Latest post on 2011/04/21 at 13:55:05
Maybe she uploaded all the photos forgetting those were there? Easy to do. not everyone is as perfect as clearly you are!
Your family are clearly living in each other's pockets so maybe telling all and sundry about the pictures is what would suit you but the OP is asking advice on HER family and I know that many people that age would be red in the face at hearing about the pictures from a cousin nevermind a parent and if she wants to take the pictures off, that is all she will need.
Oh and by the way, you really think it is appropriate for the father to be looking at the pictures in question to make a judgement?
Wow, madolecow, judgemental much? I'm pretty sure I didn't imply in any of my responses that I was anywhere close to perfect - I made many mistakes along the way, and thank goodness we didn't have the internet during some of them, it's a whole new ballgame these days, and our indiscretions can be out there for the whole world to see now - and forever.
There is a big difference between looking out for each other's well being and being "in each other's pockets" as you say...
I am not passing any judgement on your family dynamics or morals based on what your OPINION is about what the OP should do, I kindly ask the same of you. The OP asked for opinions, I clearly stated (more than once) that my opinion is based on what would work best in my family, many others have given differing opinions - isn't this what the OP wants, to see what others may do, then decide for herself what would work best for her and her family?
I can see both sides of this argument, truly - I've given my opinion and am only wishing the best for the OP. It's clear she cares about her cousin and does not want to see her making decisions that can be harmful to her, her safety or her future. With that, I'm bowing out of this conversation.
All the best.