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Latest post on 02 March 2014 - 12:26
Maybe the little boy really couldn't wait a second longer. Little boys tend to struggle with bladder control more than girls, my boys have had a few 'it's coming out' panics. So far we've always managed to make it to the bushes but if it was a choice between wet clothes and wet grass or just wet grass, I know what I'd choose. To be honest, leaving was probably an over reaction, I can't imagine your daughter would have come to any harm with a patch of wee on the grass. My then four year old once fed his poo to his two year old brother (he told him it was chocolate) and there were no ill effects :D
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Latest post on 01 March 2014 - 21:28
Hurrah! Mabrook Anon, wonderful news :) :) :) :) Four smilies for four little ones. <em>edited by Daza on 01/03/2014</em>
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Latest post on 27 February 2014 - 14:14
Thanks for all the replies. I don't have a gardener but perhaps i can ask someone who does if their gardener can help me. I'll try ELC and ACE first. Although it sounds like i may have to spend a small fortune in ELC to fill the sand pit! The bags from ELC don't go far at all. Our sandpit is 4x3 metres, it would have taken a trailer load of bags from ELC to fill it!
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Latest post on 27 February 2014 - 13:49
Do you have a gardener? When we needed sand we got our gardener to bring in bags of sand, can't remember how much we paid for it but it wasn't much. It's illegal to take bags of sand from the beach yourself. The sand we got is desert sand rather than beach sand so it's not as good for sand castles but still fine to play with. Unless you are so worried about germs that you don't let your children go to the beach or desert then it should be clean enough.
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Latest post on 27 February 2014 - 13:41
Having a gazillion children over for my son's birthday party *anxiously scans sky for any sign of a sand storm*
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Latest post on 26 February 2014 - 14:07
If your child got bored did you encourage them to carry on or just drop the class and try something else? I get mixed messages on handling this. I find it a bit of a tricky one Redrec. A bit of boredom and I encourage them to carry on but if they weren't enjoying it all all I wouldn't see the point in forcing them. Sport for children is meant to be enjoyable and if it's not then I don't see the point in doing it. Apart from swimming. Swimming is non negotiable in our family as it could save their lives one day. Whilst I don't think doing a specific sport is necessary, I'm always drumming in to my children the importance of being fit, healthy and active. They have to get outside every afternoon and do something active. Football in the garden, scooting, biking, skipping, tag, going for a walk etc. My daughter would happily lounge around reading a book all afternoon but I insist she gets some exercise too. It sounds like your daughter is active without having to do a sport so as long as she keeps that up then maybe it is enough?
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Latest post on 26 February 2014 - 12:16
She sounds a bit like my eight year old daughter. We've had success with gymnastics and tennis. She thought tennis was ok until I got her a tennis outfit and now she loves it :) ETA: She started football at school recently and was quite surprised to find she really enjoys it. The cool boots I got her probably helped. <em>edited by Daza on 26/02/2014</em>
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Latest post on 25 February 2014 - 18:06
What does that 90k cover!? Approx 30-40k everywhere else right? So why so much? From what I've heard that covers a lot of the things that their other school promised but never delivered :D
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Latest post on 25 February 2014 - 14:18
Blinking Nora! Not quite in the Foremarke league, but not far off!! Still a loooooooong way off Foremarke! Once the discounted period is over Foremarke will be 90k for FS1. We looked at it but for how much extra we would be paying for four children, we could buy a house in NZ during the another few years we hope to be here.....
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Latest post on 24 February 2014 - 18:53
So pleased to hear all is well! I was thinking about you on my walk this morning and wondering if bubs had arrived. I read the other thread and am glad you're reached some clarity. You know yourself better than anyone, good on you for thinking it all through and deciding what is best for you, sensible mummy :)
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Latest post on 24 February 2014 - 14:22
I am really gutted about this thread as it was our top choice school. Also - since it is relatively new, I think previously they had plenty of spaces but word has got out about how good it is and therefore now they are being really difficult with regards to admissions. It is all about how it is handled. I am wondering whether to keep it on our "list" if we will have to shell out 800aed and deal with attitude-y admissions staff. Don't let one persons bad experience put you off TDB. I've spoken to a few people with children at VH and they have all been really happy with it. If people were complaining about teachers then I'd be concerned but admissions staff have no impact on the children and their education. A friend the other day was telling me how wonderful the principle is, that should be far more relevant to your decision.
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Latest post on 24 February 2014 - 13:47
Has anyone looked at the jobs page today ? Gosh! Coincidence?
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Latest post on 22 February 2014 - 12:43
I thought they were amazing too! I don't mind their music and wouldn't call myself a fan but thought they put on a fantastic show. So much energy, great interaction with the crowd and like CP says, respect for their fans. They really looked like they were having a great time too. The set up was great, with the huge center screen you got an excellent view, even right at the back. I found the whole event to be really well run, easy to park, short walk to the venue, loads of staff on so quick entry and pretty quick out afterwards. Nice work Flash :)
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Latest post on 21 February 2014 - 08:32
FYI Kerastase products are manufactured by L'oreal who most likely sell something similar at Carrefour for much less cash. I've tried L'oreals most moisturising cheaper products and nothing comes close to the Kerastase Masque. It's expensive but worth the money if a really good treatment is what you want.
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Latest post on 20 February 2014 - 19:26
Media City Amphitheatre. http://www.doneevents.com/currentevents/blended/
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Latest post on 20 February 2014 - 15:29
Ikea.
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Latest post on 20 February 2014 - 15:15
Is that the one in the gold/yellowish pot? If so, my hairdresser used it on me last week and it smelt lovely That's the one. I use it twice a week, it works magic on my long dry hair. Phool_Bibi, it comes in two types, I use the one for thick hair. It makes my hair much less poofy and frizzy.
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Latest post on 20 February 2014 - 15:04
I've never found anything better than Kerastase Masque Intense.
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Latest post on 20 February 2014 - 08:23
I'd dose myself up, get myself to work, put a smile on and not mention a word about being sick and tired to anyone. Maybe I'm unsympathetic but if someone was moaning about being tired and unwell on their first day of work I'd probably mentally label them a weedy moaner.
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Latest post on 19 February 2014 - 16:53
There are loads of great options for a veggie BBQ. So much so that I sometimes struggle to find the time or inclination to cater for meat eaters. I always do make an effort on the meat though, it is after all for my guests :D The quickest easiest veggie option I can think of is pre cooking veggies on the grill then reheating (or not) just before serving. Aubergine any courgettes sliced lengthways, corn on the cob, whole mushrooms etc. Brush with oil, salt and pepper then grill for a few minutes each side.
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Latest post on 17 February 2014 - 13:51
Having taught in "Arab" and "Western" schools in Dubai and done supply around the city I've never seen a school that doesn't have a healthy eating policy. Schools can only do so much, its not their job to raise children. Perhaps if you don't want your children to eat the treats that other children bring in you could teach your child to say no thanks, or is self control something that should be added to the curriculum as well? Of course it's my job as a parent to teach my children self control but it is something they need to learn over time and they need a responsible adult helping them with their choices when they are young. Children start school young here, aged three most will struggle to understand why they are not allowed something when all their classmates are. I don't it think should be up to a teacher to try to console/reason with an upset child in this case, that's my job but I'm not there to do it. It would be much easier if the option just wasn't there. With older children, they aren't little robots. They push boundaries and sometimes ignore what you tell them if they think they can get away with it. I'd rather that the option of eating donuts etc at school simply wasn't an option.
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Latest post on 17 February 2014 - 13:32
Think I'll be going, just wish it wasn't AUD!
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Latest post on 17 February 2014 - 13:30
[url=http://www.greenheartuae.com/'>Greenheart[/url'> sell date vinegar. Delish.
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Latest post on 16 February 2014 - 14:44
I was just about to write the exact same. Just walking past Arabic curriculum schools you can see countless amounts of overweight pupils. The western schools in Dubai are quite health conscious. My children go to a British school. They have a healthy lunch box policy and we are sent links for healthy lunchbox tips etc. However, they still get given so much rubbish at school , donuts, sweets etc. It's normally other parents sending it in but I wish the school wouldn't allow it. I think it's fine if a child wants to take in something small for everyone when it is their birthday but it happens far more often than that. Regardless of birthdays, there is no need for goodie bags stuffed with sweets and huge donuts.
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Latest post on 16 February 2014 - 13:24
Couldn't agree more Lolacat, it's appalling. It's not 'a treat' for the children when the unhealthy choices they are so often being exposed to may result in a lifetime of obesity and poor health. I recently walked through a class of 10/11 year old boys lining up for a school trip to Kidzania. All but a couple of them were overweight and not just a little bit. What on earth are their parents thinking to allow them to reach that point at such a young age? I get sick of the utter rubbish my children get given at school too. I go to great time and expense to give them the best food possible and they seem to be constantly getting donuts and other rubbish at school.
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Latest post on 15 February 2014 - 21:25
It was a few years ago so not sure if this is still current but I had a friend look in to taking her maid for a holiday to Australia and she couldn't as she is Australian. She was told that if she was from a culture where maids are the norm (eg. if she was a GCC citizen) then it may have been possible but as she was Australian she could just hire temporary help in Australia if it was needed. These things change all the time though, maybe the embassy can give advice?
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Latest post on 15 February 2014 - 21:17
I felt a bit weird about the whole Madam thing to start with and have always told maids they can just call me Daza but they have always been uncomfortable with it and preferred to call me Madam. Our maid now has been with us nearly 6 years and she calls me Madam Daza. I feel less uncomfortable being called Madam than our maid would feel calling me by my first name if that makes sense so there is no way I'd have insisted on just my name. I put it down to cultural differences and was fine to acquiesce to what she felt most comfortable with.
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Latest post on 15 February 2014 - 18:02
He was amazing! I was so impressed, he put on a great show. I had fun although was taking it easy, had the kids in tow and I'd overdone it a bit the night before ;) Thought it was a great event and the atmosphere was really good. What did you think?
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Latest post on 15 February 2014 - 13:28
I totally agree with kiwispiers on all counts. We asked our parents to stay away for a month after we had our first baby. If my MIL wasn't such an over bearing bully I would have been happy to have them there earlier but I knew she would be criticising me so I wanted to get a bit of confidence before I had her telling me I was doing it all wrong. She had barely been through the door five minutes before she was telling me to stop stroking my baby as she slept as I would disturb her. I was so grateful for that month to get to grips with things. Also, I have never breast feed in front of my in laws so I spent a lot if time in my bedroom feeding when they were there. My mother was really good, helpful and encouraging. I was very pleased that I saw her first to give my confidence a boost before my MIL did her best to make me feel hopeless. I have to say that my friends were wonderful. None of them had children and they all said to just let them know when I was ready and they would visit. They all asked immediately what they could do to help too.
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Latest post on 13 February 2014 - 17:49
Yep, there are door sales.
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Latest post on 13 February 2014 - 16:22
Purple rinse at the ready??? Purple ombré. I may be old but I like to pretend I'm still cool.
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Latest post on 13 February 2014 - 16:13
I like your style ladies ?
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Latest post on 13 February 2014 - 16:04
Is it too early to put the children to bed?
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Latest post on 13 February 2014 - 15:55
Aaaahhhrgk, I'm so excited! Love Tinie Tempah.
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Latest post on 13 February 2014 - 15:51
I'm going to be busting some geriatric dance moves at Redfest along with Sarahlou. Yes!
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Latest post on 13 February 2014 - 15:44
Yay yay yay, I'm going, can't wait!
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Latest post on 13 February 2014 - 09:04
First world problems isn't it?! Just count yourself lucky that you HAVE maid!! I still don't understand how the people of Dubai need maids yet other countries survive perfectly running their own kids, household etc. [b'>Personally, i think if you can't be around to look after your own kids because of your hectic life maybe you shouldn't have had them in the first place[/b'>. Not very fair on the child if you ask me!! So true VictoriaO. Tonight I am staying home to gaze lovingly at my children's baby photos whilst talking to my husband about nothing except our gorgeous cherubs. Oh no wait, I'm actually getting on my dancing shoes and we are going to a concert to have a great time while the kids are home with our maid. Woop woop!
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Latest post on 12 February 2014 - 14:14
Will do sarahlou!
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Latest post on 12 February 2014 - 14:08
Mash or whizz them up then freeze them. Eat like ice cream, delish. Add some puréed mango for tropical flavour. Also coconut cream if you aren't counting calories.
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Latest post on 12 February 2014 - 14:04
I think it will be family friendly and am planning on taking my children. They are younger than pre teen but I've spoken to a few people who are taking their 10/11 year olds. I'm hoping I can get mine home to bed then get back to still see some of John Newman!
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Latest post on 11 February 2014 - 18:11
In canada maybe six months ago....but you do have to do the proper test to see what you are intolerant to...I know many nutritionists do it in Dubai through blood work (in canada it is also done with blood work). Just because it is a blood test doesn't make it accurate or reliable, there are many more factors at play when it comes to allergies and intolerances.
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Latest post on 11 February 2014 - 18:07
Just to add, if your maid isn't prepared to work in a way that suits you then you should find someone new. However, unless you change your attitude then you'll probably find yourself in the same boat with the next maid.
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Latest post on 11 February 2014 - 18:04
Sarahlou, you only chose what works for you. If you had quoted everything you would have seen that i said I don't like counting. I am sorry if it appears as though I am an abuser, posting this has actually reaffirmed my belief that my maid has indeed taken advantage of me. Nobody here has mentioned how she told me she will not show up for work the next day when I had to work. [b'>I'll mention it. If you are treating an employee badly then you only have yourself to blame if they decide to leave you in the lurch one day. [/b'> I am sure for most of you you do not have to work weekends, lucky you.However I do. My husband travels a lot, and I need someone I can count on. I appreciate and respect that giving up of private time is so precious and that is why I reciprocate by what I know best, physical items to improve her life. [b'>Maybe you could trying showing appreciation in ways other than buying her things? Whilst it is of course nice to be bought things, it's quite possible that someone can shower you with gifts yet still make you feel like dirt by how they treat you in other ways.[/b'> I think beyond myself. Same thing goes for full time working moms, you work very hard. Your boss wont hug you, he gives you a perfomance bonus. [b'>Your company must be awash with money. My husbands company is doing pretty well but when he does a good job his boss doesn't reward him with cash, he tells him how much he appreciates his efforts. There is a yearly bonus but cash is certainly not flashed around just whenever his boss is pleased.[/b'> Please do not choose to read what you like to make me an evil person. [b'>I don't think you are evil but from what you have written here I'd hate to work for you[/b'>.
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Latest post on 11 February 2014 - 16:02
iammj it is a proven method for weight loss. I know many people who have done it and it works. My sister lost 10 pounds in the first month. The point of this 'method' is that if you are intolerant to let's say gluten, you should avoid it... Once you start eliminating food groups that you are intolerant to you start losing weight. My sister is intolerant to gluten and eggs, but can eat everything else... Once you do the allergy / intolerant test they usually give you a list of foods you are intolerant to...the food in the 'red' you should avoid altogether, items under 'yellow' should be in moderation, and 'green' listed items you can eat as you wish. [b'>It is a test that everyone should do not just to lose weight but to live healthy[/b'>, also helps with people that have health problems to, as diet is a huge factor in most health related problems... Really? Given that such allergy/intolerance testing can give a different reading from day to day I'd wouldn't put too much faith in it. I'll stick to eating what makes me feel good and avoiding the things that don't. You don't need to shell out for expensive unreliable tests, just listen to your body. Obviously some people have serious food allergies and they should be taken seriously and diagnosed by proper testing, not a generic one size fits all test such as the one you are talking about.
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Latest post on 11 February 2014 - 15:14
That made me laugh Daza This whole thread is making me laugh, do I smell advertising?
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Latest post on 11 February 2014 - 15:13
The point of sharing. Still confused, what does that have to do with your original post? In answer to your question "Will you believe in such a thing?" my answer is no. Sounds like a gimmicky waste of time and if you do lose any weight you'll put it all straight back on when you stop doing it. Change your lifestyle, work more exercise in to your day and don't eat processed foods.
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Latest post on 11 February 2014 - 15:08
How about grated cheese? Something mild like double gloucester or mild cheddar. Or red leicester because it's sort of red and it's for valentines day. Perfect for making the night before and popping in the fridge.
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Latest post on 11 February 2014 - 15:05
Being cynical is unquestionable ladies.[b'> But we also need to understand the use of a blogging site[/b'>. What do you mean? A blogging site to help you lose weight? That you pay for? A fat picture on the fridge is probably just as effective and it's free.
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Latest post on 11 February 2014 - 15:00
I agree that Delia and Jamie are good. Delia's books take you through the basics, step by step, great for a novice. A good website for simple straight forward recipes is [url=http://chelseawinter.co.nz/'>Chelsea Winter.[/url'> As an aside, it never ceases to amaze me how many people leave home having no idea how to cook. Surely it's a valuable life skill that parents should be teaching their children? Good for you for deciding to teach yourself, you'll feel so much better when you aren't relying on takeaways. Eighteen months is a great age for your daughter to be helping you in the kitchen too, children generally love to cook and she will be learning along with you :)
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Latest post on 11 February 2014 - 10:29
It sounds like you are doing a great job of managing extended family living. I totally hear you on the weaning, it can be so hard, particularly the older they get. All they want is mummy but mummy infuriates them when the breast is not forthcoming! Good luck, I hope it's sorted soon.
 
 
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