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Latest post on 18 October 2011 - 13:49
MirdifIngrid - I just found exactly the same thing on babyworld and it worked!!! :) thanks for the response..... I can breathe again! ;)
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Latest post on 18 October 2011 - 13:37
I attempted to do that - but that won't help with the straps at the bottom :(
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Latest post on 17 October 2011 - 09:40
I did over 2 years ago and it was a very pleasant experience. With regards to what they provide or not, at the time they basically gave me everything for baby including clothes (I forgot to pack my babys clothes - was very surprised babies didn't come with clothes or manuals :) haha) but I would possibly check with the hospital now - as it may have changed
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Latest post on 17 October 2011 - 09:32
I have a rear facing one you would be welcome to use.
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Latest post on 18 April 2011 - 09:34
Oh God....as a British Asian moving over next month - am I going to be treated like a lower class citizen in the office / shopping / restaurants etc..... Wow! You aren't even in Dubai yet and you already call maids "lower class citizens". That must be a record. Ummmm unless I'm missing something 5herry didn't call maids ''lower class citizens'' - but it seems you just did!
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Latest post on 17 April 2011 - 10:17
One of my BF's get this all the time, she just laughs it off now. My bff had this happen to her.... A few months ago, she was fixing my dd's hair and a lady came up to her, pushed my dd aside rudely and asked if she was looking for a new job. My friend looked a little shocked until I stepped in and said "you don't want her, she's cr@p, I have to beat her every morning..." haha - Didn't someone post that on EW a few months ago - Woman admits to beating maid daily ! :)
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Latest post on 17 April 2011 - 09:58
Most Indian women at play areas are the maids though does that mean they should be treated differently? Which is what your post implies! I think women should treat other women with compassion, kindness and respect. If you treating anyone with less than that - then YES you should treat them differently - treat them better! Just women? Or all human beings? Treat better some more than others, why? I have directed this at women because frankly I think it's disgusting to witness women treating other women so poorly! If I wanted to tackle world peace about everyone treating everyone better, this might not be the forum to do that - but one woman at a time, might have their minds refreshed by knowing that they are no better than anyone else and to treat eachother better!
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Latest post on 17 April 2011 - 09:51
Most Indian women at play areas are the maids though does that mean they should be treated differently? Which is what your post implies! I think women should treat other women with compassion, kindness and respect. If you treating anyone with less than that - then YES you should treat them differently - treat them better!
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Latest post on 17 April 2011 - 09:44
Look this is a tricky situation and thankfully that has never happened to me. But I wouldn't give her any money towards a new bag - it is always a risk that something might happen to any lovely things we buy and use out, especially on a night out. It was an accident and you never did it on purpose. I doubt she would go out and buy exactly the same bag again and if anything she has also learnt a valuable lesson too.
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Latest post on 29 March 2011 - 11:24
I am - I am!!! :) I have a DS who will be 2 end of June and a little girl who will be 1 in July. Please email me Edited to remove my addy... <em>edited by burnsie000 on 29/03/2011</em>
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Latest post on 18 March 2011 - 22:37
hi beesknees, I would be interested in this! We could all do with a bit of support and free time for whatever we need to do. I have 2 LO, I'm sure our LO's would be best friends in no time :)
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Latest post on 09 March 2011 - 14:22
I can't get my head around asking a 100 people to a house warming never mind then asking them to pay. Why a 100 people? Are they all expected to bring a housewarming gift (as is the norm) ? Then they have to pay so that it has cost the hosts next to nothing and they get a 100 presents??? Or am I wrong? I hope so. I have to say that I have never come across such stingyness / freeloaders / users anywhere as I have in Dubai. It seems to attract them but this one really must come close to taking first prize. Look I haven't been to a house warming, but my initial thought is how many people actually take a gift? I automatically take beautiful flowers (at the least) when going to a friend for dinner. Don't know if I would actually go and get them a gift though - maybe I'm the socially numb one now?
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Latest post on 09 March 2011 - 14:19
Her tone was normal and sweet. They would like a money contribution. and how was your tone? I was normal and just said oh ok. We couldn't talk long, but when I see her - I will tell her how awkward I feel about this kind of invitation.
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Latest post on 09 March 2011 - 14:15
Her tone was normal and sweet. They would like a money contribution.
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Latest post on 09 March 2011 - 14:07
I have clarified this with the host, and they will provide everything and would like people to give a small contribution to the meal and drinks.
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Latest post on 09 March 2011 - 13:48
Why host a party you don't want to pay for? Just don't do it. If the group of friends had been speaking of doing it and one eventually said, ok then I'll do it at my place, but we all chip in for it, that's one thing - it was the group planning it and one saying they'll offer the venue, but not exclusively throw the party. But to plan up a party and then ask people to pay? No, that's not right. 'Bring a bottle' - ok 'Bring your own beef' - ok (we'll provide drinks/salads/breads etc.) But 'bring some cash' - no. What if the guests give more cash than the party is worth? They make money off it? Can you take left overs home if you've paid for them? lol I totally agree with this!
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Latest post on 09 March 2011 - 13:44
You are right the invitation does not say monetary contribution but it does say - when you are here a contribution would be appreciated. How can that mean anything other than money? This will be an asian buffet, very few of the 100 guests are asian, so maybe there will be 20 different rices? I'm certain the contribution is money.
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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 23:58
It is a house warming. Please don't get me wrong - I have no problem making a salad and or taking my drinks.... I just find this whole money contribution awkward!
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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 23:55
I think like most people they are feeling a financial pinch. --- More than 100 people have been invited to this event.
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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 23:48
Shaf, I haven't read all the responses. But yes it is possible, it doesn't have to be ridiculously hard. Have you got a double buggy? I manage to do this, when DD was younger, it was actually easier, cos she slept most of the time. DS was strapped in the front and I pushed them along and did what I needed to. If grocery shopping, I put a basket on top of the buggy.... or put DD (who is still in her carchair) INTO the trolley and DS into the seat of the trolley and piled groceries around DD... Now that DD is 8 months and more awake and interactive - I make sure I have loads of snacks on me and they are happy. I don't have a maid, or help.... but a good stroll around a mall or walk along JBR is always nice. Reminds me we need that playdate :) PS People are still commenting on the beautiful photo's you took!
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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 23:41
On the invite it says ''We will have a buffet and soft drinks will be provided, when you are here a contribution towards this will be appreciated!'' To clarify - this is a future event.... this info is on the event page, ie invite :)
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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 23:05
She is a good friend and if she had to ask me what I thought about it - I would find it very difficult to say anything other than how awkward I find it to be. That is my opinion on this and I know we are all different. if she's a good friend, then tell her how you feel - because you won't be the only one and I'm sure she'll actually be happier knowing not to make that social faux pas. Yes if she had to ask me then I would as politely as I could - say something. But to just go right on out and tell her, especially if she doesn't ask - I'd hate to offend her.
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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 23:03
:\: That's a first for me!!! I would be busy that night. Nothing wrong with your thinking, it's their thinking that's a bit screwy. Reminds me about two instances where my husband was "invited" to a gathering for birthdays. On one occasion he arrived late and had a cup of coffee and the next day he got a "bill" for his share, which was the full amount as the bill was divided equally. The second occasion he was invited by another colleague to come and stop by for a drink and some canapes for her birthday. He took a break from work to wish her happy birthday and had a coke. Again, the next day he got a "bill" for 125AED for his coke. People have strange ways, that's for sure. oh my word!
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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 23:01
LOL.... is she a member here? No, but she does know I post here - hopefully she won't see this :(
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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 22:59
She is a good friend and if she had to ask me what I thought about it - I would find it very difficult to say anything other than how awkward I find it to be. That is my opinion on this and I know we are all different.
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Latest post on 08 March 2011 - 22:54
click home and then scroll down - 3rd from the bottom - MAIDS :)
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Latest post on 30 January 2011 - 10:34
I haven't done this for 10 days :( I know very slack!) but last night I thought I'd begin again and I can't find my DVD anywhere....... I have become super organised at home and my DVD is no where to be found! Don't know if my toddler hid it somewhere (although I've searched HIGH and LOW) so I'm feeling seriously demotivated now!! :( I miss the SHRED (never thought I'd say that!) Can you get to Discovery Gardens after 6.30pm one night this week? Yes I can.... Definitely :) Are we going to do it together? :) Will send you an email
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Latest post on 30 January 2011 - 10:23
I haven't done this for 10 days :( I know very slack!) but last night I thought I'd begin again and I can't find my DVD anywhere....... I have become super organised at home and my DVD is no where to be found! Don't know if my toddler hid it somewhere (although I've searched HIGH and LOW) so I'm feeling seriously demotivated now!! :( I miss the SHRED (never thought I'd say that!)
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Latest post on 27 January 2011 - 23:05
Thanks for all your messages :) My heart goes out to women going through this pain! Bluecamel, I look forward to your message. It's good to connect!
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Latest post on 27 January 2011 - 17:17
Forever 21 and Dikane - I am so sorry that you've experienced this pain as well. There are so many more women who are walking around with this pain as well. Our husbands deal with the situation and their grief so differently and so often it helps to just speak to women especially ones who really understand your emotions. Forever 21 - I understand what you are speaking of, maybe we can chat more offline? please email me lauraburns000 @ gmail dot com
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Latest post on 15 January 2011 - 20:59
Thanks for all your replies and advice. This week has been such a tough one and I know as mothers and women we will just get on with it but seriously I thought I could run far far away after this happened! Thanks for the good laughs too - loved the poo in mil hand story Joyce :)
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Latest post on 15 January 2011 - 20:50
[b'>Well done to all of you!!! [/b'> I did day 1-5 on level 1, day 6 on level 2 - but never worked out on Thursday and Friday :( because I was feeling rotten with a cold, BUT I've just done Day 7 on level 1. I actually got up after spending all afternoon in bed trying to sleep this cold away (DH got home this am so looked after the babies-thankfully) Really gutted to have missed 2 days - but I'm hopefully back on the bus now!
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Latest post on 13 January 2011 - 13:23
I just had a really difficult pregnancy. Honestly Dr George is the MOST qualified OB/GYN and maternal med specialist in this country! He has a wonderful bedside manner and if I ever became pregnant again - I would see no one else, other than him and if he wasn't available - then Dr Pour Mirza at FMC.
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Latest post on 12 January 2011 - 09:07
Thanks ladies for all your replies. Yesterday I had a pity party for myself! My husband is away travelling - like most of the time. Now my son is sick and I just would love to get out of this house! When my son is well again - we will definitely give Peekaboo a go. Homesick - where is seedlings?
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Latest post on 12 January 2011 - 08:54
I'm on Level 1 - Day 6 today, amazing how my body is getting stronger already! Voltaren Gel is keeping my aching muscles away...
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Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 16:02
I describe the mid summer heat by saying it's like putting your oven on and when it's pre-heated and ready, open the oven door! That blanket of heat that just hits you........
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Latest post on 10 January 2011 - 19:05
I refuse to breed a fussy eater, so the choice when it comes to mealtimes - Are you going to eat OR not?
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Latest post on 10 January 2011 - 13:20
No I don't think they should ALWAYS pay. Even if you earn a lot less than him - it's the gesture that counts and I'm sure most men would appreciate being ''treated'' sometimes.
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Latest post on 10 January 2011 - 12:29
Day 4 done - YAY!
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Latest post on 10 January 2011 - 12:28
Thank you emejotas you can remove your email if you like.
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Latest post on 10 January 2011 - 11:45
Tanya R would you please send it to me as well. Thank you! <em>edited by burnsie000 on 10/01/2011</em>
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Latest post on 09 January 2011 - 21:06
Cyclone T - you are right! Yesterday morning I did it first thing... and the day was good. especially because I wasn't procrastinating in my head - delaying it... and delaying it. Although I ate well today, 30 minutes ago I thought stuff it... but decided no longer to be controlled by feelings so popped it in and did it against my will. Feel so good now! :) Tomorrow morning I've got an appointment with Jillian and I won't miss it!
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Latest post on 09 January 2011 - 21:03
Thanks Cat-trax... Cyclone I popped that DVD in 21 minutes ago ... ALL DONE!!! :-) Off to go have a nice shower now!! YAY!
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Latest post on 09 January 2011 - 20:17
I'm due to do DAY 3 but I'm so exhausted!!!!!!!!!!! Somebody tell me to get off my butt and do it - otherwise I'm going to sit here and browse and procrastinate even longer......... PS I've been using voltaren gel and it's banished my aching muscles from making an appearance this time round! I'm feeling tight and worked out, but not aching!!!
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Latest post on 09 January 2011 - 20:14
Cat-trax - thank you for your offer, pls can you email me at laura burns 000 at gmail dot com (no spaces all together... ) Thanks CrystalsinDubai, good to know that esp if I don't come right - will go have a look! Thank you.
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Latest post on 09 January 2011 - 19:40
in fact if you want to try them you can have them...... Thank you - what size are they?
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Latest post on 09 January 2011 - 19:38
What size are you?? I have 2 evening out fits...1 a Ben D'lisi long black dress...the other a 3 piece Oasis navy long skirt vest top and Jacket...am moving soo selling very cheap...both worn once I am still wearing my maternity clothing which are either 16 or 18 - and seriously stretched....... so there about!
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Latest post on 09 January 2011 - 19:36
Maybe you can borrow one for the night? ALL my friends are petite, I'm NOT! I'm almost 6ft and generously proportioned after my 2 very close pregnancies - not to mention the comfort food provides me!
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Latest post on 03 January 2011 - 15:26
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