He is not even worth your time to analyze the situation! Sometimes I feel the guys who play these games are the ones that are the most insecure! They shuffle women around like this to make themselves feel more attractive or masculine or some BS...The last thing you want is to try and build a relationship with someone who you always have to question in the back of your head. It's not worth the drama. All it will do is drive you crazy every time you hear his phone and you wonder 'who is that calling now'...who wants to deal with that? Life in Dubai is hard enough lady!
Well we can certainly live without men, but who would take out the trash and kill the bugs in the house :)
Cheer up babe, go out and have yourself a drinkie and find Mr. Next!!!
oh man I can't stand guys like these...I'm going to give it to you straight, SATC style hun....any man who'd drag you through all this mess doesn't deserve you! If he had any respect for you he'd be more up front about these babes and be truthful about what's really going on...why is this always so hard for so many guys?!? Why can't they just tell us what they really feel, even if it's going to hurt us or if it's not what we want to hear?!?! I'd rather hear it straight and have the pain all at once than be dragged along wondering why hasn't he called, did I say something wrong, does he like me etc!!! What is so wonderful about him for you to put up with this nonsense?!? Life is too short to get hung up on anyone who doesn't appreciate you! I say NEXT! Go out and buy yourself some shoes...you'll feel better soon :(
@ Saltire LOL you crack me up! Mine would probably say the same :)
I'm not worried that my husband wouldn't give me the letter, I'd probably be the one to type it up anyways! Was just curious because this just seemed so old world/traditional/WTF to me...my first thought was 'what the poor little wife needs permission from her big strong husband to travel abroad?!' But after reading all the posts I see it probably has more to do with attempted kidnappings...but yes I totally agree it's a double edge sword...if you are a battered wife and just want to get the heck away from your husband you could be totally stuck, which is just absurd...
anyway thanks for all the posts, very interesting and controversial topic I must say!
Hi mammas! I would love to meet up with you all too...this is my last month of work, so I'm only available after 6pm during the week till start of Feb when I'm off work for good...I can't wait!! If you guys can't meet up that late in the evening I will catch up with you when I'm officially a 'housewife' LOL!!!
have a great week!
my email is ginapistone at hotmail dot com
