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Latest post on 21 April 2013 - 10:49
Was the CEO still getting paid while you were waiting for your salary to come in all these months? I thought the same :-)
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Latest post on 21 April 2013 - 10:48
Looking at the body for life challenge now. The transformations are amazing. I am a fan of the eat less move more concept. I know I have consumed too much and not worked it off so am left with the results. I am in the obese category now which is shameful, never been this fat in my life! I lose weight easily but lack the motivation to change and follow a healthy lifestyle permanently. I am tall and have long, lean, limbs with tiny ankles and wrists but have developed a big fat belly which can be disguised with the correct clothing. I am a carb fiend which is why I have a round belly now, will put down the brown bread and hit the treadmill. I will channel Gwen Stefani's abs and work it all off so I can work my wardrobe again :) Looked at the transformations too seems this program also gives you a great tan too ;-) Out of bottle haha i suppose it highlights your abs better ;-) My friend did it and i could not believe the difference in her body she has maintained it for years
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Latest post on 21 April 2013 - 10:28
IT's not about being fortunate or not; i am not able to work for free - i need to get paid or i can't pay rent, DEWA or eat. I work for money; the only reason - if an employer can not meet the basic needs of paying me; i am not going to work - and it actually costs you money to go to work; i would be spending that time looking for another job. I am saying how it is in the wonderful world of non payment of salaries :-)
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Latest post on 21 April 2013 - 10:22
I need to get with the program and lose 30 kilos - caught my reflection in a window the other day and thought who is that chubby person? Yikes. Need to acknowledge that I can no longer stuff my face like I did in my 20s and start looking after myself more. Oh and step away from the cheese (and the grape ;) Look at the Body for life my friend was very overweight ( obese) and looks amazing now All food in moderation which is good
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Latest post on 21 April 2013 - 10:21
Perhaps it's me but the only reason i work is for my salary; if i wasn't getting that, i wouldn't be working - no ifs no buts. Not everyone is that fortune to be able to leave straight away Non payment and late salaries are common here and when you are working and employers make promises people hang on in the hope they will get paid ( Some do)
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Latest post on 21 April 2013 - 10:17
I'm curious, why did you carry on working for your employer after they had missed the second salary? Because unfortunatly I'm too gullible, too many promises made by the CEO, and it was more like 3 months no pay, then get a little, 2 months no pay then get a little more. And because its a job that is very close to my heart, I worked for a wildlife conservation program and I loved my job and stayed with it because I cared about the animals I worked with and always was hopeful of it turning around, but just turned out to be a big lie :( I also imagine they promised they would pay your salary and if you left it would be harder to try and get it. I hear of this alot now. More like threats of I wouldn't get anything if I left :( Shocking! How do they expect people to work for free when they have families to feed!
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Latest post on 21 April 2013 - 10:14
Need to get some advice on diet and exercise regime.any suggestions please? Thanks. Body for life 12 week program and only 30 minutes of exercise a day with one day off My friend has just done it and completely transformed her body! She looks amazing! You can get the plan on line and look at the before and after shots of all age groups
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Latest post on 21 April 2013 - 10:12
I'm curious, why did you carry on working for your employer after they had missed the second salary? Because unfortunatly I'm too gullible, too many promises made by the CEO, and it was more like 3 months no pay, then get a little, 2 months no pay then get a little more. And because its a job that is very close to my heart, I worked for a wildlife conservation program and I loved my job and stayed with it because I cared about the animals I worked with and always was hopeful of it turning around, but just turned out to be a big lie :( I also imagine they promised they would pay your salary and if you left it would be harder to try and get it. I hear of this alot now.
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Latest post on 21 April 2013 - 09:28
Hey all, Is anyone following this app? I have lost 1 kg within a week after using and following the coach. Its really amazing. Is anyone of you following this? I do Slimming World and lost 2kg in a week then 1kg each week thereafter
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Latest post on 21 April 2013 - 09:27
Thanks TDB :) been checking since January and they dont seem to have changed much (this is for my summer flights) I guess they know a lot of people want to travel then but last year I did get it for a reasonable price via a sale I think but unless I've missed it (hope not As I have been checking obsessively) they don't seem to have had one this year....this would be to Manchester UK I ask about the last minute flights just curious if you can say book same day to fly that night if they'd sell them cheap just to fill seats...but then I guess they'd worry that everyone would just wait then ;-) I am in the same boat AED5000 return to MAN in August!! I only paid AED3500 last year You find as the plane fills up the prices go up not down Certain airlines will start to have the monopoly in this part of the world therefore the choice will decline. Certain airlines brag about their costs!
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Latest post on 20 April 2013 - 11:45
Thailand every time
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Latest post on 19 April 2013 - 11:32
about 4/4.30. you might get the odd one opening earlier but better to leave it til about 4.30. I was going to say the same. I usually go around 5pm
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Latest post on 18 April 2013 - 17:01
I am brand new in Dubai and have no idea what "normal" is.... But I certainly do not need to go to a "top" salon for just a trim :-) There is one in the Marina next to Bobs fish and chips ( Opp Byblos and Marina Sail) I would not trust them to colour my hair but they have trimmed and blow dried it I cannot remember the cost but they were not "top salon prices" I pay 100 for a decent trim but she comes to my house
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Latest post on 18 April 2013 - 16:59
Hi ladies, Could you please help me to choose between those 3 places, knowing that my husband and I don't drive (he can't, I can but I hate it...). According to you, which place between shoreline in PJ, marina or JLT would be the best for us given that we have à teenage boy very fond of sports, a 1 y.o. baby ,the school of son is in oud metha, and I will be working in the marina. Any piece of advice will be much appreciated, TIA Marina and JLT for ease of metro
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Latest post on 18 April 2013 - 16:44
Hi, I just need a trim and don't want to spend a fortune for it... any suggestions on where to go? Prefer Marina area if possible :-) Thanks!!! How much do you want to pay?
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Latest post on 18 April 2013 - 16:35
Thanks for the replies - does seem like a conundrum. I am asking on behalf of a friend, who has a UK licence AND a current UAE licence, but is no longer a resident - so I assumed a UAE licence is only valid with a UAE residency. Will run it by RTA and insurance company and see what multiple choice answers I get :)) It is and i would be very careful as she could be involved in a prang and then it could all go pear shaped. Very grey area. Why does she not hire on her UK licence then she will be okay
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Latest post on 18 April 2013 - 16:25
I'm so glad to read this thread because I don't tip the hairdresser. In London my hairdresser owned the salon and so to tip her felt really odd and here, my hairdresser is the same age and nationality as me and so after 2 hours of discussing our very similiar lives, it feels really odd to say 'oh here is some money'. I think I'm a loyal customer and that's 'tip' enough. FFx Agree, i know my hairdresser earns a fortune ;-)
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Latest post on 18 April 2013 - 12:33
I have managed putting of Dubai hairdressers until now. Had my first experience and felt awkward at the cashier. There's the girl hovering over you while washing your hair and taking you to the chair. Then there's the hairdresser. Both looking at you expectingly during the payment process. And all I had was a blow dry!! Would love to hear how you hande this. Who to tip and how much? PS In my home country I never tip my hairdresser, but I buy her a nice gift for Christmas. I don't but take cakes in every now and then If i tipped i would have to tip the hairdresser, the girl who washes my hair I only tip in exceptional circumstances otherwise with all my monthly treatments i would be broke
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Latest post on 18 April 2013 - 12:33
I cannot believe someone posted this!
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Latest post on 18 April 2013 - 12:31
I've heard if a taxi driver gets three complaints then they are sent packing....not sure how true it is though I find the older the cab the worse the smell is. I hate sitting in the back of a car at the best of times however with some of the stenches it is awful!
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Latest post on 18 April 2013 - 12:30
- if we get in the car on Friday and i ask him where we are going, the answer is why do i always nag, why cant i just go with the flow and enjoy. this usually translates into going somewhere I'm likely to not like or been there way to often and eating food i don't feel like eating wants it, when he wants it w/o asking questions or complaining. How is this nagging? Nagging is asking a BF or DH over and over again to do tasks (like picking up their socks). This isn't nagging. Why should you not get a say on where to go out? what/if anything can be done to stop a man from being such an egocentric bully No, but you can stop it affecting you very easily - by leaving him. I guarantee that after few weeks you will wonder what took you so long. There are loads of single men in Dubai, and I'm sure you can do far far better than this Lots of single men yes, decent ones NO!
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Latest post on 18 April 2013 - 12:17
Where is Al Thanya Rd? Not near me.... Just before MoE, cuts from Beach road to SZR. Exit 41 i think on SZR
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Latest post on 18 April 2013 - 12:07
Bully= Dumped BF not Husband
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Latest post on 18 April 2013 - 11:28
I stopped a taxi last evening and the driver rudely asked me where i wanted to go.Knowing very well that he will refuse to take me if i had told him the location as it was less than a AED 20 trip-i tried to open the door and found it was locked.I said 'can you open the door pls'-again in a rude manner he asked me where i wanted to go and then i asked him whether it was a new rule that we have to tell them where before we get into the taxi and then he just took off( did something with his hand as if to say 'get lost') Furious i was after standing outside for 30min but managed to take a note of the taxi number.Called and complained awhile ago but not sure whether they would take any action and what it would be.. still very furious Just curious, why didn't you give the driver a chance and tell him where you wanted to go? Not all taxi drivers will refuse, but you automatically presumed he would... I have always told the taxi driver where I wanted to go as soon as I got in or they have asked if I haven't. I'm not really surprised he was a bit rude - I would be if I were a taxi driver and someone stopped me, got in, refused to say where they wanted to go when I asked them (irrespective of tone, hard to tell from "Where do you want to go?)and then got out again... what a waste of my time! Maybe give them a chance next time, there are lots and lots of lovely drivers out there who know it is there job to do whatever journey they are asked to do and are happy to do them, you never know, your taxi driver may have been one of them if given the chance. If he had refused then you would of course have had a right to complain... Just my humble thoughts on the other side of the coin... er; he refused to let them in without knowing where they wanted to go..... ie, if you're not going where i want to go i am not letting you in attitude. The door was locked and he refused to open it when she said it was a short trip Some taxi drivers have terrible attitudes and i had one who told me to get lost when i asked him to put his mobile phone down whilst talking and driving at 120KPH I feel the driver has the attitude problem and we do see this alot across Dubai
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Latest post on 18 April 2013 - 11:26
Got mine last week at @home in IBN, there is also one on the gound floor in the Marina mall... 180x200 but 35 cms deep, fit perfect with a mattress protector, but the cotton/poly mix was still 189 aed which I think is alot for a sheet ! and the pure cotton more expensive. White company in UK are 32 pounds a sheet! Thankyou for your post i shall pop there over the weekend
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Latest post on 18 April 2013 - 11:01
can anyone recommend a decent cleaning company for weekly cleaning of our house please? just had a rip off quote of 1000 aed for 2 hours a week!!!!! this is over twice as much as what we used to pay in the UK massive joke!!! Thanks in advance Sonia If you use the search post bar above and put in deep cleaning i bet you will find lots of posts on this subject. I have seen many posts in the past
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Latest post on 18 April 2013 - 11:00
But they are so lovely to sleep on; and they're not too bad if you get them when there's a sale on; of all my sheets, i would rather sleep on the white company ones than any other :) I have looked online and will get them when i go home in 2 weeks :-) Dubai is a retail rip off so i refuse to pay over the odds here
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Latest post on 18 April 2013 - 10:50
I was going to say the White company; failing that Debenhams. Tried Debenhams, i know the White company do them but they are quite expensive Thank you for your post though :-)
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Latest post on 18 April 2013 - 10:45
we've never had to say where we're going - we just get in the car... I guess we've been lucky - in over 2 years here we've never had any rude or very smelly drivers (a couple have whiffed slightly but given their domestic arrangements it's hardly their fault..)...we did have one hilarious one driving through Deira once who fell asleep every time we stopped at lights - I only noticed cos he was snoring so loud LOL !! Well you have been lucky, lucky you got home in one piece! lol - we thought it was amusing.... Although i've heard the horrid/rude taxi incidents this is the first time in five years that i came across a rude driver who refused to take me in! I have had 2 in 7 years. I tell them fibs now and say i am going further than i am so they let me in! I bet they love that !! Tough! it is their job to take me
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Latest post on 18 April 2013 - 10:44
Hi ladies hope you guys are doing well ....I have this issue with my skin that every 15 days my skin becomes sooo tight,patchy,dry. my skin is usually combination /oily and slightly dehydrated at times ...I dont know should I visit a doctor as it can do anything to do with my monthy period and hormonal levels ..I am close to 35 now and never been to doctor to check on this ..wht should I do?? Mine gets like that every now and then I use the age smart Dermalogica range and find it is the only product that combats this I am prone to red skin, had it all my life and it isnt excema
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Latest post on 18 April 2013 - 10:42
we've never had to say where we're going - we just get in the car... I guess we've been lucky - in over 2 years here we've never had any rude or very smelly drivers (a couple have whiffed slightly but given their domestic arrangements it's hardly their fault..)...we did have one hilarious one driving through Deira once who fell asleep every time we stopped at lights - I only noticed cos he was snoring so loud LOL !! Well you have been lucky, lucky you got home in one piece! lol - we thought it was amusing.... Although i've heard the horrid/rude taxi incidents this is the first time in five years that i came across a rude driver who refused to take me in! I have had 2 in 7 years. I tell them fibs now and say i am going further than i am so they let me in!
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Latest post on 18 April 2013 - 10:38
I am 36 and somehow not feeling well how I look like so decided makeover time. I will never be slim but try to keep my weight at 80kg at 180cm which is a struggle due to hormonal issues. Other things needs to be worked on to have it balanced out::) and first thing is my frone line, I have it since ages as I am not good with sunglasses I read even in the sun without glasses but then pinch my eyes. I had this line since ages and I hate it. Otherwise thanks god not too many lines and they do not disturb me. So can you recommend a super experienced reliable Dr. and can you giveme a price idea. Can you even explain a bit the procedure and if I need to do something as aftercare:) DR Jaffar Khan I pay around AED1800 and have my crows feet and forehead done every 9 months They inject into these areas, it does not hurt and there is not much aftercare apart from 7 days later when my lines and wrinkles disappear You can do so much research online regarding Botox however finding a good surgeon is the most important thing to me
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Latest post on 17 April 2013 - 17:11
yes, but to know average salaries is always good for negotiation :-) I work with lots of companies including these guys but would be in serious trouble if i gave this info out on a forum sorry
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Latest post on 17 April 2013 - 17:10
I had £30 to change into dirhams. £20 was UK Pounds and £10 was Scottish pounds. Well can you believe that the exchange rate is different.... Less dirhams for the Scottish note ...... I know i had the same problem after i had been to Northern Ireland Western Union would not believe it was sterling!!!
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Latest post on 17 April 2013 - 16:57
Dont have a maid or know any maids. I know,Im probably the only maidless person in Dubai. Lol! edited by Asti on 17/04/2013 You aren't lol
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Latest post on 17 April 2013 - 16:51
Unfortunately we don't get Etisalat in our area and Du are having all sorts of issues connecting us. Does satellite tv have to go through one of these or is it separate? Sorry, I have no idea on things like this :) I would check if it is legal to have one as some places do not allow them Mine was through OSN so i cannot help sorry
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Latest post on 17 April 2013 - 16:49
Done. Now follow up question - now that I have "made my counter offer" I was told they would see what else they could do and they would get back with me...so how long should I realistically expect to wait to hear back? keep in mind the convo was with pretty much the decision maker.. so ?? I would give them till Sunday at the latest. Any longer and something is not right
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Latest post on 17 April 2013 - 16:43
We live in a compound of six villas, our tenancy contract is expiring on the 24th of April. Our landlord called us in March to tell us that he is increasing the rent. - We told him that the rera calculator said that he couldn't and even if he could he was suppose to let us know 90 days before the contract ended. He insisted on the increase, but refused to give us a letter regarding the increase - Early April we sent him a letter through courier regarding our intention to renew, but with the same terms and conditions according to the law. - He asked us to pick up a letter last week. DH picked it up yesterday only the letter was an eviction notice, saying his son wants to move in now. I'm panicking because I basically have only 7 days to find a place and move out. DH will be going to rera tomorrow, any advise on how to approach this matter with them? You are also supposed to liaise with him 90 days before it isnt just the LL that does this Not correct Sarah Lou. In Dubai the contract automatically renews, unless the tenant gives 90 days notice to quit. You do not have to notify the landlord or give any notice if you intend to stay Mine says i have to give 90 days to renew or to cancel and when i had issues with my LL i had to show the communication between myself and the LL to be able to prevent her putting it up
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Latest post on 17 April 2013 - 16:41
why didn't you want to claim? i was given advice to get an accident paper from police as it was the only way to claim insurance i cracked it myself when adjusting the rear-view mirror it fell off and I pushed it back in, it wouldn't stick until i pushed it HARD, and watched as 5 cracks immediately appeared in my windshield lol they are not through the whole glass though and as such ive been procrastinating fixing them Because the pink paper means it is my fault and it affects my no claims so next years insurance goes up! I drove over the bollard and my spoiler got stuck so it was my fault I could not say i found it this way or someone else did it to get the green paper If your insurance says it covers cracked windscreens ( as some do) you can claim without being affected
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Latest post on 17 April 2013 - 16:41
why didn't you want to claim? i was given advice to get an accident paper from police as it was the only way to claim insurance i cracked it myself when adjusting the rear-view mirror it fell off and I pushed it back in, it wouldn't stick until i pushed it HARD, and watched as 5 cracks immediately appeared in my windshield lol they are not through the whole glass though and as such ive been procrastinating fixing them Because the pink paper means it is my fault and it affects my no claims so next years insurance goes up! I drove over the bollard and my spoiler got stuck so it was my fault I could not say i found it this way or someone else did it to get the green paper If your insurance says it covers cracked windscreens ( as some do) you can claim without being affected
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Latest post on 17 April 2013 - 16:40
why didn't you want to claim? i was given advice to get an accident paper from police as it was the only way to claim insurance i cracked it myself when adjusting the rear-view mirror it fell off and I pushed it back in, it wouldn't stick until i pushed it HARD, and watched as 5 cracks immediately appeared in my windshield lol they are not through the whole glass though and as such ive been procrastinating fixing them Because the pink paper means it is my fault and it affects my no claims so next years insurance goes up! I drove over the bollard and my spoiler got stuck so it was my fault I could not say i found it this way or someone else did it to get the green paper If your insurance says it covers cracked windscreens ( as some do) you can claim without being affected
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Latest post on 17 April 2013 - 16:38
thanks everyone. it is fine not knowing exact salaries. however, would be great the get an idea about the range and if they are giving benefits in form of allowances etc.. If someone is applying for a job would they not be given this info by HR or Recruitment
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Latest post on 17 April 2013 - 16:26
Hi Yorky, thank you very much. I appreciate your recommendation! I will try them. I live in the Greens and also use them :-) Does anyone think that T&T has got annoyingly busy of late? THe other night I had a mani pedi and massage and throughout all I could hear were ladies coming in and being annoyed that they were having to wait for their appointment so long, I went to put my top back on after the massage and was a tad embarrassed as felt like I was doing it with an audience of angy ladies waiting to jump in my seat! Not the most relaxing experience... I think they seem to overbook perhaps, or dont give enough time for appointments.. regardless I will keep going back, its so convenient and they do a good job of gellish. Welcome to the Greens FSenergy, I've lived in the marina, the palm and oldtown and really resented having to leave oldtown but have fallen in love with the peace and quiet of the greens - enjoy Never have a problem and been going there for 3 years what annoys me is the way some ladies speak to the staff!!!! plus there are signs to say no mobiles but it doesnt stop peoples phones constantly beeping and people chatting very loudly on them I take my ipod with me :-) I also think people turn up late which has a knock on effect for others or they expect an appointment without booking and the girls are petrified saying no to them <em>edited by sarahlou123 on 17/04/2013</em>
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Latest post on 17 April 2013 - 16:24
what do i say if it's been months? Fib lol I went over one of the concrete bollards at Marina Mall My car is low at the front and i didn't damage the bollard just my car I went to the Police station but they would only give me the pink slip so i just went to the garage and paid for it to be fixed rather than claim and lose my no claims If you drive to Jebel Ali they are very nice there
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Latest post on 17 April 2013 - 16:23
The concept of internships doesn't really exist here in the same way that it does in Europe or USA. Ideally, you would be set up with a company with a proper program in place which will allow you to maximize your experience and exposure. Most places in UAE (not all) who are willing to take on an "intern" are just seeing it as free labor and will not provide you with a lot of relevant work experience. You're better off doing volunteer work where you can actually give back. Or they have a national programme where they recruit Emiratis All of ours have to be Bi-lingual
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Latest post on 17 April 2013 - 16:21
Is anyone working for Unilever or knows someone working for them? I would like to know if employees are happy there and what salary package you can expect in a mid career sales position? thanks! I know someone high up there and yes they are happy I cannot give you the salary info tho sorry as it is confidential
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Latest post on 17 April 2013 - 16:19
We live in a compound of six villas, our tenancy contract is expiring on the 24th of April. Our landlord called us in March to tell us that he is increasing the rent. - We told him that the rera calculator said that he couldn't and even if he could he was suppose to let us know 90 days before the contract ended. He insisted on the increase, but refused to give us a letter regarding the increase - Early April we sent him a letter through courier regarding our intention to renew, but with the same terms and conditions according to the law. - He asked us to pick up a letter last week. DH picked it up yesterday only the letter was an eviction notice, saying his son wants to move in now. I'm panicking because I basically have only 7 days to find a place and move out. DH will be going to rera tomorrow, any advise on how to approach this matter with them? You are also supposed to liaise with him 90 days before it isnt just the LL that does this
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Latest post on 17 April 2013 - 16:18
I need to file accident report for crack in windshield. If theres a police station in al barsha can someone tell me exactly where? googled and getting no locations or numbers. also what is the hours of operation for filing accident reports in the station? I tried calling Jebel ali to ask but was put on hold for 15 minutes TIA! Yep next to where you register your car however do not know the hours sorry If you go say it happened close by as they usually make you go to the PS closest to where it happened
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Latest post on 17 April 2013 - 16:18
If he wants to use the villa for himself or family he must give one year notice. If he wants to increase the rent then 90 days notice. He cant do anything at this moment and you are entitled to stay in your villa. He can only increase rent inline with calculator
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Latest post on 17 April 2013 - 16:16
Hi Ladies, When is the right time to start having botox? Can you be too young, too old? Should you prevent the lines from even being able to form or wait until they are there so you notice a difference after the treatment? So many questions, so any advise or opinions would be great! Thanks :-) I am 41 my friends 29 so horses for causes You cannot prevent lines unfortunately it is part of the ageing process unless you have amazing genetics and yes you do notice a huge difference although i am lucky and do not look like a wax doll after having it done as some of my friends do ( They go too often) If you go to a reputable surgeon he will advise you as mine does. He doesnt inject for the sake of it