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Latest post on 09 March 2017 - 10:36

i think all the ladies gave you good replies - no you are not overacting. i might like to add another point : a lot of these ladies prefer to work with 'western expats' for good reasons. We like to treat them as family and sometimes give them necessary privileges. I don't get a day off on my birthday- i don't get 2 days off either- i most certainly can't bring random strangers into my office for a chat/gossip session. I also don't get a 4 hour break in my day.Being a western expat- it took me getting burned 3 times to finally learn my lesson and set limits.

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Latest post on 20 April 2016 - 09:15

We've been here 6 years (this summer) and no plans to go home any time soon. My kids are young -5-3 and 1 on the way and moving here and raising them here was the best decision we could have made as a family. We've bought 2 properties here, my husband runs his own business and we've had so much exposure to different cultures and people and lifestyle that we wouldn't have had -had we stayed back home. True- it is expensive, but we really really watch ourselves. I think once our kids hit secondary school stage- we might also think of going back home, but for the moment, Dubai and Dubai life suits us.

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Latest post on 24 January 2016 - 14:21

I'm born and raised in the west and from a city that is particularly open about PDA, and even coming from that background, I feel people should be aware of their limits and cognizant of the environment they are in. No this not Saudi, but be respectful enough not to go overboard- especially if it is a family environment.

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Latest post on 04 January 2016 - 16:08

Oh thanks Lana! I had no idea I could do that. I was under the impression she had to send them a request for an ultra sound. Thanks for letting me know. It's my first pregnancy in Dubai so still not sure how it all works.

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Latest post on 04 January 2016 - 10:09

I really love KIDUCATION, Magic Phi and the the Balloon Bender- they are great and worth their price!

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Latest post on 04 January 2016 - 10:03

Thanks Ladies! Really appreciate the re-assurance. I have no reason to think anything is wrong, but in Canada, my OB gave me a scan at 7-8 weeks to look for a heartbeat and just make sure everything is on track and that's a pretty common procedure. I guess I was just expecting that as well. It's true though, a scan at this point won't tell a whole lot anyways. Thank you for the advice on morning sickness. I've tried every remedy under the sun, but nothing has worked so far :( It's just completely incapacitating. I guess I just need to ride it out, *sigh* the joys of motherhood.

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Latest post on 03 January 2016 - 16:32

Hi lovely ladies! So on November 22nd I tested positive for a pregnancy test done at DR. Elsa's clinic. I was told to come back when I was (approx) 7 weeks so we can have a scan done. 7 weeks for me fell during the holidays and her clinic only just reopened today. I'm estimating I'm midway through 8 weeks now and when I called to book an appointment they won't have a spot for me until I'm well into my 10th week of pregnancy. I have had no scans, no kind of follow up, I don't even know if all is well. All I've had is a positive blood test. I'm just wondering, isn't this a little long to go without any check up? I'm feeling a little anxious about it all, and i'm suffering from the most crippling morning sickness- thats actually all day sickness. I'm just wondering if anyone else has waited this long before seeing a Dr. Am I just anxious for nothing?

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Latest post on 31 December 2015 - 13:18

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Latest post on 30 December 2015 - 15:22

So, we lived in a JBR apartment for 4 years when we first moved here and now we've moved to a Villa in the Meadows 1. We have two boys (5 and 2 1/2). Although I miss the hustle and bustle of JBR , the boys are so happy in the villa. The noise and traffic of JBR didn't bother us too much and I quite enjoyed putting my kids in the stroller and walking down on the walk. The lifestyle of a villa though is not comparable. We have the space, we have a backyard, and the boys finally have room for their bikes and skateboards and trampolines and have the freedom to run around as they please. We have a little community lake and a park that is just full of kids everyday. They have plenty of friends all down the street. We can finally host our friends and birthday parties here and I can't stress enough how much I appreciate the space. I agree that some of the villas feel ratty, but you can find some on rent which are upgraded. My sons also attend Gems Wellington Al Khail and we love the school- they are having the time of their lives!

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Latest post on 27 December 2015 - 16:11

Silkor on Jumeirah Beach Road does "Diamonderm Abrasion Facial" and I've been pretty happy with that. I know they do other types of peelings and mesofacials but I haven't tried them as of yet.

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Latest post on 26 December 2015 - 13:13

I'll be in Montreal this summer as well and looking to put my boys in a day camp. My son, whose 5 will be joining McGill Universities Explorations summer day camp (their registration opens in the new year) and for my my 2 1/2 year old i'm looking at a nursery/ day camp called Imagi-Nation which is a bilingual institution. Theres usually a really long (1 year) waiting list for enrolment. Good luck to you!

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Latest post on 14 September 2014 - 12:50

We have just bought a villa in Meadows 1, and did a complete renovation. There wasn't anything really wrong with the villa, but the flooring and 'aesthetic' of the villa wasn't quite to our liking. We made it more 'open space' by breaking down walls, gutting out the kitchen and bathrooms and redoing them completely from scratch. But there were no structural issues with the villa. We wanted to be close to JBR and the Marina as that's where we previously lived and LOVED the area. My husband also works in JLT so the location was more than ideal. So far we like it, we like having more space than we did in JBR, we love the backyard (which we landscaped). We like the neighbourhood as well, my boys love it too!

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Latest post on 30 May 2014 - 12:52

I'm not here to wind anyone up, but will just simply express my opinion based on my own experience and I am very sorry if this offends anyone. Again- this is simply my personal experience and observation: I resisted a hiring a live in maid for 3 yrs until I had my second born, with a husband who travelled extensively and no family of my own here, I couldn't manage 2 very young ones all alone as much as I tried. Being a western expat, I had a very open attitude towards my maid. 'Treat her well- and she will do the same to you' is the attitude I had. She was paid double what the standard norm was, never babysat, never cooked, only cleaned (mainly), had extra allowances for monthly mani's pedi's (yes I know what you all are thinking), free and open access to my fridge as well as extra for anything else she would have liked, and as well clothing allowance and she was treated like my friend. When going out- she sat with us, ordered whatever she liked and I would even buy clothes for her if she liked something at H&M or Forever21. She slept out on her day off and if her work was done early she was free to leave and have the afternoon and evening to herself. Well didn't that backfire! I would go into detail but don't believe I can on the forum. Everyone told me I was being far too nice and generous and this would get me into trouble. Of course, being western and coming from a semi socialist country- I thought nonsense, maids are human just like me, they can absolutely enjoy the little perks that I personally enjoy and its barbaric to think otherwise. Well, the wise women who warned me were right, and it absolutely backfired. My maid was Philipina and got herself into a lot of trouble that could have potentially gotten us as her sponsors into trouble. Thank God it didn't. I then went on a 3 month quest to hire a replacement. I felt like I was the one being interviewed. Although I am a born and bred canadian, my husband is of Pakistani heritage and one look at our skin colour, every maid I interviewed went running for the hills. The responses I got was -"No Ma'am Western or European only", one maid asked me for a 6000 aed salary with 2 days off a week, sleep out and extra for babysitting because thats what her ex-western employer was paying her. I said to her, for that much I'll gladly be a maid! Then I had maids, who said no cooking and no babysitting... In a moment of frustration one of the maids who wanted "european only", I asked her bluntly, what do you have against 'ethnic' employers? she replied very honestly " westerners only eat salads, they don't clean everyday, they allow boyfriend, less work and more day off and higher salary". I said to her, I guarantee you would have been treated better in my home than any western employer and with that, the interview was over. By chance I discovered my current maid. She is sweet and an older philipina. She is trustworthy and my children adore her. My children's attitude towards her is what made me hire her. I am still kind to her, and without being rude I am a lot firmer. I don't want to punish my current maid for my old maids actions, but I have learned my lesson about being firm and direct. I pay a good, but normal salary. She is well treated- has access to all the food she likes in the fridge but if she would like something that we don't have, she is well paid enough to purchase it on her own. NO nights out, a full day off. When we hired her we set out very strict rules and expectations from her, but have not strictly enforced it so she doesn't expect anything. For example, when we hired her, we told her, she would babysit 2 twice a week in the evening and would cook regularly. She has been with us for 4 months and she has only babysat twice and has never cooked. Babysitting is not extra, but the times that she has babysat, I have slipped her some extra cash or an al shaya gift card for example, as a thank you- and it was a welcome surprise to her. I have yet to take my maid out with me , but if I do, she would sit with us and eat as we are and I would insist. I don't believe in not feeding your maid at a restaurant if she's with you. If didn't want to order, I would ask her to take home something she'd like. On her birthday I gave her a spa day, whereas with my old maid, it was expected every month to have her hair cut-colored, nails done ect... I believe that there is no need to be needlessly 'mean' to maids. The key is to set out your expectation firmly from the start, but to also be kind and understanding towards them. They are taking care of your home, and are away from their families. But at the end of the day it is a service you are paying for. I feel some well meaning expats, tend to go a little overboard and this can be dangerous for not only the maid but also the sponsor- this is a lesson I learned with maid 1. Do your due diligence.

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Latest post on 15 March 2014 - 19:58

McB, Amelia, DT and Lou Thank you all so much for your kind words of encouragement. I honestly feel much better. Lou, I can't imagine how you did this with twins! I think i would quite literally loose my mind, props to you! And Amelia I had no idea about this group - it sounds just absolutely wonderful and just what I feel I need- yes I am in JBR so this fantastic! Thank you for this!

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Latest post on 15 March 2014 - 18:40

Also check out Gul and Naz Makeover Masion- amazing twin sisters who are make up artists- very well known in Dubai. Also there will be a hairstylist who will be here from the UK doing freelance work- you can find them on Facebook under ASIF YVETTE- There were here a few months ago and did my hair- cannot recommend Yvette enough! She is brilliant! They do hair for all those asians bridal magazines

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Latest post on 15 March 2014 - 12:26

Thank you all for your kind words, offers of help and support. Sometimes all you need is just a friendly face in the crowd. Not people who're quick to judge and assume things about you. I don't usually get so emotional about this stuff but yes, the sleep deprivation does catch up to you after a while and make you go mental lol After next week, my husbands travel schedule should start to ease up so i'm hoping things will get better with another pair of hands at home in the evening. I am trying to build a good support network, I made some great friends when I moved here initially, but I find Dubai is such a transient place and people are always coming and going that its hard sometimes to build meaningful friendships. My 'good' friends have all moved unfortunately. I have a lot of 'superficial' mom friends who I met through coffee mornings ect... but no one I can say I'm close to. I think the first step will be to get an agency to at least help out with cleaning- which will free up time or early bedtimes and naps. Thank you all again - just having written this up and posting has already made me feel much better. <em>edited by Cleo4e on 15/03/2014</em>

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Latest post on 03 March 2014 - 14:50

Hi hun! I have been in similar situation. My last pregnancy i was being followed in Dubai for the first 21 weeks. 3 years ago i had cesarian and i knew for my second i absolutely wanted to attempt a vbac. I'm sure the dr's in dubai are great and i'm sue in your case with so much scar tissue your dr is making the right call. Mine told me the same despite me not having any other issues 'down' there and told me that early on that i may just end up being sectioned again. I just feel dr's here are quick to cut. However I went back to Canada at 22 weeks and my OB there was so soo supportive and told me there was no reason why I couldn't try- but i had to meet certain conditions a) i had to go into labour on my own as she would not induce, and that b)the baby was not breech c) a good size and weight. I'm so happy to say that with her support and guidance i did it. However I was prepared for the reality that if something went wrong I would be wheeled into the OR and i made peace with that. My c-section was traumatic to me, not because anything terrible happened- i just didn't expect it and wasn't ready for it and i wanted a natural delivery more than ever because i had a toddler to care for as well. All I can say is, trust your dr, and go with the safest option.

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Latest post on 11 February 2014 - 11:23

I just want to add: I had a maid that I sponsored last year after she worked with us for 3 years through an agency. When her contract was up we took over and sponsored her. Her reasons for working with us is that we were a 'nice' family, we didn't treat her like a maid and we made her feel like she was a part of our family. Well...1 year later all of that came and bit me in the a** (pardon my french). I have a very north american upbringing, very canadian values about how to treat help ect... Despite other expat's telling me I was being 'too nice' to my maid...I continued to treat my maid as I would a friend. Very big mistake on my part because I got taken advantage of. Unfortunately- as much as I hate to be this way, I have come to the realization that these maids are not our friends, they are our employees and their loyalties towards us sway at the drop of a dime. Of course- you can find some real gems, but most will not feel the same attachment towards you, that you may feel towards them and that was a very hard and heartbreaking lesson that I learned- and my children unfortunately also learned. I have been in your shoes- I delivered #2 this past summer, with my then 2 1/2 year old with no husband and working parents. It was tough- i'll admit, but manageable and brought me back down to earth and made me appreciate all the women worldwide who do this alone. Ive been in dubai for 4 months post delivery and have yet to hire a new maid & am in no rush too either. I don't even have any cleaning agency help. I just can't trust anymore and I can't have my kids get attached to a new "tita" only to be heartbroken again. edited by Cleo4e on 11/02/2014 <em>edited by Cleo4e on 11/02/2014</em>

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Latest post on 05 January 2014 - 23:09

I see nothing wrong with it. I'm fortunate enough that I can stay with my 3 month old and 3 year old and be the sole caregiver for my children. Not every woman can do the same. If I had to leave my baby with a nany no matter how 'trustworthy' she may seem, I will absolutely put cameras and especially if the child is at an age where he/she is unable to express themselves. We unfortunately live in a society where children have been abused and mistreated by their own relatives let alone strangers hired to care for them. I will never be 'too cautious' when it comes to my children and I really don't care who it might offend. Our children are the most valuable things in our lives and if I have to put cameras in every corner of my house to ensure that they are safe and happy, I will do so. But thats just me ;)

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Latest post on 05 January 2014 - 18:23

I just met a lovely filipina who'se been in dubai for 6 years and she's in need of a sponsor ASAP. If you're at all interested, you can send me a message and i'll be happy to pass on her details!

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Latest post on 05 January 2014 - 18:17

I just met a lovely filipina who is need of sponsorship asap. Unfortunately i cannot sponsor as i have a maid already but if you like i can pass on her information. she's been in dubai for 6 years and has a nice put together clean appearance. pm me if you're interested <em>edited by Cleo4e on 05/01/2014</em>

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Latest post on 10 December 2013 - 16:10

I used the creche services at F&F when my son was 6 months and Joanne is AMA-ZING. She makes you feel so welcome and my son loved her bubbly personality. I wouldn't hesitate at F&F for even a second.

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Latest post on 27 November 2013 - 11:32

I just did a 14 hr flight from Montreal to Doha- then Doha to Dubai. It was an overnight flight so my 2 1/2 year old (super hyperactive) slept most of the way. At the airport I let him run around and tire himself out so soon after take off, i turned on the inflight entertainment (handy many-oso-dora act..) and he fell asleep. We had bulk head seats to it gave us some room. He woke up when there was 4 hours left to the flight and back to cartoons it was. Lots of healthy snacks as he would not touch plane food. In the meantime, my 6 week old slept and breast fed the whole flight (he was the easy one). I didn't a sleep a wink though, just making sure both my kids were ok and as comfortable as possible. I was prepared for tantrums and outbursts. The night flight i think made all the difference.

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Latest post on 25 November 2013 - 15:51

My son had it twice unfortunately. Both times he caught it from nursery. The paediatrician explained to us , that you can catch different strains of the same virus (consider it like 3 brothers). It sucks big time, but as long as they stay hydrated and you can control the itch he will be fine :) I put calamine lotion on mine and would give him baking soda baths.

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Latest post on 29 October 2013 - 19:03

yup that was me! and thank you so much! i'm overjoyed- what an incredible sense of accomplishment.

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Latest post on 28 October 2013 - 21:03

At 26 weeks, I came back home to Canada to deliver my 2nd. I had my first via c-section in 2011 and was intent on a successful vaginal delivery (vbac). I did so much of my own research and tried to inform myself as much as I could so that I can make informed decisions.The dr who was on call the night i delivered my first told me due to the shape of my hips- i would never be able to birth a child vaginally, my actual OB felt otherwise so with her support we decided we would give this a try and if I absolutely needed a c-section I would be ok with that. I was ready to accept whatever outcome as long as my baby was fine. So 5 weeks ago, at 37 weeks, after a tiring and painful pregnancy (i'm 5'0 and gained 60 pounds each time- I don't make a good pregnant lady), my water broke at 7 am as I was getting out of bed. Thankfully my husband happened to be in town. He was hoping I would go into labour while he was here because he wouldn't be able to get more time off of work and would have to return to dubai. I knew I was StrepB positive and i needed to start the iv antibiotics soon due to risk of infection. So I quickly showered, packed last minute stuff into my bag and went to wake my husband. In the meantime, I cuddled with my 2 year old, told him how much I loved him and I would see him soon with a little brother. I couldn't really labor at home (as I would have liked) but, you can't have it all can you! lol As soon as hubby was ready- off to the hospital we went -i was starving though and so was this close to wanting to stop for breakfast, but then my water started really gushing while on the road so we went straight to the hospital. We arrived and they admitted me to the delivery room but by 12 in the afternoon i was still not having any real contractions and the Dr on call said I looked a little too comfortable. She started to doubt wether my water actually broke, thinking if could just be cervical fluid. When they did the speculum test I pooled and pooled and they were more than convinced. They were just concerned as to why I had very little to almost no contractions.They decided to give me small amounts of pitocin around 3 pm because my contractions were going nowhere. They had to be careful though because, I had a previous scar and giving my pitocin carried the risk of my scar rupturing and compromising the my life and the life of my baby. They gave me very very small doses but it was enough to get me really dilated. I spent most of those hours on a birthing ball. They had to keep the baby monitored, I also had antibiotics running through me so I couldn't walk around, but I was able to be mobile around my bed. When I got to 5 cm, the pain was really unbearable and I asked for an epidural. The anesthesia dr was in the OR with two more emergency surgeries so it was almost 9pm when he finally came with the epidural. It was a heaven sent. I had to lay down in bed, but I was able to rest and close my eyes for about 30 mins until the contractions became really bad and I started crying. They were coming every 2-3 minutes and they were strong and painful. The dr checked me, and within 30 mins of getting the epidural I dilated to 10 cm and was 90% effaced. I started to really push at midnight, but the dr's were worried that if I didn't deliver soon, they would have to take me to the or just because my water had been broken for so long and even though i received the antibiotics they still didn't want to risk infection. I pushed, from midnight to 4 am...it was really hard but I was determined not to have another c-section. I kept asking how the baby's heart rate was and everything was fine. So I kept pushing. I was pushing correctly but I guess just not strongly enough and my son was slowly making his way out. At 4 am, the Dr's changed shifts and the new Dr came in and he was my hero. He sat down, coached me, instructed me, and by 5 am, they put a screaming baby on my chest. I was ecstatic- exhausted!- but soo overwhelmed with joy that I did it! The dr who told me 2 years that I would never be able to do it, happen to be the head DR that night and he when he came in, he was so upset because I proved him wrong. It was amazing. I delivered the placenta right away as I held my new bundle of joy. I had a second degree tear which 5 weeks later...is doing much better although I still have some swelling (pushing for 5 hours is no joke). I still have my aches and pains- but soo soo much better than my c-section and I delivered a beautiful healthy baby boy. I'm able to breast feed this time around- my baby latched right away. It's just been one positive thing after another and I'm so happy. Call me crazy but I'm even considering #3 so soon just because I had such a great experience!

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Latest post on 17 October 2013 - 02:30

I'm struggling with this myself with my 2 1/2 year old. He throws a hissy fit now ever more than before, because he has a newborn baby brother :) We recently had a dentist appointment and thank God, no cavities or rotting teeth, but that's largely due to the fact that I don't give him candies, juices and other sugary rubbish. I ask him nicely to brush his teeth morning and evening. If he agrees, then it generally goes smoothly and if after coaxing and bribing and reasoning- all fails... I have no choice but to hold him down open his mouth and force brush his teeth for him while he screams and wails. I know- it's terrible, but otherwise- this boy would never brush his teeth- and the way i see it- he can cry and scream all he wants now, but he'll thank me for this later in life lol

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Latest post on 17 October 2013 - 02:15

Dr Syed Ahmed at Family First & at City Hospital. Fantastic dr and can't say enough good things about him!

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Latest post on 10 October 2013 - 05:29

there's also Tickles N Giggles in JBR in the Sadaf tower, plaza level.

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Latest post on 10 October 2013 - 05:28

There are some affordable classes at Family & Friends in JBR! You should check out their Facebook page and get in touch with Joanne Nelson.

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Latest post on 10 October 2013 - 05:27

Muslim expat from canada :) with 2 boys, a 2 1/2 year old and a 2 week old :)

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Latest post on 10 October 2013 - 05:20

Just to say, had the reflexology session today...feet really do feel much lighter and more flexible. Eva was really good, highly recommend for anyone experiencing those painful side effects! Yup Eva is great! Love her

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Latest post on 06 October 2013 - 20:46

Thank you ladies. I have called up a couple of places and asked about reflexology for pregnant women. I called Belle Femme and have an appointment on Tuesday at home, so can't wait. Will let you know how it goes! Hope you enjoy it! Massages were a life saver for me this time

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Latest post on 03 October 2013 - 18:19

Not just yet unfortunately. I delivered 8 days ago, and need the nether parts to heal before i can sit on a 14 hr flight back lol I was also thinking I should get babies 1st vaccines done before I travel...so I should be making my way home by mid november i'a. Things are comfortable at mum's house lol

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Latest post on 02 October 2013 - 22:28

There is a Marina Mums group on Facebook and there are always activities being posted on there by other marina mums :) https://www.facebook.com/groups/marinamums/?fref=ts

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Latest post on 02 October 2013 - 21:59

I think since you're considered 'term' it shouldn't be a problem- but i'm not a specialist of course. I did massages all throughout pregnancy until a week before i delivered. I was going to Sensasia at the golf club and would do a full body massage including legs and feet. It was fantastic! I also hired Belle Femme at Home service and their massage technician Eva was fantastic and very knowledgeable about the 'pressure' points.

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Latest post on 02 October 2013 - 21:49

Hello All, Had my 40 week checkup today and I must report that I am extremely disappointed. Baby is still high and not engaged (-3) and Dr. Elsa wants me to schedule a C-Section. I must say that I have not been impressed by her at all. For all the positive reviews on how pro natural she supposedly is, I've not seen much of any pro natrual(ness) about her. She says that I am 'prolonging the inevitable, there's no need to be a hero' and 'why put yourself through the discomfort' The only discomfort I've complained about is the swelling in my feet and honestly I feel that she should be encouraging me positively and assuring me that the baby will come when she's ready. My eyes aren't closed to a c-section I just really feel she's being premature. Everything is based solely on the fact that the baby is not yet engaged but I've read tons and tons and tons online about how many babies do not engage until labor has begun and how thats not an indication of needing a c-section or needing to be induced. Dr. Elsa originally said that we would probably be looking at csection number two 10-14 days after my due date, but now for some reason all of that has changed. The baby is not showing any signs of distress, she's still moving around and active with a strong heartbeat and good fluid so why the big rush to push me towards a c-section???? I'm so sorry to hear that hun :( If baby is fine, and your healthy there is noreason to section just yet. Here they would wait till 41 or even 42 weeks. At 40 weeks, you can have a membrane sweep to see if your labour starts and that could be helpful. My second who I just delivered, was also not engaged (0 station) until I was 4 cm- despite my water having broken at 7 am..he only engaged at 4 in the afternoon. I didn't even had contractions until they started giving me small amounts of pitocin (not too much because of my previous c section scar). Don't be pressured into doing something you don't want to do. If your healthy and baby is healthy then stand your ground. PS I saw a chiropractor regularly twice a week to help open up my pelvis and help baby drop and position himself. something the baby can't engage and labour doesn't begin because of his head position. Lean forward when sitting as much as you can, rotate your hips on an exercise ball. Walk- briskly ALOT, keep your knees below your hips when possible... <em>edited by Cleo4e on 02/10/2013</em>

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Latest post on 02 October 2013 - 21:41

Hi Ladies! I just wanted to write in and announce the birth of my baby boy who was born on the 24th. My entire pregnancy I wished for nothing but a healthy baby but i had my heart set on having a successful VBAC. After 24 hours of labour and 5 hours of pushing (yes 5 hours) he finally came and I couldn't be more happy. Even the stitches and haemorrhoids haven't gotten me feeling too down LOL. Having a vaginal birth is worlds worlds better than the c-section I had 2 years ago. I'm happy I came home to Canada to have my baby. Dr Elsa was fantastic at City, but my OB here worked with me and was there every step of the way and it's only because of her confidence and and faith in me that I managed to do it. 2 years ago the Dr who was on call the night I delivered my first told me I could never have a vaginal birth because my pelvis was too small. As luck would have it- he was on call again the night I delivered #2 , 2 years later and I proved him wrong. At 33 weeks my baby was breech but thanks to spinning babies we managed to turn him without a version at 36 weeks. All in all it's been a beautiful experience. Now if only i can get rid of the feeling of a bowling ball between my legs...things will be perfect lol

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Latest post on 02 September 2013 - 03:24

I'm back home in Canada right now- and Ive missed these dryers lol I haven't been able to find similar ones in Dubai yet lol

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Latest post on 02 September 2013 - 03:09

I would say report her as absconded and with that behaviour- you don't want a maid like that anyways. If she wasn't feeling well and needed to see a dr, I feel she should have told you before leaving (at the very least).

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Latest post on 31 August 2013 - 06:18

my cleaning company maid became my full time live out maid. Her contract was ending- I offered her a job but only after her contracted ended, as I believe there are fines with certain cleaning companies if you hire their staff while they are still employed by them. we got her visa transferred and paperwork sorted all in 30 days. It worked out well!

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Latest post on 28 August 2013 - 20:08

I would ask your doctor specifically about steroid injections to help mature the baby's lungs. They are pretty much standard care in the US for a woman at risk of premature labor and having a premie. Good luck to wish. Hoping baby can stay put and grow safely inside for another month or longer. Yes! She did mention it. She said she wanted to see me at 35 weeks to see if that would be necessary. So far this week, no sign of labour and I haven't progressed. Ive been lying on my couch for a week lol so my extreme inactivity is working for now. Lets see what next week brings. The less 'intervention' i need the better.

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Latest post on 28 August 2013 - 20:02

There is an Indian Owned dry cleaners in the Marina in the Mag 218 Tower (Ibelieve) that I send all of my very intricate and beaded south asian clothes too. Blossoms Cleaners. They will pick up and drop off and I'm very happy with their work.

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Latest post on 28 August 2013 - 19:59

DS hasn't had a cut in months! His hair is a bit longish with big curls now. I would like to maintain his hairstyle but make it shorter to school standards. I don't want to go just anywhere, where they will just take the machine and go at it! Looking for a barber to just trim and tame his curls :) Any recommendations? edited by Irooni on 28/08/2013 LOL I know what you mean- my son has the same kind of hair. I usually bring him to Caboodles in Dubai Mall :)

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Latest post on 24 August 2013 - 03:07

awwwww thank you ladies soo much!!! *hugs* I appreciate all the well wishes and good vibes! Im also hoping on a successful vbac too so lets throw that in as well lol! Will be great to meet all you lovely ladies when i get back to Dubai!! xoxo

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Latest post on 22 August 2013 - 20:31

aww thats great cleo4e, when are u due? there's this awesome momAgenda book you get in canada, im trying to find it here, to manage your days with lo's...its a nice buy if you like to pen things down When am I due good question lol I will be 34 weeks this week end, but my contractions have started and i'm apparently effaced- so i'm on bed rest. trying to make it to 37 weeks but- this baby can come any time now. My due date was Oct. 6th but i don't think that's going to be the case at this point lol I've never heard of momAgenda, will definitely look into it- i'll need to be more organized with two lo's on my hands!

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Latest post on 22 August 2013 - 07:57

I'm just waiting to deliver #2 here in canada and plan on going once I get back to Dubai sometime in november (hopefully) lol.

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Latest post on 22 August 2013 - 07:40

Williams Sonoma Store and Aveeno/Baby Aveeno products

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Latest post on 21 August 2013 - 21:59

Just had my appointment today, and indeed cervix soft and effaced and the baby's head has dropped lower in my pelvis and I am have proper contractions... albeit still not regular or painful and still not dilated- but i am feeling a lot of pressure and even rectal pressure? So she's asked me to be on semi bed rest- no walking-shopping-moping-vaccumingor anything strenuous and she's just going to monitor me weekly to see how i'm progressing. The goal is to make it to 37 weeks at least. After seeing my dr today and being told i could go into pre term labour- i am happy that i am here- medicair is free here for myself and for my baby if he is a premie and i'm in a familiar environment. that's just my two cents.

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Latest post on 21 August 2013 - 06:58

Thank you so much for sharing Mrs Rayner!! Wow what a story I must say! I do get the dull backaches, but they go away. I also had some mild cramping which also went away after lying down and drinking some water, but nothing that would indicate labour to me... Did the dr's say what they thought was the cause of you going into pre term labour? I'm currently 33 weeks and 3 days today and no sign of labour just yet. I have an appointment tomorrow morning with my OB who is now seeing me every week to check for dilation. I'd like to make it to at least 36 weeks, just to put my mind at ease about babies health. As for you going back to the UK- I think that might be a wise decision. I'm back home in Canada to deliver #2, and a especially if you have a potential premie who will need extra medical attention...you might like to be at home where you know the system and how it works and are in familiar surroundings. That was my reason for coming home to deliver and i'm glad I did. Good luck with your pregnancy- thank you for sharing and do keep us posted on how you do!!!

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