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Latest post on 12 August 2013 - 22:42
Forget a bank account, why not buy some bonds? Or do a deal with the school and pay your tuition fees in advance for a discount? Or get your dh to set up a joint savings account? Don't think the OP needed to open a savings account. She just thought it would be an easier way to manage the school payments. Now she can't get her money back from the bank, which has got to he the most frustrating part of the whole encounter. Why can she not get her money back? She can get a cheque made out into her DH's name and bank that, she can also have joint access with her DH on his account and make it a joint account. Where is the problem?
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Latest post on 12 August 2013 - 22:41
Don't go to City. They failed to spot DD's fractured ankle. That's quite a statement,thousands of patients go to City and have excellent treatment. It's my first choice and i know many who have been and had no problems. Mistakes in medicine happen in all hospitals. to the op without question i would book and see the pediatric orthopod at City, Dr Hemrani. I would also advise seeking at least two opinions and always question and research those who made them. A good GP is often worth discussing the opinons with as well.
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Latest post on 12 August 2013 - 22:35
Forget a bank account, why not buy some bonds? Or do a deal with the school and pay your tuition fees in advance for a discount? Or get your dh to set up a joint savings account?
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Latest post on 06 August 2013 - 18:57
Eat Marmite and Jelly, nails and hair will soon be strong.
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Latest post on 06 August 2013 - 18:53
I've sat on my hands all day but can't stop myself now.........I can understand why people share their worries on here, it is after all an anonymous forum with the advantage of a lot of differing inputs, but I have to say this to anyone who posts in response................please post what you would actually DO in the situation, rather than what you would LIKE to do. The two are very very different, and please remember you may be dealing with people in a vulnerable state. The hardline " take no prisoners" attitude in some responses, on this and on other similar threads. could prove very dangerous, please remember it is just a forum topic to you, for the OPs it is their LIFE. Quite agree LT, but don't you find it a little unusual that quite so many of such similar type threads keep appearing? Of course with the guaranteed results in responses. Why does no one ever post the simple answer to all these posts? Sit down and talk with your husband about your feelings? All of these issues are communication issues yet no one points out the obvious *communicate*! Why on earth are such posts put on a public forum, how devastated would a partner be if they knew? Let alone the ideas that are being put through heads. Just because the odd poster has experienced a vaguely similar scenario does not mean that every thread posted that may be comes into that range has the same result.
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Latest post on 06 August 2013 - 18:30
A lot will depend on your budget, but any where from Warwickshire to Oxfordshire could work well, there are some lovely villages with some outstanding state schools. For medical, Oxfordshire is superb. For train links into London, check rail networks and costs.
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Latest post on 05 August 2013 - 19:02
Google tip top painting services, not sure if they cover your area but fast and good value.
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Latest post on 05 August 2013 - 18:59
Is this question being asked from a religious perspective or an insecure marriage one? Maybe posters should state their nationalities and religious beliefs before anyone answers their questions in future to save needless debate.
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Latest post on 05 August 2013 - 18:56
This would be quite impossible with the various curriculum and exam timetables in place, regardless of flight prices, inconvenience etc. Some curriculum's have two semesters others have 3 for starters.
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Latest post on 05 August 2013 - 18:53
It's a big no. It's totally unacceptable in my book for anyone with children using a pool to be under the influence of anything, regardless of culture, religion or nationality. Is it really that difficult to spend social time with others without a drink on hand?
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Latest post on 25 July 2013 - 17:38
Oh please, leave the woman alone dont some of you have more in your life that making ridiculous comments about this?
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Latest post on 25 July 2013 - 17:34
The case reported is very sad and should anger everyone, however sadly this is not the first nor will be the last, one fears. What astounds me is that many parents seem to accept risks that are unacceptable both by their own choices and by others that care for their children. I often see young children out alone in our compound, the mind boggles at what the parents think, that is of course presuming they actually do! I would be interested to know from parents if their schools have male cleaners walking around with access to all areas during the school day ? And if they find this acceptable. <em>edited by Lolacat on 25/07/2013</em>
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Latest post on 26 June 2013 - 22:37
Depending on where you are based you could ask EW for some recommendations. Once you have found a practice then call and ask if they do direct billing with your Insurance provider. Second Dr Nicola Dreamer and also the two Dr Gilbert and Moran at DSO medical centre, also some good British trained GP's at Motor city and I think AR .
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Latest post on 26 June 2013 - 22:29
If you go into some of the electrical outlet stores they will have a generic adaptor for your model or go to a store that stocks sony and they may have some to buy.
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Latest post on 26 June 2013 - 21:59
AP? Are posters suggesting that parents actually buy a book and follow it like an instruction manual in order to raise a baby? Oh my word no wonder there are so many kids in therapy and parents on anti depressants! Disfunctional attachment, what the buttons is that? Seriously i've never read and understood anything less in all my days. Over the years i've read som stuff on this forum but this thread continues to baffle me. All this nonsense about disciplining a BABY. Even after several posts the OP comes back with "He needs to be taught discipline but for now 1-2 minutes timeouts would be fine.he doesn't listen if I say something just carry on screaming." Taught discipline? You don't need to teach it, it's just there! It's been made very clear that children of this age do not understand consequences, discipline, action statements and Time out, yet still you post that 1-2 minutes is ok. The reactions you are seeing are from communication issues, your child does not understand what you want or are saying because he is a BABY. Why is your child screaming? You need to pre empt situations and learn positive distraction techniques (ie "Oh look over there, WOW"!) and embrace a get on with it attitude, ignoring any upsets and carrying on. Make an issue then an issue will be made! Talk about making mountains out of mole hills, this is a 14 month old baby, wait till you have a 6 ft strapping teenager to deal with, you think time out will work then?
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Latest post on 26 June 2013 - 15:54
angel joy .... Lola cat has hit several nails on the head..........let me add this......... Most importantly - your little one is a BABY. His little brain is operating at less than that of a poodle's...............he doesn't even know where he ends and other people begin. He certainly can't make the connect on an intellectual basis between his behaviour and your response, he has no idea about consequence and even less about remorse....... but he is picking up on one thing, he feels puzzled and afraid.....because he knows that you are feeling the same............ he knows you haven't got a clue. And that may very well be why he is acting up (although it is impossible to tell whether he really is, or if you just have unrealistic expectations). Please throw away whatever book it is that you are reading, Attachment Parenting is an unproven concept developed in response to "Attachment Disorder". which is a condition sometimes observed in children who have had truly traumatic relationships with caregivers. Crazy as in mad or alcoholic, or uncaring as in Eastern Bloc orphanages. It doesn't happen in normal families. To base a child rearing technique on a set of adverse circumstances is junk parenting advise. It's on a par with taking Vitamins to prevent cancer. Stop reading up on how to "Be a parent" and listen to your own mother, or aunts, and your own memories. Use your own instincts, use a little common sense.................if he is doing something dangerous (like sticking his fingers in a socket etc) or destructive.......... use a tiny tap on the hand and a firm NO.......same if he pinches another child's toy, or whatever...........and please let him loose amongst other children, if he does kick up around them it is probably because a) he's totally puzzled at the fact there are other little people in the world, and b) he is picking up on your anxiety. What you are doing now is worse than useless, if you keep it up, ie the withdrawal of yourself.... .once he begins to understand that you are using that as a punishment, that if he is "bad" Mummy goes away......... you really might end up with a disturbed and angry little boy.....with real Attachment Disorder. (When he is a little older you can try the "time out" approach but in my opinion that is only really effective with tantrums from a child old enough to be self aware, gives them time to calm down without losing too much face.) Children really need above anything to feel SAFE, they need boundaries but most of all to know that Mummy is in charge and knows what she is doing, even a tiny baby will pick up on parents' lack of confidence.............and if it helps, in my experience children are a lot more resilient than we think. The most damaged human beings I know are those whose parents were scared of doing the wrong thing................just be consistently loving, and remember that a tiny smack on the hand and a firm no.......much as you would do with a puppy, will serve well enough until they are able to reason.....then it's a whole new ball game but then you just have to be smarter than they are, and a whole lot more patient! Excellent post LT , well said.
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Latest post on 26 June 2013 - 14:16
Any of the new GEMS schools and as AA says the GEMS summer EFL course held at GEMS.
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Latest post on 26 June 2013 - 14:12
I have sat on my hands with this thread but now............ Firstly you stated YOU HOLD [b'>HIS[/b'> EARS, not you hold your ears which would make zero sense anyway. What on earth would you hold your ears for? Secondly, unless your child is on a spectrum then i feel from what you have posted these are learnt behaviours, so where is your child learning to behave like this? Who is around your child, how are they behaving when around him? IMHO 14 months is far to young to even comprehend what you are requesting, consequences and actions come at a much later age. I am quite horrified that anyone should need to put a 14 month old baby in time out, let alone force them to say sorry and not speak to them for 5 minutes. AP has zero to do with what you are seeing now, however, it has everything to do with how you are responding and educating your baby. I would suggest you enroll in some parenting classes and totally change your expectations and most of all sit back take a deep breath and look at where issues are occuring and how you can change your reactions or prevent them happening in the first place. Many mothers who are experiencing problems, or with their first born, they believe they are not normal and brighter than others, but the truth is they are normal and what you are experiencing is a perfectly normal child who is moving and growing from being a wee baby to a more independent toddler. You really need to move away from this concept of baby is doing something bad, and needs to be punished mentality. From the description your child is extremely frustrated and copying behaviours, why? <em>edited by Lolacat on 26/06/2013</em>
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Latest post on 24 June 2013 - 13:59
I'm not pulling at that thread! :P Oh sorry i thought you had researched and found some proof it actuallly was beneficial and would share, shame.
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Latest post on 24 June 2013 - 13:49
Are your children still working in school this week or does it feel like school has broken up already and we are just sending the kids in for a weeks baby sitting ? I'm sure the kids are having a ball but really a whole week of nothing It's been like this since the exams a few weeks ago, reports written, teachers getting ready to leave...........what a waste of time and money.
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Latest post on 24 June 2013 - 13:47
Ladies, please where can i find, Grade B Maple syrup Herbal Laxative tea Non iodised sea salt Cayenne Pepper Ps. I dont intend to start a debate on the effectiveness/cons of the diet, ive done my research and ive made up my mind and am going to try it. Please share your scientific based research on this.
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Latest post on 20 June 2013 - 17:28
Isn't the whole point about education to get rewarded for knowledge, isn't that what every tells their kids daily? No education no job, no money bla bla? The value of money, why not expose children to it young and teach them how to be responisble with it?
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Latest post on 19 June 2013 - 10:57
Can anyone recommend a pet shop in Dubai, I am looking to purchase a puppy in several months time. I know there are several rescue center's, however due to previous experience I would rather have a puppy with no previous owners. Any advice would be great. There are puppies born here in some of the rescue organistationswho have not been pre owned. I would look at K9. If you have a large budget then import from UK, OZ etc from an ethical breeder. There are no guarantees buying for a pet shop that the animal does not have *issues*. I have often seen animals in pet shops that already show signs of mental anguish and behavioural issues from being taken away from their mothers too young, mis treated, caged 24/7, not litter trained, not socialised........the list is endless.
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Latest post on 19 June 2013 - 10:49
I'm also looking for a puppy... I have voluntered for fostering or adpting a dog at some rescue center's but as I will be home only at 4pm. I do not qualify. And with good reason. Have you looked into taking an older dog who needs a home? Although that is a long time not to be let out for a toilet break.
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Latest post on 11 June 2013 - 12:49
Sorry, so if they have an ID card then they can get an e-gate? For nationals is what i understood, need to be clarified on that point. Also skywards card holders silver and gold i think can use their cards once they have been activated. Best to go to DNATA or an egate centre and find out. No Egate is usually 18 years old and above as my friend has 2 kids 10 and 14 and cannot get them e-gates even though they both have ID cards Call 800-5000 for clarification Not id cards for expats, National ID for nationals........but great you posted number much easier!
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Latest post on 11 June 2013 - 12:48
Sorry, so if they have an ID card then they can get an e-gate? For nationals is what i understood, need to be clarified on that point. Also skywards card holders silver and gold i think can use their cards once they have been activated. Best to go to DNATA or an egate centre and find out. and what about kids skywards cards.....sorry lol don't know.
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Latest post on 11 June 2013 - 12:44
Sorry, so if they have an ID card then they can get an e-gate? For nationals is what i understood, need to be clarified on that point. Also skywards card holders silver and gold i think can use their cards once they have been activated. Best to go to DNATA or an egate centre and find out.
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Latest post on 11 June 2013 - 12:33
At what age are children allowed e-gate cards? I thought it was 18 and 15 for national ID card holders? ready to stand corrected.
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Latest post on 11 June 2013 - 09:55
I have waited twiddling my thumbs, in many a waiting room for a Dr. , but all have acknowledged the delay and apologised immediately. Just recently I waited an hour for an orthopaedic Dr. at Medcare, and the secretaries could not fill me in on when he would be available, but when he did show up, he was more than apologetic, explaining that things had just snowballed for him since the morning etc. etc. I was already getting a bit antsy and was about to leave when he finally showed up and he apolgised profusely, explaining that things had just snowballed since his first appointment that morning. If he had not even acknowledged that I had waited for him that long, I would have been irritated and certainly would have reminded him about the long wait. I think at the very least the OP's Dr. should have acknowledged the delay and apologised, her reaction to the patient pointing it out to her is certainly over the top and not acceptable. But did you tell him he was late and you had been waiting?
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Latest post on 11 June 2013 - 09:46
If it makes you feel better I would have felt the same. Regardless of her day she should have been more professional and less aggressive, especially to an emotional pregnant woman. As a Dr she probably does encounter lots of emergencies and patients that need immediate attention but her staff should have communicated with you better and she should have been more understanding as your time is also valuable. She is a professional and she should have conducted herself in a professional manner. You could sleep on it and give her another chance, it could have been a one off but if you feel you can no longer be comfortable with her caring for you then definitely source another Dr. Hormones are funny things, you might feel less agitated by the whole situation tomorrow x you are absolutely right, but the thing is, each time i remember the situation, the only thing i feel is her arrogance which really puts me off even going to see her. Her arrogance? lol
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Latest post on 11 June 2013 - 09:45
http://www.mediclinic.ae/FindPhysician.aspx?dname=&hid=10&dpid=122 Dr Eisa Al-Hemrani, is excellent and all my GP friends refer to him.
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Latest post on 10 June 2013 - 14:03
Is it just me or did anyone triple quadruple check their baby car seat this morning? Dropped DD off at nursery just now and I still kept looking in the rearview mirror at her seat (there is a mirror so I can see her face) to make sure she definitely definitely was NOT in the car before I locked up and went into work...! No because i would never leave a child in a car ever! and that's what all those who did always said.... Exactly No it's not exactly, this is not something that can be brushed aside, this for the majority never ever happens and never ever would happen, there is a difference. You are correct, thank goodness for the majority of people this will not happen, but what if, just what if you, me or anybody made that fatal mistake. We are only human at the end of the day and not perfect....... I would like to think that I would never leave my child in a car but as Pikachu pointed out, neither did the people it happened to. Have a little empathy[/quot Empathy? Yes let's all make excuses for excedingly poor choices and try and suggest these can happen to everyone so it makes everyone feel better.
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Latest post on 10 June 2013 - 13:57
Thanks for posting this......................very sad.
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Latest post on 10 June 2013 - 13:36
Is it just me or did anyone triple quadruple check their baby car seat this morning? Dropped DD off at nursery just now and I still kept looking in the rearview mirror at her seat (there is a mirror so I can see her face) to make sure she definitely definitely was NOT in the car before I locked up and went into work...! No because i would never leave a child in a car ever! and that's what all those who did always said.... Exactly No it's not exactly, this is not something that can be brushed aside, this for the majority never ever happens and never ever would happen, there is a difference.
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Latest post on 10 June 2013 - 13:35
Is it just me or did anyone triple quadruple check their baby car seat this morning? Dropped DD off at nursery just now and I still kept looking in the rearview mirror at her seat (there is a mirror so I can see her face) to make sure she definitely definitely was NOT in the car before I locked up and went into work...! No because i would never leave a child in a car ever! and that's what all those who did always said.... Really, do you evidence of that? Accountability is the word.
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Latest post on 10 June 2013 - 13:30
Is it just me or did anyone triple quadruple check their baby car seat this morning? Dropped DD off at nursery just now and I still kept looking in the rearview mirror at her seat (there is a mirror so I can see her face) to make sure she definitely definitely was NOT in the car before I locked up and went into work...! No because i would never leave a child in a car ever!
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Latest post on 10 June 2013 - 13:25
Thanks Lolacat, I've seen that all of the ones I mentioned got summercamps, unfortunately DC is only having two weeks and we are away those weeks, but will definitely get her in to one of the others in the summer. Arh shame! Well why not contact admin at DC and arrange to go visit the studio one afternoon, you will see loads of classes and happy mums and dads there. They have just held audions for their MT classes so you better get in touch quick if you are interested.
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Latest post on 10 June 2013 - 13:20
well I had a woman in a white silk blouse with nothing on underneath and no sun was needed to display her assets.....in IKEA on a friday morning My husband nearly fell through the floor edited by janatks on 10/06/2013 IKEA is a Swedish store¬!
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Latest post on 10 June 2013 - 13:19
Outside having a coffee and a guy, with the sun shining behind him, clearly has nothing on underneath!!! Thought I was mistaken until a woman next to me commented also !!! How were you looking in that region if having a conversation with someone? ........thought most people talked to the face! lol
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Latest post on 10 June 2013 - 13:18
I'm looking to enrol my 7 year old daughter for drama classes next autumn. Anyone got experience from Dramascene or Kids Theatre Work? She's confident and seems to have natural talent for acting so looking for something that she will develop within. I'm also looking for feedback from other companies, like Diverse Coreography and Hayley's comet. I have heard positive feed back from both of the above (DS and KTW) and personally think DC is fantastic. DC incorporates dance and voice. Have no info on Hayley's comet but they have a summer camp soming up so may be worth a try. DC also have 2 weeks of amazing summer camp open to all, so may be a good intro?
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Latest post on 10 June 2013 - 13:11
You know we (generic) are very spoilt in Dubai. Sometimes we (generic) need to walk in the shoes of another, take a deep breath and think about things a little more before we put our own individual needs and wants first. One has no idea as to how the morning had run for this human being, she may well have had to deal with some horrendous emergency or tell someone they had 3 weeks left to live. 45 mins with all due respect is not a long time in the big scheme of things to wait to see a busy proffessional. I never mind waiting to see a Doctor i respect and trust, it's worth it and a doctor who will spend the time with a patient when times are tough is like finding rocking horse manure. So my advice to you, is relax, what is has been and move forward and enjoy your pregancy. <em>edited by Lolacat on 10/06/2013</em>
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Latest post on 10 June 2013 - 00:44
There is normally a 10% margin, but that does not mean you drive at the top end of the margin so as not to get caught!
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Latest post on 10 June 2013 - 00:42
There has been afew of these incidents over the last 5 years since Ive been here, so I wonder why this tragic accident will change the way parents think!!!! But these tragedies aren't about the way parents think. The articles illustrate that over an over again these awful deaths aren't the result of conscious negligence. The point is that the amygdala works in a certain way & we can't really change that. Using discussions like these to raise awareness about hyperthermia, the horrific potential consequence of leaving a child in a car, is surely helpful in reducing the frequency of such events. Personally, I know that I've been utterly paranoid about this after watching the Opera episode on forgotten baby syndrome some years ago. I am so very grateful for that knowledge. These tragedies are about they way parents think? because if they had a thought and just took the little fella out of the car, then this wouldnt of happened, surely. This is only my opinion thou. Reading this story has really upset me, had many discussions about it since Friday, just heartbreaking. edited by salsB on 10/06/2013 I can not even imagine how any parent can forget a child is in the car in the first place!
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Latest post on 09 June 2013 - 10:04
3 hours for a three year old and people are making excuses? seriously.
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Latest post on 09 June 2013 - 09:59
I don't know why but when I read the opening post I kept on thinking of the thread M In Trouble. There is just something about the posts that make them come across to me as if they've been written by the same person although the English is different. And the user names, both have numbers at the end. I'm finding it all a but suspicious. Granted Expatwoman could be becoming a place where women from certain parts of the world come for a certain kind of advice but its just not sitting right with me. There has been a recent stream of such posts over the last few months....amazing how such controlled persons have unlimited access to the internet?? Shame. <em>edited by Lolacat on 09/06/2013</em>
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Latest post on 01 June 2013 - 17:07
It's in the middle section on the top floor.
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Latest post on 01 June 2013 - 17:04
mortgage is in both our names so it's difficult for me to get either council house or the social to pay my rent because I own a property. If he would put mortgage solely into his name then I could access benefits. To sell it, we both need to sign and when we got the offer last year, he point blank refused to sign. Re paying the mortgage - he's not British and probably has no intention of ever moving back to UK so I've been paying cos I'm worried they come after me. I have always dealt with everything financial as he's refused to take any interest.This is why Dubai has been stressful as everything is in his name and I have to chivvy/hassle/nag to get anything paid etc. Yep, I'm supposed to be intelligent, resourceful etc so it's mad how I've allowed this to happen. Then he has to sign the house over to you and place in your name. You need to seek UK legal advice, start divorce proceedings asap. If you can prove that you have been funding the mortgage he wil have little choice but to sign over or buy your half out. Get advice, the right legal advice and change your life now.
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Latest post on 01 June 2013 - 02:12
Pikachu...he told me after much probing that it is 6 months initially then maybe permanent. I know he expects to just go in 3 weeks and leave me to sort everything here then follow him to KL where he will give me no help sorting schools etc and no doubt company will pay so poorly we end up out of pocket again! Yet again. he provisionally accepts a job not knowing salary!!! Duh or what? Has he actually accepted the job? How on earth can he accept a job and not factor in housing and education allowances and discuss this with you prior to makeing a descion? (mind boggling)
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Latest post on 01 June 2013 - 02:11
? Seek legal council over whether you can just sign the house and mortgage over to him right now, walk away from it. Look hard and fast for a job in a private boarding school as a matron or councillor, ( i gatther this is your area). Look all over the UK and the world and see if you can get a package, housing and edcation for your girls. Don't worry if it's in Timbucktwo, you need a job and benefits for now! Or look here but I doubt you will make enough to educate 2 kids TBH. Redesign your holiday, people in debt or about to be, don't go on holidays. Sell your furniture here and as another poster said, BEG the school for your refunds back, go to governors, GM, Head, you name it, do it! Get as much cash together as you can now, cut out anything that you don not need right now and start saving. <em>edited by Lolacat on 01/06/2013</em>
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Latest post on 31 May 2013 - 16:47
Thanks all. Done nothing with kids today. Need to take them out. Thanks for advice. Generally I deal with finances but different since moved here. When i was in UK and he was hereI was reliant on him sending money which he didn't always do. Lolacat - you are totally correct. The real problem is fact he ducks/avoids responsibilities. The kids love it here..they love the beach etc but sadly I think my only option is to return to uk and somehow find a way of supporting them. Sadly, it is very difficult to enforce child maintenance when the dad is overseas as I'm sure others have found out. I guess something will work out. Thanksvll. Will keep you posted. edited by Feefmick on 31/05/2013 Good luck Feefmick. You need to address the problem which is at the heart of all this and that is your marriage. You can divide the responsibilities but need to communicate in order to do that and there is the crux of the issue, neither of you are prepared to address your communication issues. One step at a time, get it right acceot each other weaknesses and find a resolve and the rest will be doable.
 
 
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