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Latest post on 15 April 2012 - 12:09
Here is an idea, speak to her face to face, ask the owner of the agency to be there, tell her if she admits to stealing you wont file a case and the owener of the agency can ban and send her home, if again she says she didnt steal it then I would be calling the police. Harsh but if she is so brazen to steal like that then she needs to be taught a lesson.
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Latest post on 15 April 2012 - 10:11
Can i play the devils advocate here : what hard proof do you have that she stole the money ? The reason I am asking is tha the police "may" ask, i woudl hate for you to go through a huge scene only for them to drop the charges. For what it is worth i think you need to report this to the police, would you take it so lightly if a shop assistant gave you less 500aed in your change ? hard thing for you to do but once a theif always a thief ......................
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Latest post on 05 April 2012 - 09:03
Does anyone know the location ? many thanks
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Latest post on 05 April 2012 - 08:56
where do they sell the second-hand stuff? the warehouse is in Ajman about 5 mins away from Ajman City Centre
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Latest post on 05 April 2012 - 08:53
I am going to go against everyone on this thread so please dont shoot me :) I found out the *** of both of my children prior to the birth, I wanted to know so that we could decide on a name ( mixed marriage) also wanted to paint the nursery and buy everything, I suppose it was the control freak in me, having said all of that if you have waited this long, what is 60 or so more days :) good luck xxx
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Latest post on 03 April 2012 - 15:27
So am I better off canceling her visa tomorrow, saying she just didn't work out and sending her home instead of taking her back and having to hand over her passport and deal with getting her marriage certificate attested etc and going thru that hassle If I can't let her stay why would I put everyone through the later? As sad as it seems I agree :(
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Latest post on 03 April 2012 - 15:22
They will not arrest her but they will ask for an attested marriage certificate and you may have to submit a guarentee passport on her behalf. They will not issue a new maid visa if she is pregnant I am afraid.
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Latest post on 03 April 2012 - 15:16
There is a stall in Sahara Centre just outside toys r us and they have a wide selection of hellium baloons.
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Latest post on 12 March 2012 - 09:53
the other option that you have is that you can shout at them "what do you want" they will soon leave you alone, if they persist then I would suggest that you note the registration and then go to the police and make sure that you do, once a report is made they do follow up on it. You may even find an increased police presence in the area.
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Latest post on 12 March 2012 - 09:51
Loads of really nice and cheap villas in Ajman close to Emirates Road also, plus you are close to the schools in Sharjah then.
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Latest post on 29 February 2012 - 13:48
NIP if this was me In would put her on the longest flight possible - best not type anymore otherwise I will be banned >>>>>>>>>>>>>> sitting on my hands
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Latest post on 29 February 2012 - 13:47
the system is NOT down, I have just processed some stuff ........................... its nearly Thursday maybe they are tired :(
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Latest post on 29 February 2012 - 13:45
Yes we always use tomatoes - adds more flavour, the other thing that you can so is now in C4 they have the kabsa mix that you add to the rice if I am in a hurry I used this with diced tomatoes to add extra flavour.
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Latest post on 29 February 2012 - 13:44
if she is Phillipino you can take her to the OWA office and they will deal with her without anymore expense to you - very sad
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Latest post on 29 February 2012 - 13:43
Khabsa Methods. 1) 2/12 - 3 pound chicken, cut into eight pieces • 1/4 cup vegetable oil • 2 medium onions, sliced •1 (12 ounce) can tomato puree •2 medium tomatoes, chopped •4 cloves garlic, crushed •2 medium carrots, grated • Grated rind of one orange • 4 cloves • 4 cardamom pods • 3 sticks cinnamon •Sale and pepper to taste •1 pound long grain rice •1/4 cup raisins • 1/4 cup sliced almonds METHOD Sautee onion in oil until it begins to brown. Add chicken pieces, tomato puree, chopped tomatoes and garlic and stir for about five minutes over low heat. Stir in three cups hot water, grated carrot, orange rind, spices, salt and pepper to taste. Cook over medium heat, covered, about 20-25 minutes, until chicken is done. Remove chicken. Set aside to keep warm. Stir rice into the liquid inthe pan, and cook, covered over low heat for about 35 - 40 minutes, or until liquid is absorbed. Put rice on a serving platter with chicken pieces arranged around the circumfrence. Toss raisins and almonds over all.
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Latest post on 29 February 2012 - 13:42
Here is the method i use for machboos 3 cups rice 2 lbs (950gms) lamb leg and shoulder 1/2 cup corn oil 10 curry leaves 1 teaspoon turmeric 2 teaspoons bezar 3 large onions 3 large tomatoes 2 tablespoons tomato paste 2 stock cubes 2 cloves garlic (crushed) 3 pieces cinnamon bark 3 whole dried loomi 2 tablespoons cleaned dried loomi pinch cloves salt to taste Wash and soak the rice for two hours. Clean the meat and cut into 2" (5cm) pieces. Boil until all froth has formed on top of the pan. Remove meat and discard water. Meanwhile, slice onions and chop tomatoes. Fry onion in the same pot in a little oil until brown, then add garlic, meat and all spices. Turn gently and keep frying for two to three minutes. Add remaining ingredients and add two cups water. Taste for salt at this stage and adjust seasonings if needed. Let the stew reach a good boiling stage and gently lift the rice with a spatula and add to the stew. Reduce heat to medium and leave to simmer for seven minutes with the lid on. Remove lid, stir once, gently and reduce heat to lowest setting. Cover pan tightly with a damp cloth under the lid and don't open again. Let it steam gently for 20 minutes, then turn off heat. Serve hot.
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Latest post on 28 February 2012 - 10:29
If you are talking about the wildlife centre it is on the Airport road - continue after the airport for 2 junctions and you will see the wildlife centre on your left, you exit to the right and take the overpass. Also on the airport road is the discovery centre, great for little ones to play and really cheap, just remember to take your own food and drink.
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Latest post on 27 February 2012 - 17:21
Try the iranian hospital at the satwa end of al wasl road very good and medicine is all included,. I always go to the Iranian hospital for specialist care. I can't bother, having to wait for referrals from a GP. they are amazing ! i have had surgery there twice, not the most modern but one of the best for healcare and medication
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Latest post on 27 February 2012 - 17:06
Try the iranian hospital at the satwa end of al wasl road very good and medicine is all included,.
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Latest post on 20 February 2012 - 12:24
I have no intention of going I think it is gross ............... BOYCOTT
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Latest post on 20 February 2012 - 12:23
Oh no... hoping its not the one I found and successfully reunited with his owner, all but two weeks ago? Yes it was again he has gone :(
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Latest post on 20 February 2012 - 09:26
Just to add I got a new baby yesterday, her name is beauty and she is 3 Months old. I have a gentleman who I know and trust and imports them< i can give you his number if you would like.
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Latest post on 20 February 2012 - 09:24
dont cry scream he has gone again !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! wings clipped allegedly and yet flew over a really high wall :(
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Latest post on 15 February 2012 - 16:02
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Latest post on 14 February 2012 - 17:11
You do not need to inform anyone in your home that you have cameras installed. It is your right. Check with the police ......................................................
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Latest post on 14 February 2012 - 17:11
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Latest post on 14 February 2012 - 17:06
[b'>STOP STOP STOP I am at work and i am now crazing kebab sultani Chelou kebab white rice with rouman and butter STOPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP[/b'>
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Latest post on 14 February 2012 - 17:06
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Latest post on 14 February 2012 - 13:54
ah ha ok if it is anything to do with TB then no, has she actually got a ban ? check as sometimes there is a blip in the system ? was she deported and iris scanned at the airport ?
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Latest post on 14 February 2012 - 13:51
the first step is to go to the nearest police station and file a case of forgery and harrasement. They will call the person to come and bring the document it will then be taken to the forensics lab to be tested. Then the case will be passed to the public prosecutor for a court date, it is only then that I would recommend a lawyer
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Latest post on 14 February 2012 - 13:51
I agree it is disghusting as is Hatam !!!!
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Latest post on 14 February 2012 - 13:46
mushypeas is correct it is illegal to have hidden cameras in the house :( you can get visible ones but you have to inform the staff in the house that you have them. Playing the devils advocate here, if you feel the need to install a camera then maybe you dont have the right help in the house IMHO :( you can shoot me if you want LOL
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Latest post on 14 February 2012 - 11:49
The only way is to get a copy of the medical, take a trip to the immigration and show them however, sorry to say i have sincere doubts that they will do it. It may well be easier for you to try to find a new mad as sad as it seems. Just out of interest what did she fail the medical on ?
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Latest post on 14 February 2012 - 11:47
OMG, i think with the treatment that the OP describes i woul be visiting the Ministry of Education I cannot write what I feel here otherwise the whole thread will be deleted BUT huge hugs xxxx
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Latest post on 13 February 2012 - 17:16
OMG !!!!!!!!!! some seriously nasty and bitter women out there today and its not even Thursday !! Moving right along, I think yes opposites do attract - I am the COMPLETE opposite of my husband, mentally, emotionally, culturally and ethicly. There is a clear common ground and i think of all the people on here that I know i would say that both myself and Amyaus would tell you that whilst difrferences are hard to deal with if there is a spark, a friendship a connection it will work IF you want it to work, I would say give it a go, try it, what have you got to loose. Please let us know how you get on xx
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Latest post on 12 February 2012 - 17:06
Depends on how long he has been with you, 1 year - 0.5 months salary 2 years - 1 months salary
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Latest post on 12 February 2012 - 17:04
Over the years why have Indian maids become such a rarity? There was a ban on employing them for a while the same as there is now with indonesian - it normally comes from their country and is due to the neglect and abuse they face.
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Latest post on 12 February 2012 - 17:03
No the MOL will give her a release with no ban and her old company cannot stop this at all. She needs to play it clever with the MOL: as they could say she is complaining just to move job :-( so my advice would be go there play the sob story I will get eviceted ny car loan my credit card etc and say to them that she needs her money, wait one week and then go back and say she found another job. the other could be if the MOL contract was issued 3 months ago she could still be on probation dependant ont he dates of the MOL contract and if this is the case she has to serve no notice at all.
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Latest post on 12 February 2012 - 16:59
I would have to say fillipino BUT ..................... there has to be clear ground rules from day one, we have those written and she signed a copy that way there is no misunderstandings.
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Latest post on 12 February 2012 - 16:57
If the salary is more than 10 days late she can file a case in the MOL, they will attempt to get the salary on her behalf. On another note as she is in a limitied contract they would have to pay her 3 months notice to terminate the contract and they cannot do that just because she has filed a case, the MOL will insist that they pay and they will make a note that she is not to receive a ban. As another poster said this could take some time so it would be best to file a case as soon as possible and also take with her documents that prove she was working prior to the MOL contract.
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Latest post on 12 February 2012 - 16:55
I think this is mainly in Sharjah that it is happening, I also know people that have Ethiopian maids so as I said it was in my opinion. If there is any doubt as to my post please call the Sharjah immigration and ask to be put through to the maid section. I have no reason to lie and was just offering my opinion - sorry if you dont like it but there is no need to be so confrontational or rude. Have a great day
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Latest post on 12 February 2012 - 16:07
IMHO i would not even consider hiring an ethiopian and before anyone shoots me down please read to the end. last week alone 78 maids all ethiopian were caught in one building and everyone of them had absconded. There is a huge mafia that controls them and these maids at the moment are proving to be the most problomatic. They wait for you to make the visa and then run away to work part time. In my family and friends alone we have had a total of 16 run away and it becomes an expensive process. However if you decide that you want to go - there are a great deal of agencies in Ajman who have them. Good luck with your decision
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Latest post on 08 February 2012 - 10:37
OMG I am so sorrry :-( trying to juggle work, parrots, kids and parents flying in tonight !!!!!!!!! help
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Latest post on 08 February 2012 - 10:32
Goodmorning did you try calling him his name ? my friend is sitting on the edge of her chair - sorry to be a pain
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Latest post on 08 February 2012 - 10:08
If so I think i might know who he belongs too as you say he is whistling this would appear to be my friends parrot, not large in size and not a deep red on him I hope it's your friend's parrot, else your friend would be the new fourth family with a missing parrot! could you call him scoozy and see if he responds at all ................... fingers crossed ooh and he may not be eating well as he only eats Harrisons and the occasional french fries and peanuts&gt; definatley no bannana <em>edited by Birchy on 08/02/2012</em>
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Latest post on 08 February 2012 - 09:58
Do you have a picture ? Is he tame ? If so I think i might know who he belongs too as you say he is whistling this would appear to be my friends parrot, not large in size and not a deep red on him &gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;
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Latest post on 01 February 2012 - 17:35
there are no extra fees for the sponsorship of a domestic help because the visa is in Sharjah. It is the same all over the UAE .......... if you can be a little more specific in regards to the charges maybe I can help
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Latest post on 29 January 2012 - 10:05
i do what would you like to know ?
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Latest post on 29 January 2012 - 09:38
It is illegal regardless of limited or unlimited contract to deduct visa fees for any reason from the employee.
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Latest post on 26 January 2012 - 10:10
Prado as the residual value is far higher.
 
 
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