Hi, looking for some advice on homesickness!
I moved to Dubai in February and I'm really struggling. My partner is also out here but other than that I am finding it hard to meet people that are a similar age and have similar interests. (I'm 23 and from Scotland)
I thought it would be easier when I found work however the job I am in it is mainly males that work here. They are all nice and I get on with them but it isn't the same as building proper friendships. The few women that do work here are from very different backgrounds and despite my attempts to build relationships with them it isn't going anywhere.
I was very close to my family back home and this is the first time I have ever been away (I was living with my parents and twin sister before the move out here), so it's hard being by myself.
It doesn't help that I also feel trapped being tied into contracts for housing etc and pretty soon a car (needed for work), money wise there are no problem (thankfully) but even with money to do things it isn't very fun if you have to do it by yourself.
Looking for suggestions on where to meet people in the same positions or how I can try and pick myself up a bit. I went to one of the coffee mornings when I first arrived and everyone was lovely but I'm not that outgoing so it can be quite daunting! I also don't want to come across as needy or pathetic as everyone seems to already have friends .. logically I know this probably isn't the case but as I'm not feeling great my mind tends to go into overdrive!
Any thoughts on how to overcome this would be really appreciated!
Hi,
I completely understand how you feel. I moved out to Dubai at the beginning of May, I'm 26 and from the UK and I am really missing home at the moment and feel like I'm struggling to meet like minded people. I'm not really into sports which is a shame as I've heard it's a great way to meet people!
If you'd ever like to meet up just let me know, always willing to meet a friend - and remember that everyone person who has moved out here will have been in the same position as you when they first came out, so I'm sure most people will be willing to reach out to you, as I'm sure you will do the same to newbies when you've overcome your homesickness.
Take care and I wish you the best.
J
