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Latest post on 19 November 2015 - 18:58
When I held my son back there was no FS1 at DESS. He entered FS2 when he was 5. It was a mutual decision between the school and I and I think it is something that they try not to do very often. I found myself in an awful situation because I only put my sons name down at Horizon school and although he passed the assessment he was not offered and immediate space and rather put on the waitlist. Admittedly this was my own fault but I had three other younger children at home who were not even at Nursery yet! Horizon were dreadful to deal with, thoughtless and uncaring. I did a very average job at Home Schooling (I was having a bit of a break down at the time) and DESS were kind and reviewed our situation on an individual basis. I feel like the school has heart unlike many over the other money making enterprises around. I think that some schools will allow you to hold kids back if they are June/July/August babies. Tru Blu, Thank you so much for your response, I really appreciate it. :) One last question - at what stage in the admission process did you discuss with the school that you wanted a late start for your child? Also, did you need to get the Khda involved for this to happen? Hi yes, I should elaborate a bit more. I was in a very difficult situation and actually my son was not given a place at the one and only school we had his name down at (Horizon). I was therefore home schooling him for the first term and not doing a very good job at it. I really had my hands full with three other kids under 3 at the time. I think I mentioned fairly early on that I would like him held back but they didn't say much at the time. It was after the assessment I was told that he probably would fair better in the year behind (the year group I was hoping for). As it turns out he probably could have gone into his actual year group from an academic perspective, but socially he fairs much better where he is. Can I ask which month is your child born in? My son's birthday is the last week of August (was born a week earlier than his due date- hmph!) . Like Big blue, I too tried to get the schools to agree via email that my son could start at 4 instead of 3 but haven't been successful thus far. In person they say its a possibility but then on email they insist on him applying for FS2. Hence my frustration and disappointment. Despite stating our preference earlier on (both in-person and on the information forms that some ask for), all schools that we applied to have asked that he come for assessments for FS1 2016 and then send a rejection email saying his application will be rolled over to FS2 (that is if they do rollovers). Plan to talk to the registrars of these schools again and see the outcome. If all else fails, Plan B would be to entertain a US or IB school. So Tru Blu, you didn't need to get KHDA assistance in this process? Hmm, not sure if things have changed this year?! And who knows what will happen next year cause KHDA is planning to follow in ADEC's footsteps...
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 19 November 2015 - 18:53
Regarding holding back, I suppose it depends on the birth date. Our DD is early September and all schools we were interested in did in fact suggest she should start at 4 rather than 3. These schools include Horizon and DESS. But I believe that if for instance you child has a June or July birthday you may need to discuss with the school in more detail. I made sure I had the registrar's response on email in case later on they changed the story, but none did. The cut off is August 31st in most schools.; well i believe it is at DESS and Horizon atleast. And so your daughter would definitely start school when she's just about to turn 4. Did they really have to make an exception in your case or have I got it all wrong?
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 19 November 2015 - 18:50
When I held my son back there was no FS1 at DESS. He entered FS2 when he was 5. It was a mutual decision between the school and I and I think it is something that they try not to do very often. I found myself in an awful situation because I only put my sons name down at Horizon school and although he passed the assessment he was not offered and immediate space and rather put on the waitlist. Admittedly this was my own fault but I had three other younger children at home who were not even at Nursery yet! Horizon were dreadful to deal with, thoughtless and uncaring. I did a very average job at Home Schooling (I was having a bit of a break down at the time) and DESS were kind and reviewed our situation on an individual basis. I feel like the school has heart unlike many over the other money making enterprises around. I think that some schools will allow you to hold kids back if they are June/July/August babies. Tru Blu, Thank you so much for your response, I really appreciate it. :) One last question - at what stage in the admission process did you discuss with the school that you wanted a late start for your child? Also, did you need to get the Khda involved for this to happen? Hi yes, I should elaborate a bit more. I was in a very difficult situation and actually my son was not given a place at the one and only school we had his name down at (Horizon). I was therefore home schooling him for the first term and not doing a very good job at it. I really had my hands full with three other kids under 3 at the time. I think I mentioned fairly early on that I would like him held back but they didn't say much at the time. It was after the assessment I was told that he probably would fair better in the year behind (the year group I was hoping for). As it turns out he probably could have gone into his actual year group from an academic perspective, but socially he fairs much better where he is. Can I ask which month is your child born in? My son's birthday is the last week of August (was born a week earlier than his due date- hmph!) . Like Big blue, I too tried to get the schools to agree via email that my son could start at 4 instead of 3 but haven't been successful thus far. In person they say its a possibility but then on email they insist on him applying for FS2. Hence my frustration and disappointment. Despite stating our preference earlier on (both in-person and on the information forms that some ask for), all schools that we applied to have asked that he come for assessments for FS1 2016 and then send a rejection email saying his application will be rolled over to FS2 (that is if they do rollovers). Plan to talk to the registrars of these schools again and see the outcome. If all else fails, Plan B would be to entertain a US or IB school.
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Latest post on 16 November 2015 - 14:24
When I held my son back there was no FS1 at DESS. He entered FS2 when he was 5. It was a mutual decision between the school and I and I think it is something that they try not to do very often. I found myself in an awful situation because I only put my sons name down at Horizon school and although he passed the assessment he was not offered and immediate space and rather put on the waitlist. Admittedly this was my own fault but I had three other younger children at home who were not even at Nursery yet! Horizon were dreadful to deal with, thoughtless and uncaring. I did a very average job at Home Schooling (I was having a bit of a break down at the time) and DESS were kind and reviewed our situation on an individual basis. I feel like the school has heart unlike many over the other money making enterprises around. I think that some schools will allow you to hold kids back if they are June/July/August babies. Tru Blu, Thank you so much for your response, I really appreciate it. :) One last question - at what stage in the admission process did you discuss with the school that you wanted a late start for your child? Also, did you need to get the Khda involved for this to happen?
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Latest post on 15 November 2015 - 19:55
Its an amazing school. I have two attending now and another two starting FS2 next Sep. I have no complaints about the school. It is long established and I feel like that is part of the reason that they really have things running well. Depending on where you live the school run can be quite long, but that can also be Dubai in general. Let me know if you have any specific questions. Tru Blu, in a separate thread , you mentioned you were able to hold back one your children so they entered FS1 when they were 4 . If so, could you please guide me as to how this can be done and at what stage this should be communicated to the schools ?? Am very confused and frustrated with the conflicting and inconsistent answers I'm getting from schools .:confused::thinking:
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Latest post on 13 November 2015 - 19:56
Thanks a bunch comp99 :cool:
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Latest post on 12 November 2015 - 21:09
Hi ladies, I chose not to send my summer 2011 DS to school this year for many of the reasons already covered on this thread. However, I was recently told by a couple of teacher friends that he would not be allowed to join FS1 in 2015 as he would have turned 4 by then, he would have to join FS2 (providing there are spaces) This would defeat the purpose of my holding him back to begin with. I hope this makes sense I haven't had my coffee yet ? edited by Gilly3 on 12/09/2014 It all depends on the school. I was initially told the same thing as you but I know first hand that there are a few schools that will allow it. Hi Tru Blu Which schools allow this?? Also , what are the extra steps for the parent since these schools would rather not bother with these cases given the volume of applicants . :(
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Latest post on 12 November 2015 - 20:57
Hi mols Im in the exact situation and am also trying to understand how one can hold back a child for a year. I find it is very stressful to have your child assessed at 2.2 yrs; quite ridiculous actually! I also applied for FS1 2016 for my child cause at the time (beginning this year) all schools said if I applied in 2017, I would have to apply for FS2. Has anyone responded to you with what's needed to allow your child to apply for FS1 when he's just turned 4!? A friend has done it recently.vYou need to get khda involved for this and have them issue a letter of demotion for your child, instructing school to move him/her to a lower year group. So if age wise she is suppose to start fs2 , she can start in fs1. Schools generally encourage to follow the age guidelines for each year group as its a ministry regulation and they want to comply with this. Hope that helps. Thanks comp99 :). Is the khda approval sought before applying for fs1 or only after acceptance . That's the part I find confusing as I've already applied for fs1 for next year and been rejected .
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Latest post on 12 November 2015 - 20:24
We found only a handful of schools that were supportive in our decision to back year our son. He was a late August born premmie. These schools have agreed to take his application for Sept 2016 for FS1 but if the teachers really feel he's at FS2 level they will place him in FS2 if we also agree to it. These schools who have been supportive have been very kind in offering advice and being friendly and transparent with us. Sadly our top choice JAPS was crossed off the list just from the lack of help and incorrect information they fed us. Hi maryamindubai - Which schools were open to this ?
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Latest post on 12 November 2015 - 19:18
Sorry I hadnt seen the post asking why I thought it was best to let DD complete FS1 at nursery and then start at school. My DD is very quiet and shy, and also one of the youngest in her class because of the cut off date. When I took her for FS1 assessments last year she had just turned 2, whereas there were some kids there who had just turned 3 - a big difference in confidence and capabilities. Add to that her shyness, those kids felt like they were 5 years old compared to my 2 year old! So she's attending nursery which is still a toddler environment, much cosier and not as daunting for her as attending a big school. I'm not holding her back technically because she will start FS2 next year with the other kids in a regular school, but she gets more time to gain some confidence and be ready for the big school environment. I'm happy with our decision, I already feel like she's benefitted by being at nursery and is gaining confidence slowly but surely :) When do assessments for FS2 generally take place ? Has your daughter already got a place ? Which school?
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Latest post on 12 November 2015 - 16:56
Dont stress, we received a rejection email instantly (no waitlist!) :) :(
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Latest post on 12 November 2015 - 16:51
Hi Lolacat Please could you elaborate on this? "You can hold him back and the school can help you do this very easily." I would like to have my 2013 late August born son to continue in nursery when he's just turned 3 and then attend FS1 in 2017. Some of the schools say its fine to apply for FS1 in 2017 but then on email, they go back to "He has to apply for FS2 in 2017" rule. Anyways , don't schools set their own admission rules/policies as long as they don't allow children younger than 3 yrs and 8 months to attend FS2? Thanks Lolacat, any guidance in this matter would be greatly appreciated!
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Latest post on 12 November 2015 - 16:41
Hi mols Im in the exact situation and am also trying to understand how one can hold back a child for a year. I find it is very stressful to have your child assessed at 2.2 yrs; quite ridiculous actually! I also applied for FS1 2016 for my child cause at the time (beginning this year) all schools said if I applied in 2017, I would have to apply for FS2. Has anyone responded to you with what's needed to allow your child to apply for FS1 when he's just turned 4!?