Low self esteem
Ladies i could really do with some advice.
I've been in Dubai for a while now, i have found it so difficult to settle in here. I have never worked here as I have two kids to look after. That it self took time for me to get use to as I have always been so independent and all of a sudden i am totally dependant on my husband. Thankfully our relationship is great and i got over that quickly.
The problem now is that ever since we have had our kids our friends are dropping like flies. We were the first in our friends circle to have kids so we thought noone understands how much our responsibility has changed. But then since having our 2nd even our friends with one kid have all left us. From talking to people everyday to going for coffees often to nothing for months. I tried approaching but the response are now non existing. I run things over and over in my head and im sure i havent done anything to offend anyone but it seems friends nowadays can't be bothered to talk if theres a problem. I don't understand this silent treatment. This always happens when something changes in our life. We now feel like we have none here and although i enjoy my tike with the family i would love to meet other people.
Its tough for me to go out to coffee mornings as its during nap times for the kids, ive joined groups and again everyone meets up during the nap times. My youngest is 6 months so i just cant take her out of a nap just yet.
Ive started to think its me, i'm the problem, i'm not approachable (i don't know why) Its really putting me down and i just don't know what to do to get myself out of this. I've tried to change myself, my personality but how long can you keep up being someone your not??? I have always tried my best to be there for all my friends but its seems like being a nice person isnt good enough.
Is it normal for friends to come and go so quickly? If so how do you make new ones if you have no job or no time to go to gatherings?
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