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Latest post on 01 October 2012 - 17:37
Elemis do a great range: Pro Marine. Also their Tri-Enzyme range is very good. I think Estee Lauder's Night Repair is brilliant and then some some facial oil (Argan, anything by Espa or Aromatherapy Associates is worth trying). Also, try moisturising face masks twice a week and facial massage. You can do these yourself rather than spend a fortune at the beauty salon. <em>edited by emmsie on 01/10/2012</em>
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Latest post on 01 October 2012 - 17:28
That's a tough one if your dog is afraid of cats. There is almost nothing a cat owner can do to stop cats going into other gardens. I have a dog and a cat and both are fairly wary of each other. I don't think that the number of animals they have (unless it's excessive i.e. 10 or 20) will necessarily be unhygienic. What is unhygienic is if someone doesn't clean up after their animals. You could try talking kindly to your neighbours, explain that your dog is frightened of cats but that you understand that there isn't much your neighbours can do to stop the cats coming over. Instead, why not ask them to let you know when the cats are inside. Perhaps they have a routine that you could learn. When you know the cats are inside, that's when you can let your dog outside. If these people have lots of animals, they are most likely to be animal lovers and if you speak reasonably to them about the problem, I bet there's a compromise to be found somewhere. Good luck!
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Latest post on 01 October 2012 - 17:02
[b'>So the truth is if you've come from somewhere better than Dubai... it never gets easier [/b'>... What on earth does this mean? I know we all have our up days and down days about Dubai but ultimately everyone here has chosen to live here and we can all leave at any time. I don't think you can classify somewhere as "better" or "worse" just different. Dubai just doesn't suit some people. Personally, as much as Dubai frustrates the cr&p out of me at times, I think people get all rose-tinted about how great it is to live in the "West". I just calculated on www.listentotaxman.com how much I would have to earn to keep the same take home pay in the UK and I was shocked. Not to mention the rubbish weather, high crime levels, crippling central heating / council tax bills, the fact you get so much less space for your money to live in, the cost of petrol, the tax they levy on everything they don't want you to do, the dirt, I could go on. Maybe by "better" we should read "better' for that individual person. Everyone is entitled to decide whether they think Dubai is better than home or not. it isn't a crime to think that Dubai is better or worse than the UK, the US, Australia or anywhere else; it's just a matter of opinion.
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Latest post on 29 September 2012 - 22:07
Try the classified ads section. It's really good.
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Latest post on 29 September 2012 - 15:37
That's really impressive for someone who isn't a Brit!
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Latest post on 29 September 2012 - 11:09
I had a go and got 17 out of 21. I think some of these are quite hard but it was quite fun and only took a couple of minutes. Does that make me very sad? Probably...
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Latest post on 25 September 2012 - 12:08
Chicken, grated cheese and Philly cheese wraps is one my DD came up with. Rice cakes and Philly. Babybels and tomatos. I feel really uninspired with the whole lunch box thing (why can't they just eat the school lunches as we had to when we were little?). I find it hard to get much nutrition in there so I would love to hear other ideas as they are likely to be a lot better than anything I can think of!
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Latest post on 25 September 2012 - 11:44
She's 11
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Latest post on 25 September 2012 - 11:29
serves 4 1 tbsp butter or ghee approx 675g of skinless, boneless chicken (I often ignore that measurement and just use 4 chicken breasts), cut into bite size pieces 1 tbsp sunflower (or other oil, I use coconut oil) 1 chopped onion 4 green cardamon pods (I use about 15 as I love them! Also, I slightly crush mine in a pestle and mortar) 2 crushed garlic cloves 2 tsp ground cumin 1 tsp ground coriander pinch of turmeric 1 cinnamon stick pinch of chili powder (depending on how hot you want it) 250 ml cocnut milk 120 ml boiling chicken stock 1 tsp tomato puree 75ml of single cream 30ml fresh lime juice 2 tsp grated lime (grate first and then microwave for fifteen or so seconds as then it's much easier to get all the juice out) 1 tsp garam masala 1. Heat butter or ghee and fry chicken until golden brown and set aside. 2. Using same pan, heat oil and then fry onion for about 8 minutes until soft. Stir in cardamon and garlic (don't let garlic burn as it will go bitter), turn down heat if necessary and fry for 2 minutes. 3. Add cumin, coriander, turmeric, cinnamon and chilli and fry for a further minute. Transfer to your slow cooker and switch to high. 4. Add coconut milk, stock and tomato puree (optional) and stir. Then add the chicken and season with salt and pepper if wanted. Cover with the lid and cook on high for about 3 hours or until the chicken is tender. 5. Stir in cream, lime juice and rind and garam masla and cook on high for a further 30 minutes, during which time you can get the rice cooked if you like to serve with rice. Then it's all done. If you like a nutty korma, you can stir in ground almonds at stage 3. If you can be bothered, you can get sliced almonds, fry them until they're golden, keep half as a garnish and then grind the other half and add those at stage 3. Hope you enjoy it! Let me know how you get on. This was my daughter's introduction to curry and she loves it. I've cooked it for under 5s as well and even they liked it. You can make it as spicy as you want, but I tend to make it really mild.
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Latest post on 25 September 2012 - 10:52
I think I have read somewhere that they have to be over 25. Is that correct? TIA!
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Latest post on 25 September 2012 - 10:49
I agree with October, my DD goes off things so regularly. You buy a whole load of something that she loves for her lunch box and then she refuses to ever eat it again. Any ideas for lunchbox food would be hugely welcome. My supper staples for my DD include lasagne (I make a huge batch and then freeze loads of portions), chicken korma (I have a great slow cooker recipe that works a treat), spag bog (of course), homemade chicken nuggets that I get her to help with (she loves bashing up the bread to make the breadcrumbs and then dipping the chicken in the egg and then in the breadcrumbs) and macaroni cheese. I some times make a huge amount of spag bog and cheese sauce and then make lots of lasagne, macaroni cheese and spag bog and fill the freezer with it. There again, sometimes I seem to have nothing, completely panic and throw some pesto pasta at her as it's her favourite and the easiest thing in the world to make.
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Latest post on 24 September 2012 - 12:11
Found this Government link regarding the official rules for sponsoring a maid. Interesting reading the Maid salaries which make me think that Maroosh previous comments about westerners overpaying maids are so very true!! Most of my friends pay twice or three times the going rate mentioned here, no wonder they all want to work for western ladies!! So sorry, but your link has disappeared. Can you re-post? thanks!
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Latest post on 24 September 2012 - 11:52
I agree, Tumble Time are superb with very nice staff.
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Latest post on 19 September 2012 - 14:21
You do need anti-malarials for some parts of Sri Lanka. If you need them, I'd recommend malarone as a good one with kids (although it's very pricy). I've travelled throughout most of Thailand and only needed anti-malarials in the far north near the Mekong and that was 15 years ago so it may have changed since then. Sri Lanka would get my vote for what you want since it's closer and cheaper than Thailand and if you chose the well known coastal areas, you're unlikely to ned anti-malarials, but do check! I love all three countries but I think SL would give you what you want easily within budget. Have fun!
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Latest post on 18 September 2012 - 18:36
I love Sephora; I think it's a great shop but I don't like any of their own brand products. I think their make-up is nasty and looks cheap on the face and doesn't apply well. I really wouldn't recommend their products and, furthermore, under the circumstances where they lured you away from your normal brand, I think you're definitely entitled to a refund.
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Latest post on 18 September 2012 - 18:27
Thanks MrsKZ! It does look and feel utterly gorgeous, I bet you really love living there. Do many older kids ride bikes around and get to meet each other?
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Latest post on 17 September 2012 - 15:42
Yes! I think they are fantastic. I used them lots as a teenager and thought they were great then. Have graduated onto Nars, Stila and Laura Mercier et al but recently saw Barry M and I think they are great. Their eye pencils are lovely and soft and don't drag the eyes, their colour pigments are good and lasting and they are fantastic vfm. I'm a big fan and I have tonnes of make-up to compare brands; it's a real hobby of mine.
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Latest post on 16 September 2012 - 13:17
I've visited and have been really impressed but there are no community pools at the moment. The shops are quite nearby but not in the complex and there is a little playgrouns and each courtyard has some swings or a seesaw or similar. I think there are houses without pools, if that's a concern. Al Waha and the Layan communities are really nice too and they are a bit more finished. All this area is between the Emirates Road (E311) and the Bypass Road (E611) and is called Dubailand. Good luck with the house search!
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Latest post on 16 September 2012 - 13:05
Burning sage also helps get rid of 'unwanted guests'. Dont know if they sell those sage bundles in Dubai though. You usually just light it up and walk through the house with the sage to cleanse your home. It is said to make sure that especially the corners of the rooms receive a good amount of smoke from the sage bundles. A lot of people do this before they move into a new home as well to 'cleanse' it. This is a really old thread, but an interesting one. Nadia007, you probably know this by now but you can get sage bundles here in Dubai. I've seen them at the little incense stall outside Ikea in Festival City.
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Latest post on 16 September 2012 - 12:38
I think The Villa would suit you well. AED150k would get you a villa there and many of them have private swimming pools.
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Latest post on 16 September 2012 - 12:21
Is that 150k - 200K euros per year or AED per year? If it's euros, Al Barari looks gorgeous and is very close. With a rental budget that high; the sky is the limit and you could get an A type; they are beautiful. If it's AED, then The Villa sounds like a good choice. I have been told that it's very friendly and there are lots of kids who play together. A lot of people in the more traditional areas like Arabian Ranches are looking at The Villa as it offers excellent value for money. Expect to pay a year's rent in advance plus 5% commission to the real estate agent plus 5% per year "big house" charge to DEWA (electricity and water people). Water and electricity in a big house can cost anywhere between AED5K and 10K per month. It is very expensive here! Good luck!
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Latest post on 15 September 2012 - 22:15
Red apples are v good for the associated acid stomach and Spinneys do sprouts. <em>edited by emmsie on 15/09/2012</em>
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Latest post on 15 September 2012 - 22:13
skyscanner dot net is a good search engine. I've used Cathay Pacific via HK before but watch out for long layovers in HK!
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Latest post on 15 September 2012 - 20:18
I'm no expert but I would say that you want the divorce to take place in the UK. The first mover sets the jurisdiction so if you think this is inevitable and divorce papers have not yet been served, you need to serve them but from a UK court. The UK is extremely kind and generous to women, my guess is that the UAE is not. I don't think where you got married makes any difference. Good luck x
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Latest post on 15 September 2012 - 17:24
What is the nationalities of both parties?
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Latest post on 15 September 2012 - 15:58
Try Dawn Venturas. She's brilliant with babies and toddlers. She taught my LO to swim (not so little any more) back in the UK brilliantly. She's been here a few years and the best way to get hold of her is via her website which is, I think, her name and then dot com. Hope she can help!
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Latest post on 15 September 2012 - 13:28
I am so pleased that you got out and had some fun. Friends and good times really help under these circumstances. Exercise will help you both; it keeps you fit and produces lots of lovely endorphins (as does making love, just in case either of you need an excuse!). I wouldn't dismiss the idea of counselling. It is highly unlikely that your husband's depression is only caused by a lack of serotonin. The only depression that is known to be caused solely by a chemical (or hormonal) imbalance is post-natal depression and it seems rather unlikely your husband has that! A lack of serotonin won't help and can be a highly significant factor in depression but it's not the only reason. Perception causes depression. It's a perception of a past associated with loss and failure. Two people can have exactly the same life event and yet only one will become depressed by it and that is down to perception of the event and, to some extent, brain chemistry although it is now considered to be the perception that causes the chemical change and not the other way round. Hence why counselling, especially CBT, is really important. Any time you want to have a chat in private about this, just let me know. Hope all goes really well.
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Latest post on 15 September 2012 - 11:25
I'd also like to know if there are many children living there. Anyone with kids living in Al Barari? Is there much of a community feel?
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Latest post on 13 September 2012 - 17:20
Licorice, you poor thing. I have loads of sympathy for you. I have lived with those with depression and it's very hard, also I've suffered from anxiety and had counselling for it and I have done some studying into anxiety and depression (they are closely related) with an idea of becoming a counsellor. Meds can help and can be useful in the medium term (they often take a few weeks to really help) and therapy is a must. The most useful thing, however, is something called mindfulness and meditation and most people have never even heard of it! It's not necessarily a bunch of hippies sitting around in yoga poses, although if that works for you... I would really recommend that both you and your husband look into meditation. If you work at it, it massively decreases the chance of depression returning (which is a very common phenomenon). A good place to start is Mindfulness for Dummies although I can recommend lots of other good books and CDs (or downloads). It's no quick fix, which is why some people just don't work at it, but it's amazingly good. All you have you do is lie down or sit down and listen to a CD for anywhere between 10 and 45 minutes a day. There's lots more that you can do but that's all you need to do. It's all about being in the "now" and giving you some mind space. I recommend it for you both as it's very relaxing and when you're helping someone through depression, you need to be looked after too and active relaxation like meditation is very powerful. Please don't dismiss it as too "alternative". It has very scientific back-up (to do with alpha waves). If you met me and knew the job I used to do, you'd quickly realise I'm not a mad, lentil eating hippy trying to chill you out! If you're interested in knowing more, I'd be happy to suggest other sources for books and information, both to do with depression and to do with mindfulness/meditation. Good luck and don't worry about the tears; they really help. Do what you can but be aware that you must also look after yourself; physically, mentally and emotionally. Let me know if I can help any further x
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Latest post on 13 September 2012 - 17:07
I'm waiting for new MadMen and Game of Thrones seasons... haven't ever watched Downton Abbey but keep meaning to! It's brilliant; do watch it
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Latest post on 13 September 2012 - 17:06
Thanks so much Kimball 65; that's fantastic news! I had no idea and now I have something to forward to after the weekend. Do you know how quickly it's available on the itv iplayer?
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Latest post on 13 September 2012 - 16:58
What about the gorgeous little soap stall on the ground floor of MCC (all the soaps smell wonderful) or any branch of Lush?
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Latest post on 13 September 2012 - 16:46
That is gross! Why, why, why?
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Latest post on 12 September 2012 - 18:17
We've never had a babysitter (and my children aren't clingy lol)...since our eldest was around 14 he's babysat for us but we've never left them with others, and only with grandparents a couple of times. Each to their own. I left mine with nannies and au-pairs and even babysitters in hotels (and who were employed by the hotel). I only ever did so when I felt very comfortable with the individual. If I hadn't have done so, I would have had no money and I would have gone mad. I had no help from my daughter's father's family (he is dead), my parents lived abroad and my only sibling also lived abroad. I was forced into the position of needing help from elsewhere and yet in a funny way, I am so glad. We had wonderful nannies, many of whom my DD and I are still in touch with, I was able to travel the world with just my daughter and get some blessed relief from the intensity of being just you and a LO 24/7. I am a SAHM now and I am glad to be so and the stress of juggling my life was relentless. I do not think, however, my DD suffered and I think she has had some wonderful experiences as a result of all these different people having been in her life. We all have our different way of bringing up kids and I am sure most of us question ourselves frequently as to whether we are doing the best job possible. I could not have done what PennyLane did and, to be absolutely honest, I wouldn't have wanted to. Total respect for the way others live their lives. I have always tried to be a great mother but I needed a social life and even if I had been a SAHM always, I would have got babysitters in so that I could go out at night from time to time. I see no harm in doing so and no benefit in not doing so. For whatever my opinion is worth, I urge those with LOs to go out without their LOs from time to time. If you have a trustworthy babysitter, you owe it to yourselves!
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Latest post on 12 September 2012 - 17:02
Thank you for the positive replies. I sometimes feel there are an army of SAHMs on here who think all us "career women" are just heartless cows who would just dump their babies with any old person or judge others for actually wanting a social life. Far from it - fact is, I need to work, it's not that I want to. I would absolutely love to be at home, it;s just not an option. Of course I will try to find the best qualified person that I can but maids, rather than qualified nannies are the norm here. And as others have said - what makes one person qualified over another? Id rather have someone who loved kids, could interact with my baby, get her hands dirty and give lots of love and attention. Of course I will send her on a baby care course and first aid course before she starts and take as many precautions as I can. I don't want to send my baby to nursery where she will catch lots of illnesses - I'd rather she was at home during the first 6 months or so. OP - I do hope you find a decent sitter. IMO, I think kids should be around other adults and people, and actually it does them good to not have helicopter parents hovering around all the time. I have a 6YO half brother whose parents have never let him out of their sight and he is far more clingy and needy for it. Not criticising or judging others but definitely think a balance is necessary. I think you're right about having a nanny over a nursery for really little ones. I know some people think the opposite and they would rather have their baby in a nursery where the carers are supervised. In my opinion, I agree with the research that shows babies do better later on if they've had the one on one care of a nanny or a mother at home rather than a nursery, although pre-schools/nurseries are good for some of the day once they are about 3. I do agree with Meow, however, that a maid and a nanny are not the same. A maid can make a good nanny but not if she's got a big house to clean and all the family's laundry to do! When my DD was a baby, her nanny was expected, as is the norm in the UK, to work a 12 hour day but the only cleaning she did was the LO's room and the only laundry she did was my DD's. Babies are lots of work so if you possibly can, try and restrict your maid's duties to looking after the baby, at least for the period of the time when you or your DH aren't there. I have always told my nannies that my DD is the most important and most precious thing in my life and that I need them to treat her in a similar way. Have you found your nanny/maid yet? Do interview them very carefully, take up references and get them to spend some trial days with you before you make a decision. Once you've made the decision, if you've been that careful, you'll be able to relax. <em>edited by emmsie on 12/09/2012</em>
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Latest post on 12 September 2012 - 16:51
I wanted a driving licence so I'll have to go in early. Thanks!
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Latest post on 12 September 2012 - 16:33
Dangerous Blone, I agree with suze63, definitely don't feel guilty. I do think some people leave their babies with some unsuitable people but a lack of qualifications does not necessarily make someone unsuitable. I left my 5 month baby with a full time, live-in nanny because I had to. I needed to go back to work because I needed the money; plain and simple. I interviewed a highly qualified nanny who made many demands and offered her the job. When she came to spend a morning with us and I asked her to feed my baby, she said she couldn't because she didn't want to get her trousers dirty! Exit one highly qualified and deeply unsuitable nanny. Two days later I found a completely unqualified woman of about 25 who had some experience looking after kids in the outback in Australia. She was wonderful, despite a complete lack of qualifications. Over the years, I had quite a few unqualified but bright women as nannies, some as young as 18, some older than me. The only qualified nanny I ever employed didn't bother turning up on her first day. If you can't stay at home (not everyone can and not everyone wants to), make sure you employ the most suitable nanny. She doesn't have to have qualifications, just make sure that she has good references and knows what to do in an emergency. Does she love kids? That's the most important thing. Also, don't expect her to do all the maid's duties like cleaning and laundry and devote all her time to your baby (unless your baby sleeps a lot!). Whatever you do, don't feel too anxious. It's easy to be a smug SAHM and sit in judgement of those who have less choices or luck. Also, there is no need to stay at home for the next ten years for fear of leaving your LO with a maid/babysitter/nanny. I find it bizarre that people will take stressed out, exhausted babies and toddlers to restaurants in the evening. They don't want to be there, they need to be in bed Leave the LO at home with a decent sitter and go and have some fun. You'll need it when combining work and motherhood. Good luck to you
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Latest post on 12 September 2012 - 16:17
Thanks! I suspected 8pm sounded a little too good to be true.
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Latest post on 12 September 2012 - 11:05
What is it about husbands and chargers. We have boxes, almost rooms, full of them. I say that if you can't match it to something, throw it out, but sadly my DH doesn't see things the same way so we hold onto all this cr@p for years even though we all know it's never going to be used. Surely there should be a charity that takes in unwanted chargers and would be able to recycle them, preferably as they are so that others could use them? Does anybody know if such a charity exists. If it does, I'm going to start sneaking them out of the house under the cover of darkness!
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Latest post on 12 September 2012 - 11:02
Is this for both shops, the Greens and the Dubai Mall? Are they the same company? TIA!
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Latest post on 12 September 2012 - 10:38
I find the chicken from the organic ship normally has a quite a strong smell. Like hilsbils says, it's a gamey smell rather than a nasty smell. It's just what decent chicken actually smells like. Emmsie, there are Organic Shops in The Greens and Dubai Mall ground floor. The fruit and veg is generally pretty bad, Greenheart is a million times better! Apart from the fruit and veg though, it's great. Huge selection including a great bakery. Pricewise, it depends what you compare it to. It's more on a par with Spinneys that the Co-op. Some things are more expensive, some less. Thanks for that; really useful. I had heard that there was one in the Dubai Mall but I'd forgotten exactly where so thanks for reminding me. My memory is not what is used to be anymore! I use Greenheart for the veg and have been very impressed. It's meat I'm really looking for. Do you feel that you can trust that the products in the shops really are organic? I don't know how well this sort of thing is regulated here although I would guess not very much.
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Latest post on 12 September 2012 - 10:33
Dolphins are so amazing and your experiences sound wonderful. I think my DD is too young to do some of these activities although we have seen wild dolphins in Kenya and St Lucia. We're off to Musandam soon and I'd love to see them there. Any ideas of how to find out about where the dolphins at Atlantis and the Dolphinarium come from? We have been to Atlantis and they did have one baby who had been born there but I don't know about the source of the adults. I should have asked more questions now that I know what you've told us. I do think this is a difficult subject and, like zoos, can we morally defend keeping such animals? I think so, but only if they are kept very well, with due respect and care and are not from the wild, where possible. Whilst I agree that the idea of animals being kept merely for entertainment is a repugnant one, zoos and dolphinariums etc do so much to encourage a love of animals, particularly in children. Those children then, hopefully and with the right encouragement, grow up wanting to do the right thing regarding animals and nature in general. I think some zoos and possibly even some dolphinariums also contribute to our knowledge of animals and have a conservation aspect. I have never been and would never go to a circus that had animals. Does that mean I shouldn't go to a zoo or dolphinarium? For me, the jury is out on that one. I'm really not sure now...but I do know that I can't wait to see dolphins in the wild again and would far rather see them in their natural habitat than in a man made one. <em>edited by emmsie on 12/09/2012</em>
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Latest post on 11 September 2012 - 22:24
I had no luck with agencies here as they all had maids that were not in Dubai but back at home. I think it's better to use the ads here on EPW and interview any maids that sound good, take up references and do it yourself. Whatever you do, good luck!
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Latest post on 11 September 2012 - 22:14
Rehabilitation and education is fine and obviously those animals which cannot be returned to the wild can be 'displayed' and used to educated. But I disagree with animals being taken from the wild with the sole purpose to teach them tricks for human entertainment. Dolphins in the wild can have a life expectancy of 40-50 years. You can paddle board around the Burj and have a pod of around 6 dolphins come with you - isn't that much nicer? edited by Chocs01 on 11/09/2012 That sounds amazing. I heard that the area of the sea around the Burj has some seriously dangerous currents and that there have been drownings there. Have you done the paddleboarding around there? Was it safe?
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Latest post on 11 September 2012 - 22:12
... The shows will go ahead if we go or not.. ... No it won't. If everyone with a conscience boycotted these 'shows' then they would all have to close down. *sigh* Please don't support this appalling treatment of such beautiful animals. Agreed, without footfall these 'attractions' would not continue at all. How about educating your children about these animals being in the wild - where they should be! Don't forget these beautiful and intelligent animals were all taken from the wild - they're NOT captive bred and hundreds would have been needlessly slaughtered in the process. Captive dolphins don't live anywhere near as long as they would in the wild and many actually commit suicide from being so depressed in captivity. Think about that whilst you're 'enjoying' the show! Makes my blood boil! I'm sorry if this seems harsh - but it's the reality. Try watching The Cove and see what you're advocating when you go to see these shows. edited by Chocs01 on 11/09/2012 The dolphins commit suicide? That's terrible. So sad.
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Latest post on 11 September 2012 - 22:05
...the crux of the issue is that you are [b'>no longer a UK resident[/b'>, in the same way you cannot use the NHS unless in an emergency, legally - although lots do, but I don't fancy being plastered with a bill for that either, you can still be a British Citizen but you are not resident - end of story I was told .... Not actually correct you can still use the NHS, provided that Entitlement to Free NHS Hospital Treatment by Non-Resident UK Citizens This leaflet has been compiled to explain the entitlement requirements for free NHS hospital treatment in the UK for Non-Resident UK Citizens. • You will be exempt from charges if you can produce evidence that you have been working abroad for less than 5 years and have lived in the UK continuously for at least 10 years at some point I thought that there was some way of paying a small National Insurance contribution in the UK, whether resident or not, that meant you still had access to the NHS. Does anybody know about this?
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Latest post on 11 September 2012 - 22:02
Where is the organic shop and is it hideously expensive? BTW, I use an organic company that delivers a veg box once a week and it's really nice. If you're interested they are called Greenheart Organic Farm (I think it's been mentioned on here before, actually, I think that's where I found about it). Anyway, contact Elena Kinane on elena at greenheartuae dot com.
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Latest post on 11 September 2012 - 21:59
Thanks and I have emailed you. Just in case you get caught in the junk folder, could you message me here as and when you reply? Thanks so much!
emmsie
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 11 September 2012 - 21:52
I'd be interested. How do I contact you?
emmsie
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 11 September 2012 - 09:57
WHere is the plant souk? Sounds perfect for us. TIA
 
 
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