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Latest post on 25 July 2014 - 21:02
Have you looked at Riva on The Palm. Its lovely.... and very reasonable too. Only DHS100 a day.
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Latest post on 22 January 2014 - 09:05
The Peacock restaurant at The Sheraton JBR is great. Their duck pancakes are yummy! It was in The Entertainer last year.... Not sure if it is this year.
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Latest post on 12 January 2014 - 13:20
Morning Eleanor I believe Qatar Airlines require a residency permit or letter from employer. A lot will depend on where you are travelling from. Have just done this process so message on here if you need to and will try and help. Regards
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Latest post on 11 December 2013 - 10:49
4. TattieBoggle - for bringing poetry to the board. . haha, thank you. Work has begun on the annual Christmas ode. ;) It will be dedicated to those who fell during the 2009 Christmas Eve Culling. *hangs head in shame*! Lol
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Latest post on 11 September 2013 - 13:22
Carrefour sell frozen individual chicken pies they used to be 8.00dhs they shot up to 13.75!!!!! A friend wanted to buy some frozen prawns the small 250gm bag was 26.00 yet the same brand but 500gm were over 80!!!!!!!! hows that then..... Coz if you want gringo fodder you pay gringo prices! You want Gregg's pies live in Gregg's pie vicinity, why ***** and moan about 'western' food prices in a non western country - make your own?? I am entitled to moan!!! like the everyone else yes it does burn a hole in my pocket, I have plenty of Gregg's products when Im home, and actually I do make my own steak pie on occassions, just for you info..... As I said the sell them, didnt say I bought them....... edited by salsB on 11/09/2013 Crikey hiccup.... Who upset you?! Lol. Is it a craving for "gringo fodder"(whatever that is?) that's making you ever so slightly touchy??
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Latest post on 07 July 2013 - 11:07
BuildMart may have them. They are at the Geant end near HSBC.
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Latest post on 07 July 2013 - 10:38
Morning Yes there is a smoking room now in T2. HTH
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Latest post on 07 July 2013 - 10:26
There is a repair place in JLT, will ask my friend tomoz and get back to you. Will see if i can dig out the number SalsB....
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Latest post on 07 July 2013 - 10:25
Morning I have racked my brains and can't think of the name of the laundry..... So I will attempt at giving you directions (Most definately not my forte!!). Its Cluster E, where Park and Shop, Sucre Sale and Saba 1 Tower is. Basically if you come down the steps from Park and Shop, past the playground and up the steps again, its on the plaza level there... next to a computer supplies shop. I have used them a few times and they are good...And VERY cheap! Oh, and if i remember rightly, Its closed between 1pm and 4pm. HTH.
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Latest post on 17 June 2013 - 18:05
Many congratulations SalsB.... Think a little drinky may be on the cards for later in the week?! x
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Latest post on 11 June 2013 - 22:26
Niggly, try and pop on here tomorrow, say 12 midday, and hopefully I can give you my email. ok, will try to get on then, thanks! Hi Niggly.... If it will be tricky for you to get on tomorrow you can leave it now then delete, and I can pass it on to SalsB... She is my bessie!lol
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Latest post on 10 June 2013 - 10:32
I wish to add some practical advice from my perspective married to a Pakistani but preface what I will say with the comment that my advise is from the NWF cultural perspective where divorce is not an option and there are several different cultural groups in Pakistan but sincerely hope that in general it may help you: As a Pakistani, you are well aware that when marrying in Pakistani culture in general, you marry not only your husband but his entire family and you are expected to be part of the greater whole and take your place in the family according to the birth order of your husband. From your posts, I gather your husband is not the first born son and therefore has no power/voice in the family. Your MiL, no matter what she is like, is the head of the household under her husband. You are required to obey her and all those above you - SiLs, BiLs etc. You have Internet access, use it constructively! Contact your brother or other family members in the UK and advise them of your intolerable situation. Perhaps he can talk to your husband and ask him to help you a little more. The discussion must be between the men, as you know, and preferably between the eldest sons of each family or between the fathers for each family. The fact that you have Internet access, a mobile phone etc is, in itself, a great step forward for you as so many women in Pakistan are not permitted any contact outside their new family including watching television, which is usually kept just for the men in their majlis. I know of many Pakistani woman who rarely have contact with their own families since their marriage. They live and work in the family compound rarely if ever, venturing outside the walls other than for a marriage party or to a hospital if a birth is proving very difficult. Of course, as you are well aware, your DD does not belong to you, not to your husband, but to the family and you would never be permitted to take her away should you decide to go back to your family. This fact you cannot change, ever ..... As several of the posters here have suggested, you need to consider your situation carefully, look deeply into your husband and learn to manipulate him. Find his "buttons" and push them, regularly so he feels you are worth standing up to his family over. If he is not the eldest son, it will be difficult for him to stand up to his family for his wife. I know I do not offer the advice for happiness and freedom that you desire, but I am presenting the truth, from the perspective that I know, as a Pakistani woman, you understand. Good Luck! Have I just read this right? Is it really 2013? Stop the world, I'm getting off.
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Latest post on 10 June 2013 - 10:31
I wish to add some practical advice from my perspective married to a Pakistani but preface what I will say with the comment that my advise is from the NWF cultural perspective where divorce is not an option and there are several different cultural groups in Pakistan but sincerely hope that in general it may help you: As a Pakistani, you are well aware that when marrying in Pakistani culture in general, you marry not only your husband but his entire family and you are expected to be part of the greater whole and take your place in the family according to the birth order of your husband. From your posts, I gather your husband is not the first born son and therefore has no power/voice in the family. Your MiL, no matter what she is like, is the head of the household under her husband. You are required to obey her and all those above you - SiLs, BiLs etc. You have Internet access, use it constructively! Contact your brother or other family members in the UK and advise them of your intolerable situation. Perhaps he can talk to your husband and ask him to help you a little more. The discussion must be between the men, as you know, and preferably between the eldest sons of each family or between the fathers for each family. The fact that you have Internet access, a mobile phone etc is, in itself, a great step forward for you as so many women in Pakistan are not permitted any contact outside their new family including watching television, which is usually kept just for the men in their majlis. I know of many Pakistani woman who rarely have contact with their own families since their marriage. They live and work in the family compound rarely if ever, venturing outside the walls other than for a marriage party or to a hospital if a birth is proving very difficult. Of course, as you are well aware, your DD does not belong to you, not to your husband, but to the family and you would never be permitted to take her away should you decide to go back to your family. This fact you cannot change, ever ..... As several of the posters here have suggested, you need to consider your situation carefully, look deeply into your husband and learn to manipulate him. Find his "buttons" and push them, regularly so he feels you are worth standing up to his family over. If he is not the eldest son, it will be difficult for him to stand up to his family for his wife. I know I do not offer the advice for happiness and freedom that you desire, but I am presenting the truth, from the perspective that I know, as a Pakistani woman, you understand. Good Luck!
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Latest post on 08 June 2013 - 09:42
Saw them a few weeks ago in the "Gadget" section of Virgin MOE
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Latest post on 08 June 2013 - 09:02
Firstly, I agree with everything Alaingirl says.... Secondly, cats can live very happily in an apartment, so long as you take all the relevant precautions regarding balcony doors etc. But taking on a pet here is a long time commitment. Please ensure that you have thought about the long term implications, including the transportation of the cat when or if you have to leave, the vets fees and what you will do when you go on your vacations. I'm not trying to put you off..... I wouldn't be without my boy..... But you do have to think carefully about these things.... Far too many animals are left abandoned when owners leave...Or when children tire of them.... If you still feel a pet would fit into your family, then please contact Feline Friends.... DO NOT buy from a pet shop. HTH
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Latest post on 05 June 2013 - 09:45
Wow. That was a good deal. I'm at the Park Inn Radisson , next to the Blu at the minute. AED700 for two nights includes beach passes and breakfast. Allowed to use facilitiesvatbthe Radisson Blu - girls were in pool till gone 9 pm last while I chilled on the sofas. Good value. And its Happy Hour at the pool bar (Shams) from 6-8pm.... ;-)
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Latest post on 05 June 2013 - 09:38
Not sure if the offer is still on but worth checking. Went to Radisson Blu Yas Island AD last weekend on a cobone deal. It was AED1400 in total for 3 nights. Included passes to both Water World and Ferrari World. Also got a free room upgrade, late checkout and breakfast. Lovely pool area and nice kids facilites.
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Latest post on 12 May 2013 - 12:15
Another newspaper I have read always has errors, I have no room to talk, too happy with my fingers. A friend has an OCD on spelling mistakes, it really effects her, think she needs help!!!! lol I think you'll find it *affects* her...lol *Wink* and isn't it OCD? Lol, see what I mean, OCD!!!! lol edited by salsB on 12/05/2013 Could that mean Over Sensitive Digit?! lol *Stamps foot*.... You've gone and corrected it!lol <em>edited by captainjacky on 12/05/2013</em>
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Latest post on 12 May 2013 - 11:59
Another newspaper I have read always has errors, I have no room to talk, to happy with my fingers. A friend has an OSD on spelling mistakes, it really effects her, think she needs help!!!! lol I think you'll find it *affects* her...lol *Wink*
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Latest post on 18 April 2013 - 17:23
I am brand new in Dubai and have no idea what "normal" is.... But I certainly do not need to go to a "top" salon for just a trim :-) There is one in the Marina next to Bobs fish and chips ( Opp Byblos and Marina Sail) I would not trust them to colour my hair but they have trimmed and blow dried it I cannot remember the cost but they were not "top salon prices" I pay 100 for a decent trim but she comes to my house Think the one you are thinking of is called Desire. I have used it many times and had a decent trim etc.... Refuse to pay the over inflated prices of the recommended "Western" salons over here. Just, as with everything here, be clear what you want and use hand signals if necessary... They are decent hairdressers, but the language barrier (From both you and the hairdresser!), often creates a problem. They are also good for nails... HTH
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Latest post on 11 April 2013 - 10:54
Last weeks Time Out has 2 4 1 voucher for Bice at Hilton JBR and they are apparently accepting them for the full alcohol package.
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Latest post on 10 April 2013 - 10:40
Channels at The Media Rotana.... They have a different theme every night. Don't quote me, but sure last time we went it was AED220. Food lovely and lots of choice. Drinks included.
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Latest post on 10 April 2013 - 09:48
Sheraton at JBR is still probably the cheapest at AED100. Riva on The Palm is not a hotel but a beach club and is lovely. Entry is AED100, beach is nice with sunbeds aplenty, great loungers round the pool and its licsenced. Do love The Westin, but the price has increased significantly lately. If you look in Time Out, many hotel pool/beach days are listed.
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Latest post on 09 April 2013 - 16:16
lol Captain...glad you are safe! And you too chizz!
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Latest post on 09 April 2013 - 16:02
Yes.... Building was swaying and heard lots of cracking! Friend in Doha said they have earthquake.
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Latest post on 01 January 2013 - 09:19
AmyAus82.... It's comments like this that make my blood boil. Yes, practically every new mum suffers from some kind of "Baby Blues", as the body adjusts to changing hormone levels... Perfectly normal. BUT... Not every new mum will suffer from post natal depression, which, incidendtly, is a debilitating and potentially devastating condition. To advice the OP that it is common and more or less every new mum will feel the way she is feeling at the moment is, at best, patronising, and at worst, dangerous. OP.... I'm sorry I don't have any recommendations for you, but I'm sure someone will come along with the name of a good doctor. I wish you all the best. xx
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Latest post on 01 January 2013 - 09:08
Had both there. Only last week I had a colour and cut and was very impressed! Guys name was Jason and he was really good. Would recommend it.
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Latest post on 01 January 2013 - 09:05
Been quite a few times.... Def my favourite pool day treat! Head for the adults only section at the far end of the main pool. Swim up bar and really relaxing. Prices have gone up of late though....
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Latest post on 18 December 2012 - 08:29
I know I said I wasn't going to reply for a while, at present I am silently re reading your kind message and thoughts for me, they keep me going. I coudn't let this post go, to say thank you, you are all such kind people. I may not know you, but what you have done for me over the last few days, I will never forget you, you will all live with me for the rest of my life. I will keep you posted soon and thank you .... Nippy xxx What a lovely post Nippy. All choked up. Stay strong in the belief that when karma hits, you will be once again happy and contented, and he will be..... Well, who cares really. Sending positive thoughts and virtual hugs. xx
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 15:58
That is so strange!! Just signed in to see if there was any news! Congratulations x
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Latest post on 16 December 2012 - 09:26
Ground Floor in Harvey Nicholls Thanks mushypeas. x
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Latest post on 16 December 2012 - 09:09
I've occasionally seen them in Faces, I think, but only a few shower gels/lotions. The only way I have found to get the full range is to go to their shop in Dubai Mall. Thanks Lally. Thought I'd seen a franchise somewhere. Have a good day. x
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Latest post on 16 December 2012 - 06:07
Morning Does anyone know if Molten Brown products are stocked anywhere in The Mall of the Emirates? TIA
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Latest post on 16 December 2012 - 04:21
There is a stall directly outside Jamaica Blue coffee shop at the Geant end of Ibn Batuta Mall. They will give you samples and are nicely packaged. Always take visitors there and found them to be the tastiest Arabic sweets i"ve tried..... And i've tried lots!lol. HTH
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Latest post on 12 December 2012 - 16:12
Thanks fairwater.... You have summed it up. Its not that I can't make new friends... Sure I could. Its just that I have found my best friend in the world and no one can replace that. Shame that I found her in a transient society and I wasn't experienced enough to know the difference. But I really appreciate your input and experience..... Guess birthdays and Christmasses are going to be long distance flights and lots of tears! Thanks again for your kind words. Mean lots x
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Latest post on 12 December 2012 - 15:45
Just because you she is moving away, doesn't mean you can't ever see her again or keep in touch. There's email, skype, messaging, etc. Of course, things will take its natural course and people get busy with their new lives. So even though you say you don't want friends, you have to accept reality and get out there and be open to new friendships. No one can necessarily replace what you currently have, but that doesn't mean you have to be miserable:) Yea... I understand that. But I feel sad and miserable. Thanks anyway
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Latest post on 12 December 2012 - 15:01
They did that in 2008 til 2010. Seems they don't anymore!
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Latest post on 12 December 2012 - 13:36
I also have a friend who had a beautiful baby girl today. That's a good day...no matter what the date is! :D Thats great news!! Awwww
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Latest post on 12 December 2012 - 13:35
Is he looking at construction supervisor or construction manager.? Titles differ here but they can make a big difference
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Latest post on 12 December 2012 - 12:15
But do bear in mind that many places will be now booked up. Have a great Christmas .
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Latest post on 12 December 2012 - 12:13
Starts on 13th Dec http://www.jumeirah.com/en/Hotels-and-Resorts/Destinations/Dubai/Madinat-Jumeirah/Exclusive-Offers1/Festive-Celebrations/Souk-Festive-Market/?cm_mmc=MJ-_-Souk%20Festive%20Market%20HTML-_-Or%20visit%20short%20URL-_-Festive%202012 Brilliant! Thanks very much Suethack..... My technology skills date from about 1986!! Madinet tomorrow... Here we come!
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Latest post on 12 December 2012 - 12:04
Cheeky.... You could contact The Bonnington in JLT. They are usually kiddie friendly and are advertising a Christmas Day Family Brunch for AED445 (Inc alcohol) AED149 for under 12's and free for under 6's. Apparently Santa is turning up!. Food there is good and regular brunches have had good reviews. HTH
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Latest post on 11 December 2012 - 06:02
It was AED2999 in Geant Ibn Batutta yesterday..... HTH
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Latest post on 10 December 2012 - 10:10
http://www.expatwoman.com/forum/messages.aspx?TopicID=147166 Ah.... But this was only a re surfacing of the saga....Which was probably a good year before this thread!
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Latest post on 10 December 2012 - 10:02
Does anyone remember with whom that Maid's Action List originated? Alex's shoes have gone down in the annals of EW, the list needs accrediting :) If I remember correctly, it was a very "Contraversial!!" poster called Jumeirah Jane who dug it up from somewhere... Singapore rings a bell..... And who was consequently promptly banned as it gave rise to fairly heated "Debate"!! lol No I don't think that is correct. I seem tor remember several posters taking the mick about the list and it's a standing joke since. ;) Yes I know that... But think it was JJ who dug it up!
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Latest post on 10 December 2012 - 09:58
Does anyone remember with whom that Maid's Action List originated? Alex's shoes have gone down in the annals of EW, the list needs accrediting :) If I remember correctly, it was a very "Contraversial!!" poster called Jumeirah Jane who dug it up from somewhere... Singapore rings a bell..... And who was consequently promptly banned as it gave rise to fairly heated "Debate"!! lol
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Latest post on 05 December 2012 - 08:41
PS some of you posters seem to have missed the thread "Ace ruined my Christmas " - lots of fodder for you all on there! Wednesday is the new Thursday...... lol
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Latest post on 05 December 2012 - 08:38
Good job we've got a cracking sense of humour SalsB..... Lol. PS... I think your "Designer" jumper is very fetching......
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Latest post on 04 December 2012 - 06:06
Virgin megastore had extendable ones. Love my Bear Claw.....
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Latest post on 22 November 2012 - 15:12
It is more about the loss of independence, feeling valued and having a role in the big wide world, beyond that of just being a wife and mother. I think that this, as said by Scribs, is what a lot of us find difficult, after years as independant women, part of a team... My hubby is not tight.... And neither was I a "Money Hoarder" in my previous life!.... I no longer have access to my own money. And that takes adjustment! Like buying birthday presents for him... Yes the money is there, yes I don't need permission to spend it... But, In my opinion, It takes away the element of surprise and I preferred to "save" a little out of my salary to do these things.
 
 
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