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Latest post on 14 May 2011 - 20:23
yes and yes. :) FF try to avoid euthanasia whenever possible. It is the way it will possibly be done if necessary that FF want to avoid by asking for more time.
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Latest post on 14 May 2011 - 20:09
Irooni, you could keep a record of everything you eat for 2 weeks and I mean everything that passes your lips, including gum and drinks. You might just find that there are a few things that have been creeping back into your eating plan. It does happen to all of us and just needs to be tweeked again :)..so, take a look at what you are eating and see if things are creeping :)
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Latest post on 14 May 2011 - 15:16
DARC has 2 lovely ones that must be homed together.
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Latest post on 14 May 2011 - 13:45
good advice. now, your son saying 'why would you hurt your brother' is doing nothing lol...yelling a loud NO! while firmly moving her away might. She might have to also have a time out and be put into a room by herself with food and litter. As snowflake says, watch the signs and never use your hand with her, not even those hand toys with long fingers.....(stupid toys if your cat is a biter lol) She has had a rough start to her life and she is young. Yup, she has and is but...make sure you do not overcompensate for her with bad behaviour. Just like a child who has been born with a disadvantage. It does them no good to be coddled and spoiled so let the kitten know who is boss and she will know who the dominant person is, and it aint her lol
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Latest post on 14 May 2011 - 13:39
Irooni, 60-90 of ridgid cardio a day is not necessary. Maybe the problem is that you are looking at a huge chunk of exercise a day and just cannot fit that in. You have to change your idea of working out. Make a schedule and timeline of everything you need to do each day. The maid can get alot of the chopping, marinating table setting and other grunt work done so when you get home, you have very little to do for dinner. Dinner should not take more than 15 min to prepare. For breakfast do muesli the night before. Pour the dried muesli into milk and let it sit overnight, dish it out either nuked or cold in the am, with yogurt and fruit...5 min to get together. Lay out the clothes for the children the night before. If they are picky, lay out 2 sets and let them pick but no arguing in the morning. Take advantage of the classes at work. Do 1/2 hr, then quick shower and you are good to go. After the kids are in bed, you and your husband go to the gym or go for a brisk walk. Take the stairs wherever you go. You will be surprised at the end of the month that you have gotten out of the plateau by just doing little changes. Just do it! that 1st step is the hardest.
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Latest post on 14 May 2011 - 12:53
good for you sydneygal for being forward thinking and getting your pets organized so you can all leave quickly if necessary :)...much less stress in the end :)
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Latest post on 14 May 2011 - 11:47
I was remembering poor Scottie's face when he was announced lol...even he was stunned, shocked and amazed that he was not cut but James was! it will now be gripping to see who wins! I think Haley has ticked off the voters because of her attitude of "I am great" and her interuptions when the judges are givng her feedback..but, so far she is still in there.
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Latest post on 14 May 2011 - 11:38
nope, nada :)
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Latest post on 14 May 2011 - 11:36
we make time to exercise. Break it up into 10 min segments 3 times a day. Brisk walk out the door for 5 then back for 5. take the stairs and forget elevators. walk over to your gym and back..if you cant do 30 min a day then break it up. Chances are you will find yourself doing more once you start, honestly :)...put on some good music and dance with your kids, or yourself...see, there is lots of minutes in your day you can slot in exercise. The whole idea is to be active.
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Latest post on 14 May 2011 - 08:04
call the municipality with the tag #..they might give you more information. Also take him for a chip check, the vets might know his owners. Look on FF to see if anyone listed him missing www.felinefriendsdubai.com under Lost and found... his name sounds familiar for some reason. If you had a street address you could then knock on doors :) <em>edited by SueB on 14/05/2011</em>
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Latest post on 13 May 2011 - 22:36
which could be unfortunate :(....unless, there is a major recording studio waiting in the wings for Scottie, he could be back being a cashier :)..fingers crossed that they liked his voice enough.....I sure did and I am not C&W and also not a young girl who the growl of his went to the toes, not mine'course, I am much too old lol
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Latest post on 13 May 2011 - 22:25
there, see....not so bad, in the time it took to pick up the toys you calmed down and had a much better outlook lol
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Latest post on 13 May 2011 - 22:16
noddy, pick those toys off the ground and toss ém back in the pram before you go lol
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Latest post on 13 May 2011 - 21:52
shocked, stunned amazed. I would bet he has a recording contract already so dont be too sad :)..they will not let that boy go :). Now, who is the bet to win lol!!!! I am picking Scotty......wonder who it willbe lol <em>edited by SueB on 13/05/2011</em>
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Latest post on 13 May 2011 - 21:20
I did the timeless Lemon and salt. It works, to a point but I also need professional cleaning done on a brass tray to bring it back to new :)..needs a professional buffer/cleaner :)
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Latest post on 13 May 2011 - 20:03
another good reason to make the acquaintances of your neighbours :).....emergencies when the husband is away :)..it works both ways :)
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Latest post on 13 May 2011 - 18:59
popsicle, my husband has travelled for as long as we have been together (34 years) and I have never had a problem pouring myself a drink even when there were children. I sure dont think you are being irresponsible unless of course, you drink yourself stupid, then you would be :0. Put your feet up, lock all the doors, turn on the T.V. or whatever and enjoy it :)
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Latest post on 13 May 2011 - 15:32
Miss Penelope has been joined by SweetPea. Sweetpea is a tiny girl of about 6 weeks. All white, cute as a button. Now how wonderful if they went together :). Sweetpea is an FF kitten whom I am babysitting for Assisi for a week. there is a 'stand off'at the OK Corral at the moment but I bet, by tomorrow night, they will be sleeping together :) <em>edited by SueB on 13/05/2011</em>
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Latest post on 13 May 2011 - 15:29
got off my duff and got it out of my deleted files. It is the one in Al Barsha :), so, presam 12 paid attention and is the winner for getting it right the 1st time lol
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Latest post on 13 May 2011 - 14:23
well, how the heck do you 'fall ill'lol...anyway, I look it up and found this lovely bouquet of thoughts lol http://www.telegraph.co.uk/comment/personal-view/3626615/How-words-fall-pregnant-with-the-possibility-of-being-twisted.html
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Latest post on 13 May 2011 - 14:16
Would someone please tell me how someone can 'fall preggers'? do they fall in a vat of s p erm? do they accidently fall on a turkey baster? what???
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Latest post on 13 May 2011 - 14:11
best to be upfront about your pregnancy, especially as you are 24 weeks!! if they ask to meet you, they will see you are pregnant unless you can do a darn good job of hiding it. They might be pretty ticked off when they find out you will only be on the job 3 months before delivery. Honestly, there are probably people out there that also need the job and can give it 100% and not pregnant. Why not wait until your child is born, get daycare lined up and proceed from there?
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Latest post on 13 May 2011 - 12:44
what kind of business are these people in? I think that those who are impinging on others livelihood will obviously do so, with or without a license. The only difference is they will have paid the business license but will always still be competition, that is business.
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Latest post on 13 May 2011 - 12:33
you had better find out which Cleopatras it is then :) I dont think they are the same salons.
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Latest post on 13 May 2011 - 10:05
thanks snowflake, what a very nice thing to say :)
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Latest post on 13 May 2011 - 09:49
It is a Wafi, in the Pharohs club :)
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Latest post on 13 May 2011 - 00:18
what would you like to have happen? I doubt they would just get a teeny wee fine then made to pay up. Are you 100% sure they do not have a license.
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Latest post on 12 May 2011 - 15:48
great!!! fingers crossed :)
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Latest post on 12 May 2011 - 15:47
what Laura says lol....and if they are eating pretty good and milking sometimes (stress, tired) then you can spay the mom (side spay though) she will be gone a day and kept away from her babies overnight for her recovery then back with babies. At this time the milking will quckly get less and less. Start looking for homes now but dont let them leave until at least 8 week, 12 is the best. If you have people who want one they have to be willing to wait but can visit lol..... litter boxes as Laura said is good. Get 2 or even 3 small ones as mom might decide to use one as well. Put newspaper under, especially for the first week as they will walk in it lol. you will have to possibly put them in the box and as soon as one goes, the rest will follow, so mum might pee first lol...anyway
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Latest post on 12 May 2011 - 10:44
did these cats find a temp home?
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Latest post on 12 May 2011 - 10:42
the first thing, if the kittens are weaning, is to get the mother spayed in about 2 weeks. Feline Friends can help with that, please call them, explain and leave your phone #. Are you handling the kittens? will they let you pick them up? are they sociable? please handle as much as you can so they will be homeable. As Laura says, take pictures and put up a link here but they have to stay with their mother for another month. Do they have shelter of the storeroom? If you can, to help the kittens wean pick up some Baby Mousse from a vet, mix 1/2 the can with warm water so it is watery, put in a plastic plate and help the kittens to it by putting some on your finger while gently holding it over the food so they get the idea of the smell :)...within a week they should be eating along with feeding off mom. Reduce the amount of water and mix in some crushed baby dry food so it gets soggy .....by 2 weeks they should be able to eat soggy dry food (you have to fluff it up lol) until they are only having some wet but mostly dry by the end of the month. I tend not to give kittens whiskers as it seems to give them loose poop. The better the food, the healthier the kittens, and mom will be eating it as well but feed her separately or kittens wont get their wet. So, you are now preparing for their departure in a month. <em>edited by SueB on 12/05/2011</em>
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Latest post on 12 May 2011 - 10:29
That is good to know because if no home is found for Jessie then, you will take him with you?
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Latest post on 11 May 2011 - 16:56
now don't leave us all hanging tomorrow. We all want to know if it turned out well and he graciously accepted your appology and bouquet of flowers lol
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Latest post on 11 May 2011 - 13:21
Well, no one has come to see Miss Penelope :(...She has quieted down 90%, now just chats now and then, loves to play with all the toys, gave the dog a kiss on the nose, loves to sit on your shoulder and be cuddled. Now, no stuffed animal can do all those things plus keep your feet warm at night if necessary, or be a neck warmer if chilly. So there you have it, the purrrrfect kitten for your home :)
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Latest post on 11 May 2011 - 13:01
If you phoned your husband and started yelling at him about what happened he will be defensive and angry. I would be defensive and angry. If you called and told him a very unfortunate thing happened and it is now all smashed over the floor and you are upset and leave it at that until he gets home, then he might have responded like ""oh s h i t, that was not very smart on my part to do that, I am sorry, I didnt think" then when all is settled work out who pays for what because honestly i agree that you might have put the value of things higher than your husbands feelings. Calm down and rethink....you did ask :)
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Latest post on 11 May 2011 - 08:30
s.miller recommended a silk carpet cleaner. I will check him out as I has sent my carpet to another cleaner and they had no clue. So, on this occassion thanks as I would rather a recommendation than the yellow pages. It is not as if this s.miller is on every thread and the recommendations could turn out to be good one. Just like hair salons, tanning salons and alot of these have been pulled back up by old posters...so a bit of recommendations now and then?
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 22:56
having socialized quite a few feral kittens I know it is a tough job. They tend to bond to the person who feeds them the most. They should and must be exposed to alot of people and noises as quikly as possible. I am sure this stuff is old hat to you now but lots of good reading and possibly a few insites on what to do. http://www.google.com/search?sourceid=ie7&q=training+a+feral+kitten&rls=com.microsoft:en-ca:IE-SearchBox&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&rlz=1I7ACAW_enAU337#sclient=psy&hl=en&rls=com.microsoft:en-ca%3AIE-SearchBox&rlz=1I7ACAW_enAU337&biw=1003&bih=541&source=hp&q=socialized%20feral%20kitten%20that&aq=f&aqi=&aql=&oq=&pbx=1&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.&fp=287082971ef63bce&pf=p&pdl=3000 It can be overcome and it takes work but you will most likely end up with a lovely cat in the end...the idea is exposure exposure, to all and everything. I am sure your kitten is past this but might help in some way or lead you to sites that will :) <em>edited by SueB on 10/05/2011</em>
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 20:32
:)
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 20:25
not sure but...consistancy. When she pounces, make sure you have toys that she can pounce on...clumb. and beat up. Never use your hands unless to stroke her and only for a short time. Sounds as if she is attacking prey and might take a bit of time but have lots of big things she can attack and at hand. You might do a google search to see what else comes up How old is she? <em>edited by SueB on 10/05/2011</em>
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 20:21
glad to hear that Primrose :)..have a great time away and if I see your girl, I will make sure she eats in peace :)
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 20:18
maybe we could all just let this particular subject go as tempers could be starting to flare and that does not do anyone any good at all :).... How about them Bluejays eh??????
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 18:18
lets see, I have flown regularily with a good amount of airlines in my travels and if I am not mistaken, not all sectors are always full, some sectors are habitually 1/2 full, some stuffed to the rafters and others can go either way. It is the same with all airlines, not just Emirates. I think at this point I would take my chances with Emirates over the óther'airline that is continually going on strike, threatening to go on strick, rumbling about going on strike and complaining about their airline and how it treats their staff like cr ap.......so..go ahead, keep Emirates front and center if you like :)
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 15:00
we gets hang ups from Turkey, same number. Because yours are so frequent it could be automatic dialing. I would give Etisilate a ring and have them block that #.
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 11:29
The same reason EK pilots work longer flight hours than most other countries, MONEY. My DH (EK pilot) definitely works less hours than he did in our home country. And for less money. But quality of life makes it very worthwhile for us. Wonderful, hope you enjoy it. However the motivating factor is for the majority MONEY. but from I am hearing on here, the hours are pretty cra p and the money is not much better. My husband is actually home alot more here than in Canada so it is win win here, for us. (oh right, and the money is pretty good comparitively and no taxes..) <em>edited by SueB on 10/05/2011</em>
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 11:23
Bayti is also at The Town Center on JB road. Unless they moved :)
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Latest post on 09 May 2011 - 23:44
Please head over to the Pet Forum. There is a dog Jessie who is getting pretty desperate. 2 persians who need a 6 month temporary home until they can be shipped to the U.K. Those are the pretty desperate ones at the moment, if you can help out please contact. I am sure Jessie the dog can be fostered for now, people leaving mid june, trying for over 6 months to find a home. Quite a few other animals, turtles etc :)....
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Latest post on 09 May 2011 - 20:55
bump up for all the animals that are not getting looked at over in the PET FORUM..... so if you are looking for a furry companion or can offer a temp home, please head over there and have a look.
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Latest post on 09 May 2011 - 16:48
so my question would be....why would anyone come to Dubai, to work over 8-12 hours a day, without breaks and be treated as if you lived in Dickens time , ie Scrooge. Just does not make sense. <em>edited by SueB on 09/05/2011</em>
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Latest post on 09 May 2011 - 15:47
why not go to the dept of labour?
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Latest post on 09 May 2011 - 14:35
why not book 5 maids at the same time. 4 sit in the kitchen waiting as you interview...if only 1 of the 5 shows up at least you have not wasted your time lol