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Latest post on 13 May 2011 - 20:03
If he's home, do you both have a drink at the same time? If so, you'd be in the same boat as if you were home alone and had one. A friend asked me this a while back and I thought perhaps I shouldn't, then I realised when he's home we both drink so it's no different.
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Latest post on 13 May 2011 - 13:05
Can I ask how much you paid per fan, if you don't mind? I'd love to have them in our house but DH is convinced we'll need to flog a kidney.
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Latest post on 13 May 2011 - 13:02
Grrr, so annoying! I hope you get it sorted.
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Latest post on 12 May 2011 - 20:14
Eeek, that's not good. I'm so sorry. I have no clue who'd be best to speak to :(. I know there is one person who's responsible for insurance at DH's work and she's really good at clarifying things, but if you're not getting that help from your DH's office it must be so frustrating. My card says American Hospital is covered for reimbursement only, so I guess if City is the same for you it would be mentioned? I guess you've already been to the finance department at City?
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Latest post on 12 May 2011 - 20:02
Overfed schmoverfed. Seriously, the doctor said she's 400g OVERWEIGHT? I'd be changing paediatricians, pronto. I'm afraid I don't have any advice for you but I just wanted to say I'm pretty damn sure you're doing a super job of feeding her and her being overweight at two months old is utter rubbish. BFC gives brilliant advice on BF. I'm sure she'll be along soon and be able to help.
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Latest post on 12 May 2011 - 10:41
Have you tried Ikea? We got some there last week. ETA: Or if you need super-long ones, a friend of mine just had some made and I think they were about 600dhs per gate. I can find out the company name if you need. <em>edited by DubaiCat on 12/05/2011</em>
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Latest post on 12 May 2011 - 10:40
DS is almost one and I'm due November 24. To say this one was an accident would be an understatement - more like the next best thing to an immaculate conception! :D We see Dr Elsa at City and are very, very happy with her. She delivered DS after a rather hurried induction thanks to pre-eclampsia, and we have every faith in her. We aren't going to find out pink or blue (although this time I have been slightly tempted) so it'll be a surprise. I had some nausea early on but now, apart from feeling like a fat, frumpy heifer, I don't have any symptoms at all.
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Latest post on 12 May 2011 - 10:37
Awww, that's lovely! I don't think we've ever had a thank-you post like this! I wish we had a like button :). All the very best with the birth of your little one and don't hesitate to come on and ask whatever you need, whenever. Someone's bound to know the answer and even if we don't, we'll lend a virtual ear! x
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Latest post on 11 May 2011 - 22:16
You did indeed! Good thinking Batman. I didn't even know I had a spam folder in gmail! :D
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Latest post on 11 May 2011 - 21:03
DH got a new VW badge to replace the one that was stolen from one of his wheels. Just asked for it when the car was in for its service, and I don't think it was that expensive. Little sods!
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Latest post on 11 May 2011 - 19:45
I just checked and don't have anything there :\:. Let me just make sure I typed it right... Yep :) <em>edited by DubaiCat on 11/05/2011</em>
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Latest post on 11 May 2011 - 14:12
This looks great!
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Latest post on 11 May 2011 - 14:10
It's harpersdxb at gmail dot com. Thanks!
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Latest post on 11 May 2011 - 14:08
We have NAS/QIC and I got DH to query this City thing with the person who deals with insurance at his work. He was told City is still covered for us, with a limit :\:.
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Latest post on 11 May 2011 - 14:06
Bless her for helping out, although I know exactly what you mean. I'm OK with DS being with his dad, but other than that I feel I'm shirking my responsibilities if I hand him to someone else to look after! I shall have to get over this before baby #2 arrives :D. I'm glad Cecile will be working with you to see if you can get something sorted. I felt better after seeing her, just because I felt like I was actually trying to do something about it and that perhaps there would be light at the end of the tunnel! And of course it's a million times harder being so far away from family :(. Chin up, though - you might be on the road to recovery now!
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Latest post on 11 May 2011 - 14:02
So, I am trying to figure out what I need to buy for my first baby boy. could you please help me???. Thank you. [color=#000000'>Hopefully this quote thing will work and you'll see my answers! I fell out with my mum because she said I'd bought far too much, so I thought I'd respond to each item in turn and tell you what we found. -Bodysuits? (how many??). Do I also need pants, shirts???. Pants and shirts - only if you want baby too look nice when you go out! Bodysuits yes, if you mean the all-in-one sleepsuits. DS lived in them for the first few weeks. It's really handy if you can find the ones that have integral mitts. Mothercare do them. -Do you need mittens, hats, socks, booties? (how many??) Don't bother if you can get the sleepsuits/bodysuits with mitts built in. Get a couple of hats in case you think it's cold with the a/c on. -Sleeping clothes??, same as day clothes but baby sleeping in a sleeping bag? Sleeping bags can be used from about 8lb onwards, I think, and according to the NHS at home baby should be in a vest, sleepsuit/bodysuit and one layer (e.g. a blanket) in a room between 16 and 20 degrees. -How many receiving blankets, bibs??? I had four blankets which did us fine, and no bibs. -Any other clothes? As you choose! You can go mad here because they're all so cute :D. -Towels?, how many? We had a fair few towels - about 10 - because they dry so quick here and it meant I could be lazy with washing! -If I decide on cloth diapers, how many? No clue here, went the disposable route. -Diaper bag - I got one from Mothercare then changed to one that was more like a regular handbag as I hated carrying around something that looked like a laundry bag. I found one with lots of pockets and space and it's really useful. -Crib - If you mean cot, yep! Although for baby # 2 I plan to get a small Moses basket or bassinet to go next to the bed, then move baby to a cot at around 6 months, same as we did with DS1 (although he had a hammock to start with). -Bedding, what is enough?, bumper and bed sheets is enough??. Or do I need comforter, pillow,etc?? Just sheets. I'd say four, as I have three and it's not quite enough. No bumper unless you get the Airwrap. No pillows or comforter until they're much bigger. -Crib mattress protector - Godsend. Get two in case one gets sicked on! -How many bottles? - I have six and that works fine, but I switched to formula at eight months so you might need more than this in the early days if you FF from the start. -Bottle sterilizer? - We have an electric one as our microwave is only small. You'll need to get the one that matches your bottles unless you can find a universal one. - Mobile for crib - Didn't bother - crib is for sleeping in this house! -Stroller - Prepare for stroller envy! See if you can have a try of friends' strollers to see how they actually work with a baby in, bag hanging off the back and crowds shoving you around. Oh, and how they work over pavements and sand. -Car seat - One with a base is invaluable so you don't have to faff around strapping seatbelts around it every time. If you can get Isofix it's even easier. We had the Maxi Cosi Cabriofix (new model is the Pebble) with the FamilyFix base. -Basket for baby to sleep around the house or out. I did plan to get one of these for this one but now I think baby is going to have every nap in the cot if we're home. Let's see if this is more successful than napping anywhere and everywhere, which we did with DS1! -Electric pump double (since I am going back to work), plus storage bags/bottles? I had the Tommee Tippee one and it was adequate, although I didn't pump much. -Nipple cream, breast pads - Definitely. -Maternity pads - You can get jumbo packs from Mothercare for about 40dhs but I found the smaller, more expensive packs were better quality and more comfortable. Get a few packs in and then you can switch to super-size sanitary towels after a while. -Bath tub - We had one and were able to fit it on the sink in the bathroom, so there was no bending down which helped our backs. -What toiletries? (shampoo, soap, powder, baby wipes, ???) We used nothing for the first while then Seba Med cleanser/bath stuff. Boots often do offers on their wipes, buy one get one free, so you can get two packs for 12dhs. -Changing mat - Lots of baby bags/diaper bags have them included but it's handy to have one for changing downstairs if your changing table is upstairs. -Baby support pillow so he wont flip - I don't think you'll need one when baby is so small and if you do buy one, check there's no recall anywhere for it as some have been recalled due to safety concerns. -Nursery pillow - If you mean nursing pillow, definitely. I found it such a help when DS was tiny. -Swing? - I never had one but friends swear by them and if this baby doesn't sleep, I'm getting one! -Baby monitor? - Handy to have, especially one where you can operate the baby unit remotely and put the lullably back on from downstairs! -Baby toys? - You'll get stacks of them as presents, so save your cash. -Baby gym? - We had a playmat and used it from about 8 weeks. I'm not sure he was ever that interested, though. -Pacifier? - Get a couple of different styles to try and see if baby likes them. DS only ever had one when my niece held it in his mouth in the back of the car! -Anything else? - A baby carrier, such as the Baby Bjorn or Ergo. Very handy if you need to get something done and baby won't settle. And muslin squares - you can get packs from Ikea dirt cheap. Super-handy for catching sick, mopping up dribble, and a million other things. Hope that helps! [/color'>
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Latest post on 11 May 2011 - 10:39
Thanks so much for thinking of me! :) And that's really, really helpful. I did have a quick google of 'space between placenta and uterus wall' as that's what the first doctor I saw told me, but this is far more useful as it turns out it's not 'space' but the edge coming away. That's made my day! x
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Latest post on 11 May 2011 - 09:04
The new SIL is probably feeling like she's the newcomer to the family and has to make a big effort. I even remember making an effort with my in-laws-to-be, and I'm pretty sure most of you on here know my opinions of them now! So she's probably feeling a little nervous and insecure, and buddying up with the domineering old hag is making her feel a bit more settled. Give it a while and I'm sure she'll be as hacked off with her as you are then you'll have a new ally :D. <em>edited by DubaiCat on 11/05/2011</em>
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Latest post on 11 May 2011 - 08:14
You don't get the introductory offer miles with Emirates NBD any more :(. I think they're OK for actually earning miles, though. DH applied for a new card months ago, when they were still giving you 75,000 miles for getting the card, and it took them so long to process it by the time they eventually did, the offer had finished and they refused to honour it.
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Latest post on 11 May 2011 - 08:11
The petrol station by us - Springs/Meadows - has some pretty cool travel mugs. I think it's an Eppco.
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 20:58
I have no experience to share but just wanted to say I'm so sorry if you do need one. Take care of you.
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 20:57
I know, I read it lots on here and always try to offer reassurance but it's different when it's me! I'm sure things will be fine and if not, then so be it. All I can do is take the Cyclogest and rest up. And the bleeding has stopped now, so hopefully that's a good sign!
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 20:55
How disappointing. Did they give you a good reason why they cancelled on you? That's so unfair on you, especially when you've waited so long. Fingers crossed you manage to get sorted with an appointment at one of the two clinics soon. And lots of baby dust coming your way! :)
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 20:19
Yep, City Hospital. And I'm 12 weeks pregnant, but I had a bleed the other day and it seems the placenta has come away a little bit on the edge, so I'm back on the Cyclogest to try and keep things stable. Fingers crossed!
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 15:25
The good news: I was just at City and they have Cyclogest. The bad news: I am now back on it!
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 15:25
Did you manage to get another appointment? That must be so frustrating :(.
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 15:21
Awww, that was so nice of her! Kettle on, feet up, open chocolates. Job done!
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 15:20
My sister and I have both had really greasy patches at some stage or another and usually when there's babies or hormones involved! Over here I add a couple of drops of tea tree oil to my shampoo and at home she uses T-Gel shampoo. I'm not sure if you can get it here but it worked wonders for her. One other thing I do is make sure I only get conditioner right on the ends of my hair, or where there are layers. If I get any close to the roots I look like I've dipped my head in the chip pan within a couple of hours.
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 10:41
Every time I think of bringing things back to Dubai I'm reminded of when we lived in Norway years ago. My parents used to go to Sainsbury's before we went home to stock up, and literally filled the car with everything we liked and couldn't get in Norway. Several things were illegal to import, though, so we all used to hold our breath on the way through customs. We were unlucky enough to be stopped once and the customs guys searched the whole car. They found sausages - illegal - and Dad sighed and explained that the kids didn't like Norwegian sausages. Same with the Heinz beans et al. They came to the cat food and Dad shrugged his shoulders and said the cats didn't like Norwegian cat food. You can imagine what the customs guys said when they found a couple of tins of fish food right at the bottom of a box.
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 10:38
OK, I have a reply from Argentum and the cost is £209 per certificate so it looks like I will be doing it myself when I go to UK. Do I have to go to the British Embassy in London for this? Do you mean do you have to go to the British Embassy for the attestation process? If so then no, just send it recorded/registered delivery straight to Milton Keynes (I think it's the Foreign and Commonwealth Office). If it helps you at all, I'm going home June 2nd and am happy to mail it for you as soon as I get home. I'm there for a couple of weeks - I can't remember offhand how long it took when we did it, but you could always put your own address for it to be returned to, then it'll be waiting for you when you get home.
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 10:27
Rude schmude :D. I second Sainsbury's gloves - they're brilliant! I always find I'm between sizes here but Sainsbury's are a better fit and don't stick together so much when you put them on. God, I miss UK shopping!
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 10:10
You're most welcome and I know exactly what you mean about not wanting anyone round - I'm exactly the same! But I'm happy to drop them off with your building security too. Hope you and the little ones are better soon.
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 09:21
I have to go to Jumeirah when DS wakes up around lunchtime and can pass by MOE area, and I know exactly where the gloves are in our local Spinneys because it's the size of a shoebox and they can't hide things (although they often try!). Want me to drop some in to you? It's no problem at all and will give us something to do :D.
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 08:43
And when you send it to Milton Keynes there's an option to have them send it directly on to the UAE Embassy in London, which is where it needs to go next. They will then send it back to you.
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 08:40
Oooh, sounds sneaky! That'll be my project for DS's morning nap :D. Thanks!
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Latest post on 10 May 2011 - 08:31
Wow, that sounds positive! I honestly don't know how you stay strong enough to go through all this. I really feel for you. Still keeping fingers crossed! x
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Latest post on 09 May 2011 - 20:35
I just found a book on Pixel of Ink and then put the title into a search on my Kindle - I couldn't be bothered getting off the sofa to get the USB cable - and I was able to get it for the same price as on PoI. Result! Readable cr4p, perfect for bedtime reading, for just over a dollar. Thanks ladies!
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Latest post on 09 May 2011 - 20:22
I don't blame you - it gets wearing after a while! I guess when rents were something like 35k for a one-bed on SZR, it was feasible to pay upfront. But it's just ridiculous to expect tenants to pay somewhere in the region of 300k in one go for a year, when they have no clue if they'll even be here in a year. Let's hope things change sometime in the near future.
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Latest post on 09 May 2011 - 20:07
I think my parents' tenants had no fixed term initially so they must just have a periodic/rolling contract. Here, every contract I've ever signed has been for a fixed period of a year. I wonder where this came from?
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Latest post on 09 May 2011 - 19:32
I think it's a little bit unique here in that rental contracts are typically for a period of one year. At home in the UK, my parents have tenants in a house who don't have a fixed term contract but just have to give two months' notice to leave. Is that fairly standard elsewhere?
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Latest post on 09 May 2011 - 19:19
Ta! Off to grab myself a free read and retire to the bedroom with a cup of tea :D.
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Latest post on 09 May 2011 - 19:16
Warning: Dim question coming your way. Do I go to amazon.com directly on the Kindle or on the laptop?!
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Latest post on 09 May 2011 - 19:08
Doesn't the rent committee have some kind of say over tenant/landlord contracts? As in where they insist a tenant be allowed to renew, or refuse to allow a rent increase?
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Latest post on 09 May 2011 - 19:05
I know we talked about Kindles recently and I'm pretty sure free books were mentioned but funnily enough, when I search 'kindle' nothing comes up. Does anyone know where I can find free books to download?
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Latest post on 09 May 2011 - 16:10
I think you can email the Entertainer to let them know, as the wording sounds misleading. Worth a try!
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Latest post on 09 May 2011 - 16:06
[i'>Article 66 The daily working hours shall be so regulated that no worker shall work for more than five successive hours without breaks - for rest, meals and prayer- amounting in aggregate to not less than one hour. Such breaks shall not be included as part of the working hours. However, in factories and workshops where work is organised in the form of successive day and night shifts, and in processes where work has to continue uninterrupted for technical and economic reasons, the manner in which breaks for rest, meals and prayer are to be granted shall be specified in a resolution by the Minister. Article 67 Where the work circumstances require a worker to work more than the normal number of hours, any period worked in excess shall be treated as overtime, for which the worker shall receive the wage stipulated for his normal working hours, plus a supplement of at least 25 per cent of that wage.[/i'> From www.dubailabor.com - I couldn't find the relevant articles on the Ministry of Labour site. Whether or not your boss will pay any attention is debatable, though! Good luck.
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Latest post on 09 May 2011 - 15:58
I checked the Screampoint reports on RERA and the latest says 23% complete. If I remember rightly, the last one done before that said 21% complete. So, technically, I guess they can't say no work has been done! :\: Thinking about it, I wonder if they do that so they don't have to cancel the project and go through all the fuss of refunding/not refunding/admitting they've spent the cash? I know Screampoint are supposed to be independent but I don't think that word means much here. Lots of developers are doing the bare minimum to prevent cancellation... Nay a happy situation. That's what we thought when we saw the pictures of the two lonely workmen. I guess we'll just have to wait for the next Screampoint report, but then I suppose they could always just chuck the cranes back up quickly before the inspectors arrive! :D
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Latest post on 09 May 2011 - 15:48
Do you have anyone who could take baby for a couple of hours while you get some rest? It's so hard here when we often don't have family around. I know I find it difficult to ask friends to help out as I'm always worried I'm just adding to their burden :(. Seriously, see if you can get a second opinion. I'm no expert - far from it! - but babies don't just wake screaming for no reason.
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Latest post on 09 May 2011 - 15:42
Hoping for good news... x
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Latest post on 09 May 2011 - 15:37
Is the rash all over his bottom area or just concentrated? If it's all over perhaps he's allergic to something either in the nappy, in the cream or in the wipe. I think I'd probably pop him back to the doctor just to be sure. My sister always recommends Metanium nappy rash cream. Her son had terrible, terrible diarrhoea for ages when he was tiny and it was the only thing that made any difference.