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Latest post on 13 July 2017 - 13:01
You can find in malls. Most of the malls have soft play areas.
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Latest post on 04 July 2017 - 12:31
Hello! To add my 2 cents worth- There are some mum-baby groups (you can even check on EW website), however I am not part of any, so unable to recommend. I stay in area called Jumeirah Lakes Towers (JLT) and it is very kid/ baby friendly as there is lot of car-free space around the lakes, where you can take baby for walks. There are many nurseries here, many of which have British EYFS curriculum. I personally think, it is always good to have options. Also, JLT is close to 2 metro stations although it will depend on which tower you select. There are grocery stores and restaurants in every Cluster. Marina Mall is nearby. You can check the location on Google maps. Cars- I guess it would be good to rent for few days so that you can try different ones here. Then you can decide on specific one which suits you. Regarding pediatrician, are you looking for any specific nationality? I hope this is somewhat useful. Happy moving!
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Latest post on 17 August 2015 - 02:43
Please be careful in this matter as most ladies offering this service do not have license to do so. Thus taking their service would be illegal and government is getting strict thesedays against employing illegal people.. Huge penalty is applicable. If anything goes wrong by such ladies, you won't even be able to report it because of fear of penalties of around 50K. Sorry for not helping but I thought it is important to let you know.
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Latest post on 05 March 2015 - 11:33
Thanks to all those who have given useful feedback. Yes, I also prefer to fly Emirates economy class so as to save money at the same time have quality service. But now I am pregnant and going on a long flight so at least need better space and seating. The best option I feel is this as Emirates or similar airlines business class is way too much money.
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Latest post on 04 March 2015 - 17:18
Hello Endomum, I agree with Birchy that this is individual experience. I had checked reviews of all the clinics and found them more or less similar for most of them. You will find more reviews for Fakih because they have been in business here for quite a while compared to some others. I was so confused while deciding, but went to Bournhall Clinic just on a gut feeling. I have only good things to say about Bournhall. The team is thoroughly professional (some may call it clinical but I prefer it that way) and the facility is very clean and the way I wanted. Dr. Robertson is an expert in the field and did my IVF. Am happily pregnant now in the first try. I would suggest that do not try to decide based on success rates and statistics. I have heard enough instances of success and failures from all the clinics. It depends on the medical condition, age, etc as well and more importantly luck factor. So I wish you all the very best in choosing the clinic and the procedure itself.
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Latest post on 04 March 2015 - 17:04
Kindly try contacting Feline Friends as well to check if they have such cat.
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Latest post on 12 February 2015 - 14:10
I guess you will find many recommendations on this forum if you type this in search option. I remember this being discussed many time. Hope this helps.
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Latest post on 08 February 2015 - 15:56
Hi Ramsaybairn, What field is he in, my DH's works in Banking and is actually recruiting? If he has a Finance background, I'll try to put you in touch. Thanks Hello Annorman! How nice of you to mention this. Can you let me know what kind of positions are open for your DH's bank? My BIL has been looking for banking job, but most openings we see are for sales/ marketing. He has experience of working in back office of a major MNC bank but not in UAE unfortunately. Thanks in advance! :) <em>edited by Rucha13 on 08/02/2015</em>
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Latest post on 04 February 2015 - 16:58
As far as I know, Ejari is responsibility of the tenant. I cannot claim to quote law here, but we have rented our home through a well known agency and they confirmed this early on.
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Latest post on 04 February 2015 - 14:13
I guess it is not only you- to answer the original question. I have had western friends who have left or in process of leaving UAE back to their home country or to Saudi. There is more than one reason- increase in overall cost of living affecting overall population and in particular to some western people with high flying lifestyle. To add to this issue, I have heard/ observed/ read that the perks that western people (especially of certain nationalities) enjoyed in work places- like getting much higher salaries or housing allowance than Asian (or other nationality) counterparts on exact same designation- have dried up. The difference in salaries/ perks is drastically reducing in UAE and may not be the case in other countries like Saudi.
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Latest post on 05 January 2015 - 14:52
Some suggestions- Big hair clip used by local ladies, local chocolates with or without dates. When one of our friends was leaving UAE for good, we presented him with a framed painting of his name written in Arabic calligraphy.
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Latest post on 01 December 2014 - 15:33
Dear journogindrl, I really do not want to make judgments regarding your situation, but please please try and take your cat with you. We already have so many cats/ dogs being abandoned on daily basis especially during holiday season, that it would be great if we have at least one less. I can see from your post that you have her for so long and love her a lot. I am sure you consider her as one of your family member! I hope you find ways to get her with you to UK. All the best.
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Latest post on 01 December 2014 - 12:32
I have gone through such situations few times in last few years so I really know what you feel. What works for me is this- On a weekend, I take some time and sit down with a pen and paper. I make a list of things or activities that MAKE me happy generally. It may be as trivial thing as buying some flowers or something significant as taking a vacation. Then I try to evaluate that out of the list, which items can be done sooner- like buying flowers, etc. and I do that. For other things I try to plan for those things. Sometimes, such list brings back happy memories and even that helps. This calms me down and helps me get into frame of mind where I can think rationally at what is going on in my life which is bothering me. I can then get some control over my life again! I hope this helps! All the best to you and wishing you loads of positive thoughts and energy!
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Latest post on 26 November 2014 - 11:21
Hello hafsanaz, Welcome to UAE and soon to Dubai. I am sure that you will have a wonderful stay here! Many nice suggestions for socializing given in the comments up here, so do consider that. Regarding meeting Indians, I would like to make a point- being an Indian in Dubai for 4 years now- Please do not restrict yourself to meeting people of same nationality. Being in Dubai has many advantages and according to me, the greatest one is that you get to meet people from all over the world, to interact with them, even to make friends with them. So please use this opportunity and you will be amazed to learn that it makes us better person as well. I know why you feel the need to socialize within the same nationality- to some extent it is good as it gives chance to exchange notes on where to get things that we usually use, etc. But if the reason is because you may not be comfortable with ladies from other nationality- please take that out of your mind. I have met enough ladies from other nationalities who are so friendly and warm.. while meeting many Indian ones who make you feel uncomfortable. So it is really up to nature of the person and not nationality. So I now have friends who are whites, arabic, indian, etc. Regarding beauty salons- you will get ones in all budget ranges here. Once you finalize where you will be staying, it will be easier to suggest.
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Latest post on 24 November 2014 - 15:18
Hello Orls11, In case you are planning to do this on your own (I mean not already associated with a coaching class), I suggest it would be good to check if such services (coaching/ tutoring) are legal, just to avoid issues later on. The reason I say this is, there are quite heavy fines here for paid services which are not offered through legal means. <em>edited by Rucha13 on 24/11/2014</em>
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Latest post on 23 November 2014 - 11:12
Wow.. so many suggestions!! Where is OP gone?
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Latest post on 19 November 2014 - 11:58
A very famous one is by Vandana Jain in Dubai. She also has a book published and has won awards. You can check the details online.
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Latest post on 13 November 2014 - 10:48
I am a bit confused here. Are you on your husband's dependent visa or your company visa? <em>edited by Rucha13 on 13/11/2014</em>
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Latest post on 11 November 2014 - 14:05
First of all let me mention that I am a tenant like most of us here. But I do agree to some posts here that 12 months notice plus 4 months extra (on OP request) is more than enough. I agree that lying is not good but still I guess 16 months is more than fair amount of time tenants to move. What more do we tenants expect? I know that we cannot choose new apartment 12 months in advance but that is not fault of THAT landlord. [b'>I have seen many landlords taking undue advantage of tenants but in this case, I cannot really be angry on the LL.[/b'> Ultimately its their property so they should be able to make some decision about it. Yes, they might want to rent it higher to someone else, but in case of fair amount of notice period, frankly it should not matter. Why not? The rules are there for a reason, not to victimize the LL, to protect tenants from being thrown out every year. I am curious, if the eviction notice is served to you after being in your property for 8 months, you would still be able to say enough notice period, doesn't matter.... I am glad that we agree on the point that rules help protect tenants. As mentioned before, I am a tenant and not a LL. [b'>So I guess if an LL is considerate and goes according to rules, we should also be fair to LL.[/b'> Yes, what I was saying (my opinion) is that 12 months is enough notice. If you are staying there for 8 months or 8 years. By the way, I am curious to know what according to you would be 'enough' notice period. Do reply please. The rules are introduced after the boom and crash, so the landlords can not evict you because you don't agree to pay the crazy increase they demand in times of hikes and to soften the crash that follows. The landlord is not considerate in this case, he gave an eviction notice because someone from his family is moving in and obviously it is not the case. It is not about the notice period being enough or not, he can not evict the tenant just in case this or that happens. Period. I was wondering if you were evicted on unfair grounds would you still be saying 'the notice is enough, not necessary to look for my rights... ' Yes, the rules exist for good reason and that is why I appreciate them. It protects me as a tenant. I respect your opinion of the issue as each one is entitled for their own, otherwise the world would be a dull place! In this case, yes, I do think LL was WRONG in giving false reason (as we assume from what OP says), but I do not think LL is so inconsiderate, as LL did respect OP's 'request' for 4 months of extension 'after' 12 months of notice period. As to your question- If I were evicted on unfair grounds- If I am given 12 months eviction notice period, I would definitely say that the duration is enough. I would not bother about the reason. After all, that is not my property. Of course if LL wants me out for some false 'charges' against me I would definitely fight it out- but that has nothing to do with the notice period. I would fight even if it was 2 years notice period. Btw- I am still curious to know what is or what should be the ideal notice period according to you people!
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Latest post on 10 November 2014 - 15:13
A - it would be great if you could start looking for somewhere 12 months in advance, but that's impossible as the places you like then will not be available 12 months down the line! B - market rent is a moot point. There is quite a variation when you look at the calculator C - you can always raise your rent if the caculator says you can D - so give your tennant 12 months notice and move back in. Sorry, but I'm so fed up of people saying it's all the tennants fault. We need protecting from certain LL Perfect points mentioned! I just wanted to add regarding last line- I do not think anyone here is saying that it is always tenant's fault. Each case is different, each LL/ tenant is different. I am sure that here we have way more cases where LLs are horrible to the tenants!
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Latest post on 10 November 2014 - 15:10
First of all let me mention that I am a tenant like most of us here. But I do agree to some posts here that 12 months notice plus 4 months extra (on OP request) is more than enough. I agree that lying is not good but still I guess 16 months is more than fair amount of time tenants to move. What more do we tenants expect? I know that we cannot choose new apartment 12 months in advance but that is not fault of THAT landlord. [b'>I have seen many landlords taking undue advantage of tenants but in this case, I cannot really be angry on the LL.[/b'> Ultimately its their property so they should be able to make some decision about it. Yes, they might want to rent it higher to someone else, but in case of fair amount of notice period, frankly it should not matter. Why not? The rules are there for a reason, not to victimize the LL, to protect tenants from being thrown out every year. I am curious, if the eviction notice is served to you after being in your property for 8 months, you would still be able to say enough notice period, doesn't matter.... I am glad that we agree on the point that rules help protect tenants. As mentioned before, I am a tenant and not a LL. So I guess if an LL is considerate and goes according to rules, we should also be fair to LL. Yes, what I was saying (my opinion) is that 12 months is enough notice. If you are staying there for 8 months or 8 years. By the way, I am curious to know what according to you would be 'enough' notice period. Do reply please.
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Latest post on 09 November 2014 - 16:44
Please check with Canine Friends or other such organizations who may have nice puppies for adoption.
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Latest post on 09 November 2014 - 15:23
Geordie expat- I agree with you that LL need to be honest with tenants. No doubt about that. The LL that OP says definitely is WRONG in giving incorrect information. What I mean is that 12+ 4 months is enough time given to vacate a place. As a tenant, we cannot expect to occupy the house forever. I agree that there are tons of LLs who are extremely greedy and care a damn about tenants. It is definitely unfair. But let us be true to ourselves that RERA rules are in favor of tenants which is good for us. I am sorry, but I do not understand what you mean by ' If we all did that, we'de be moving every 12 months'. Do you think your LL will give you eviction notice on the day you sign the contract? LOL :biggrin:
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Latest post on 09 November 2014 - 14:43
First of all let me mention that I am a tenant like most of us here. But I do agree to some posts here that 12 months notice plus 4 months extra (on OP request) is more than enough. I agree that lying is not good but still I guess 16 months is more than fair amount of time tenants to move. What more do we tenants expect? I know that we cannot choose new apartment 12 months in advance but that is not fault of THAT landlord. I have seen many landlords taking undue advantage of tenants but in this case, I cannot really be angry on the LL. Ultimately its their property so they should be able to make some decision about it. Yes, they might want to rent it higher to someone else, but in case of fair amount of notice period, frankly it should not matter.
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Latest post on 09 November 2014 - 14:02
Maids or no maids- I do not think untidiness or indiscipline is optional. It just cannot be irrelevant in any era. I believe it is a basic virtue and should be taught to children by parents. It is their responsibility. My parent were quite particular about cleanliness and discipline but they led by example. But they were no tyrants to us and allowed us to make some mess while playing (as much kids do enjoy) and we were asked to clear it up later (with their help when we were young and then all by ourselves when we were bit older). It is ok to delegate the responsibility to a maid, but let's face it, most of the maids do need supervision and if you do not have an eye for cleanliness, it is unlikely that you will spot if she is doing a good job or not. <em>edited by Rucha13 on 09/11/2014</em>
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Latest post on 06 November 2014 - 14:42
Are you looking for specific cuisine? It would be easier to make suggestions accordingly! Also restaurants in malls are quite reasonably priced.
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Latest post on 06 November 2014 - 14:39
Dubizzle is the place, so keep checking everyday! Also many times there are quite good offers on first hand ones in various shops like EMAX, Carrefour, etc
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Latest post on 06 November 2014 - 14:39
Dubizzle is the place, so keep checking everyday! Also many times there are quite good offers on first hand ones in various shops like EMAX, Carrefour, etc
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Latest post on 06 November 2014 - 14:33
We do not have a maid, but have cleaning people once a week, mainly for the balcony. But then it is just two of us so we can divide the work. Yes, we prefer to clean our home, cook and do the laundry and dishes. I agree with some comments below that many times we end up doing far better job than the maids. Frankly speaking, I am not a good taskmaster with the maids/ helps and as per my experience, there are quite a few maids who work well without supervision. I mean we really need to keep an eye on them. However, I am sure that working moms at least need some help with so much to do. And if that works with people, then why not!
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Latest post on 05 November 2014 - 11:42
Ikea definitely has good ones which are reasonably priced!
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Latest post on 05 November 2014 - 11:39
I have a feeling that people (out of Dubai) think that working in Dubai/ UAE is equal to raking in MONEY!! I have heard this from relatives/friends who are in my home country. So they think- if she is so rich why not give us some. I really hate this attitude. Even if we might make more money in Dirhams, compared to home country- (a) we spend in Dirhams and not any other currency and (b) we work hard for that and (c) we make sacrifices for earning that amount. Anyway, regarding the case of the OP, of course the best way I feel is to refuse straight away but it is not always easy for some people. In that case, I have a suggestion- When you have a call with any of them, before they can say anything, start your rant about problems here (although imaginary), that rents are so high, you are struggling with coping up with the expenses, you made some wrong investment, etc. Tell them you need money from them this time to get out of this situation. Repeat this on all your calls and you will see that the calls will actually STOP! Select the way that is more easier for you! :) All the best!
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Latest post on 03 November 2014 - 11:26
Agree with kitten67! I have observed that to get a job in finance sector here, it is better to have some reference in the company at least to secure an interview. There are lot more jobs easily available in sales and marketing. We were trying to find a job for my bro-in-law in finance sector and it was a nightmare. Jobs available are of basic level that too in sales. He applied for so many vacancies but did not even get a phone call. Then what we came to know is that we need a reference which we did not have :( Hope this helps. All the best with the hunt.
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Latest post on 03 November 2014 - 11:22
Hello saggi_1! Great to hear that. Did not mean to offend you, but sometimes we hear so many horror stories that I thought it is good to mention the point. Regarding the phone calls and internet usage, I guess it would be better to talk straight to the nanny that the time she is alone with the baby should not be used for these things as you have hired her specifically for that purpose. I believe if you disconnect the internet, most of your problems would be solved :) There can be only so much she can talk on phone. All the best with this!
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Latest post on 02 November 2014 - 13:15
Don't get me wrong, but I am hoping that the 'maid' you have hired for your 7 months baby is a 'nanny' and not just a house help kind of maid. I have read about many terrible instances on this forum about 'maids' taking complete care of babies (I got uncomfortable to read that she is alone with your baby during the day). Please consider that if she is not a properly trained 'nanny' she is not equipped for taking care of your child. Her internet and phone usage is next point altogether when compared to this. <em>edited by Rucha13 on 02/11/2014</em>
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Latest post on 30 October 2014 - 10:59
Thanks for the response, kcinthecity! May I ask how long ago was that? Also, is she legal? I mean are her services within legal framework?
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Latest post on 29 October 2014 - 16:10
So does this Jebel Ali waterfront area have a water view? Is it ocean view or any lake there?
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Latest post on 29 October 2014 - 16:08
I cannot find the original post by OP so not sure what the problem is. But from the responses, I see that an employee + family is staying with employer+ family. Dont we have hotels in Dubai if it was question of fews days only?
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Latest post on 29 October 2014 - 15:42
If you need the basic pots, you get good ones in Carrefour and Lulu at good price.
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Latest post on 17 October 2014 - 11:21
Thanks nihonjin!
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Latest post on 16 October 2014 - 12:48
Hello Ladies! I agree with some of the comments below. Culturally, Indian mindset is such that they wish to celebrate their happy occasions with as many people they know. Also, people get offended if they are not invited to weddings or such celebrations, thus the invite for you. Money is not the reason for invitations as increasingly Indians are adopting 'Strictly No presents' policy for events. So some best wishes from your end would be enough!
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Latest post on 18 September 2014 - 11:37
Hi! If you are looking for a regular 2 hole punch that we use, I am sure you will find it in Daiso and Carrefour as well. Have also seen it in DaytoDay.
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Latest post on 09 September 2014 - 16:06
Check out ARTE market at Times Square Mall on certain Fridays! They have some making awesome cakes at home!
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Latest post on 03 September 2014 - 14:36
Frankly speaking I do not think changing the schools will help. It is the luck that matters. I have heard well experienced drivers taking anywhere between 1- 10 attempts here to pass while total freshers passing in first attempt. Some people say the schools can pass only certain number of people in a day. I do not know if that is true. It also depends on the mood of the examiner. But yes, one point is true that one should only do as said by examiner or exactly what is taught by the trainers. The experience at our country should not be used here :( And one thing for sure, never get in to doubting yourself. Keep the faith and continue the attempts. All the best.
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Latest post on 02 September 2014 - 12:32
Hi Daniela! I am just starting my treatment with Bourn Hall Clinic, Dubai. As of now my impression of them is very good. The staff is very friendly and puts you at ease. I had seen good reviews of them on the forum and thus decided to go ahead with them. There is another clinic called Fakih Clinic, Dubai which is also well known. There are many doctors there and the reviews that I got were kind of mixed. All the best to you :)
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Latest post on 02 September 2014 - 12:24
It is really a pity! This is so common that it is irrespective of nationality, social/ education status, gender, etc. I have had such experiences at various places. Rude people indeed. I try to gently let people know that they need to follow a queue, as at some crowded stores, it may be easy to confuse with the line. I do give in a benefit of doubt. Most of the times at such places, I check with people around before joining a queue, if they are already before me, just to be sure! It is more common in grocery stores, where people with very few items assume that they can jump in the queue without bothering to ask (and also not bothering to go to the special counter for less than 10 items). Whenever person has courtesy to ask, I always allow them to go in ahead of me if I have many items. Then there are people who will hold up a queue to add last minute items. But utter rudeness is really not acceptable that too in front of their own kids. God know what they are learning from this young age! It is high time people learn manners!
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Latest post on 19 August 2014 - 11:32
Thanks Safi and Marps for your response! :)
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Latest post on 18 August 2014 - 12:01
Hello again ladies! Making a request again to respond to my question below. I am really tensed about the whole thing, if I am making the right decision. Do you think Dr. Fakih clinic is better than Bourn Hall? Thanks!
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Latest post on 17 August 2014 - 15:17
Hello Rosie! I would suggest that you think of adopting one instead of buying. There are many non profit organizations in UAE (like K9 friends, etc) where you will have very nice pups/ dogs which need forever home and love.