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Latest post on 10 January 2011 - 20:39
Sorry to hijack this but while we are talking books, what's a good recommendation for a sleep book , my 3 rd is due soon ,and I'm a bit rusty ( my other 2 children are 16 and 8 1/2 ) and besides I was never very successful with them anyway my DS was 2 1/2 when he slept through :(. And I really can't do the sleepless nights thing for that long at my age! I'm reading Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child by Marc Weissbluth. It makes a lot of sense to me.
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Latest post on 09 January 2011 - 23:34
Raffles charge full-time for part-time hours? That would make sense, seeing as it's the closest :(. Thanks for all the info. I'll start looking at the ones mentioned.
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Latest post on 09 January 2011 - 21:26
North Somerset (kind of). No idea what the rest of the country calls us! DH is from Fife and is usually known as Jock McSporran or The Sock.
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Latest post on 09 January 2011 - 21:19
Hope the bumpy start wasn't too bumpy and you're on the right road now! Congratulations and SLEEP WHEN THE BABY SLEEPS. :D x
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Latest post on 09 January 2011 - 21:18
Thanks - picked one up today in Mothercare. Although it's not actually a mattress topper, it's called a 'quilted mattress protector'. Think I might add the Ikea one underneath!
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Latest post on 09 January 2011 - 21:17
Wishing you the best of luck. It can't be an easy journey for you.x
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Latest post on 08 January 2011 - 22:32
I had a rotten cough and cold when I was about 16 weeks and I went to my doctor, worried about my baby's health if I was sick and taking medication. His words? 'They're like little parasites in there. They'll take everything they need to survive, to the point of killing you, so don't you worry about the baby'. I know it's worrying but I'm sure your little parasite is just fine. Rest up and take care of yourself!
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Latest post on 08 January 2011 - 20:39
Are we thinking of the same thing? The mattress topper I'm thinking of attaches to the mattress and goes under the fitted sheet - is that what you're thinking of? he's 7 months so too small for a duvet but I thought a mattress topper under the sheet would be OK.
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Latest post on 08 January 2011 - 01:06
While I was home I saw a mattress topper to fit a cot bed in John Lewis. Rather stupidly I didn't buy it, but now I wish I had! Has anyone seen anything similar over here? The mattress in the cot is a bit firm and I think DS might be a bit more comfortable (read: feel more like he's in our bed) if I get one.
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Latest post on 07 January 2011 - 23:45
dear God he looks about 16 years old!!!! ( facially!) :\: I spat my hot chocolate out when I read 'facially'... where else were you looking?!
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Latest post on 07 January 2011 - 23:21
When I click on the episode I want, it gives me a list of different sites to choose from and that's where it asks for cc details. Am I doing something wrong then? I'm not too tech-savvy at this TV lark!
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Latest post on 07 January 2011 - 23:11
I didn't do just 'cushion'... *starts new search* And I bl00dy wish I hadn't - YUCK! Is red cushion something like pampas grass in your front garden?! <em>edited by DubaiCat on 07/01/2011</em>
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Latest post on 07 January 2011 - 23:08
Slightly on the random side, and may cause a few raised eyebrows if it comes up as the last item searched next time DH turns the Mac on!
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Latest post on 07 January 2011 - 23:07
Ah. If you want to email me I'll show you a way round that. <em>edited by DubaiCat on 07/01/2011</em>
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Latest post on 07 January 2011 - 23:00
What does it say when you try?
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Latest post on 07 January 2011 - 22:59
Eeeeeeeeeuw! But I had to look twice to find it ;).
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Latest post on 07 January 2011 - 22:58
I just went on it and it wants my credit card details even thought it says it's free. Is it safe?
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Latest post on 07 January 2011 - 22:47
Oh no, I was just about to have a bath and go to bed but www.tvduck it's going to have to be... :D thanks!
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Latest post on 07 January 2011 - 22:02
Shooting? What shooting?! Does anyone have series 6 I can borrow?!
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Latest post on 07 January 2011 - 13:21
Gaaaaah.... I haven't managed to watch the second half of season six yet! Must get myself in gear! Please no spoilers till I've caught up. Anyone want to babysit this week?! :D
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Latest post on 05 January 2011 - 22:42
I think there's an old thread about this but I can't find it. I asked the consulate in Dubai a couple of years ago and they said no, but I guess it's always worth a trip to ask them. Good luck!
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Latest post on 05 January 2011 - 21:27
Are you thinking of getting yourself a cork hat and adopting 'G'day' as a greeting?! :D
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Latest post on 05 January 2011 - 21:25
gleekfamily, is your DH not Cypriot?
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Latest post on 05 January 2011 - 18:33
, native born and bred Brits are some of the laziest takers in the world. H3ll yes - we have whole generations of Brits who sit on their backsides and do nothing but take, take, take because they earn more on benefits than they would with a job. The coalition says they're going to tackle this but I think it'll be a job and a half now.
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Latest post on 05 January 2011 - 18:16
It's not personal if you're the one taking advantage of government rules. It is personal if you're the one who can't access government services or funding when they're overstretched. Yes, the government is to blame, but it's far easier to blame those doing the overstretching than the faceless system. It's only natural.
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Latest post on 05 January 2011 - 18:13
If you re not born in britain then you should NOT be entitled to it DH is British, born in Scotland (albeit with a Greek grandmother and an English mum). I'm British, born in England, with British parents of Scottish and Irish heritage. DS was born here because we live here. He likely won't live in the UK until he's old enough to choose to do so (or we need to go back to care for my parents). If he didn't have a British passport, though, what passport would he have?! And if he lives somewhere like the UAE in the future and has children here, what passport would they have? I used to be completely against anyone obtaining a passport purely for the benefits it brings - and I still am, if they don't contribute to the country - but I do wonder if DS should have a British passport when he wasn't born there and his only ties to the country are his parents and regular holidays there. One for the dinner table and a few bottles of wine...
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Latest post on 05 January 2011 - 17:58
He saw our GP at home when he had a rotten cough and cold and his cousin had just come down with it, and the guy did say 6 months was the ideal age to get it, if there is one!
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Latest post on 05 January 2011 - 12:41
DH eventually got him to sleep in his arms at 2am then we brought him into bed with us and he slept for a few hours. I guess he must have just been so overtired he was beyond sleep. I took him to Dr Hamzeh this morning as he had a rash all over him, but apparently this is eczema and not chicken pox. We'll have to keep an eye on him for another couple of weeks though. Will keep you posted if it is chicken pox for anyone who wants it! :D
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Latest post on 04 January 2011 - 23:55
Were you on the Emirates flight from BHX by any chance?!
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Latest post on 04 January 2011 - 03:31
You sound just like me. We're having awful sleep problems with DS, I've been diagnosed with PND and my confidence is at an all-time low. Feeding, playing, learning - whatever it is, I'm sure I fall far short of what super-mums are up to! But as somebody else said, there is no such thing as a super-mum. We all do our best! I'm sure you are doing wonders with your wee man. If you think his sleep is a problem, I'd suggest trying to get that sorted as I know from first-hand (and currently constant) experience, sleep deprivation makes everything a hundred million times worse. Everything looks horribly, miserably, dreadfully awful when you haven't had enough sleep and having no me-time either doesn't help at all. Big hugs to you xx
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Latest post on 03 January 2011 - 03:10
DS is 7 months and his paed said he can have meat now, no problem. He loves spag bol and chicken (all mushed up).
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Latest post on 03 January 2011 - 03:08
I have just started taking Cerazette. I really didn't want to but hey-ho, needs must.
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Latest post on 03 January 2011 - 02:41
You can get foam mats from Ace to lay on the floor so if he does tip over, he won't hurt himself. Or simply lay a duvet or blanket down - we do that here at Mum's. I so hear you on the 'can't get anything done' thing, though. I am dreading being on my own again when we get back and not getting breakfast till 4pm.
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Latest post on 03 January 2011 - 02:37
Hi Dubaicat! You're back - how was the trip to the UK? I stopped BF 2 months ago, as my milk had started to diminsh when he started solids and even with expressing it did'nt help, but anyway... I dropped the 1st feed of the day and then afternoon feed and so on, as the other ladies have suggested doing it over a course of time def helps with getting them used to formula and helping with breast engorgment etc. I was quite lucky because DS took the formula quite easily and I didnt have any breast discomfort. Once he was established on formula during the day which took a couple of weeks I then took another 2 weeks or so to stop the night feeds. Take it nice and slow and it will work out better for both of you. Good luck :) edited by desertrose on 02/01/2011 We leave the UK tomorrow so we'll be back at midnight - it's been so lovely being with family and leaving is not going to be fun. I'm not sure which feed to drop first but we'll see what works. I am kind of sad about it though!
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Latest post on 02 January 2011 - 18:29
I saw a GP here who said me still feeding him might be having an effect on the PND, as my hormones will still not be back to normal, and I do seem to get worse before and during a period. He's given me Cerazette and I think it's made a bit of a difference, but he said taking the regular pill will help more so I want to try that before I look at taking anything else for it. But I'll see what Cecile says about it before I try anything. I definitely think Will has developed an association between feeding and sleeping so I'm not sure I can stop that without stopping BF :(.
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Latest post on 02 January 2011 - 01:06
DubaiCat I also want to stop breastfeeding, but I can't even get him to drink 2 oz of cow's milk. He's 10.5 months old. At the moment the little terror won't take a bottle of formula at all so I think we may have another battle on our hands! Thanks all, this sounds like a good plan. Part of the reason I want to stop feeding is that His Lordship seems to have developed an association between b00bs and sleep, so I was thinking it might be an idea to get DH to feed him a bottle of formula for his last feed before bed. However, if he won't take the bottle, am I just going to make things worse with the sleep issues we're having? ETA: How are you doing, meals? Hope all is going well.x <em>edited by DubaiCat on 02/01/2011</em>