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Latest post on 04 September 2017 - 16:39

Hi artasmiltina! I hope you enjoy Dubai when you get here. I am 24 so if you are looking to meet some friends out here let me know! Most places are pretty relaxed clothing wise but be sensible no hotpants, crop tops etc in the malls but normal tshirts, summer dresses are fine. It's pretty cold in the malls even in summer due to AC so I would say pack your jeans and not just summer clothes. I work in an office and would say it is like back home (I'm from Scotland), so the usual trousers and a blouse, office dresses etc are all acceptable! If you are going to government buildings you need to be bit more covers but loose trousers and a cardigan will do as it really isn't as bad as people think! I would also suggest bringing some light wraps that you can put over your shoulders ... mainly as the AC is cold so its easier than lugging a jacket or cardigan if you are out and about! Hope this helps!

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Latest post on 31 July 2017 - 09:06

Hi, looking for some advice on homesickness! I moved to Dubai in February and I'm really struggling. My partner is also out here but other than that I am finding it hard to meet people that are a similar age and have similar interests. (I'm 23 and from Scotland) I thought it would be easier when I found work however the job I am in it is mainly males that work here. They are all nice and I get on with them but it isn't the same as building proper friendships. The few women that do work here are from very different backgrounds and despite my attempts to build relationships with them it isn't going anywhere. I was very close to my family back home and this is the first time I have ever been away (I was living with my parents and twin sister before the move out here), so it's hard being by myself. It doesn't help that I also feel trapped being tied into contracts for housing etc and pretty soon a car (needed for work), money wise there are no problem (thankfully) but even with money to do things it isn't very fun if you have to do it by yourself. Looking for suggestions on where to meet people in the same positions or how I can try and pick myself up a bit. I went to one of the coffee mornings when I first arrived and everyone was lovely but I'm not that outgoing so it can be quite daunting! I also don't want to come across as needy or pathetic as everyone seems to already have friends .. logically I know this probably isn't the case but as I'm not feeling great my mind tends to go into overdrive! Any thoughts on how to overcome this would be really appreciated! Hello Rhea! I feel the exact same as you! I've been here since Feb this year but unfortunately, no new friends yet. I have acquaintances from work, gym, some people I know from home, but no one to hang out with on the weekends or anyone to rant to when I'm stressed about work, boys, etc. I'm an outgoing type of person and I feel like I'm missing out a lot because it's no fun doing things on your own. Hope we can connect somehow. It would amazing to find lasting friendships out here in the desert! :) Abby xx Hi! Definitely, it seems really difficult to meet proper friends out here! I always find it a bit hard to communicate via these threads so feel free to whatsapp me 0 5 0 9 8 8 3 4 6 7 or add me on Facebook (rhea destains)! xx

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Latest post on 19 June 2017 - 21:56

Hi, looking for some advice on homesickness! I moved to Dubai in February and I'm really struggling. My partner is also out here but other than that I am finding it hard to meet people that are a similar age and have similar interests. (I'm 23 and from Scotland) I thought it would be easier when I found work however the job I am in it is mainly males that work here. They are all nice and I get on with them but it isn't the same as building proper friendships. The few women that do work here are from very different backgrounds and despite my attempts to build relationships with them it isn't going anywhere. I was very close to my family back home and this is the first time I have ever been away (I was living with my parents and twin sister before the move out here), so it's hard being by myself. It doesn't help that I also feel trapped being tied into contracts for housing etc and pretty soon a car (needed for work), money wise there are no problem (thankfully) but even with money to do things it isn't very fun if you have to do it by yourself. Looking for suggestions on where to meet people in the same positions or how I can try and pick myself up a bit. I went to one of the coffee mornings when I first arrived and everyone was lovely but I'm not that outgoing so it can be quite daunting! I also don't want to come across as needy or pathetic as everyone seems to already have friends .. logically I know this probably isn't the case but as I'm not feeling great my mind tends to go into overdrive! Any thoughts on how to overcome this would be really appreciated! Hi, I completely understand how you feel. I moved out to Dubai at the beginning of May, I'm 26 and from the UK and I am really missing home at the moment and feel like I'm struggling to meet like minded people. I'm not really into sports which is a shame as I've heard it's a great way to meet people! If you'd ever like to meet up just let me know, always willing to meet a friend - and remember that everyone person who has moved out here will have been in the same position as you when they first came out, so I'm sure most people will be willing to reach out to you, as I'm sure you will do the same to newbies when you've overcome your homesickness. Take care and I wish you the best. J Hi Jeni, I hope your settling in a bit more now and sorry for the delayed response I don't seem to get notifications (I'm not sure if that's a thing on here)! I'm the exact same everyone says to join the gym etc but sadly that's not really me so it's though to know we're to meet people! If would be great to meet up if you still fancy it! Maby at the mall and can grab a coffee or something? (feel free to whatsapp me on 0 5 0 9 8 8 3 4 6 7 and we can arrange something! :)!

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Latest post on 19 June 2017 - 21:48

Hi, looking for some advice on homesickness! I moved to Dubai in February and I'm really struggling. My partner is also out here but other than that I am finding it hard to meet people that are a similar age and have similar interests. (I'm 23 and from Scotland) I thought it would be easier when I found work however the job I am in it is mainly males that work here. They are all nice and I get on with them but it isn't the same as building proper friendships. The few women that do work here are from very different backgrounds and despite my attempts to build relationships with them it isn't going anywhere. I was very close to my family back home and this is the first time I have ever been away (I was living with my parents and twin sister before the move out here), so it's hard being by myself. It doesn't help that I also feel trapped being tied into contracts for housing etc and pretty soon a car (needed for work), money wise there are no problem (thankfully) but even with money to do things it isn't very fun if you have to do it by yourself. Looking for suggestions on where to meet people in the same positions or how I can try and pick myself up a bit. I went to one of the coffee mornings when I first arrived and everyone was lovely but I'm not that outgoing so it can be quite daunting! I also don't want to come across as needy or pathetic as everyone seems to already have friends .. logically I know this probably isn't the case but as I'm not feeling great my mind tends to go into overdrive! Any thoughts on how to overcome this would be really appreciated! Hey! I moved out here in March and struggling too! I'm from Scotland, moved out due to partners work and cant find myself a job so I think that's making it a lot worse for me! I know when I do go out and socialise it does make me feel better. Try do fun things with your boyfriend on days off and make the most of it. Did you have a job lined up before you came out? Definitely up for meeting up if you fancy it? even for a coffee or something! (inside somewhere with good AC) ha.xx Hi Rebekah! It would be great to meet up! Sorry for the delay in getting back to you's I've only just seen your comments! Let me know when your available! (feel free to whatsapp me 0 5 0 9 8 8 3 4 6 7) and we can meet up at one of the malls and grab a coffee? I didn't have anything before I came out work wise but luckily my partner managed to get me a few interviews so it didn't take too long to find something! Hope your settling in well and have managed to find work if your looking! :)

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Latest post on 08 May 2017 - 14:20

Thanks for all the great advise, I really do appreciate it :) I will definitely find more time to get out there and attend some different groups! I hadn't heard of meetup before now but I have signed up!

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