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Latest post on 13 January 2013 - 11:21
Hi flydiver So sorry to hear you are going through this worry. I know a woman that had normal periods throughout her pregnancies and had healthy babies - her first pregnancy she didn't realise for months she was pregnant as she never missed a period. Call Dr Tazyeen, she is excellent at high risk pregnancies and won't just leave you to wait and see what happens if there is anything (injections etc) she can give you to help. http://www.drtazyeenobgyn.com/
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Latest post on 13 January 2013 - 11:09
I've always had hair fall out by the handful a few months after having a baby. It's pretty balanced out though as I have very little hair loss (or growth) when pregnant. It's horrible in the shower and like lizajj says, you then get a weird fringe effect when the new hair starts to grow in. I've got long thick hair and there is still a shorter layer in my hair from when I had my last baby nearly three years ago. Whilst it has felt like I'm losing half my hair, luckily once it stops I've still got plenty left. If your hair loss is hormonal like mine, a shower filter won't help with the loss although I highly recommend one anyway, my hair is so much softer and nicer with one. Post baby hair loss is common, loads of my friends have had it also.
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Latest post on 13 January 2013 - 11:02
Hi Mmmmm I know when you are feeling desperate it seems a long way off but like other posters have said, around the 3 month mark is often a tipping point when things start to get easier. Which is a good thing because by then you can be half crazed with tiredness! I personally would wait until then to really try for a routine but like kiwispiers says, there are things you can do now to help. From the daytime nap timings you've given, I wouldn't be doing any waking of bubs during the day. Are you able to try and sleep a bit when she is in the daytime? I find it easier in those early few months to adjust my schedule to my baby rather than try to adjust their schedule to mine - hope that makes sense! It's totally normal for your baby to be up until the time you've said in the evening, it's when they tank up on food so it's a busy feeding time. It doesn't last forever. Not sure what your husbands routine is but I find it really nice that bubs is up until then as it gives my husband a chance for cuddling and bonding when he gets home from work.
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Latest post on 12 January 2013 - 13:45
Sorry if this is a silly question but do you mean the 100% virgin oil like Parachute found in the grocery stores? thank you this is very helpful Like Wednesday Genius, I get virgin coconut oil from the Organic Foods and Cafe. I pour the oil in to a glass push top spout jar from Ikea and keep it in the bathroom.
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Latest post on 12 January 2013 - 08:43
also would like to know about the whipped shea butter and PURE argon oil. (Organic Cafe?) Someone posted using whipped cocunut on thier face on facebook but [b'>I would worry about it being too oily[/b'>. What about Rose Water? I heard Sophia Loren swore by it As for the plain old fashioned POND's cold cream I cannot find it either anywhere here Morning and evening I rub coconut oil all over (including face) then shower as normal. The shower takes off the top greasy layer of oil but leaves skin soft and moisturised. At night I might dab a drop or two of oil around my eyes after my shower if needed.
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Latest post on 12 January 2013 - 00:01
I'm off to bed P4T, a good book awaits me! I hope tomorrow is a brighter day for you.
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Latest post on 11 January 2013 - 23:54
That's really tough. Do you feel like you can talk to any of your friends about how you are feeling? It's probably the case (especially if you are normally a social, capable person) that they have no idea what is going on and don't want to pester you in case you just want to be resting. Don't feel guilty that you are feeling as you are. For some people it's a happy and exciting time, for others a scary and lonely time. There is no right or wrong way to feel. It's especially understandable feeling daunted if your first birth experience was traumatic followed by PND.
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Latest post on 11 January 2013 - 23:33
I'm sorry to hear you are feeling so low P4T. It sounds like hormones going awry. I go slightly (ok, a bit more than slightly) nuts when I'm pregnant. I'm often on the edge of panic and feel a sense of impending doom. I also get very paranoid. It was the worst when I was pregnant with my second child and I got it in my head that my husband wanted to kill me. Which sounds ridiculous now as he wouldn't hurt a flea but I went through a stage of lying in bed just waiting for him to make a move. There was a part of me that knew at the time that knew how ludicrous my feelings were but I couldn't stop them. I understand withdrawing in the final month too. I think it's part of the nesting thing. I'm normally an avid follower of world news but in the last month of pregnancy I stop reading so many newspapers as it all seems a bit irrelevant. It all goes away as soon as I have the baby so hopefully that will be case with you too. Keep your husband in the loop and let him know if your feelings get worse. You're nearly there, hope you are feeling better soon.
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Latest post on 11 January 2013 - 14:55
Like Bongo74 I really recommend Swissotel in Singapore although we were travelling with 3 children so stayed in the Swissotel Merchant Court. Not as elegant as The Stamford but still nice, great with children, in an excellent location and with a lovely pool area. Pre children we stayed at Raffles, would highly recommend!
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Latest post on 11 January 2013 - 14:49
Trader Vics at the Madinat. Rivington Grill at the Madinat also lovely although not quite as lively as Trader Vics.
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Latest post on 10 January 2013 - 18:41
This one is a bit different from the House of Colour one but same general idea. It has wide stretchy straps that you can use to make a multitude of styles. Really versatile, comfortable and looks great. http://www.inoneclothing.com/product/multiway-dress/
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Latest post on 10 January 2013 - 18:31
House of Colour normally have them, they do a long and a short version. https://www.facebook.com/houseofcolourdubai?fref=ts
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Latest post on 10 January 2013 - 17:07
Not everyone has the option of moving to a villa so they won't disturb or be disturbed by their neighbours. DCC is not asking for her neighbours to tiptoe around around and whisper, it seems reasonable to wish people would simply tie their rubbish bags before putting in the shute. DCC, I agree with the white noise suggestion. I have one of those Goodsphere things in one of my children's bedrooms, it muffles outside noise a treat.
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Latest post on 10 January 2013 - 16:26
Oh that's tough SB. Some children are just more sensitive than others when it comes to things like that. I think all you can really do is keep talking to your daughter and keep reassuring her. My oldest is 6 so I don't have much experience with this kind of thing but when she has something worrying stuck in her head I tell her to think about nice things or something she enjoys. We'll talk about something we've done or are planning to do that is fun and it seems to help her.
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Latest post on 10 January 2013 - 15:39
You might have a future Olympic hurdler on your hands JShepherd! I know someone who got baby gates made and was happy. You could get the specs you wanted. They've had mixed reviews on here, their number is on the OP. http://www.expatwoman.com/forum/messages.aspx?TopicID=80498
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Latest post on 10 January 2013 - 15:16
I'm totally with you sydneygal. Motherhood can be very difficult and what mothers need is support, not judgment. This is a great article: http://www.stuff.co.nz/life-style/5921854/Mothering-as-a-competitive-sport
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Latest post on 10 January 2013 - 14:29
After! Exercising on a full stomach is grim.
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Latest post on 10 January 2013 - 14:27
I'm not taking it as a personal attack, I haven't done CIO with any of my children and the last two didn't sleep through the night until they were well in to their second year. However, everyone has different circumstances and tolerances. I am a SAHM who has never needed to get to work the next morning so I've been lucky enough to be able to snatch sleep here and there during the day when the sleepless weeks turn in to months and beyond. The tone of your email suggests to me that you think that people who do sleep training haven't done the research and made an informed decision that works for them. Everyone I know who has done sleep training has not done so lightly and their decision has certainly not been based on ignorance.
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Latest post on 10 January 2013 - 14:12
I also dont like having to put my children in school so young but in Dubai all children must be in a school when they are 4 years old. Its not a choice. First find out where you will be living and then look into the nearby schools as traffic here can be hectic. What about homeschooling? I don't do it myself (no patience!) but have met a few parents who are or have done it. So a possible option could be home school for 2 years then start a 'proper' school.
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Latest post on 10 January 2013 - 13:48
We all have a different way of doing things Scandinavian girl. There may well be some aspects of how you choose to parent your children that others may find wrong. You may have two children yourself and like to google but that doesn't make you an expert on someone else's life or their child. All I am saying is that I believe we should be very careful not to spend our lives judging others parenting decisions.
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Latest post on 10 January 2013 - 13:37
It will be fine sticking to Aptamil 1 if that is what suits her. Are you sure it's the formula change not the solids causing the problem? It;s quite common for babies to get constipated when they start solids, particularly if you are giving cereal. Maybe try a pureed fruit and/or veg instead? I think I did pear first.
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Latest post on 10 January 2013 - 11:11
I hope it helps N.Kaye. I find that it's all hard surfaces here, walking on hard pavements, tiles throughout my home etc. I've been told that Birkenstocks have good arch support to help with joint pain etc. The ones that are sandal style and strap to your feet are better than the slip ons. Although the slip ons are better than standard flip flops or nothing at all. One of my friends got good supportive ortho type sandals from a specialist shop at Mall of the Emirates. They actually look ok and she said they really help. Can't think of the name, maybe another poster could help?
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Latest post on 10 January 2013 - 10:55
There are four different types at the bottom of this page if you scroll down: http://www.sandypants.com/shop/toys/ride-ons/page/2/ I use Sandypants a lot, they are great. I've also seen them in a shop recently but can't think where, will keep racking my brains and post if I remember!
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Latest post on 10 January 2013 - 10:48
Take some painkillers. Why would you just treat the symptoms rather than trying to fix the cause? Glucosomine capsules really helped my mothers joint pain N.Kaye. Do you wear supportive shoes day to day? It can make a real difference.
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Latest post on 09 January 2013 - 14:55
The fountains by Dubai Mall. http://www.thedubaimall.com/en/events/water-fire-light-show-at-the-dubai-fountain
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Latest post on 09 January 2013 - 14:19
If anyone is trying to decide on a diet plan, here's an independent analysis of 29 of the most popular diets: http://health.usnews.com/best-diet
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Latest post on 09 January 2013 - 09:42
Where do you live LadyBee? Maybe another poster had a bike stolen last night... I'd call the police. If it is all above board (which I doubt) then the gardener will be able to explain where the bike (and other goods) came from. If it is stolen then the police might have had a report from the owner and they will be able to get their bike back.
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Latest post on 09 January 2013 - 07:36
The book I am reading right now is so boring, I end up falling asleep in bed in a face plant position. So I won't share that one. However, I traded my friend "The Passage" for this yawner, and he says it's among the best he has ever read. Guess I got the bum end of the deal :) I agree with him, such an awesome book and I am excited to get the second installment in the trilogy :) I've just started it 'The Twelve' - it's off to a good start! Everyone I know who's read it said it's even better than the first one.
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Latest post on 08 January 2013 - 22:07
Glad to hear you have an understanding friend! Good luck fixing it up, it could be worse, my nephew once scribbled all over a friend's cream couch with non washable green marker.
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Latest post on 08 January 2013 - 18:06
Why give your child something that's bad for them when there are plenty of healthy foods available? Because sometimes it's about getting something in their tummy rather than getting in nothing at all? In an ideal world we'd sit down to a healthy family meal for every meal and my children would eat everything on their plate with no complaint. However, in the real world with time constraints and the pressure of trying to find something, ANYTHING that my little cherubs will eat sometimes the healthiest option just doesn't doesn't cut it. Convenience and life get in the way of ideal.
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Latest post on 08 January 2013 - 16:41
Good luck kpea, I really hope it works for you. I first decided to try it when we were going on holiday and my children were going to have to share a room. Couldn't believe what a difference it made! Plus the vacated bedroom got turned in to a playroom which the children loved. My oldest will be seven this month and she only decided to move in to her own room a few months ago.
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Latest post on 08 January 2013 - 16:16
Hi kpea Have you considered moving your children in to a bedroom together? Mine slept much better once I moved them in together. My second child moved in with his big sister when he was 18 months or so, he was sleeping well by then but his big sister who was 3 1/2 at the time was having a lot of nightmares which stopped as soon as he moved in with her. My third child particularly hated being left on his own at night, I moved him in with his brother and sister when he was about 16 months and we went from broken hearted sobbing at bedtime to him happily lying down in his cot and going to sleep after a bit of a chat to his brother and sister. I think they just find it comforting to have someone else in the room. They are also really good at sleeping through any disturbance, if one wakes up crying for any reason the others normally happily sleep through the drama. At around 20 months I think all of mine had a wake up time of about 5 - 5.30am, it was just a phase and they now sleep later. I dealt with at time with going to bed earlier myself and living for my morning coffee!
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Latest post on 08 January 2013 - 16:00
agree that bed time needs to be earlier - if their day starts at 6 then it's obvious that their bedtime needs to be an hour or 2 earlier than they're used to ..this is where the problems come I think..very difficult to allow for the early start at the other end of the day..In the UK bedtime was 7.30-8.30 for getting up at 8 o'clock - here to get the same length of sleep, bedtime would need to be 5.30 - 6.30... Exactly right MC, my children are in bed by 7pm and up at 6.30am during the week and it's rush rush rush to get them in bed by then. I can occasionally manage 6.30pm if they really need it but certainly not every night. Plus they aren't actually ready to go to bed that early. They need time to do homework, wind down, spend time with each other and me, eat, play and relax after school. They aren't home until nearly 3.30pm so it makes it hard.
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Latest post on 08 January 2013 - 13:29
Hi erikkusa I lodged a claim with our insurance company for the 5000 dirhams recently. Payment hasn't come through yet but they indicated it would be fine. Have you made it clear to them that it's not simply a registration fee and that under normal circumstances it covers the cost of all your prenatal visits, scans, blood tests etc?
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Latest post on 08 January 2013 - 11:00
Clearly she is childless, as all kids I know will happily starve themselves and not be encouraged to eat breakfast......lol.....[b'>.being a parent is not easy unless you become a monster[/b'>. Very true Captain, I find that unless I choose my battles carefully, I spend most of my time battling with my children. Sigh, I was going to be so good at 'being the parent' until I actually WAS the parent.
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Latest post on 08 January 2013 - 10:28
I would love to get one. Spin cycling is so great for weight lose. But I can just never get my butt on that seat! :( The fact it makes my butt look so much better is incentive enough for me!
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Latest post on 08 January 2013 - 10:21
Hi lou86 Just to offer an alternative, I've never found going to classes a easy fit around children etc so I have an exercycle at home. Soon as the children are in bed I do 15kms. It makes it much less boring to do watching TV or listening to music and you can also do spinning class type routines to mix it up a bit.
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Latest post on 07 January 2013 - 19:14
Sorry to hear that mrsb, an absconding maid is a nightmare. I'm shocked you have to pay to blacklist an employee who has stolen from you. Surely there should be warning flags against their name if they have a report of absconding and theft against them?
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Latest post on 07 January 2013 - 18:25
There is sometimes similar doormats to that in the gift shop stall in the Arabian Ranches shopping center. Sorry, I can't remember what it is called or have any contact details.
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Latest post on 07 January 2013 - 18:20
Quick delete of my double reply then! Wonder why it was moved to the food forum so quickly, maybe Ripe advertises on here and didn't like the responses!
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Latest post on 07 January 2013 - 16:29
There won't be a problem with that kellyjane, one of the benefits of paying to go private is you can see who you want when you want. If you get any tests or scans done on your first visit with another ob you might want to get copies to give to Dr Britt, she won't need them but it might save doubling up on something.
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Latest post on 07 January 2013 - 13:00
Good for you! Imagine the achievement you'll feel when you cross that finishing line.
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Latest post on 07 January 2013 - 12:57
Oh my goodness BT, you're doing fantastically despite the odds! Here's to smooth sailing all the way to the birth.
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Latest post on 07 January 2013 - 12:54
Now its time to make your entire house toddler safe:) Yep, there comes a point when stairgates no longer cut it! Move anything dangerous to higher up in the kitchen where he can't reach it. I've always had a low drawer in my kitchen with lots of bright plastic things that my children have liked playing with when they've been toddlers. It distracts them from the breakables for a while ;)
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Latest post on 07 January 2013 - 12:48
I know how you feel Daza. My DS is 6, trying to get him to eat in the morning has been a huge issue sice he started school here. I have even resorted to letting him have Rice Crispie Cereal bars and chocolate pancakes just so he has something in his tummy! surely a few days of being hungry by 10 am will encourage him to eat his breakfast; are you not the parent? edited by Ayzzy on 07/01/2013 Either you don't have children or they are much less stubborn than mine!
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Latest post on 07 January 2013 - 10:58
I do breakfast boxes for the car bythesea. Still a battle to get my 4 year old especially to eat but at least it's a battle done whilst not watching the minutes tick by and making us late. I love relaxed holiday mornings!
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Latest post on 07 January 2013 - 10:49
I love love love my weekly Greenheart box! I got the Ripe one a couple of times a while back but wasn't that impressed. The Greenheart box is full of amazing fresh delicious veggies and now the weather is cooling down their range is expanding. Their eggs are also great. The box doesn't come with recipes in it but there are recipes on their facebook page and sometimes cooking tips on the weekly email.
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Latest post on 07 January 2013 - 09:28
Madness SD and AA, utter madness! Can we swap body clocks? Getting up even earlier sounds like torture. Even going to bed early and waking up early I still feel sluggish in the early morning and feel so much more alert late evening.
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Latest post on 07 January 2013 - 09:11
I hate the early starts! I love living here and it's the only thing I really dislike about life here. Our families are all owls, not larks so it's a real struggle. I feel absolutely wicked getting my children out of bed in the morning and because they aren't ready to get up they aren't hungry so getting them to eat breakfast can be a struggle and causes many tantrums because I insist. They are in bed at 7pm during the week so by the time they get home from school to fit in activities/homework/playing/dinner/bath it feels like it's always rush rush rush to get them in bed on time. My two oldest leave at 7am so are often gone when my youngest wakes up and he hates not seeing them in the morning. They are only little and I feel so guilty about it.
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Latest post on 07 January 2013 - 09:00
Debenhams have a good range.
 
 
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