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Latest post on 18 December 2012 - 18:40
Congratulations TDB and baby Laila! :D Glad you're both healthy even though things went down a bit unexpectedly! x
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Latest post on 18 December 2012 - 17:26
thank you ladies! I am in search of a wifi + 3G iPad2 with 32G. If anyone else is shopping for this, I went to every store at MOE that sells them today and no one had the 32G ipad 2. (jadopado didn't, nor did Apple store :() So I think I may have to settle for the 16 if I don't want to go to an iPad 3, and most stores are pretty comparably price for this product. thanks again!
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Latest post on 18 December 2012 - 12:31
really--Kaye needs a break here! I understand the "stop lying" thread might have some people assuming she is trying to pawn off a bad maid, but if she said "Help, DH has been made redundant and we can't afford our maid" or if she had something else, everybody wouldn't jump like this. Should she have to go into detail about personal life not to get lashed? :( <em>edited by Beebers on 18/12/2012</em>
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Latest post on 18 December 2012 - 12:27
Hi SC, I know where you are at. At least to an extent. I worked for someone who was an acquaintance of one of my good friends. Well, I resigned, and I really needed to as it was a bad deal. Unfortunately, things got really heated--even right before I resigned. Like you I remained calm. I was very careful not to express much in emails, as I didn't want anything held against me later through documentation. I would say dust off, shake it off, and try not to let it get you down. Nobody feels good about a bad "work breakup" but the less you respond, the better. If you are free and clear, try to just ignore any subsequent emails and wait for the dist to settle. Maybe one day you can have an amicable professional relationship, but in my case, this was not so. x
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Latest post on 18 December 2012 - 08:24
I may be the minority, but I don't think saturated fat deserves the bad rap it gets. But if you look at foods which contain a higher than normal amount, these foods are very acidic. Acidic environment in the body = leads to disease. If you throw alkaline foods into the mix, this changes things. And portion control, portion control! P.S. I love watching Nigella. And Sophie Dahl. I always say "One day I'll cook that" but it doesn't happen often!
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Latest post on 18 December 2012 - 08:19
Hello Nippy, a lot of ladies here have been left shaken by what you're going through and are thinking of you often throughout the day. xxx Absolutely, shaken by the thought and then thinking this is really happening to someone. Love and light, Nippy x
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Latest post on 18 December 2012 - 07:44
It didn't sound nasty to me, but there was a thread yesterday (Stop Lying thread) about how people should be wary of those looking to help their maid get a new job. Supposedly that is a warning sign for the next family as several have had bad experiences.
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Latest post on 18 December 2012 - 06:36
http://www.onegoodthingbyjillee.com/2012/10/make-your-own-all-natural-deodorant-stick-or-spray.html not sure if you can find the beeswax pellets here, but you can def find all the ingredients for the spray deodorant. Wow, that looks really awesome, the "stick" version! I am bookmarking that and will try it I can find beeswax pellets :) good one! I switched to Nivea black and white roll on for the staining issue, but it is not aluminum free. Like OP, cancer in the family, so would like to switch to a worry-free one next time. TB, I have seen Tom's at Waitrose, and random pharmacies around town like Aster, Marina Pharmacy, etc. Just not Boots. Another option is Lush's deodorant products, but I have never tried them. Luckily they have a ton of reviews on the site, so you can see what other ladies have to say.
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 20:43
And not even under a crisp kandoura....... oh, you didn't!!!
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 18:59
child labor is limited to copycat items? hmmmm
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 18:33
@norak- Peanut is the seed inside a whole groundnut..basically the same. Seems like groundnut oil is not used by majority of people...cldn't find it in choithram's. @beebers- Waitrose oil is refined, its refined to such an extent, that when I open the bottle, I can't make out what oil that is, peanut oil has this very nutty kind of aroma ! if it wasn't for the label on the bottle..& also very expensive, for daily use that is... you thought it was expensive? 500mL was, I think 14 dhs? I just don't use it often enough, but when I do curries (Thai or Malaysian) I like it because as you said--no flavor at all! We deep fried a turkey in peanut oil for the holiday 2 years ago and I think the oil cost more than our bill at A & E! lol
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 17:31
Next time I'll try Macau but think I better bring DH along. ("Big Trouble in Little China" comes to mind). count me in;) perhaps we can get a group from here... How cool would that be? Must leave some folks behind, though, just in case :D
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 17:03
How many EW's licked the back of their hands????;) LOL!
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 17:02
Parachuting over the Palm. Now that sounds cool, did you love it? If you're scared, try parasailing :) DCC, plenty of things, but I wouldn't talk about them here! ha! One weekend that comes to mind is when I went gambling to see how long I could survive with $100. I ended up in Nevada for nearly a week, eeks. Next time I'll try Macau but think I better bring DH along. ("Big Trouble in Little China" comes to mind).
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 15:29
then keep up with flossing after a cleaning! I think it is the most underrated dental maneuver one can adopt. Also love my tongue scraper :)
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 15:17
Pamm, maybe that was Artikel, near Crate and Barrel? Last year they had a display with a tree hanging upside down from the ceiling. Someone here said they have closed, and I didn't see them last time I went to C & B
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 13:50
They look like this is all different colours! Can't belive how much these are being sold for on ebay!!! If anyone lives in Abu Dhabi you can get them at the Hamdan Centre http://www.ebay.ca/itm/Kitsch-Novelty-Mosque-Alarm-Clock-Call-prayer-Alarm-Pink-Green-Blue-/160880005981 Super cool. Wonder if the recipient would think I am trying to tell him something?? lol
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 13:36
You can't go wrong with the novelty mosque alarm clock!!! Places like Karama ( big shopping centre there) have them. They used to be 10dhs a few years ago, think they are about 20 dhs now...we takes loads of these back as novelty presents for family and friends in the Uk, they are fab! what a great idea!
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 13:36
Good luck, Munnus!
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 13:28
Mmmm... seems like it.s very bad indeed... but i got a good deal there... 2 bedrooms for 65 ... so can i survive or no that is the question... Have you already signed a lease? Having stress caused by problems in your home isn't good for mental health! I've been there, and unfortunately the minutiae adds up, and it can affect other areas of your life. You probably won't find a 2 bed for 65 in the Marina in a good building, so it's a good deal, but at what cost to your quality of life? Always a good idea to speak to residents of a building if they are willing to give you a moment of their time. I ask about maintenance, facilities, noise within the building, neighboring building, cell phone reception--all the things an agent is not going to know, or be willing to let on to.
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 12:43
hmmmm
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 12:28
Stupid question: European imports? Does that mean I'll need an adapter to fit the sockets here? You can speak to one of their customer service agents online to find out. I guess it depends what country the iPad comes from. If it was UK, for example, it would be the same as here. The one I bought came with a UK/UAE style plug. Your iPod charger will work with it anyway, if it does come with a different plug. aha, good point. Will do, thanks again
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 12:21
thanks ladies for all the advice :) Maybe I will give it a shot then; I don't think I'll find a better price for the model I want, and it's good to hear you have had good experiences. Stupid question: European imports? Does that mean I'll need an adapter to fit the sockets here?
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 09:57
23 Marina is impeccably managed and maintained. Their 2 bed + maids are huge. I looked at a unit there for 120K but that is before agency fee and deposit, of course. Couldn't tolerate the view, but if that is not important to you, might be worth a look. Also know someone who lives in KG and loves it. In fact for your budget, you might have more luck on the south side of the Marina or JLT. Green Lakes Towers are nice there.
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 09:06
How about a book [i'>about[/i'> chocolate? Sorry couldn't resist. I, too, need to do a secret santa. Hope I don't draw a difficult one!
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 08:35
You're in Dubai baby, pick up the phone :D Unless you are ordering ice cream. I've actually sent back a pint because it was badly freezer burned, and technically no longer ice cream! terrible, i know.
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 08:12
The rain woke me up! Noisy drops, almost sounded like hail! And goodness, it is chilly this morning!!!
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 08:11
If the Organic Foods and Cafe doesn't have it, not sure who would. Have you tried there? I used to use a similar sounding product in the US, called Bragg's Liquid Aminos. I've since given up and just use Organic soy sauce. Sorry not much help!
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 07:56
chizz, that's odd. I am able to share the link just fine by copying the address in the box, and pasting it in the body of an email sent through my outlook. They have an option to send in email through facebook, but I don't use that. Maybe that's the problem?
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Latest post on 16 December 2012 - 10:20
Waitrose has groundnut oil--fairly sure it is the Waitrose brand.
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Latest post on 15 December 2012 - 11:44
This weather does it for me, too. Poor DH, he is vicariously eating for me :) I cook, cook, cook when I am hungry, but I don't eat lol
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Latest post on 15 December 2012 - 10:48
Congrats TDB! Such an incredible event, blessings to you!
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Latest post on 14 December 2012 - 16:19
So you think I can get it in any good Pharmacy? Sure. If I am right that Thyroxin is levothyronine sodium, and is the same as Eltroxin, you can get it at Boots, Aster, and many others with no prescription. It is behind the counter, but no scrip is necessary.
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Latest post on 14 December 2012 - 16:17
oh cool :) I am going to try one out. I dig Phyto products, but am always willing o try something new, and they seem to be quite lovely and economical!
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Latest post on 14 December 2012 - 16:14
Correct. I have also found it more readily available under the brand name Eltroxin in 2 different doses.
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Latest post on 14 December 2012 - 10:03
You, too! Enjoy!
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Latest post on 14 December 2012 - 09:53
Some items from Lush are just dreamy Love: Lemony Flutter Cuticle Butter Ayesha facial mask Dirty shaving cream (DH uses this, but it doesn't last long at all) Celestial moisturizer (Another DH product) Not so much: Herbalism scrub. If anyone has feedback on the shampoo bars, do share.
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Latest post on 13 December 2012 - 13:43
Great recommendation Beebers - there is no harm in everyone having a book like this, whether in a relationship, friendship etc as we tend to not just argue with partners but also with families, friends etc...This would at least guide and put things into perspective for one. Really appreciate all your support. Thank you edited by lilia on 13/12/2012 Sure :) When I first read your posts, I saw a lot of familiarity from a previous relationship of mine where the guy was a nut that just loved to argue. Hency the backpacking image. But even good people learn bad habits from past relationships and drag them into what could be a good relationship. So a book like this can really help guide with healthy approaches. My FIL gave this book to my DH a decade ago, when he was single, because he wanted him to do things the right way first :) lucky me
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Latest post on 13 December 2012 - 13:28
In the book "The Seven Principles of making Marriage Work" the author splits conflicts up into 2 categories. Solvable, or perpetual. First, determine which the argument is. If it is solvable, then when you want to yell, instead, remind yourself to be solution oriented. What comes out of your mouth should be geared at a solution, not antagonizing. If it is perpetual, one of you will have to back down, and all you can do is manage it. When the conflict comes up, just agree to disagree, and don't add more fuel to a perpetual fire. This is a great book for those who consider their relationship serious enough to turn into marriages, not just for married couples. It is a great one. It is interactive, too, like a workbook. Worth picking up as it causes you to evaluate yourself, which is where you need to start. good luck x
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Latest post on 13 December 2012 - 13:02
it's always difficult to give an opinion on this, we only know one side of the story. But if they are already fighting that much, I'd think this won't last very long. True. I can't imagine if I was dating an insufferable ***** that I would be looking for a book on how to argue better. ?! Takes two and we'll never know.
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Latest post on 13 December 2012 - 12:56
I simply couldn't tolerate it. OP says she doesn't get her point across because she can't get a word in. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to hear what you have to say, even if they don't agree? That means they don't value what you say. That's called disrespect, and it doesn't improve! No one is that rich, that hot, that smart, or that fabulous that you should stand there and be disrespected.
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Latest post on 13 December 2012 - 11:33
Hi ladies... Thanks for the feedback... Oops sorry - by recently I meant 4 months...we have been seeing each other at least 5 days a week and we normally stay over at each others a few nights a week..I guess this makes it feel like its quality time and not quantity. I know its not years but I feel like we have got to know each other quite well.. Not to sound harsh, but that's still a bad sign if arguing elevates to a screaming match, even after 4 months. None of us know what exactly you are arguing about, but if your relationship progresses into something really serious, imagine when dire issues come up in life. Don't you want to be with someone whom you can have a productive and constructive argument with? If the arguments have anything to do with jealousy, mistrust, or religious/cultural differences, just imagine when "life" happens. Financial difficulties, raising children, illnesses...you know, real life problems?? Yikes. Also, it takes two to tango. One of both of you might want to consider gaining some maturity before getting into a commitment.
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Latest post on 13 December 2012 - 10:36
good advice! [img'>http://www.pic4ever.com/images/hiker.gif[/img'>
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Latest post on 13 December 2012 - 09:12
Is it? Dh got back on sunday. Didn't mention the weather :) If only I could sell my place here..... Current weather is 9, but to my friends, that's really cold. It goes from unseasonably warm to icing overnight there. Very random. That must be a pain! Good luck with that
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Latest post on 13 December 2012 - 09:00
Too true. I was there in the summer as DH was working there. Our next stop should be Dallas area, it's just this damned villa that we own stopping us from going :( oooh Dallas :) lived there for years. They say it's freezing at the moment. When you go, stop by Mi Cocina for 'brunch' and have a Mambo Taxi for me!
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Latest post on 13 December 2012 - 08:55
Yes, HL is lucky indeed! I miss Texas!!!
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Latest post on 13 December 2012 - 07:35
Today I discovered that Lush has a wide selection of very neatly wrapped gift packs. I bought quite a few and can recommend to have a look (Mirdif city center). Got some gifts there last year! They have those bath bombs (?) and one of them made "snow." :) It was fun to wake up Christmas morning, draw a bath, and sip a hot cocoa surrounded by my "snow"
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Latest post on 13 December 2012 - 07:21
Definitely keep documentation. If she prints the emails out and keeps them in a folder, or puts them on a zip drive, that would be good. In the US, I was surprised to find out that a harassment charges can be filed over text messages. Unfortunately one of my friends had to do just that, and they are using it as the basis for a restraining order.
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Latest post on 12 December 2012 - 19:49
I don't know what it is this year, but my Mom actually said she wanted our banking information so she could send $ and we could buy what we wanted OR please walk her through how to ship things here. :\: wasn't expecting that! Last time I got anything was 4 years ago--the last time I flew home, and I have never expected anything. Then my DH informed me my FIL wants to buy me an iPad2 for Christmas since he loves his so much, and asked the best way to go about it; send $ or send the device. I have no Christmas rants. Just letting y'all know you're never too old to be surprised on Christmas, if that makes sense :)
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Latest post on 12 December 2012 - 13:04
TDB, hope you're able to sort your maid situation quickly. Sheesh, what, are you going to be conducting interviews in L & D??? tick tock!
 
 
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