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Latest post on 02 October 2012 - 10:44
Grass fed, free range and organic in that order. Grass fed meat has much better omega 3 : omega 6 ratios. It's not that black and white. As Beebers said, [b'>free range is a term some companies can claim without much regulation.[/b'>
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Latest post on 02 October 2012 - 10:41
My children go to a BC school and in the first two years they all get changed in the classroom together. They split them for changing from year one. I think it's lovely when they are little and completely unselfconscious. They don't give their bodies a second thought and why should they?
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Latest post on 02 October 2012 - 10:30
It depends. No matter what you are buying make you you understand what it is/where it comes from. I've noticed eggs in the supermarkets here that say they are from chickens fed on organic feed. Which doesn't necessarily make them any better, a battery hen is still a battery hen even if it's fed organic. I'm getting eggs delivered by Greenheart at the moment, the chickens are outside with plenty of space and fed on grass and vegetables. They are amazing, like eggs we used to get from our chickens at home. If Greenheart doesn't have any, I get eggs from the Organic Shop which are from a farm with high standards of animal care. I also buy meat from the Organic Shop as I know it's been well sourced. I don't buy chicken from anywhere else but I will by New Zealand lamb and beef from elsewhere if the Organic Shop is out. New Zealand because I'm from there and know it has high standards of farming practices with stringent checks.
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Latest post on 01 October 2012 - 17:04
I'd try the Organic Shop in Dubai Mall or The Greens for plain soap flakes. They also have good coconut oil.
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Latest post on 01 October 2012 - 16:48
I like your post SueB, it's good advice.
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Latest post on 01 October 2012 - 16:44
OH! I want to go home too:( I am feeling the same exact way and I have lived here for 7 years!!![b'> So the truth is if you've come from somewhere better than Dubai... it never gets easier [/b'>... but you will learn to manage and make the best of your time. A wise woman once advised me that in order to stay sane, you should spend the whole summer abroad. And believe me it makes a big difference. I have made some great friends and I must say they have made life easier but, I still would leave in a nano second if it was solely my choice. I think its the combo of poor manners, a large class seperation and too many ethical differences amongst people that it makes hard to belong to such society, just my opinion of course. Just keep your eye on your end goal and try not to sweat the small stuff but if your coming from the west, thats sometimes too hard to do. So remind yourself of your families goal and remember you will eventually return, as we ( expats) are all visitors and must return to our home countries eventually (great for you & I:) Although if you've come from somewhere different to Dubai and you are open minded you might actually find you end up embracing and enjoying the differences.
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Latest post on 01 October 2012 - 16:41
We could say the same thing about children - why are they not limited as they can spoil a neighbourhood as well :D Agreed. My children are far more feral than my neighbours pets!
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Latest post on 01 October 2012 - 13:45
Daza, she might be anorexic but not necessarily so. I'm her height and I weigh 90 lbs. I've been called anorexic in the past and it's always hurt me because it's very far from true. I'm a very petite person and I don't gain weight easily. I also exercise regularly and keep a low-fat diet. You're right, she might not be anorexic but when it's in conjunction with her striving for a certain 'look' then I'd say it's a strong possibility.
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Latest post on 01 October 2012 - 13:45
The world will beat you down enough without beating yourself down because of your appearance :( Amen to that Beebers!
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Latest post on 01 October 2012 - 13:31
84 lbs. is rather light at 5'2" but again--that is her choice to be slim just as much as it is someone's choice to be obese--I pass no judgment on what people want to do to their own health. I'm not passing judgement on her but I do think it's sad when people wreck their health due to issues whether that be anorexia or obesity. Anorexia isn't a choice so much as a mental illness.
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Latest post on 01 October 2012 - 13:15
I've been on boats around that stage of pregnancy with no problems although I would say that if it's rough on the day you'd be best giving it a miss unless necessary. For risk of falling over rather than anything else, with your center or gravity so off you are much more likely to take a tumble. Do take it easy DB, I'm sure your visitors will completely understand if you bow out of some activities while you are here. I planned a lengthy car trip when I was 8 months pregnant with my first. Another friend who had just had a baby tried to warn me it might be a bad idea but I was sure I'd be fine. She was right, I was wrong and I had a uncomfortable miserable journey.
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Latest post on 01 October 2012 - 13:08
It's a girl experimenting with makeup. Why is it such a big deal, really? The harajuku scene is so big in Japan and people around the world find it fascinating. When I was younger I went through my own little fascination with Anime and the Japanese culture. I suppose it's unfortunate that she's considering surgery but guess what, some people do get plastic surgery. The majority of Hollywood actresses had something or the other done to their faces or bodies. In the end it's up to the person what they want to do with their body. The girl is 19 - not 12. [b'>So are you saying that the solution is to forbid our little girls from watching Anime shows because that will make them want to look like the characters on the show[/b'>? edited by Cheezu on 01/10/2012 Not at all. That would be like saying little girls shouldn't be allowed Barbie Dolls in case they are one of the tiny percentage that take it to extremes by having surgery etc to actually look like Barbie. Some girls/women will always take things to extremes, if it hadn't been Anime with this girl, it would have been something else. Like I said, I like her make up but her height and weight give her a BMI of 15.4 which suggests anorexia. I find that sad.
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Latest post on 01 October 2012 - 12:26
I blether away to my gigglers all the time and if we're in the kitchen together and a good song comes on we sing away to it and have a dance if its a really good song. I keep staff for years but I'm no soft touch. I think its all about striking a balance. I couldnt do the professional thing. Are you a chatty person in general DR? I'm not particularly chatty so I think not chatting to my maid is part of that. It's just not in my nature to blether away to anyone!
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Latest post on 01 October 2012 - 11:41
You really think she looks good? Wow. She is starving herself and is considering plastic surgery to make herself look like a cartoon character. I think it is incredibly sad. No. I think her make up is fabulous. I completely agree that starving herself and considering plastic surgery in her teens is sad. I do like cartoonish Katy Perry type look though. Although on Katy Perry it looks healthy and fun.
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Latest post on 01 October 2012 - 11:21
It says she's considering surgery, not that she's had it already. I think her make up looks fabulous. In a fantasy type way not a trip to the mall way.
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Latest post on 30 September 2012 - 23:12
I don't chat to our maid. We do have a friendly relationship, good morning, good night, how was your weekend etc. Same with her and my children. She's smiley and friendly and so am but we just don't do personal chit chat. I'd really struggle to have someone in my home all the time if I felt like I had to constantly make conversation with them. It works for us, the silences are completely comfortable if that makes sense.
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Latest post on 30 September 2012 - 23:01
Take heart Elk, if you've only been here for 4 months then you've survived what I always find the hardest months of the year. Winter is a'coming and soon it will doors wide open, outside all the time, blue sunshiny happy days. People are often miserable and grumpy here at the end of summer, in much the same way that people aren't at their best by the end of a UK winter. Try not to feel like you've let your daughter down. You've done what you had to do and I'm sure if she sees that you and your husband are happy and enjoying things then she'll come around. I hope you are feeling better soon. <em>edited by Daza on 30/09/2012</em>
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Latest post on 30 September 2012 - 19:11
[b'>[b'>spongemonkey wrote:[/b'> Well, surely you understood what she was talking about/the point she was trying to make?[/b'> Unfortunately I think the point I was trying to make was totally missed. Unless of course I'm the one missing the point and it's common nowadays for people to make mass produced, additive and preservative laden food at home. Apologies for the strange quoting, I've got an ad covering the quote buttons!
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Latest post on 30 September 2012 - 17:59
Daza, can you ask your friend if they were provided with photographic evidence because I don't really know how to reply to this person as I been here only a few weeks and really wary of not being taken for a mug with this situation They'd knew they'd done it so didn't need to request a photo. I'd reply saying I was happy to pay the fine but would be requiring proof before doing so. If they do have a fine it will be easy for them to provide proof.
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Latest post on 30 September 2012 - 17:55
the label says [b'>"best used before"[/b'> They are dry goods and are still actually crispy and I would heat them in the oven before eating anyway. hmm........... They'll be fine then! Enjoy your chili and tacos, yum.
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Latest post on 30 September 2012 - 17:48
Does it say 'best before' or 'use by'? Best before means they'll still be ok to eat after the date, they just might not be so fresh. Use by means don't eat after the date. I'd eat them.
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Latest post on 30 September 2012 - 17:46
It seems a bit odd that they have said that you drove through a red light and *might* get a fine. If you had drove through a red, you'd absolutely get a fine, no might about it. I know someone that ran a red a few days ago, they got contacted the same day with the amount to pay and the request to bring the car in for impounding. The fine was 2000 dirhams.
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Latest post on 30 September 2012 - 17:30
Going through a red light is more than just a fine, it's a fine and car being impounded. No way I'd just pay up, I'd ask for proof. Not sure if you can request a photo but I'd definitely be asking for a copy of the location and time of the fine.
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Latest post on 30 September 2012 - 17:18
I find the best treatment for my hair is coconut oil. I rub it through my hair, tie it up then wash out a minimum of 20 minutes later.
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Latest post on 30 September 2012 - 16:54
Nkd pizza Irooni! So much better than your standard takeaway pizza.
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Latest post on 30 September 2012 - 16:39
Why do you think if you make the same meal at home it's still junk Marroosh? Admittedly, coke is vile no matter where you drink it but the homemade burger and chips I make at home is nothing like the cr*p from McDonalds. The burger with organic mince, grated fresh vegetables, grated apple, cumin, coriander, minimal salt. Thick cut potatoes oven baked with garlic, cumin and salt. It's got no preservatives or anything artificial. It's not junk food by any stretch of the imagine.
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Latest post on 30 September 2012 - 16:29
I'd be rejoicing if my 5 year old came home with no homework! I've heard that some primary schools here have a no homework policy. They have suggested projects if the child wishes to do them but no compulsory daily homework. A fantastic approach and in line with current research on homework benefits (or the lack of) for primary aged children. Not sure about bringing work home, my children have tended to not bring things home every day but all in one go.
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Latest post on 30 September 2012 - 14:08
I've not tried it but Bacio do an After Eight ice cream. I love their sorbets. I'm recommending them all the time at the moment, I don't work for them honest! http://www.bacio-gelato.com/gelato/
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Latest post on 30 September 2012 - 13:55
It must vary from place to place as we were recently told to go to the Police station to get the report as they would not come to us for a car park scrape with no other car involved. I think it does vary. One of my friends recently scrapped her car, she called the police who told her to wait and someone would come out. When the policeman arrived he told her off for not going to the police station herself to make the report.
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Latest post on 30 September 2012 - 13:52
Resist! I once had a boss (whom we called the fat controller) who had boxes of Dunkin Donuts brought in for the staff at the end of every week.
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Latest post on 30 September 2012 - 13:45
I agree with Lorax, you should write to their head office. You never know, they might help.
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Latest post on 30 September 2012 - 13:38
I've found a number of times here that you really have to check in person if something is in stock, it's annoying but I've been given incorrect information a few times when just phoning another store. PBK in Dubai Mall is the only place that I've actually lost it with the staff, they were utterly useless and couldn't organise their way out of a paper bag. I'm not proud of myself at all for shouting but after half an hour of smiling patiently as they completely wasted my time and told me that they were sorry they'd made a mistake but they simply were unable to locate the item, all it took was 30 seconds of shouting before they miraculously found a solution. I don't know if I was more upset with myself for shouting or upset that it took me shouting in order for them to do their jobs.
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Latest post on 29 September 2012 - 22:20
You don't have to purchase a domain name to use Blogger. You'd only do that if you wanted to have your own web address eg. www.sushifee.com. If you just have a standard Blogger page your address would look like www.sushifee.blogspot.com You can watch a short video showing you exactly how to do it here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jSX1Rgm3V3Q
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Latest post on 29 September 2012 - 22:07
They have them at Geant Easy at Arabian Ranches at the the moment. I got a pack of 48, the brand is "If You Care'.
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Latest post on 29 September 2012 - 21:02
It never ceases to amaze me how some people have the audacity to comment upon pregnant womens' habits. I've had people ask if it was twins (right at the start when i looked bloated), now colleagues have told me I look too small and I'm "not eating enough". I've been scolded for eating a chicken McNugget (someone had some at work and I ate ONE!) I've been told off for eating cheese and have been asked "are you sure you want to eat that?", the latter two comments from an Indian male and a single lady with no kids. Who do these people think they are? I've taken to firing back sarcastic comments as I loathe unsolicited advice. BTW running is proven to ensure mum has a quicker delivery, healthier pregnancy and will regain her shape more quickly. There seems to be a lot of women who believe pregnancy means "eating for two" and would happily gain 60lbs and develop gestational diabetes but would have a go at a running pregnant lady! Sounds like pure ignorance to me. I've noticed it's often men who make the stupid comments. I get quite irritated when people are offering coffee but say something like 'no coffee for you, anything else?' to the pregnant woman. I think sometimes people forget that woman are still people and not just incubators when they are pregnant.
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Latest post on 29 September 2012 - 20:50
I didnt know that. I thought smoking and drinking any amount was striked off the list during pregnancy. Interesting. Smoking is on the definitely not list but the Royal College of Obstetrics in the UK has said drinking small amounts (not more than 1-2 units) not more than once or twice a week has not been shown to be harmful.
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Latest post on 29 September 2012 - 20:35
But drinking any amount of alcohol, will raise eyebrows these days. I've never found that to be so. Particularly in the UK which is where I had my first baby. The vast majority of women I know have the occasional drink during pregnancy, especially on a special occasion. If I saw a woman throwing back shots when pregnant I'd probably be a bit shocked but having a glass of bubbles.....no. ETA: Never found that to be so apart from the one horrible man I encountered! <em>edited by Daza on 29/09/2012</em>
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Latest post on 29 September 2012 - 20:18
Oh that sucks. I have no idea why so many people think they can tell you what to do when you are pregnant. I was 8 months pregnant with my first baby at my work Christmas party. I was allowing myself one drink per month during my pregnancy and had saved my one drink for that month for the party. I was happily sipping on a spritzer when a man (from another department whom I didn't know) came up to me and asked what I was drinking. When I replied it was a spritzer he told me I should be ashamed of myself. I burst in to tears. He bolted when other women from my department went to give him a piece of their mind. Hope your friend is ok now, good for her for keeping fit during her pregnancy.
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Latest post on 29 September 2012 - 17:06
I agree with Yorky, I'd never expect people to sort out transportation for me if my family was staying with them. If we need to get around and public transport doesn't suit, we hire a car, easy. Another option when going out would be for you to take your car and also order a taxi. If you were worried about the taxi getting lost either you or your husband could go in the taxi with them and the husband or wife come in the car with you. Why don't you ask them what they would like to do? Then if they do want to hire a car you could organise in advance?
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Latest post on 29 September 2012 - 14:43
It's called Boulevard (I think) and is in the Detroit building. Chi Nail Spa is in the same building, map here: http://chinailspa.com/route-map.html <em>edited by Daza on 29/09/2012</em>
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Latest post on 29 September 2012 - 14:37
I've been blogging for years, first on an independent website then on Blogger. I honestly don't think there is an easier site to use than Blogger and I've looked at quite a few. You don't need to actually use the gmail account you need with Blogger, you just need it to initially set up your blog.
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Latest post on 29 September 2012 - 13:34
It might not be suitable for your home country but I'd love a women only bar with dancefloor! Being able to have a few drinks and a dance with my friends with no risk of sleazy eyes and cheezy lines would be marvellous.
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Latest post on 29 September 2012 - 12:41
It weighs 2.25kgs (or 5lbs). When I bought mine it didn't come in a box so no extra weight with that. You could try calling Just Kidding here to see if they stock it.
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Latest post on 29 September 2012 - 12:34
I hope you find it no problems SM, I always use a trip there as an excuse to pop in the Bacio Gelato which is opposite. Yum. http://www.bacio-gelato.com/visit-us/
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Latest post on 29 September 2012 - 12:31
I don't think you're within your rights to request a change of teacher. If I was that unhappy I'd pull my child out of the school. I think it often happens at schools that you don't get the teacher you were hoping for but that doesn't mean the other teachers aren't as good, you just need to give them a chance. I'm not sure what you mean by saying that the teacher has a 'foreign accent' either. My children have had English, Scottish and Australian teachers. The are all 'foreign' to my accent but it's never crossed my mind to think it might mean the teacher is less capable.
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Latest post on 29 September 2012 - 12:19
I use the Al Barsha post office, behind MOE. It's nearly opposite to the road that the entrance to Lulu is on, but on the other side of the road. Opposite DAA is you know where that is. Their phone number is on here: http://www.emiratespost.com/content/english/contact.jsp
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Latest post on 29 September 2012 - 12:09
I don't know how they compare in price but there are small violins in the music shop in Arabian Ranches.
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Latest post on 29 September 2012 - 12:07
I used the the Baby Bjorn bouncer for all three of my children and it was absolutely the most useful bit of baby equipment I had. It's for use for from newborn, they can rest in it, sleep in it, play in it and even eat in it when they get bigger. It's washable, light, foldable and I've taken it everywhere, even the beach. It's currently in the cupboard waiting for baby number four! I got mine in the UK so not sure of stockists here. http://www.babybjorn.com/products/bouncers/
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Latest post on 28 September 2012 - 13:04
On a completely different tack, went to a friends recently and there were some ladies there I'd never met before, all very nice. But one lady just would not let anyone get a word in edgeways. Even when others were taking their turn to talk, she just had to butt in with HER experience - I literally wanted to 'hush' her and say when other people are talking, she needs to listen and not butt in. Some people are just pure attention hoggers. Unbelievable! I thought the book Eat, Pray, Love was fairly dire but I did like one part of it when the woman decided to stop interrupting people as it gives the message 'what I have to say is more important than what you have to say', which is wrong.
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Latest post on 28 September 2012 - 13:00
Yuck. A couple of years ago I was in the Al Reem 2 baby pool with my children. There was a little girl there with her grandmother. The little girl was standing in the water and starting straining, cue to grandma saying 'are you doing poo, good girl, keep going' etc etc. I told her it would be better if she got her out of the water to poo. Grandma looked blank and said 'but she's wearing a swim nappy'. We left.