i am experiencing the same agony now...my Ean is sleeping late, as in very late or if he sleeps early because of being very tired in the afternoon, then he wakes up in the wee hours of the night!!! i lack sleep and sometimes i just panic, lose my patience and i get too naggy. we have been following up same routine but the sudden change in his sleeping habit really sursprised me. most friends tell me this will pass...some say he is trying to make up with the lost times (btw, i work and he goes to nursery and daycare)...i am really hoping this will end soon...goodluck to us!
i found it difficult to get one here which is really of good quality, however, i was so lucky to be able to buy (unused) from a lady, an eddie bauer brand which was a backpack like. it was good in the beginning to help my Ean learn how to walk and balance himself but as he grew older, he wasn't too happy seeing a monkey behind his back (the backpack has a monkey design) although it was very cute...
you may get a soft toothbrush which is worn on a finger, since she is still small, this will be more comfy for both of you as you will have full control. btw, toothpaste is advised only from 2 onwards, just use water and don't forget to clean her tongue :)