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Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 21:32
I was at the hospital having my baby! You should sleep Cheeky G. Then you should sleep and sleep and sleep some more. Then you should eat a hot meal at the same time as your husband and watch a movie, because you won't be doing any of those things for a long time!:):)
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Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 21:28
We started at 6.5 months. We did BLW from the beginning and ds is now almost 10 months and eats well. DS's first meal was roast chicken, asparagus and steamed carrots.
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Latest post on 25 January 2011 - 13:18
Kidville just opened a Mirdiff branch. My son goes to the Little Maestros music class which is brilliant, I think they also have a toddler ballet class. http://www.kidville.com/jbr
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Latest post on 24 January 2011 - 16:22
AnonDubai - Is there a chance you are depressed? It sounds like it might be a good idea to talk to someone about how you are feeling. If not, maybe it's time for you to go back to work, sahm isn't for everyone. [quote'> Depressed, probably. But there's not much that can be done. Actually there is a lot that can be done if it's just a question of tweaking some chemistry! How old is your lo? Definitely talk to your ob or gp! :) <em>edited by LJB2010 on 24/01/2011</em>
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Latest post on 24 January 2011 - 16:13
AnonDubai - Is there a chance you are depressed? It sounds like it might be a good idea to talk to someone about how you are feeling. If not, maybe it's time for you to go back to work, sahm isn't for everyone. Greenish - Couldn't agree without you more, found this post very sanctimonius and offensive!
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Latest post on 24 January 2011 - 14:17
Ooh just saw someone else recommended Dr. Khan. He's not hard to get into see, give them a call.
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Latest post on 24 January 2011 - 14:16
Hi Sippy, Are you sure she actually needs the formula? Have you spoken to a LC to see if you are in fact making enough bm and dd is just small? If you do need to get her on formula, try mixing 3/4 bm with 1/4 formula, then 1/2 , 1/2 then so on till she is drinking only formula. It sounds like you are not convinced by pour paed, you might try Dr. Khan at Cooper Clinic. He is pro-breastfeeding and quite reasonable, so if he told me that my baby was sick and needed to go to hospital I would believe him. Good Luck!
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Latest post on 24 January 2011 - 14:07
We moved him out at 5.5 months and we all slept much better after that. I bought a baby monitor that I've never used because honestly even in the next room and if I'm sound asleep I still hear him if he makes a peep, must be mom ears :-) I am still exclusively breast feeding ds at 9 months and was originally bringing him into my bed to feed him and then put him back into his cot (still not stn grrr). I've actually found it's easier to feed him in the rocker in his room now, as he seems to understand that he's just up for a quick snack and is expected to go back to bed. He usually goes easily back now, but when I was taking him out of his room it was much harder to resettle him.
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Latest post on 23 January 2011 - 21:06
Hi Presam, my ds is a bit older than yours (9mos), but we've been pretty much on this schedule since 6 mos, so maybe it can help. We're doing blw, so no purées, maybe ds would enjoy feeding himself more than being fed? The nap times are all give or take 30 mins, ds really varies how much he sleeps during the day, though bedtime is sacrosanct. He still isn't sleeping through the night, but is a really good kid and is otherwise happy and eating well so I can live with it. He goes right back to sleep after nursing in the night. We did cio at about 7 months and I must admit that it made our lives much better. I think it took about 5 nights for ds to really get the hang of it and now cries less than 2 minutes (and often not at all) when we put him down. I think it's really important to fix a bedtime routine before cio-ing so the baby knows what's happening. Ours is : pajamas - nurse - bedtime story - lights out and rocking in my arms while I sing a lullaby - into bed. Up around 7:00 (we're trying to move this a bit later) 7:30 breakfast - usually fruit and arabic bread with cream cheese or a scrambled egg. 8:30 nurse 10:00 nap 11:15 up and nurse 12:30 lunch - some meat or fish and veggies 15:00 nap 16:00 up and nurse 18:00 nurse 18:10 dinner pasta with butter, root vegetables, we're trying to fill him up with carbs to see if he can sleep through the night at some point :-) 19:00 pajamas, nurse, bed time stories, turn out the lights and rocking while singing a song and into bed by about 19:30 1:30 nurse 5:00 nurse
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Latest post on 14 January 2011 - 11:20
I think the sucker should be sold with a little baby straight jacket. It's definitely a two person job to use and even then bordering on the impossible, though quite effective is able to use it.
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Latest post on 14 January 2011 - 11:11
Thanks for all of your responses! It sounds like the night feeds might be nutritionally necessary then. I don't think cosleeping is an option for us as ds is very active and loves to crawl and climb over us, so short of fencing in our bed there would be no way to keep him from falling off. Developmentally ds is a bit ahead of the game, but his weight has dropped from the 75% to the 50% (length is 75%-95%.) I'm not too worried about that though as he is so active that it makes sense to me that he would weigh less than some other babies his age who are not yet crawling and cruising and otherwise in perpetual motion. I will try to feed him a bit more during the day, but it sounds like I am resigned to night feeds for a while longer.
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Latest post on 13 January 2011 - 12:53
I think that the best is actually to boil tap water in order to avoid the minerals. Never gave formula though so not entirely sure.
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Latest post on 12 January 2011 - 22:07
If anyone is still looking we have a microwave sterilizer that we never used as it's bigger than our microwave and I ended up ebf-ing so don't need it.
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Latest post on 12 January 2011 - 21:54
DS started to roll front to back at 3 mos but didn't go back to front till about 4. He sat unaided for a few minutes at a time about a week before his 5 mo birthday.
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Latest post on 12 January 2011 - 21:50
I have been ebf-ing for 9 mos now and and honestly nothing i eat has any effect. At first I stayed away from garlic, coffee, etc. but I quickly realised that I can have a spicy thai washed down with a latte and ds doesn't notice at all. BTW nursing mothers are supposed to have 300 mg or less of caffeine per day, and a coke has 50 so as long as you aren't having 6 . . .
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Latest post on 09 January 2011 - 16:37
I have a peanut shell that I bought from baby souk and absolutely love it! When ds was a newborn he was cradled in it, and now at 9 months and 9 kgs it's much more comfortable holding him on my hip with it than just with my arms. I fly a lot and now don't even bother with the stroller, just use the peanut shell. It's also great for the grocery shop as much easier to push the cart that way.
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Latest post on 05 January 2011 - 22:11
How is your blood sugar now? Not sure how often you are checking, but are you able to stay within your range most of the time? There are still some questions about the long term effects of glucophage during pregnancy, which is probably why your dr stopped it, but you should definitely discuss how you are controlling your diabetes with your dr and be honest with her if you are having trouble. Don't worry too much, it's important to pay attention to your blood sugar but type 2 diabetes is very controllable and I'm sure with a bit of support you and your little one are going to do very well :-) I think you just need a bit more information / guidance from your dr.
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Latest post on 05 January 2011 - 21:42
No, you are not at risk for developing type 1 diabetes, which is a different condition than type 2. You are however at risk for having serious repercussions from your type 2 diabetes. It's very important to follow the menu guidelines for your and your baby's health. Adding 45 minutes of moderate exercise per day (like brisk walking) can have an excellent effect on your blood sugar stabilisation. If you aren't able to manage your diabetes with diet and exercise then your dr will start you on insulin. Gestational diabetes refers to diabetes that develops in a pregnant woman who was not diabetic pre-pregnancy, and usually disappears after the baby's birth. However, if you were already diabetic before falling pregnant you need to be doubly careful during pregnancy, and will probably need to deal with this condition for the rest of your life. Why did your dr stop the glucophage? Were you ever able to control your diabetes w/ diet and exercise before pregnancy? GL
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Latest post on 04 January 2011 - 14:41
I took it for years and really liked it. It made my skin better and I didn't have any side effects.
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Latest post on 04 January 2011 - 14:40
We took ds up when he was 2 weeks old (my parents were in town!). I was worried about his ears but he didn't even notice. I did take a dummy with me but he didn't want it, I think he might have even slept one of the trips. They won't let you take your pram up so if you have a sling that's good, we ended up carrying him.
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Latest post on 04 January 2011 - 14:37
Just wanted to add that the average baby gets 8-10 colds in their first year, so getting sick is not necessarily a sign of deficiency, just the baby building his immune system.
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Latest post on 04 January 2011 - 14:30
Hi LJB this might seems like a stupid question but after I read your post I got confused...I am also delivering at City in April, but wouldn't my doctor be delivering the baby, not a midwife? Yes, sorry didn't mean to be confusing. My Dr did the actual delivery, but of my 25 hour labour the doc was in there with me for the last 30 mins, the first 24.5 hours I was in the able hands of a midwife. I really found it comforting to know the midwife who took care of me (and who did an excellent job.)
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Latest post on 03 January 2011 - 22:29
I found cute ones at mamas and papas, but I never wore them at the hospital since I was afraid of staining them :-( I ended up in an old pair of track suit bottoms and a tee shirt . . .
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Latest post on 03 January 2011 - 20:12
I can't find the group on facebook, maybe am being an idiot, do you just search under Baby-Led Weaning - Dubai?
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Latest post on 03 January 2011 - 19:36
It can also be a good idea to do your antenatal courses at the hospital where you will give birth, that way you get to meet the midwives who will be delivering you. I did mine at City and was really happy that I did. You should start thinking about it around 28 weeks, though I think I only started at about 32. Check with your insurance company, the courses might be covered, otherwise I think we paid about 2000 but I'm not totally sure. For postnatal care I saw Deborah at Cooper Clinic, can't recommend her enough!
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Latest post on 03 January 2011 - 18:36
Would you consider an iud? I have a mirena and love it, only side effect is no period.
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Latest post on 02 January 2011 - 15:09
I understand what you mean about the ease, but must say that it's rare that we need a change of clothes, or a hair washing after a meal. It obviously depends on what you feed the baby, but with the right bib it's pretty easy to avoid all that. As far as the floor is concerned, I always offer to clean it up myself at which point the waiter says not to worry about it, and I leave a big tip. We are regulars at a few restaurants and still welcomed with big smiles. I feed ds at regular meal times, though i try to make sure he is neither too tired nor too starving.
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Latest post on 02 January 2011 - 14:55
You know what is best for your baby, but you might want to start trying to teach him to fall asleep on his own now. I also rocked ds to sleep and it was lovely for the first 5 months, but then it became more and more difficult, he would wake up as soon as I set him down and he would wake many times during the night because he had never learned to settle himself. I ended up doing controlled crying it out when he was 6 months old and it really made all of our lives better. He did cry for the first few nights but now sleeps so much better. He still wakes up 2x per night for a feed but just nurses and goes straight back to bed. That being said, 4 mos is awfully young to cio, and it sounds like you are a bit horrified by the idea of it, so maybe you could try pat & shush or some other method of teaching the baby to fall asleep on his own. My ped also said I should drop the night feeds (ds is 9 mos old) but because we are doing blw I want to make sure he is getting enough milk and honestly don't mind the night feeds as long as he doesn't make a fuss. All that to say, every baby is different, do what feels right for you and yours :-)
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Latest post on 02 January 2011 - 14:30
We've been doing blw for about 3 months and it is going very well for us as well. I actually think it is easier to go out, as instead of needing to go for lunch when the baby is asleep I just pop a bib on him and he is happy to eat at the table with us. Mothercare also has some great long sleeved bibs that make it much easier. My son will eat pretty much anything that we are having, though I do order him his own dim sum if we are having chinese as that's his absolute fave and then I can eat shellfish. While it is messier than spoonfeeding, I must say that at 9 months my son is already eating much more tidily than at the beginning. He also gets a decent amount of food into him, though there are days when he eats very little. It also isn't quick, but instead of spending hours cajoling and begging him to open his mouth and eat it's very pleasant time spent together at the table. I don't think you necessarily need to be doing 3 meals a day at 6 months. We started with lunch, added breakfast at about 7.5 months and have just recently started doing dinner, though I'll still skip it if ds seems too tired. His dinner is actually more of a snack around 6 pm since there is no way he could make it to our dinner time. As long as your baby is getting enough milk you don't really need to worry. I also tend to take a week long approach to nutrition. Yesterday ds was into m foods, he only ate meatballs and mangoes. Today he has had carrots, rutabagas, pasta and some cheese. As long as you offer a selection of healthy foods it should equal out in the end.