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Latest post on 02 March 2014 - 11:11
Just wait, Singa. You'll surprise yourself with the things you will do as your child gets older and/or your family gets bigger. i probably will but letting her urinate infront of people is something i don't think i will ever do.. if i absolutely must i'll probably go to a place where i know people won't sit or play.. Yes I agree we should teach our children how to behave in these circumstances, but for a start there will always be 'accidents' and as we've said you will never ba able to find totally clean grass for her to play on.
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Latest post on 02 March 2014 - 10:55
Thank you for saying exactly what I was thinking. And the animals aren't always vaccinated against diseases.
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Latest post on 27 February 2014 - 14:42
Thank you both for your help. leahgibbs527 - am using Chrome and followed your instructions - hey presto, it's fixed! Thanks a million! I am also using Chrome and have done this too, but I still see the box ticked for no particular reason, so just beware ;)
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Latest post on 27 February 2014 - 11:48
OK so they're probably my age or even younger ;)
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Latest post on 27 February 2014 - 11:46
Classic Car show downtown :)
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Latest post on 27 February 2014 - 11:33
Never been that busy when we've travelled. Most people don't even know where it it ;)
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Latest post on 27 February 2014 - 11:21
Last time we flew it was the usual 3 - 4 - 3 configuration in Economy. Service was fine and I can't compare with LHR, as it's years since I've flown from there, but we got through no probs, just walked straight through :)
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Latest post on 27 February 2014 - 09:41
It does have that box ticked indiscriminately when I log in. You will have to ensure that you log out fully and start again, but you'll always need to keep an eye on the little tick box.
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Latest post on 27 February 2014 - 08:54
I know you may have a preference for a villa but have you considered the Greens? 2 beds with maids/study are around your budget Great pools, shops close by, loads of kids and a real community feeling I lived in the Marina several years ago and prefer The Greens hands down These apartments don't accept pets, do they? Mine is full of pooches. They even have a pet community group Could be an idea for us perhaps, although we have two dogs and three cats, may be a tad too much ;)
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Latest post on 27 February 2014 - 08:42
JVT are asking silly prices for 2 bed villas. There are quite a lot of empty properties around now. We're coming up to our third year now and RERA has said we're due a 10% increase, which isn't too bad when you see what they're being advertised at. It's a lovely place to live if you want plenty of room both inside and outside, but no facilities apart from the grassed areas and tennis courts. We are due at least one, if not two shops soon though, although it's only 5 minutes drive to Spinneys's at Springs.
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Latest post on 27 February 2014 - 08:37
Yes, which is why I do all the banking in our house :) It was always the same in the UK too.
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Latest post on 26 February 2014 - 17:52
We did a couple of Skype video calls on Monday via phone. OK so the picture and sound wasn't excellent, but it never is ;)
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Latest post on 26 February 2014 - 17:28
Then considering the weather here, the child will sit indoors most of the months anyway. I wouldn't agree with that Alemania, lots of the children around us are out all year round - the ones that are here over the summer spend all their time in pools and playing outside in late afternoon. We and a lot of our neighbours use our gardens all year round too :)
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Latest post on 26 February 2014 - 17:23
I'm also thinking of how nice it would be to live on a villa, but I don't drive, so getting out of a compound for every little **** will be an issue, besides if you have a garden, you'll need a gardener, so with two cars [b'>and a gardener [/b'>it would be at the end more expensive than an appartment. Then considering the weather here, the child will sit indoors most of the months anyway. Also why need a gardener. We do our own and only "borrow" one when we're away.
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Latest post on 26 February 2014 - 17:06
I know you may have a preference for a villa but have you considered the Greens? 2 beds with maids/study are around your budget Great pools, shops close by, loads of kids and a real community feeling I lived in the Marina several years ago and prefer The Greens hands down These apartments don't accept pets, do they?
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Latest post on 26 February 2014 - 16:48
My eldest DD absolutely hated sports, to the extent that she would even try to get out of school on gym days. I only once tried to persuade her to take some sort of sport up and she was so distraught I never ever mentioned it again. She did play out plenty with friends though on bikes, in the garden etc. so I never really worried about her fitness. Now in her late 20s she is more than happy to do the occasional run, go to the gym and does lots of long distance walking :) <em>edited by Geordie expat on 26/02/2014</em>
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Latest post on 26 February 2014 - 16:45
JVC has no communal pools, but if you have a stand alone villa the garden is big enough for one. Getting onto the road to AD might be a tad of a long run, as you would have to go down the Al Khail to the Hessa St flyover and do a U-turn via that to get bak up towards the old Emirates Road. Hi Geordie, unfortunately as we are renting, I don't see us sinking a pool in anytime soon lol. Thank you for the feedback, its very disheartening to hear that they do not have any communal pools. My next option would be to swim at the gym bleh. Maybe Springs is a better alternative then even with the AD distance me thinks? Depending on which Springs you choose, there is a road from there up to the old Emirates Road, via JVT. Not sure if that would make any difference. PS We're renting too in JVT and no way would we put a pool in. Some have mind, but some have also installed the overground ones too.
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Latest post on 26 February 2014 - 16:34
JVC has no communal pools, but if you have a stand alone villa the garden is big enough for one. Getting onto the road to AD might be a tad of a long run, as you would have to go down the Al Khail to the Hessa St flyover and do a U-turn via that to get bak up towards the old Emirates Road.
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Latest post on 26 February 2014 - 12:43
Yes, there used to be a link to fill in your CV on the jobs page, but it seems to have disappeared now. I think it took you to Kershaw Leonard ??
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Latest post on 26 February 2014 - 10:53
Our Skype video calling was fine on Monday night, we're with Du.
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Latest post on 26 February 2014 - 10:04
As far as I'm aware she went home.
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Latest post on 26 February 2014 - 09:59
Rafelisia, I'm looking at mid-career/senior level positions. I've got over 6 years of experience in my field. Sorry to say, but 6 years experience is generally not enough for a senior level position. Most of the senior level roles that I know of across a range of industries require closer to 10-15 years of professional experience. This might be a matter of managing/adjusting expectations. Exactly this, yes. And PS. I'll tell you what some (most?) employers are thinking, and that is that if you have a child or children, you have a husband as well. Apologies to the OP, but supporting your 'lifestyle' -- ie that of a single mum -- isn't part of their remit. They want to employ experienced people sure but if you are a woman, you're already behind the eight-ball, plus if you have sprogs, then they are going to assume that you have a husband picking up the slack. Call them old-fashioned, but this IS the UAE. I'm surprised that they even gave you a boost in pay after your divorce, but you can't expect more than that. [b'>We live in a country where you can still ask for young and pretty receptionists within a certain age range, [/b'>so expecting that a company will cover you pay-wise if you're not in a recognised sector of local society is like asking for the moon (with extra stars thrown in for free). Good luck. Sorry to be a downer. But to reiterate: six years is like ... kindy in the business world out here. I can totally agree with this, as someone who has 30+ years experience in the admin, reception and PA field, I honestly though getting a job here wouldn't be as hard as it was, especially since I have no kids or school runs to contend with. But no. It's taken me nearly two years, quite a bit of temping and one rubbish job to actually get something. Yes I was told that they wanted someone with my experience, but in the next breath I am too old for the position. Sorry, but experience and being young - just doesn't add up
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Latest post on 26 February 2014 - 09:16
Bumping this thread. Maybe anyone here who doesnt need their ferrari vouchers? In exchange to anything from the regular entertainer book? Even up to 5 vouchers? I've got two for you :)
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Latest post on 25 February 2014 - 17:07
What they should do is use an app, where you can choose to pay a certain amount that will give you a number of vouchers. Like having "entertainer credit". You pick the vouchers you want to use and then that goes off your entertainer credit worth. Let's say you pay for a package of 20 vouchers a 100aed. Might be more expensive but you get the ones you want. I'd be happpy with that as long as you could choose from whichever book you wanted to. Save trying to swap vouchers :)
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Latest post on 25 February 2014 - 14:05
Thanks Sarahlou I couldn't find the exact words. I wonder where we stand with out letter and sample contract, as our 90 days starts tomorrow?? No clue. It is such a grey area with this and the only way to resolve is rent court. [b'>My LL backed down :-)[/b'> Sorry just spotted this. That's great so you get another year at the same rent then? What about the 12 months notice, has that happened? I will get 12 months notice from end of this contract :-( Excuse my addled senior brain, but does that give you two years then, so to 2016? No 2015 they can give you notice at any point however doing it for 1 year from end of contract. There is no law to say they have to give it within 90 days of a contract ending. I queried this with the RC Sorry about that :( It has answsered a few peoples questions though about when the notice can be given. Hey, you never know, the rents may have settled by then ;)
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Latest post on 25 February 2014 - 13:36
Thanks Sarahlou I couldn't find the exact words. I wonder where we stand with out letter and sample contract, as our 90 days starts tomorrow?? No clue. It is such a grey area with this and the only way to resolve is rent court. [b'>My LL backed down :-)[/b'> Sorry just spotted this. That's great so you get another year at the same rent then? What about the 12 months notice, has that happened? I will get 12 months notice from end of this contract :-( Excuse my addled senior brain, but does that give you two years then, so to 2016?
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Latest post on 25 February 2014 - 11:55
Not sure about the governmental vets clinic, but we use Blue Oasis at DIP for our 5. I would say that there are no vaccinations that should be skipped and yes try and get it all done at the same time. It's only two including the rabies and you will also need kennel cough if you ever plan to send him to daycare or boarding kennels, but there again we get ours done anyway, just in case.
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Latest post on 25 February 2014 - 11:21
Thanks Sarahlou I couldn't find the exact words. I wonder where we stand with out letter and sample contract, as our 90 days starts tomorrow?? No clue. It is such a grey area with this and the only way to resolve is rent court. [b'>My LL backed down :-)[/b'> Sorry just spotted this. That's great so you get another year at the same rent then? What about the 12 months notice, has that happened?
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Latest post on 25 February 2014 - 11:19
Thanks Sarahlou I couldn't find the exact words. I wonder where we stand with out letter and sample contract, as our 90 days starts tomorrow?? No clue. It is such a grey area with this and the only way to resolve is rent court. My LL backed down :-) Well we've gone back and refused the contract as for a start it has a non renewable clause in it. The letter just stated that the rent would be increasing, but not by how much. I suspect he's waiting till nearer the time just in case the RERA calculator goes any higher than the current 10%. Also he has over 200 villas on our place and there are some people who werew due to renew at the beginning of the year and still haven't got the correct contracts !!!
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Latest post on 25 February 2014 - 11:00
Thanks Sarahlou I couldn't find the exact words. I wonder where we stand with our letter and sample contract, as our 90 days starts tomorrow?? <em>edited by Geordie expat on 25/02/2014</em>
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Latest post on 25 February 2014 - 10:44
I'm sure that if they do this then you are entitled to exactly the same terms as the current contract, rent and all :)
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Latest post on 25 February 2014 - 10:26
I don't think Shop and Ship is allowed to ship makeup.. please someone correct me if i am wrong.. i hope i am wrong.. i've seen them in souq.com too Sarahlou is the expert on SnS ;) Although a colleague of mine has had shampoo sent via them from Boots in the UK without any problems
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Latest post on 25 February 2014 - 10:18
I think this is one situation where any method of communication before the 90 day period starts can be used. It certainly doesn't have to be by registered letter. I would have thought that he would send you your new contract with the new details on and then it's up to you whether you accept it or not. So if he has said on day 91 that he is putting your rent up by the amount the calculator states you've got to pay it. Our LL sent us a letter stating that the rent was increasing, but didn't say by how much and a sample contract of the one he expected us to sign. This was well before the 90 days started. We have since been back to him numerous times saying that we don't accept the contract and will only pay the increase stated by RERA. <em>edited by Geordie expat on 25/02/2014</em>
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Latest post on 25 February 2014 - 09:17
Am I the only one wanting to leave LOL? We're not exactly wanting to leave, it's just we wouldn't be here is it wasn't necessary. Much as we do like Dubai, we won't be sorry when we can go home. I'll probably get shouted at for saying this, but it isn't really a place for the over 50s. Geordie expat - just wondering why you say this about the over 50's Perhaps it's just that we feel that majority of the people we meet are young enough to be our kids and all they seem to do is want to party. Don't get me wrong we love to socialise, but not starting at 10pm at night. Also there don;t seem to be a lot of people our age out here, or perhaps we're just not looking in the right places. I also had a nightmare of a time finding work, and was even told at some interviews, yes you have the skills we need, but you're too old.
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Latest post on 24 February 2014 - 17:30
Am I the only one wanting to leave LOL? We're not exactly wanting to leave, it's just we wouldn't be here is it wasn't necessary. Much as we do like Dubai, we won't be sorry when we can go home. I'll probably get shouted at for saying this, but it isn't really a place for the over 50s.
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Latest post on 24 February 2014 - 17:12
Pretty much the same as Sanddy Dog DH was made redundant in the UK. With age and the area we lived in very much against him, a chance linkedin connection mentioned the possibility of a job out here, and as you say 'the rest is history' Been here two years now and prior to that it was never on our radar, even as a holiday destination. <em>edited by Geordie expat on 24/02/2014</em>
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Latest post on 24 February 2014 - 16:25
Has anyone looked at the jobs page today ? Gosh! Coincidence? Definitely a coincidence with all these problems they seem to be having
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Latest post on 24 February 2014 - 16:09
OK so I'm going back nearly 30 years and I was in the UK, but my eldest DD was induced at 42 weeks. That happened first thing in the morning and she didn't arrive until around 30 hours later. Yes it was long and tiring, but I had an epidural and was allowed to do without a c-section as she wasn't at all stressed. What made it worse was when the paed checked her over he reckoned she was more like a 43 to 44 week baby. Please try and stick to what you want unless either of you are in any danger.
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Latest post on 24 February 2014 - 14:48
that's what happens when you over indulge and "forget" decades of your life... True, but he couldn't half remember how to play well, start on time and didn't stop for two hours :)
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Latest post on 24 February 2014 - 14:36
He's way way past the night cream stage. Sorry about that, but I promise to tell you all about it after :)
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Latest post on 24 February 2014 - 14:32
OK ladies I only went out for coffee and missed all this. Izzy if you think MJ looks old, try and imagine a Shar Pei dog and all the wrinkles, then you've almost got Santana. I only hope Eric hasn't aged as badly when we go to see him a week on Thursday :)
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Latest post on 24 February 2014 - 13:31
Has anyone looked at the jobs page today ?
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Latest post on 24 February 2014 - 13:24
GE, did you have to google UB40 too? :D You are sooooooooo in trouble ;) You're talking to the woman who boogied the night away on Friday :) with the septuagenarians? :\: No the guy we saw was only 66, but as good as ever :)
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Latest post on 24 February 2014 - 13:10
GE, did you have to google UB40 too? :D You are sooooooooo in trouble ;) You're talking to the woman who boogied the night away on Friday :)
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Latest post on 24 February 2014 - 12:52
its afternoon now love ;) Picky ;)
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Latest post on 24 February 2014 - 12:50
Can i delete my number now? Thanks! Message sent from me
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Latest post on 24 February 2014 - 12:38
Not moi :)
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Latest post on 24 February 2014 - 12:34
If you don't get any today, I've definitely got the book at home and will get them tonight.
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Latest post on 24 February 2014 - 12:28
I have a Delonghi kettle and its very quiet Snap :) What? Your Ketttle snaps? :\: Ooooh we are feeling witty this morning ;)
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Latest post on 24 February 2014 - 12:22
I have a Delonghi kettle and its very quiet Snap :)