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Latest post on 30 September 2013 - 16:46
sneaky way to advertise it on here though...
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Latest post on 30 September 2013 - 16:44
I think that this is unacceptable unless you have told her that she can take whatever she wants from the house. [b'>I wouldn't consider this stealing, though[/b'>. I think it's more a case of her thinking she can get away with it. Why don't you just tell her openly that she is not allowed to take stuff from the house? Tell her that if she needs extra food or toiletries, she needs to ask you. And whose clothes is she taking? How is it not stealing ? and incidentally, I also regard nicking stationery from work that you don't need a form of theft
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Latest post on 30 September 2013 - 16:40
maybe he just knows he isn't able to father children and doesn't want to tell her... but I agree that if my husband ever said anything like that to me I would feel highly insulted...
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Latest post on 30 September 2013 - 15:41
Cleaning shells Here come the unpleasant part (well, at least from my point of view). But you must not get discouraged, performing this step is the only way to have a nice looking collection. And more important, it is sometime necessary for the identification phase. Removing the body You know that mollusks are animal. When seashells are collected alive, the animal is still inside its shell. Even collected beached, some shells can still have the body or part of it inside. So, the first thing to do is to remove the body from its shell, and there are quite a few ways to do it: - Leaving the body to rot: if you can leave the shell in a temperate and wet place, the body will start to rot and to self-digest. After a few days it will become really stinky but rinsing it under a strong water current (a gardening hose will do perfectly) aimed at the shell aperture or valves, it will flush the decaying flesh out of the shell. - Boiling the shells: Just like if you wanted to cook the shells, put them in boiling water and after a certain duration (according to the animal size) you will be able to remove the body. It work especially well with bivalves. For gastropods, use a hooked device to extract the animal. Sometime parts of the body stay inside the shell after extraction, in these case, use an other way to finish clear the shell. - Freezing the shells: I have heard of this technique but I have never been successful in performing it. It is said that after a few sequences of freezing - unfreezing, the body can be easily extracted just like after boiling. - Use of chemicals: Alcohol and formol can be used, it is better with small shells. After 5-6 days of drowning (it is faster with formol), remove the shell from the solution and leave it outside in an open place. The body will dry inside the shell without leaving any discomfortable odour. - Bleaching: Bleach can also be used to remove parts of body locked inside a gastropod spire. Pour bleach in the shell in a way that enable the liquid to reach the bottom of the spire. Leave it for a few hours, during that time the bleach dissolves flesh remains. Then rinse the shell. Warning, do not do that with glossy shells as bleach may stain them (cowries, olives, etc.). http://www.conchylinet.com/page32.php?Page=32&Level=2...
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Latest post on 30 September 2013 - 15:01
5 years is a long time to wait for a baby who may never materialise. Especially when all your friends will be getting pregnant. Torture IMO. There are plenty of women who have to remain childless through no fault of their own.....
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Latest post on 30 September 2013 - 14:58
If you don't mind second hand you could try joining your community's facebook page (especially the ones for "mums" or "women") - the ones I belong to are inundated with members flogging off all their old baby stuff and clothing....not always second hand either - amongst the dross there are some half-decent bargains to be had !! lol
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Latest post on 29 September 2013 - 12:38
how do you know what other schools charge ?
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Latest post on 29 September 2013 - 10:32
Why is it the DF's fault ? this story's been all over the media for days....
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Latest post on 29 September 2013 - 10:03
you sure it's drinking water ? and I didn't know there was a national effort to save water....
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Latest post on 29 September 2013 - 09:34
sorry, not meaning to suggest that the two things are connected !!
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Latest post on 29 September 2013 - 09:24
Never mind the weekend, where did September go ??
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Latest post on 28 September 2013 - 23:31
Kaleidoscope at Atlantis does a fab buffet breakfast from 8 or 8.30 til 11 (can't remember exact times)...
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Latest post on 28 September 2013 - 23:29
Have always had our tree up, however tiny the children have been and they've never bothered with it....Just say no the first time, if they do... Children love Christmas trees, would be a shame not to have one... Now, cats is another story...... lol
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Latest post on 28 September 2013 - 23:26
And they had a bus service this time last year when I enquired about it. Has it been cancelled ?
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Latest post on 26 September 2013 - 23:00
I tried for a few minutes to find out what this thread was about. Then I was pleased that I couldn't see it. (the headlines on british media had obviously moved on. Not that the people involved in this aren't having horrible time.... ...but if the news isn't enriching your life or fulfilling some need that you have.....please don't dwell on it...you can get old very quickly on dwelling on the dark things that folks do to each other....even if they are far from you .. when I looked I got misled into a story of a toddler being murdered... no shortage of cases like this... enriching and fulfilling seem odd words to use - I don't expect the news to do either of those things...I expect it to inform, that's all
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Latest post on 26 September 2013 - 22:24
One thing that adds to queues is attendants who are busy washing the windscreen and rear window while other cars are done and waiting to pay and leave; that is a voluntary service and think it should be banned if there is a queueNo attendant in the past 6 months has offered to wash my car's windscreen and rear window, regardless of queues or the relative dustiness of car exterior. Is that service still provided? don't know - I haven't had it offered for yonks...
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Latest post on 26 September 2013 - 20:35
Off topic sorry OP, but has there already been a switch in Headmasters at Foremarke? From... to ? I thought it was a Mr P but see now it is Mr A who used to be the Head of Primary at R... I thought Mr A was going to be the head from the beginning. No, Proudmama is correct.
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Latest post on 26 September 2013 - 20:35
Hahaha! Just choked on my drink. :D
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Latest post on 26 September 2013 - 20:32
Can I have a P please Bob? :-) no, you should have gone before !!
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Latest post on 26 September 2013 - 19:42
Yes. If needs be you can then have a 50/50. Thanks but the audience is a bit thin on the ground these days... lol If we were playing hangman could I use an R and an O ??
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Latest post on 26 September 2013 - 19:25
Difficult to answer without knowing which school we're talking about !! lol I'll give you one guess :D can I ask the audience ?
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Latest post on 26 September 2013 - 19:01
I'm sure I read somewhere 8pm although I can't think where. I hope she doesn't do a Bieber. Thought she already had.....
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Latest post on 26 September 2013 - 16:24
Our school has 22 as well - this year we have 19
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Latest post on 26 September 2013 - 15:52
we have done drinks and deserts at the Rivington Grill in souk al bahar so I'm sure you could do the same at the one at The Madinat. They are delicious - what a lovely way to end your evening. Are you back in Dubai now then Claire ?
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Latest post on 26 September 2013 - 15:27
I must admit that I ahven't really thought about it too hard but I always just assumed that clubbing attire was pretty normal for the school run in a lot of schools. This thread suggests otherwise, anyone got any idea why it's so popular at my children's school? Difficult to answer without knowing which school we're talking about !! lol
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Latest post on 26 September 2013 - 14:39
Are you looking at any areas in particular DJ? You could get a townhouse in Alma or Al Reem in Arabian Ranches but the fourth bedroom is small. For four full sized bedrooms in the Ranches you'd need an independent villa and 220k wouldn't cover it. we had 4 bedrooms in Al Reem but one of them was supposed to be a "study" (no fitted wardrobe)and easily big enough for a single bed and wardrobe - I believe similar are going for less than 200k
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Latest post on 26 September 2013 - 11:57
and boss has been told we ARE leaving on time today.... 3 pm and we are out the door 3 pm ? on a half day today then ?
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Latest post on 26 September 2013 - 11:01
They told me that they are imported British potatoes which makes them expensive... (I bit my tounge) Why did you bite your tongue about this? Isn't it the truth? ME [b'>potatoes are cheap as chips[/b'>. ROFL !!!
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Latest post on 26 September 2013 - 11:00
yes, why bite your tounge (sic) ? lol It's true - of course the fact that they have been chill-freighted (or whatever they call it) more than 3,000 miles will make them dearer than local... I find local new potatoes from Saudi have a really nice flavour and aren't expensive..But if I want the privilege of buying products from home I am prepared to pay for it...
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Latest post on 26 September 2013 - 10:54
[url=http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2431657/Mother-pictured-drinking-LAGER-school-gates-waits-pick-children.html'>what should we expect from expats, really?[/url'> makes you proud to be British !!
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Latest post on 25 September 2013 - 21:55
Its all to do with the underpinning that is now in place that didnt exist a few years ago. lol Did I say something to amuse you? clearly yes !! lol
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Latest post on 25 September 2013 - 21:12
Personally I think you are all a little jealous and no I'm not one of the flashy ladies mine get the bus! The argument that your kids are subjected to looking at these ladies - come on get real!! It upsets no one apart from if you feel inadequate yourself JMO !! LOL !!
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Latest post on 25 September 2013 - 20:30
Have often wondered at what age one would turn against a tattoo...surely they're painful to have done in the first place, so at what point to you grow up enough to decide that it's not that great after all...But 13 years doesn't seem long - are you really such a different person now ?
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Latest post on 25 September 2013 - 20:25
As mentioned previously on this thread the regulation part is difficult to enforce, take a walk anywhere where there are expats and you will see many who would maybe not be approved by some as regards what they are wearing. Are ladies who wear gym wear really that offensive or is it rather those who critic are just jealous of their fab bodies? [b'>How often do you see size challenged ladies wearing skin tight Lycra[/b'>? lol Is wearing a sleeveless but classy business dress really that offensive? It seems to be mainly ladies who complain about other ladies and the way they dress, never heard a man complain yet! edited by Lolacat on 25/09/2013 Every time I go to McDonalds in the UK !! lol No I don't like to see gym clothes and not because i'm jealous of the so-called fab bodies...I just think that, much as camels are part of the local scenery, I prefer not to have their toes shoved in my face, so to speak, when I take my child to school... !! Honestly, ladies who think they're showing off their "fab bodies" in tight bottoms should see themselves from the back !! lol
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Latest post on 25 September 2013 - 16:02
ROFL !! not to mention the Essex branch of Tesco who, following customer complaints, had to ban slummy mummies shopping in their pj's...
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Latest post on 25 September 2013 - 15:53
well, sarahlou, I wonder where in the UK you can escape the low slung jeans exposing the thong top ewwww and tattoo, muffin tops, overflowing necklines etc....walking down our high street is like being an extra on Jeremy Kyle !! lol And I've noticed that exposed flesh is in direct proportion to the amount ie those with the most seem to bare the most !! lol sorry to wander OT.. I was home in Chester two weeks ago and no leggings, uggs or hot pants to be seen! Now if I ventured slightly further afield, through a tunnel then no doubt I would of seen what you saw haha ugh UGGS...now there IS an abomination....just what the..... ewwwww lol
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Latest post on 25 September 2013 - 15:31
As regards the sleep issue - no-one has yet mentioned your comment - [i'>she slept in our room til 8 months[/i'> ..Maybe you're just over-thinking this and it's simply a case of her reacting to the new sleeping arrangements...All her life she was in your room and now suddenly she is in a room alone..
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Latest post on 25 September 2013 - 15:03
and I can also remember the summer of 1976 !! lol
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Latest post on 25 September 2013 - 15:02
well, sarahlou, I wonder where in the UK you can escape the low slung jeans exposing the thong top ewwww and tattoo, muffin tops, overflowing necklines etc....walking down our high street is like being an extra on Jeremy Kyle !! lol And I've noticed that exposed flesh is in direct proportion to the amount ie those with the most seem to bare the most !! lol sorry to wander OT..
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Latest post on 25 September 2013 - 13:23
I to cry it out (if that's what CIO means). haha I was also wondering what CIO meant! me three... thank you Simples !! have never heard the term before...
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Latest post on 25 September 2013 - 12:17
There is quite a debate going on in the UK at the moment about the niqab (face veil) with some pressure to ban it completely or just in public buildings (I think some would like to ban the hijab too). I have been very vocal on Twitter about the state having no role in defining what women should wear and that includes the niqab. Using the same logic I don't think schools should be doing so either. Obviously if I had my way I would totally mandate age / size appropriate clothing at all times. Come to our school, one afternoon, coffee on me and you will completely change your mind. You will see things you have yet to see! Shortest daisy dukes with the highest heels. Yoga tights with tops showing the midriff. Tube tops with breasts about to fall out. Blouses with V backs all the way down to the waist with the bra in full view. I could go on!! [b'>And you should see what the women wear !! lol[/b'> If they don't regulate it, there is no telling how some parents will dress for school. It doesn't matter if it is an Islamic country or not, it is a school and such attire is just not appropriate. Lost! ? edited by Irooni on 25/09/2013 just a joke :-D
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Latest post on 25 September 2013 - 12:10
There is quite a debate going on in the UK at the moment about the niqab (face veil) with some pressure to ban it completely or just in public buildings (I think some would like to ban the hijab too). I have been very vocal on Twitter about the state having no role in defining what women should wear and that includes the niqab. Using the same logic I don't think schools should be doing so either. Obviously if I had my way I would totally mandate age / size appropriate clothing at all times. Come to our school, one afternoon, coffee on me and you will completely change your mind. You will see things you have yet to see! Shortest daisy dukes with the highest heels. Yoga tights with tops showing the midriff. Tube tops with breasts about to fall out. Blouses with V backs all the way down to the waist with the bra in full view. I could go on!! [b'>And you should see what the women wear !! lol[/b'> If they don't regulate it, there is no telling how some parents will dress for school. It doesn't matter if it is an Islamic country or not, it is a school and such attire is just not appropriate.
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Latest post on 25 September 2013 - 11:20
Yes, I think they're entitled to ask parents to dress respectfully when on school premises. We should be doing that anyway but tiny skirts and plunging necklines aren't really acceptable here, in my opinion.
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Latest post on 25 September 2013 - 11:15
sorry but I would never leave a crying baby without first checking she's ok - how did you know she didn't need anything ? Even if you're using some kind of "method" surely you should still do the basic checklist every time she cries...or maybe i'm just old-fashioned - I don't even know what CIO is...
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Latest post on 25 September 2013 - 11:11
How on earth is that a pop quiz? what, and no mention of Robin Thicke ? lol
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Latest post on 25 September 2013 - 11:09
17 minutes ? omg - mine could cry for hours !! lol...and I had friends who would even drive their babies out in the car to try and get them off to sleep - thankfully ours were never that bad but there is no sound on earth worse than a crying baby, in my view...
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Latest post on 25 September 2013 - 11:01
Maybe we should have a "Culture with Crushing Waves" session.;.. Or maybe a pop quiz; see how many EW can answer q about the UAE ;) [b'>Name the 7 Emirates anyone[/b'>? LOL !! before we moved here my husband made us all memorise them - he'd been told that expats sometimes get asked that on arrival !! All the times we've been backwards and forwards and have never been asked...
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Latest post on 25 September 2013 - 10:21
Did you know that AD was never meant to be the capital for more than 7 years? That an area called Al Karama was supposed to be built, which would be the capital? so instead of flags we should be discussing dodgy handbags ?
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Latest post on 25 September 2013 - 10:18
Just to add, none of my children crawled until 10 - 11 months or walked until 14 - 15 months and they are all perfect (ish ;) ). and both mine were walking on their first birthdays - which just goes to show the folly in expecting your baby to develop "by the book" ....
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Latest post on 25 September 2013 - 10:00
I am curious to know what kind of tattoos y'all are getting removed.......Izzy? SANDDY? Marroosh? Nothing now ;) - they're gone :) unless you get sunburnt !!