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Latest post on 17 December 2013 - 08:22
There is too many with their drum kits on ready to do the rain-dance on this forum. You will have better luck complaining to a cactus, OD.
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Latest post on 17 December 2013 - 08:16
Hang on, am I missing something? I am outnumbered but there's no way I'd contact a person like this. Can I ask what friendship means to you? I would never do this to a 'friend.' Was there something else she may have misconstrued that we are not hearing about? (not blaming you). You talk about how great the friendship was, but come on, it really wasn't if you got stonewalled like this. No call, no show on your wedding? and you still want to carry on? At this stage, its not about having an ego, its about self-respect. If this person cannot handle you getting married (assuming as she simply cut you off without an explanation) you can bet she wont be around if you really need someone.
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Latest post on 16 December 2013 - 23:49
Sorry Doubting Thomas but why do you always make a point of being as unpleasant as possible in every thread you reply to??? She cant help it she's just trying to live upto her username. Sometimes I think she must be a Thomas, or else she'd be Doubting Thomasina.
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Latest post on 16 December 2013 - 23:45
KenzaB I hope you read this because its something that happened to people I know. My DH has two friends whose situations were similar to yours. Friend A (a colleague actually) was just not earning enough to float, and decided to send his family home, while he worked in Dubai and moved to a one bed. Being extremely close to his children, this was hard on him. He found another, well paid job some time later, but DIDN'T call his family back. He saved, bought a house in his country with his savings, had enough left over to rent a family size apartment in a new neighborhood in Dubai and they were then reunited. His wife had by then done up their new home as a base for holidays. It was hard in between but hearing how well they are doing today makes me very happy for them. They take trips around Dubai, the kids are attending a better school than the one they were in before, and are really enjoying their life now. The second person, a friend to DH, just wouldn't see the writing on the wall and due to bad financial decisions, lost everything but refused to move back, as 'what would my family back home say/think' (completely stupid logic). After a few months of bounced rent cheques, he was jailed and had to ask his wife (who had two little children at home to look after with no money) to set about finding bail money from his friends, the same friends who warned him months ago to sell and move back home. I know the task ahead is frightening, but you are stronger than you think, we all are. This doesn't have to be the end of Dubai life for you, just a break in the interim.
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Latest post on 13 December 2013 - 22:09
Not sure where is close by to you, but I have always heard good things about ShamsGymnastics. No I dont work for them, but it sounds quite professional and for children who have achieved higher skill grades. Maybe someone else will come along and add more.
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Latest post on 13 December 2013 - 22:03
Does anyone know/remember/wonder where is Clairehdp, Arohadxb, Redlesley, Tallybalt, Livelytrish, Kittycat with a number, MirdifIngrid, MotherInferior, Gerrys, BMAP, QueenofDenial, loads and loads more..... Think I'm giving away my EW age now. Yep, SM did sound quite grumpy oftentimes. Posting 20,000 times would do that to you...
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Latest post on 12 December 2013 - 09:13
I have in the past received comfort from your wise, informative words, and I know I wasn't the only one, DR. Other posters, including me, can take a hiatus and no one would notice, but your absence is felt on EW.
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Latest post on 12 December 2013 - 08:55
Hardly surprising. I was shocked that schools closed for Expo win, that was just the announcement- not even the actual Expo. last day of term is when they pretty much do FA, so your DD is not missing much. That was not an initiative of the schools, but based on a directive issued by Sheikh Mohammed who declared all schools be closed. Cant pin that one on them. As an aside, the last time I heard FA was ages ago..I think it was in the presence of a sweaty spotty teen. lol
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Latest post on 11 December 2013 - 18:58
Its hard to know where to begin. Can you get back into Uni and finish your studies, it will give you stability, focus and a possible goal to pursue once you are done, if your dad has a job, he can support you. Where is your mother, what is her stand in all of this?
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Latest post on 11 December 2013 - 18:19
Probably not the best idea with all the extra days off lately, but most teachers work very hard. I think its OK they have a day to themselves to ring in the season and have some cheer.
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Latest post on 11 December 2013 - 18:15
I'm surprised Sarahlou123 was banned earlier, as I find her ever helpful and sensible like A Rancher ( no offence to others) I was banned because I work in a certain industry and was trying to help posters who were looking for work. As you know this isn't allowed and I was banned. I learnt my lesson on the naughty step :-) The problem with flippant banning is that some posters just cannot be bothered to come back anymore. I can go 3 days without a fix now. Advertisers watch this carefully, and at the end of the day it is our spicy threads (yes, even the work ones lol) that attract traffic to the site. Even the cucumber carpet salesman thread brought in readers from far and wide. I vote the poster who started that thread should be number one on the list! I think she is number 3 :) Such a claim must be backed up with proof.
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Latest post on 11 December 2013 - 16:56
I'm surprised Sarahlou123 was banned earlier, as I find her ever helpful and sensible like A Rancher ( no offence to others) I was banned because I work in a certain industry and was trying to help posters who were looking for work. As you know this isn't allowed and I was banned. I learnt my lesson on the naughty step :-) The problem with flippant banning is that some posters just cannot be bothered to come back anymore. I can go 3 days without a fix now. Even the cucumber carpet salesman thread brought in readers from far and wide. I vote the poster who started that thread should be number one on the list!
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Latest post on 11 December 2013 - 15:27
Whatever you do dont offer to work for free. Nothing that comes free has value to it, unfortunately.
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Latest post on 11 December 2013 - 15:20
I have a hunch someone will come along soon and say how absolutely stunning SL looks with a tan on.
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Latest post on 11 December 2013 - 11:50
Wooooop I feel loved now hehehe :) Er, hold that thought for a bit - think there's another thread on here which has alluded to you.
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Latest post on 11 December 2013 - 11:43
Thanks for the one vote of confidence, mrsb. However this list is missing so many names its completely incomplete. If DM removed hers it could make more space. Has TDB been mentioned already - she is hysterical. Of course kiwispiers - but are we mentioning everybody or just those who court a ban with every other post?
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Latest post on 11 December 2013 - 11:36
I thought this knitting thing was bizarre enough - what is this thing they do with ping pong balls? Who is they?
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Latest post on 10 December 2013 - 13:00
There is a Bloomingdales cafe next to where the Dubai metro walkway opens into the Dubai Mall, near the electronics stores. They made a replica of a Hello Kitty cake that my child wanted, from a photograph.
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Latest post on 10 December 2013 - 11:43
CM, disagree all you like. I'm just telling you what the science says. I don't have the book but am genuinely interested as I don't want to think I could be damaging my daughter in an way in the future and you have got me thinking now as to if I should give up. :( How many schools did they study, in what year groups and in what countries / areas? If there is no preferential treatment that would mean your child depends on you and hesitates to strike out independently in class activities, or you do put in the time required after school hours to assist in homework, if it works for you, do it, dont worry about some report. Half the time scientific reports say one thing to take it all back and say the opposite a few years later, we have seen that numerous times.
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Latest post on 09 December 2013 - 19:51
I would never consider re-using a baby's swim diaper, however have you ever been at a children's pool and wondered how many of the older children may have wee'd in it? I sincerely hope they use the toilet but I have my doubts if I am being very honest.
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Latest post on 09 December 2013 - 19:45
Both schools are at a different spectrum and neither seems to have found a reasonable balance. How on earth is a maid part of the classroom scenario! It sounds like a nursery, and even professional ones wont allow outside help to walk in. I have not been able to volunteer much compared to other mums for class readings and activities. I don't know if this has adversely affected my child. Unless nearly all parents are very regularly present (leaving yours the odd one out which I dont think is a likely scenario TBH) I would think its OK for your child to be there without you. There is a limit to how much involved parents should get or else whats the point of sending them to school?
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Latest post on 09 December 2013 - 19:40
If it is a nasal allergy, then you could try dusting with a wet cloth in his room to pick up any dust motes that may make it worse. I would look into a deep clean of the air condition vents and get a professional to check for mould. Are there any large stuffed animals in his room? That is just a huge allergen magnet. I am not sure who to see as in a doctor, but definitely recommend having him seen by the right specialist to help him sleep better, poor thing. The lack of sleep must make him so irritable, and you too! No offence meant but please keep an eye on what he may be watching on TV and iPad, my child had a bad experience from seeing something once. It does sound like his stuffy nose is making it hard for him to sleep soundly.
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Latest post on 09 December 2013 - 12:10
A whole new definition to the term woolly jumper. She's quite mad of course, but what really took the bakery was she continues throughout her period.
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Latest post on 09 December 2013 - 12:07
also I believe you have to book advertising 12 months at a time... What are the chances Fairy will give a call to EW booking office following a spike in sales?
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Latest post on 08 December 2013 - 22:41
ARancher your maid has diamond rings and gold bangles to sling on that dispenser? Can I come and do your dishes and earn an extra fils or two? I will bring my own sheer silver tinted Mild Tea Tree Oil scented Fairy Liquid with me.
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Latest post on 08 December 2013 - 22:36
Was thinking: what's the deal here. But referring to it as a website instead of a forum makes them attract both advertisers as well as possible clients. If you look at the whole set-up and changes they made over the last 2 years, they're getting ready for that and all our nitty gritty will become a mere sideline. Have you seen how slow this forum crawls? The posters have been sidelining themselves out of action for a while now, while the straggling few left are debating on shampoo vs detergent for the hair!! That, and rehoming their husbands. ? But EW is still quit powerful. If you do a google search on any topic, 9 out of 10 times an EW threads pops up. And look at all the advertisements on the left and in the subject forums. It's ridiculous! yes, but have you seen how old all those google results are ?? they're only still top because nowhere else actually asks the question... Facebook groups and pages are now more relevant perhaps.
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Latest post on 08 December 2013 - 22:34
Yes the forum is the target audience, the ads speak for themselves, however not much luck for the banners if no one is reading them. Pretty soon they'll be heading to Azerbaijan for more hits!
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Latest post on 08 December 2013 - 22:26
Was thinking: what's the deal here. But referring to it as a website instead of a forum makes them attract both advertisers as well as possible clients. If you look at the whole set-up and changes they made over the last 2 years, they're getting ready for that and all our nitty gritty will become a mere sideline. Have you seen how slow this forum crawls? The posters have been sidelining themselves out of action for a while now, while the straggling few left are debating on shampoo vs detergent for the hair!!
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Latest post on 08 December 2013 - 17:21
Washing up liquid, laundry liquid and shampoo have the same active ingredient which is a detergent to help remove dirt. The only differences are the fragrances and of course the fancy packaging. Good tip for the poster who doesn't like the big bottles because they are too heavy to turn up is to dispense some washing up liquid into a small liquid soap pump dispenser, then it's available with just an easy press; washing up heaven! edited by A Rancher on 08/12/2013 And to aid in this great endeavor, emax has washing up liquid dispensers with bowls on either side attached to hold scrubbers and sponges. it even has a nifty hook to hold your maid's diamond rings?
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Latest post on 08 December 2013 - 16:27
Fairy for the dishes. Prill for baby bottles, its too mild for dishes I feel. Carrefour own brand dishwasher detergent for the machine. And Ariel colour tabs for my dark clothes. I believe this is the most exciting and relevant thread on EW that I have had the privilege of posting on (quite sure it will remain on the first page for weeks due to how many may clamor to give their two bits).
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Latest post on 08 December 2013 - 16:19
I was told that different strains of throat infections require the right type of meds that work in specific ways. Not sure a pharmacist is the best person to decide. Why don't you see a doctor who can inspect her throat/take a throat swab and then ask him to just medicate without antibiotics for now? If he feels it really needs a course, then ask for a prescription, but don't fill it at the pharmacy, wait and see if the throat improves with just the cough meds/syrup/spray. You can always give it to her later if there is no improvement. If she can hold a gargle (sorry I cant remember when mine was old enough to do this) they feel instantly better with mildly warm water-salt gargles.
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Latest post on 07 December 2013 - 16:14
1. Locating any expats that can afford living in Dubai after it has completed all the projects.
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Latest post on 06 December 2013 - 12:13
Goodness, I really hope it doesn't make the school rounds - sounds horrendous. Having lots of probiotics should really help you now.
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Latest post on 06 December 2013 - 12:10
Whatever it is that you MIL does/says,you must deal with her at the time it happens. If she has crossed a line, you must show her where the line is. Bottling up your natural response for the sake of maintaining peace is not always the way to go. Failing to do so will leave you feeling exactly as you are - frustrated and with residual anger and thoughts that are re-directed at other blameless people for no fault of their own. Try to think of ways you can politely but firmly decline her 'help' or rebut any comments. Good luck - think we can all empathise!
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Latest post on 06 December 2013 - 00:19
Too many sad stories and not enough cheer on the news. Can you imagine hoping a spider drawing will resolve a traffic argument here? :D
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Latest post on 05 December 2013 - 10:26
It appears the lofty members of the Cricket Kingdom are afraid of getting their butts whipped.
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Latest post on 05 December 2013 - 10:16
It seems to me that you have taken on this burden on your shoulders. You are doing the worrying and thinking of the next steps. Very good to look ahead. What is your husband doing in all of this? It wasn't you who got the family into this mess. Has he got a Plan B (or even just a plan?). Do you feel like he is taking whatever steps necessary to keep you afloat? I am sorry but at some point, if this continues, homeward bound may be the best answer, even if its for just a little bit. Even if you have nothing there, its better than being broke and in debt. Dubai is not the place to be struggling financially, it just wont end well. <em>edited by Redrec Tangle on 05/12/2013</em>
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Latest post on 05 December 2013 - 09:57
Is this one of these English "entre nous" things again. Not for us lower creatures to partake in? ? Quite. Many of the British curriculum schools here behave in the same way. The days of empire are over! Identify yourself properly! Only if you curtsy first.
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Latest post on 05 December 2013 - 09:55
Speaking of cringey music, I Googled an artist based on a faint recollection and found her. I will confess now - did anyone else listen to Sandra (Maria Magdalena, Heaven can Wait and Hi Hi Hi). lol, it was played on my tape nonstop at one point, completely forgotten till this thread came up.
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Latest post on 04 December 2013 - 20:52
I sometimes park off center so that I have a slight advantage on the side my younger child sits so that I can assist in putting in/getting out of the carseat. Parking spaces I find are such a tight fit in most malls, squeezing in as many slots with so little room to get in or out. I am always within my slot and with ample space for either car to comfortably park/exit in or out. Nine times out of ten some brazen idiot will see this extra space and utilize it completely so that his tyre matches the white line or goes slightly over, and me and my child are doing a tricky dance when it could have been so easy if others used some courtesy. They park at a jaunty slant, as if they have simply breezed into their ample slot and skipped out of the car. Whoppee for you. Happened this morning as well, and I was so tempted to start an "Am I Being Unreasonable" thread. Thanks to DM I can let it out here.
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Latest post on 04 December 2013 - 20:18
What on earth is the 3.5 k bit for if its refundable? I don't remember being asked to pay any refundable deposit... anyone else?
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Latest post on 04 December 2013 - 20:00
I think I was asked to make a substantial part payment of the first term fees to show intent to join, which I did, and that was taken out later, but the amount you are being asked to pay seems a bit excessive. Surely even half that amount should be more than enough.
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Latest post on 04 December 2013 - 19:47
No its not the same I agree. Sometimes I have to laugh when I remember how we had to wait for the entire tape to rewind once it ended or play the other side, or record favorite songs during radio broadcasts and get bits of beginnings and endings of the radio jockey speaking...and if played constantly, the brown tape inside would get twisted up in places making the song jump, and then I'd have to pull the twisted bit out and use a pencil to neatly roll it back in place again.... it all seems so ancient now. I have a stash in my mum's home in a box I cant bear to be rid of either, even though I don't have a cassette player anymore.
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Latest post on 04 December 2013 - 18:42
1. You think driving a top of the range luxury car gives you the right to commit offences 10 to 2.
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Latest post on 04 December 2013 - 18:27
Anon just youtube it, if you remember the title, singer or lyrics. I found classic olden goldies on there from the 1950's that I had a tape of as a teenager.
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Latest post on 04 December 2013 - 17:46
I have seen a small group of mums and toddlers at Caboodle in Dubai Mall also doing cute dance exercises, you could check with them.
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Latest post on 04 December 2013 - 17:41
It didn't sound to me like you knew each other very well, if you don't mind my saying... its better to call it off and have the rest of your life ahead of you than be trapped with the wrong one (speaking from experience!)
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Latest post on 03 December 2013 - 16:20
A couple of times I felt the baby was genuinely too startled/stunned for me to be entirely comfortable that he was enjoying this play. His expressions also showed he was confused and didn't know what to expect or what was 'coming' next for him. Is it some rough play for dads to 'toughen' up sons? Who knows. Poor wee baby is stuck with that tattooed dad acting tough on him, hate when parents try to be so cool with this whole parenting stuff. Just be responsible parents fgs.
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Latest post on 03 December 2013 - 15:26
The real question isn't about FB, but are you honest on EW? Everyone is so namby pamby when women come on here with stupid dilemmas of their own making! Lol think you just answered your own question.
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Latest post on 03 December 2013 - 14:56
I don't DT, my last post was in December 2012. But why do people gush over a picture where the person looks awful? Why not just keep quiet? I could never understand that.
 
 
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