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Latest post on 20 January 2014 - 12:09
Just wondered as we have a house in Northumberland, but it's a bit out of the way, although great for kids. Old fashioned, in that they can play out safely, leave their toys etc out without worry and everyone looks after each other :) Sounds interesting. How can I contact you? let me know when you've got my email and I'll remove it <em>edited by Geordie expat on 20/01/2014</em>
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Latest post on 20 January 2014 - 11:57
Just wondered as we have a house in Northumberland, but it's a bit out of the way, although great for kids. Old fashioned, in that they can play out safely, leave their toys etc out without worry and everyone looks after each other :)
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Latest post on 20 January 2014 - 11:26
Where in the UK are you looking and what exactly are you looking for in relation to the children?
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Latest post on 20 January 2014 - 09:23
Thanks you're a star. I hope you've left me some ;)
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Latest post on 19 January 2014 - 16:39
Try this I found it on an old thread, but I am sure someone, somewhere did post a link to the laws. http://www.tamimi.com/en/magazine/law-update/section-5/july-august-2/dubai-lease-renewals-and-rent-controls.html
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Latest post on 19 January 2014 - 16:10
Miller Hay often have temp roles, but you need to be able to commit for the time specified
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Latest post on 19 January 2014 - 16:03
You'll need to check the rent calculator to see if your LL is entitled to raise your rent and if so by how much. There is also somewhere, but I can't remember exactly where, that gives all the figures and explains percentages etc. The calculator is by far the easiest :)
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Latest post on 19 January 2014 - 12:14
yes - drop me a line on izzy99izzy - gmail . Cheers got it, is it com?
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Latest post on 19 January 2014 - 12:02
ooh - let me know and i may join you for qually one day ;) If I manage to find out you'll be the first to know :)
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Latest post on 19 January 2014 - 11:59
Yes all on the same amount, so now they'll have to watch their consumption along with the tyre wear. Totally agree with you about Lewis :) We used to watch the race on AD sport when the BBC weren't showing it live and use the Radio commentary from the laptop. No we weren't in Dubai at that time, shame nowhere else shows them live, unless the Bikers Cafe do as long as there isn't a clash. I must look into that.
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Latest post on 19 January 2014 - 11:01
Oooops hope he recovered ok. The main change is to the engines, down to 1.6 litre V6 turbo engines, so less power from the engines, but more from the new ERS system (the old KERS). Limited fuel in the cars, which should totally c**k things up and definitely no refuelling :( The rest is just the usual aero dymanics stuff about wings, nose height etc.
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Latest post on 19 January 2014 - 10:38
We're both bikers, although not out here :( I know what you mean though, we never even went to the end of the road unless we were properly dressed. Vettel is one of the things that's putting me off watching now. The whole thing needs shaking up, strategy, pit stops, tyres etc and maybe we'll see some proper racing again. Hopefully the changes this year may help. It's easy to plug the laptop into you telly and hay presto big picture
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Latest post on 19 January 2014 - 10:38
We're both bikers, although not out here :( I know what you mean though, we never even went to the end of the road unless we were properly dressed. Vettel is one of the things that's putting me off watching now. The whole thing needs shaking up, strategy, pit stops, tyres etc and maybe we'll see some proper racing again. Hopefully the changes this year may help. It's easy to plug the laptop into your telly and hey presto big picture <em>edited by Geordie expat on 19/01/2014</em>
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Latest post on 19 January 2014 - 10:19
Getting a bit sick of that now, the bikes are much more fun :) I think it's still on AD Sports, we tended to watch through the V** <em>edited by Geordie expat on 19/01/2014</em>
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Latest post on 19 January 2014 - 10:13
I'll just be happy when the cars and bikes start again :) and I can give up on the rest
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Latest post on 19 January 2014 - 09:57
I take it the whitewash was so traumatic, you've completely erased it from your memory ;)
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Latest post on 19 January 2014 - 09:42
Spinneys at The Springs always has a good selection
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Latest post on 19 January 2014 - 09:40
Thanks ladies I'll try there now too. Izzy we must both be thin skinned and sensitive, especially after what happened in Australia earlier :(
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Latest post on 19 January 2014 - 09:29
Geordie, have you been able to check with your friends how they processed it? I'll try and catch them this week and ask exactly what happened. But..... as far as I can remember they were having trouble with their LL who just wouldn't accept the fact that he was out of line, wasn't entitled to a rent rise and had left it too late to serve them notice. They took all their paperwork, old contract, copy of LL passport and four new cheques and were issued with a new contract. It just meant that they were covered and had paid their rent for the coming 12 months.
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Latest post on 19 January 2014 - 09:06
Never yet managed to find anyout here - Yet!!, but if you do manage to locate some please let me know.
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Latest post on 16 January 2014 - 14:16
The side effects are horrid. Oily unexpected gas and a terrible odor Leakage from a certain orifice is the worst one! EEEEwwwwwwwwwww just had lunch
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Latest post on 16 January 2014 - 13:47
We've just bought a lovely new 2 seater from Home Centre called 'the cuddler' and yes it does do what it says on the tin :) They also had 3 seater versions of the same one. <em>edited by Geordie expat on 16/01/2014</em>
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Latest post on 15 January 2014 - 12:42
It is the most natural thing in the world. A boob is just a bit of flesh Lighten up or avert you eyes for goodness sake. "Like" and totally agree
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Latest post on 15 January 2014 - 11:31
You'll def have space in Jumeirah Park, but very little else. You would probably spend your time running the kids about, but saying that it's always worth a drive around, especially now the roads are getting better :)
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Latest post on 15 January 2014 - 11:15
At the moment Jumeirah Park is just villas. I haven't seen any facilities at all around. There will soon be a small Geant opening though that is about all.
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Latest post on 15 January 2014 - 11:12
I believe four used to be the norm, as I have heard from people who paid via the RC and they always asked for four cheques. We are lucky in that our LL will accept six.
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Latest post on 14 January 2014 - 17:21
Even if that's what he means, I still think he's trying it on, as the renewal should be given 90 days in advance. I think he's hoping that if he leaves it closer to the time, he will get more. <em>edited by Geordie expat on 14/01/2014</em>
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Latest post on 14 January 2014 - 17:11
Completely agree with Sarahlou, please don't sign the contract, this is not allowed.
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Latest post on 14 January 2014 - 13:08
Ignoring the Soda issue, (which I personally agree with) I would hate to put my life in the hands of a mere "trolley dolly". They do a fantastic job, something which I bet many of us wouldn't have the patience to carry out.
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Latest post on 14 January 2014 - 10:22
If you can afford your own, quite a lot of the villas have one in their gardens.
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Latest post on 14 January 2014 - 10:00
The only sleepovers my toddlers ever did were with immediate family, grandparents, aunts and uncles etc.
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Latest post on 14 January 2014 - 09:58
No community pools in JVT and there never will be. I also think it's the same for JVC, although that is less developed than JVT, so there may be time for one or two yet. Mind if you heard the news this morning, JVC rents have risen the highest in the last 12 months, up to 50%.
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Latest post on 13 January 2014 - 16:49
Yes it is rather in the middle of nowhere, but seems to have everything we want. My main worry is the fact that the rent cap has been removed in AD and we could actually end up worse off there. Low rents to get people in and then massive rises the following year. <em>edited by Geordie expat on 13/01/2014</em>
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Latest post on 13 January 2014 - 11:45
We were lucky and went from 4 to 6, but we did tell the LL this in advance of the 90 day notice period.
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Latest post on 10 January 2014 - 14:00
Yes they do, but at least you get a warning when they do. We've had ours nearly two years now in conjunction with our H*** cc and we've managed to get enough points to fly to Cyprus and Khatmandu. Mind I very rarely shop at Spinney's, but make use the all the other shops you can use it at, especially when we needed new glasses and contact lens, or anything electrical.
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Latest post on 10 January 2014 - 13:54
Nearest one to the Triangle is in Springs
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Latest post on 09 January 2014 - 17:06
somebody said here they have a friend who pays 70 K for a tiny studio in JLT. this is what drives the numbers. I'm sorry to say but more people than not are either afraid to push back on LLs, or they are clueless about their rights. nobody will help us if we don't help ourselves. I went to court end of last year, and yes, there was a good number of people there submitting complaints. but considering the population of Dubai and how many of us must be getting increase requests outside the norms, the place should have been super full. and it wasn't. This unfortunately is what causes a lot of the problems here and will continue to do so, unless the tenants really do start to stand up for their rights. The law is mainly on their side. It's the ones who just roll over and say they can't be bothered with the hassle, they won't win, and then pay the increases asked. As long as this goes on the rents will continue to rise. <em>edited by Geordie expat on 09/01/2014</em>
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Latest post on 09 January 2014 - 13:10
Maybe I'm being a pessimist but does anyone else find it a little suspicious that a man who seems quite actively against having a baby at the moment was OK with giving up birth control immediately after marriage? Does he know something that you don't? His words and his actions are not matching up - he's saying he doesn't want a baby but technically you could get pregnant any day, what would he do then? Hopefully it's because he's not as against it as he's making out, but there could be another reason Yes I agree - it is highly suspicious. Perhaps he has had the snip and just hasn't got around to telling the OP? edited by derien on 09/01/2014 Sorry, yet another story which doesn't quite add up and depending on the type of BC, does he actually know you've stopped it?
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Latest post on 09 January 2014 - 12:44
Just logically is it possible to sack and ban a qualified teacher that easily, also in a very short time frame, over xmas and New year? I have been thinking that ever since that information was posted - something about the sequence of the posts in relation to inquiries from other posters has struck me as contrived. I know I could be wrong but it is just my gut feeling about the whole thing and no doubt I will be flamed for voicing it. I'll join you in being flamed as I am also thinking this may just be a cruel hoax, from someone who was bored. These posts bring out the best and worst in people, but it may also have brought back hurtful memories for others.
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Latest post on 09 January 2014 - 11:53
You are right GE, you should be able to pay monthly by automatic bank transfer. That would require more background checks on tenants and an easy way to resolve disputes, like a small claims tribunal. Companies could even offer to go guarantor for employees who were paying monthly; if they are not willing to take a risk for their employees it's understandable that a landlord would not want to risk it either. Property is a long term investment but you see on here people being delighted about reports of the Palm sinking and saying the build quality is so bad and houses won't last more than 10 years but still they want to live here for a while so someone is taking a risk to put their money down. The other thing is mortgage interest rates here are artificially high compared other parts of the world. If an investor is borrowing, the rate of return has to be higher than the local interest rates. Sure thing ARancher, however, ultimately it boils down to 2 things: people need a roof over their head, and a roof that is affordable. Salaries are not going up so how do you suggest tenants pay for the risks investors are taking? At some stage, people will walk away from this madness. How easy will it be to find tenants? Yes but I still thank that there will be others who feel that being in Dubai is 'living the dream', tax free ;) and all that and will be here to replace those of us who have struggled.
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Latest post on 09 January 2014 - 11:51
You are right GE, you should be able to pay monthly by automatic bank transfer. That would require more background checks on tenants and an easy way to resolve disputes, like a small claims tribunal. Companies could even offer to go guarantor for employees who were paying monthly; if they are not willing to take a risk for their employees it's understandable that a landlord would not want to risk it either. Property is a long term investment but you see on here people being delighted about reports of the Palm sinking and saying the build quality is so bad and houses won't last more than 10 years but still they want to live here for a while so someone is taking a risk to put their money down. The other thing is mortgage interest rates here are artificially high compared other parts of the world. If an investor is borrowing, the rate of return has to be higher than the local interest rates. Do you really think that this will ever change though?
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Latest post on 09 January 2014 - 11:37
I think it's just an affair that's been ended and now that the other woman has been dumped, she's trying to salvage whatever she can, regardless of who gets hurt and in her way and what lies she may tell. <em>edited by Geordie expat on 09/01/2014</em>
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Latest post on 09 January 2014 - 11:24
If the data is coming from Dewa, which I'd heard too, it will be registering properties that are being newly occupied at the higher rents so that will be driving things up. My dh knows someone senior in one of the government developers here and was told that they were frustrated at not being able to increase rents and the difficulties of terminating a contract. So there were some powerful forces behind the recent changes to the calculator. Government developers are back to releasing off plan properties, which they want sold so need investors and as I wrote before (which was greeted with some mockery on here) people won't invest and risk their money in Dubai if they feel the returns are not justified. The returns expected here are high but then again so are the risks of investing (the property might be delayed and you get some very bad tenants). I've also said that it's not fair for people to pay a year's rent up front but the risks of someone defaulting on payments are higher and it's very hard to evict a tenant. If it was easier to deal with a tenant who was in arrears and to recover arrears other than by launching an expensive claim through the courts, monthly payments would be acceptable. The 2 have to go hand in hand. I genuinely feel for people who are facing increases in rent without increases in salary. edited by A Rancher on 09/01/2014 I agree with most of what you've said, but surely if people were allowed to pay their rent monthly, by direct debit they wouldn't have to struggle to find the money up front. Therefore hopefully less of them getting into arrears. That's where some other countries have it nailed and can evict people who don't pay without so much hassle. But also investors have got to start realising that property is a long term investment and not a way of making an instant profit. edited by Geordie expat on 09/01/2014 <em>edited by Geordie expat on 09/01/2014</em>
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Latest post on 09 January 2014 - 10:18
I was told that it takes it's prices from Ejari and DEWA, but have my doubts. If it is then there are some people paying ridiculous prices. We live in JVT and it took a number of calls and visits, before the RC was altered to distinguish between town houses and villas and the number of bedrooms. <em>edited by Geordie expat on 09/01/2014</em>
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Latest post on 09 January 2014 - 10:11
Actually this whole story strikes me as strange as well. The OP's husband has managed to seduce, date and impregnate his child's teacher during the fall term? And then break up with her ...With all the holidays, they'd have had much less that four months. Either the OP's husband is something like George Clooney or I don't believe it. No I agree with you and have said all along I don't think the teacher is pregnant. I think she is just trying to get her revenge as he left her to go back to his family and she probably knows that saying something like this, true or not, will definitely split him from his wife. Which is exactly what she wants, with no thought for anyone else involved.
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Latest post on 09 January 2014 - 09:36
Don't forget that the new changes came into effect at the beginning of this year, which is probably why the calculator now says that there are more ernt increases due. Yes the 90 day rule still very much applies. One of my neighbours has just won her case, as the LL tried to increase her rent with less notice.
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Latest post on 09 January 2014 - 09:27
Just reading back through Celesti's posts. So the teacher was fired with a labour ban - meaning she's now stuck with no income. *click* could it be that the whole baby scenario is made up for her to get revenge? Given what she did before to force the affair out into the open? After all the issues, let's face it, who would have her, so who else is she going to sink her claws into but OP's husband and force him to support her and keep her life here. Just a thought. I'd question whether there actually IS a baby? All seems a little coincidental and convenient. But truth or not, HIS reaction is appalling. Who turns their back on their own child? edited by FairyDust on 09/01/2014 This now does make much more sense. Teacher has no job, no income. The "nice" man she was having an affair with has told her he wants to make a go of his marriage and leave her. What better to do than tell the OP that she is pregnant and therefore, hopefully, split OP and her DH completely. Sorry but this all reminds me of what happened to a friend back home many years ago. No baby for mistress, at least not in the right timeframe, two young children without a father and finally three very unhappy people as no one actually stayed together. And that's not including the poor kids. <em>edited by Geordie expat on 09/01/2014</em>
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Latest post on 08 January 2014 - 17:05
Specifically products from the Paula's Choice range. I have a shop and ship account, but am I correct in that they won't deliver liquids? Thank you Friend of mine has shampoos and conditioners delivered from the UK really? from which website? i had an order stopped from s n s. Boots
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Latest post on 08 January 2014 - 16:57
I just can't get over a man walking away from his own young child. Surely it goes against all natural instincts to leave a young one. It's slightly easier to understand when a child is a teen. My brother and his wife split up and then my brother completely changed his life (business, property etc) to relocate to be nearer his daughter. These men forget that these children will grow up one day and may have to be faced. I read that one of the boys from One Direction is from a broken home where the dad walked out and he's tried to come back into his son's life now that he's famous...... I think a lot of men, if they are going to walk away, find it easier to leave young children and then as you say, famous kids or not, want to reappear when they get older.
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Latest post on 08 January 2014 - 16:10
I am finding it very hard to believe the venom from some posters here. This is a terrible situation, but are you all seriously advocating a course of action which will ultimately damage an [b'>unborn innocent child[/b'>? The OP has behaved beautifully all the way through a ghastly crisis, I'm sure she will want, for her own child's sake to maintain the high moral ground. Just because two other people have put their selfish desires first it doesn't mean she has to indulge in revenge. To Celesti, my deepest sympathy and admiration for the calm and adult manner in which you have attempted to save your marriage, all the very best for the future to you and your little one in a new and better life. Sorry, but I'll say it again. Is the OP quite sure this woman is pregnant, or is it just an easy way for him to get out of the marriage?