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Latest post on 14 February 2013 - 07:52
Or alternatively, what did we al GIVE for Valentines Day. ? (Of course keeping in mind SM's disclaimer)
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 18:53
We had this long discussion in the maids forum. Maids get their holiday money (if away they get paid for the salary for when they will be away), but not another month tagged on. 12 months salary per year. It would be so much more helpful if you would stop voicing your personal opinion as "facts". If she has worked for 12 month, then leaves to be transferred, you pay her the month holiday she is entitled to after a year. <em>edited by Oopsiedaisy on 14/02/2013</em>
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 18:43
Your requirements sound totally reasonable to me. 8-6 (assuming she has one day off) is really fair, so just sit down and revisit the ground rules. How far does she have to travel home?
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 18:33
Thank you ladies, she is asking upon completition of her 1 year contract before she transfers to her new family a paid flight home (although she is not going) and a bonus of 1 month salary.... I hired a "transferred" maid last year. Her former sponsor paid neither ticket, nor holiday. I thought that was awful. Personally I would pay both (considering the circumstances). But as I said earlier, if she doesn't go home, you are not obliged to pay her the money. That is at your discretion. She is however entitled to her holiday money.
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 18:23
Not really because I could see it coming and leave before it got to that level. Anyway, are you saying that there's then nopoint in walking out? Surely better to shorten the exposure of the episode to eveyone else then let it continue. I saw the warning signs with my middle nephew very early on and by telling him what would happen, his response would tell me if a storm was coming and I would just leave with him. I could handle him better alone in the car then in front of a crowd of people, he loved an audience!! :) Fair point SkyKitty.
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 16:53
Yes, you're right, it is a complete reversal of the normal drip feed :D I do hope the OP's dog is ok. I'm sure the dog is ok, but OP has deleted all of her threads. I guess that's the difference between b*tchiness and a debate.
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 16:50
Actually I think there ARE times that kids should be seen and not heard, e.g.in a cinema with others, in restaurants etc... I'm not talking normal 'being a kid and playing nicely' but screaming/tantrums shouting. I can say this as I was a bit of a horror tantrum-thrower myself, no matter how inconvenient, my parent swould remove me and we would go home if I wouldn't behave. I saw the starts of many movies but not the ends, until I was well behaved enough to sit in a cinema and watch a movie quietly with everyone else. (bit different for an actual kids' movie, I agree) I think sometimes parents don't realise that their kids are too young/not enough attention span for certain activities and don't choose accordingly... it's kind fo selfish because the parents may want a night out but don't take into account whether their particular child is suited to the activity. E.g. taking a little kid late at night to a grown up movie they do not like or understand. Of course the poor kid is going to make a fuss, any child would when bored or scared. I get that it's a hassle for babysitters etc but sometimes you can't do things with kids that you can do as a solo adult. I say this not having my own kids but having spent a lot of time caring for nieces/nephews. [b'>I have had to walk out of movies, restaurants, you name it because one of them wouldn't behave or threw a tantrum/ran amok etc.... [/b'> Plent yof palces for people with kids, I agree, why shouldn't there be places with no kids? I hate bars and clubs, all that loud music so youcan't talk, smoky environment, mostly ment trying to hit on me and I jsut want a quiet night! So yes I love the movies and hate being interrupted by any rude/bad behaviour whether it be adult or child! Sorry to mention as I'm sure you mean well, but by the time you have to walk out, it's already to late for the other diners, spectators etc.
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 16:45
Poor poor mother as well. I hope she gets her surviving baby back.
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 15:07
They're not permitted in the Gold/Platinum seats at Vox and Reel cinemas. Is this a seperate theater, or just a seperate seating section? I haven't been to the theater since I moved here two years ago just to avoid the undisciplined children. It's a separate theatre with lazy chairs and food and drinks served to your seat. Tickets are 100 aed though.
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 15:02
I don't have kids and don't mind at all when they are around in "adult" areas, its not fair on the parents to be expected to be stuck at home or play areas only because they have children that they "cant" take out with them even if it is at night (I highly doubt those kids are out every single night and missing their bedtimes!) In fact I always find myself smiling and saying its alright to mummies who look worried or start apologizing when their kids start to act out.. its not their fault! I hate this whole kids must be seen but not heard business, even the most disciplined children will act out as do adults! [b'>I've seen as many adults making scenes and being loud and disturbing as kids are to be honest.. [/b'> Hitting the nail right on the head. I see so many drunk, misbehaving adults around here that I'm not surprised most kids behave the way they do.
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 14:57
If you can bare the heat in Dubai, you can certainly bare the heat in Jordan in August. It is not nearly as humid, just hot. Lot's of shady places in Petra, and make sure to go early in the morning.
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 14:54
Thanks she will be transferring directly to another family so are we required to give her a flight ticket home? I thought this would be the case if we renewed her contract? confused.... No, if she is transferring you do not have to give her a ticket home. Nor do you have to give her the ticket money in lieu. Unless you want to.
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 12:09
Was thinking the same! Want to go outside, lovely out there, but I have been glued to this place all morning. Can we do a rehab week or something, please?????? Whats a rehab week? I do not like the sound of that Will be having one next week - moving house so the joys of etisilat reconnection and have tickets to the tennis :) Ah, thanks for reminding me. Have tickets for tennis as well, and a week of Maldives afterwards. That might just do the trick ? <em>edited by Oopsiedaisy on 13/02/2013</em>
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 11:43
After many years of having my hotmail account, I have, today, seen a refresh button on it, for first time. If it has been there all these years, then I am officially STUPID. You may very well be, but as a wise poster mentioned earlier: Stupid is only relative.
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 11:41
Well, at least the boyfriend is a goner. May be able to leave now.
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 11:38
Was thinking the same! Want to go outside, lovely out there, but I have been glued to this place all morning. Can we do a rehab week or something, please??????
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 11:34
Just read an article in The National about Sister's Beauty Lounge. Made me want to go there this very instant. Any experiences from EW? Which location? <em>edited by Oopsiedaisy on 13/02/2013</em>
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 11:25
Love it AA ?
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 11:13
Just out of curiosity, how does one call someone stupid in a polite way? I mean if someone is really stupid, they need to know it. Stupid is only relative. What seems stupid to you, may be genuine to someone else. I have been raised with: There are no stupid questions, only stupid answers. <em>edited by Oopsiedaisy on 13/02/2013</em>
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 11:11
Ha Nathalie 2, great minds think alike.
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 11:10
Too me there is a huge difference between a genuine debate and b*tchiness. I embrace the former, am not a fan of the latter. But it is true that most debates on here eventually turn into a b*tch fight, which gets the thread deleted, included a lot of well meant advice as well as different opinions.
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 10:45
I have to say that Groupon do not care in the slightest about these things. If you purchase anything from them, be prepared to lose your money. Adding to this: Most participating hotels/restaurants must be pretty desperate to try and get the Groupon customers. Groupon is under attack in my home country, because of the incredibly low percentage of the deal that eventually flows back to the companies. I therefor understand that the participating companies, albeit happy with the increased clientele, are reluctant to go beyond the absolute minimum. I only read negative threads on here about Groupon, am warned, therefor never have and never will use them.
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 10:29
An evening brunch??? As for the guys, what's their age, and how much money can they spend? I would sent them dune bashing, preferably having them drive themselves with an instructor nearby.
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Latest post on 13 February 2013 - 10:25
If everyone was all roses and compliments on this forum, it would not survive. The debates, controversy, and banter are what keeps it going. And let's be honest, it makes it for a very interesting and entertaining read. If ladies can't handle that and are too sensitive, then it's not the right forum for them. Yep. Agree Me too! Me three
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Latest post on 12 February 2013 - 23:34
Depending on the size of the group, but how about a cooking class where they have to prepare a nice meal in smaller groups (a course per team), and afterwards enjoy drinks and their self prepared dinner.
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Latest post on 12 February 2013 - 22:47
gosh really? That's bizarre - the box only has front! I was convinced the green/blue was to differentiate between the two machines. No, it's differentiating between bio and non-bio. But I don't know what that is all about. Purple is for coloured wash, but green and blue?
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Latest post on 12 February 2013 - 18:55
I have always used different kinds of detergent (powder) with my front-loading machines, both in EU and ME and never had any problems. Just don't use too much.
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Latest post on 12 February 2013 - 18:51
As a basic rule, we try and put aside 30% of our annual income.
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Latest post on 12 February 2013 - 09:40
Lemon tart, cheese cake, chocolate mouse, basically all desserts at Shakespeare's in The Village on Beach Road are yummie. And I love the outside seating area.
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Latest post on 11 February 2013 - 16:06
1. You will get your deposit back when she leaves the country, or after her new sponsor has finalised the visa process. You will need a copy of the sponsor's visa page in order to get your deposit back. 2. Your new nanny can overstay, and if you decide to sponsor her you will have to pay for the overstay. That said it is technically illegal for her to work for you as long as you are not her sponsor. We did this with our maid, but at least we had already set the sponsor process in working, so we could always prove our intentions. There was a thread on here recently about a maid taking a plain to Muscat and coming back the same day. But I don't know how it works, sorry.
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Latest post on 11 February 2013 - 13:55
I'm certain I saw them in Dragonmart. Made a note to myself since I thought they might come in handy one day. Don't ask me where in Dragonmart exactly though. No clue.
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Latest post on 11 February 2013 - 11:58
Aaaaaaaaaand the winner of the most pointless thread this week goes to....... I wouldn't bet on that just yet. It's only Monday after all ?
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Latest post on 11 February 2013 - 00:12
Wow, I think some of those costs are made up. Never heard of transfer fee, in country stamp, visa status change. Visa deposit: yes (you get it back after cancellation of the visa). Medical: yes, but can be done cheaper, unless you want it done in one day. Visa stamping: yes, that would be the actual visa.
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Latest post on 11 February 2013 - 00:03
Definitely ACE
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Latest post on 11 February 2013 - 00:00
Curious, Oopsiedaisy, if you're not interested in Botox, why read the thread? Because it fitted nicely with the long hair over 40 and the matching handbag threads. If you check my post, you will see I was wondering how many EW were going to admit to having Botox. Boy, was I surprised!! ?
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Latest post on 10 February 2013 - 23:47
That's the ExpatWoman for you, Deeva. edited by simpleasabc on 10/02/2013 Not only that. I like pets, am not in the least interested in Botox. Yet, I did read the Botox thread but tend to skip all the animal threads, too many, all the same and it's not as if I'm likely to find a dog that run off in the Springs or Mirdiff etc.
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Latest post on 09 February 2013 - 23:30
[email protected] It's silly it's nowhere to be found on their website. I had to call them today to find out, in order to forward our flight details. See you there ?? <em>edited by Oopsiedaisy on 09/02/2013</em>
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Latest post on 09 February 2013 - 23:25
I do not agree with Daza. Sure, at employers direction, but if she wishes she can insist on 1 full month, instead of split up. The contract says one month at end of contract! You cannot expect her to go home for only 2 weeks. What would she do during the other 2 weeks, hang out here? She cannot afford a ticket. And if you decide to go on vacation 5 times a year for 1 week only, that will just be her luck.
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Latest post on 09 February 2013 - 09:18
Reporting back to Neat-Freak: Outdoor cushions are back and the work and fit it impeccable! ? So I would recommend your guy to anyone. But make him take the cushions, not just the covers!
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Latest post on 09 February 2013 - 09:13
There is no such thing as a reputed developer. Not here, not anywhere. All they care about is money, they don't give a #### about you and your rights. Unfortunately they are very powerful everywhere, as a single consumer you won't have a leg to stand on. Maybe try connect with buyers in a similar position and see if you can build a case together.
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Latest post on 09 February 2013 - 09:00
I would definitely not let her take two months after this year. She might not come back, and you would loose a lot of money. If you do want to accommodate her, even if it is inconvenient to you, let her take the two months after the next year of contract, and make sure it coincides with your own plans. As for the unpaid leave, depending of course on your personal circumstances, but I would probably not allow that either. <em>edited by Oopsiedaisy on 09/02/2013</em>
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Latest post on 09 February 2013 - 08:54
I think you are probably allowed to split it up, but it should be mutually agreed upon. If she wants to use her annual leave to visit her home country, it would be very unfair to cut it short against her will, and then refuse to pay for the second flight home. Even if you agree on a split vacation, you should pay for the second flight if she wishes t to go home, how else is she going to afford it? If she wants to save her money, and not take the flight, it guess it would be oke to split up her annual leave. She will naturally have to be allowed to stay at your house in that case.
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Latest post on 07 February 2013 - 18:50
This year,i have decided i am in charge: Takeaway and a good movie! Easy peasy:) It's not much different from McDonalds though. Well, you won't have to dress up ?. Have fun.
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Latest post on 07 February 2013 - 18:47
Yay congrats to you! Car shopping so fun! I just got my TT. Super excited. Car seat has no issues at all fitting in the back! DCC, I'm really glad to see you went for your dream anyway and didn't settle for less. Despite all the (so-called) sound advice given to you by most posters. Way to go girl!!
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Latest post on 07 February 2013 - 12:18
I agree some effort has to be made by the home front to make time to see you when you come over. On the other hand you cannot expect everyone to drop everything only because you decided to drop in for a weekend. And if you don't think it's worth the money: Don't go. Back home it is common practice for grandparents to mind their grandchildren a couple of days a week. Most grandparents enjoy this. I must say you all sound a little bit jealous. We are all here for a reason. Consider those reasons, add up the pro's and con's, and see where you end up.
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Latest post on 07 February 2013 - 12:11
Jumeirah Beach Hotel is excellent. Not cheap though.
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Latest post on 07 February 2013 - 12:07
Assuming you need one to play old video's, you might want to considering transferring the footage of the video tapes onto DVD. I doubt you will be so lucky to find a video player this day and age.
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Latest post on 07 February 2013 - 08:30
Thanks for this FJ. I will try to get in touch with them. Their web pages all seem alike, and you have to register first before even being allowed to see their activities, but I guess that's how it's done?
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Latest post on 06 February 2013 - 08:46
This woman is 57. She is my new role model... and she has long hair. http://www.cindyjackson.com/ Sorry, but IMO there is nothing natural about her anymore. And if she keeps on going as she suggests, 5 years from today she will be a freak. Who needs a granny looking like that?
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Latest post on 06 February 2013 - 08:44
Will be interesting to see how many come clean on the Botox. I'm still recovering from the "long hair over 40" thread.
 
 
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