children going throw made me think about the whole thing......I'm posting this to get it out of my chest, it freed me from all those bad feeling.Maybe I feel this way, as I had a wisdom tooth extraction yesterday? I would never know.Sorry, I know it's a me thread.edited by Gorobattie on 11/06/2012
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