I am a single mum with a 5 year old here in Dubai. I don't receive any benefits from my company and have to pay schooling, housing, car loan etc etc. I have a salary of about 18 to 20,000 AED and I manage just fine. I cant always go to all the expensive events my friends go to and I don't get out an awful lot but if you compare it to a life in the Uk or Europe I think you will definately be better off. It's for sure do-able. I also managed to sponsor my child fine through Dubai. Abu Dhabi are MUCH stricter and I was rejected there 3 times as a single mum, but Dubai put it through as a humanitarian case and it was through within 2 weeks (no letters from the father or anything, just a letter from the British embassy stating that I am a single mum, and attestation of her birth certificate).
The hardest might be paying your rent upfront as you have to pay a full year here in some cases but lots do accept 4 or 6 cheques although they may up the rent if you pay over more than 1 chq, but if you have a company that are willing to help it makes it much easier. You can then pay them back monthly.
I hope this helps but feel free to get in touch if you want any more info. Good luck!!
Thank you all so much for your replies. Very encouraging and much appreciated!!!!
Stellapas - My e-mail address is [email protected] or work is [email protected]
I will be anxiously waiting for your e-mail!!!!
Thank you x