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Latest post on 25 August 2017 - 10:52
Dear All I am hoping you can help ! I have hired a maid and suggested that her package would include food . However we have two children and it's getting a little tricky as she's dipping into some of the kids staples which is racking up our grocery bill! Therefore I am going to talk to her about implementing a food allowance for her so she can purchase what she needs and then she can be independent and it releases us from the pressure of having to factor in her needs into our grocery shopping. Pls can you advise me of a reasonable weekly/ monthly allowance for her food . I will stay buy her toiletries as I originally agreed with her . Thanks for your help all! Hi! With our last housekeeper, she asked to get a food allowance instead of us buying food for her. So we have her 400 dhs a month. This was her way of "saving up" because she chose to buy mainly pot noodles and lots of vegetables. Whatever money was left, she used for taxi fares, (many) phone cards and bits and bobs for herself. Our current housekeeper has asked that we buy food for her. Whenever I go grocery shopping, I ask her for a shopping list and buy whatever she needs. I figure it's around the same 400 dhs mark as with the previous one. What makes it easier for us is the fact that she has her own small fridge and own cupboard in our kitchen. She uses our condiments and olive oil, but for the rest, she has her own. Hth.
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Latest post on 21 May 2016 - 21:02
How does he get on with dogs? Hi 37Mirlo. He gets on well with dogs. We have a labrador and a saluki mix and we have never had a problem. Our dogs are used to cats though. As I mentioned, he is a lover, not a fighter, so he'll stay out of trouble if he senses unfriendliness. He likes to sleep in a comfy spot but other than that he is a very gentle, submissive cat.
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Latest post on 21 May 2016 - 20:58
Have you taken him to adoption days? There are regular ones at Creature oasis pet store (don't sell cats and dogs) Hi izzy! No, I didn't think that adoption days would be an option because he'd just be one of many and add mentored before, his wonky eye might put people off. I really feel like I need to know that he'll be with a good family who will love him, he is the sweetest. Thank you for your suggestion though, I'll look into it!
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Latest post on 27 September 2014 - 17:08
Try to get in touch with Bin Kitty Collective, they will be able to help. Please ignore the neighbors, and continue feeding your little furry family :) Thanks marroosh :) I just don't understand how some people can be such *whatevers* when you have 5 hungry, harmless, cute little balls of fur who just need some food and a lot of love. ( they are quite funny when it comes to our twice daily meetings: first cuddles and then food and milk)... I will contact bin kitty collective, fingers crossed I'll be able to work something out!
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Latest post on 27 September 2014 - 17:05
Miss M, first of all, what you're doing, imo, is very kind and you clearly care about this poor family of cats. It is sad that your neighbours haven't got something more serious to quibble about than your kindness, but in terms of how to respond, it's unlikely that you will change their minds. Would it be possible to just continue what you're doing? Obviously getting them neutered would be the most responsible course of action, I know nothing about feline care in RAK, but I goggled and came up with this: http://www.rakawc.com Maybe you could contact them, explain that you have a family of garden cats and ask for some advice? There is such a major problem with former pet cats abandoned by irresponsible, selfish people who take off their collar, toss them onto the street to starve and move on to their next furry fad. It's appalling. Good for you Miss M for trying to help and I really hope for a happy outcome. Thank you for your kind words. I know I am a softie when it comes to this little furry bunch but I know that I need to have them spayed/neutered otherwise it will be a never ending spiral of kittens that keep "popping up"... The shelter you mention is the one I know of and called. Have been told in no uncertain terms that they don't have space and any stray will be euthanised... See, the thing is, if I could, I would take them to a vet myself, but I just don't have enough time/crates/money to do it all on my own after coming back home from work in the evening... I will definitely try feline friends in dubai, maybe they can point me in the right direction... Maybe they'd be willing to drive all the way up to RAK *wishful thinking* .... :)
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Latest post on 27 September 2014 - 15:53
I know, right?! I'm afraid this is that kind of neighbourhood, everybody has something to criticise about what someone else is doing.... Sad, little people. But, hey, at least I'm willing to take responsibility and action, I just need a little guidance... :)
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Latest post on 30 August 2014 - 17:19
Agree with sandy_dogg, if she is causing you headaches then she is not the right choice for you and your family anymore. I know that live-in maids usually have access to food and drinks but I never heard that live-outs have free reign of the fridge.... The least she can do is ask, and if she doesn't, you need to tell her that if she wants a drink, she has to ask you. She is your employee, not a family member. And if she is worried about the fact that her husband has lost his job, maybe she should be treading more carefully as opposed to lecture you. If you want to give her another chance, maybe write out a simple list of rules/instructions, and also remind her that you are employing her as your help to clean the house, not a nanny?!
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Latest post on 30 August 2014 - 17:13
Hi busy247 Re schools for your children, I second tatie boggle on the widad learning centre. Their website is widadlearning.com, they are a Waldorf inspired school and it's definitely worth having a look if you want your children to continue on a Steiner-related path. The school is lovely and Nicole and yasmine (the founders) are always happy to help and answer any questions you might have. Hth
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Latest post on 27 August 2014 - 20:38
If the 4th - 11th Jan would work for them, then I can help. :-) A 4 bed apartment and 2 bed apartment on same floor. Let me know if you would like me to get in touch with all details. Hi composer! I just sent them an email asking if those dates could work for them, but that is so far the best solution if they want to be in the same place and stay in an apartment as they would like to do their own cooking and laundry... :) Drop me an email if you can... thekristensensathotmaildotcom Thanks! Thanks!
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Latest post on 26 August 2014 - 23:33
Hi katedansledesert! Congratulations on coming to dubai! We used to live in JVT (jumeirah village triangle), it is close to your DH's work and the villas have a HUGE L-shaped garden for your dog. The only problem is that most gardens are not landscaped by the landlords, so you will have to invest some money to put up a good garden. We moved to RAK, but just to give you an idea of prices (2 years ago, so might not be accurate anymore ), we put interlocks at the back of the garden (leading out the living room and dining room doors all the way down to the back wall of the garden), paying 4000 DHS, and we were quoted 8000 DHS to do the garden to the side of the house (grass, palm tree, shrubs, plants) and some gravel at the front of the house. Basically, if you're willing to invest a big chunk of money for what might be only one year (in case you're renting), your dog will be very happy in JVT, there are loads of dogs around (in our block, every villa -bar one- had at least one dog) and the walks are lovely. HTH
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Latest post on 26 August 2014 - 23:10
MissMoiselle, what dates are you looking for in Jan? Hi composer. They are coming for a week, either from the 2nd until the 7th of January Or From the 10th until the 17th of January. After asking for details, my uncle-in-law said that he would be paying for all of it (plane tickets and accommodation)...!!! That is why the budget is "tight"... He is a really kind man and just wanted to do something nice for his children and grandchildren, but I think the prices might well take him by surprise! :) I suggested they could stay in a house near ours, as many are available for a short term let, and explore the northern region (we live in RAK), to which he replied "we'll take the bus or metro to dubai when we want to go explore".... :) DH is going to Denmark soon so he will definitely have to sit down with him and explain some aspects of the UAE as I don't think they realise what kind of (expensive) holiday they are getting themselves into.... :) Thanks for the tip, Britgirldubai, I will be forwarding it to them, along with all the other great suggestions all you ladies have provided so far! Thanks a bunch!
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Latest post on 24 August 2014 - 18:07
I've checked golden sands and oasis beach tower and sadly, January is fully booked and/or can not accommodate the different families (2+3, 2+3, 2. ).... I'll check the ones you suggested jackieq513 and forward the information all you lovely ladies suggested, to my family in DK. Thanks for your help, but feel free to give me more suggestions if you can think of anything else please!
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Latest post on 24 August 2014 - 18:02
try airbnb... that website has loads of listings for suitable short term rentals in dubai Oooohhhhh.... Thank you for this website! I had never come across it before and it certainly is something worth remembering for future holidays, so thanks for that. The villas that are big enough to accommodate all 12 are really well over their budget I think. I sent an email to my uncle-in-law to ask about financial specifics, as they obviously can't have it all for a limited budget....
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Latest post on 24 August 2014 - 15:43
Thanks britgirldubai! I had a look at the website and unfortunately it is almost sold out... I have also looked at villas on the palm that would accommodate all 12, and it looks quite nice, with private pool and all.... Just need to figure out whether it's "too far out" since they're planning on relying on public transportation....
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Latest post on 24 August 2014 - 13:53
There's a huge range of hotels in Dubai and not all are expensive waterfront resorts. Try booking.com to see what's feasible. The hotel apartments (as Izzy mentioned) can possibly work as they usually have suites and self catering facilities that can cut down on costs. Another option is a short term let. There are people who rent out apartments for the week or two, catering to the holiday market. If you google holiday lets in Dubai you'll find scores of offerings. Hi tallybalt! I had a quick browse on dubizzle for short term lets, the only issue will be to find three or four apartments that are together and/or in the same building... As I said, I don't think they'll be renting cars, so logistically it might be difficult for all of them....
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Latest post on 24 August 2014 - 13:50
Hi izzy! It will be their first time in dubai, so I think they'll want to try the usual tourist hotspots (burj khalifa, spice souk, dhow cruise, dubai mall, jumeirah mosque, etc.) and I don't picture them as "laze-around-the-pool" people. I'm not sure they'll rent a car, so I assume they'll rely on the metro to get out and about, so somewhere with easy access to a metro station would be ideal. Just had a look at noonhotel at it looks great! Prices aren't too bad either, so I'll definitely forward that link to my uncle-in-law.
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Latest post on 24 August 2014 - 13:31
Hi everyone! We have 12 (!!!!!) family members coming to visit for a week, maybe a couple of days more. As we cannot accommodate them, they asked for our help. But I don't know where to start looking! They are quite easy going, so they're not really fussed about whether to rent a villa, stay in a hotel appartment, whatever is more cost-effective.... They already looked at hotels but it is simply too expensive.... I think we are looking at 6 adults, 6 children, so 4 or 5 bedrooms with two sofa-beds for the children maybe...? I would really appreciate your help! TIA
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Latest post on 08 July 2014 - 07:31
Hi everyone! Does anyone know where I can find a round couch? It can be new or used, as long as it is in good condition, even if it needs re-upholstering. Our friends have one and every time we visit them, DH won't stop going on and on and on (and on....) about how comfy it is. His birthday is coming up, so I thought I'd try and find one for him. I trawled the internet and dubizzle with no success, except for inflatable ones :) Any help would be greatly appreciated in my near-impossible quest for the round couch :) TIA
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Latest post on 17 June 2014 - 14:48
We have family living in Esbjerg, DH is Danish. To be honest, I really don't like Copenhagen as I think people in general are very unfriendly and not open towards other cultures (I am the complete opposite of my DH). I thought I'd love Esbjerg, as it is smaller and I thought it'd be more quaint and friendly. The residential areas are nice, to be honest, and if you have good neighbours they'll quickly become your friends, but the city itself, including the city centre is quite glum. Remember that the cost of living is extremely high in Denmark, there are massive import taxes on just about everything and the cars in particular are roughly double the price of its mainland European counterpart.... Culture-wise, Danish people are told to be humble and modest from a very young age, it is rooted in their traditions. They despise showy people with big cars, big houses, flashy fashion, etc. You have to tell yourself constantly that you must blend in with the neighbourhood. I would like to point out that it was explained to me that it is NOT jealousy, but merely a way of life "if I can't have it, he shouldn't show it off" :) still really haven't figured that one out myself :) Unless you have a very high paying job, forget restaurants and bars, as it is very very expensive to go out. Danes usually meet at each other's houses/apartments and have evenings in. Now to the positives: the architecture is stunning and you'll be amazed by the beautiful flat scenery, as there are no hills or mountains anywhere. Living surrounded by water is also fantastic, as is the weather, cold, misty, wet...... Ah! How I miss living in Scotland! :) I hope you make an informed decision as Denmark is at the opposite spectrum to the UAE... Do keep that in mind. Do some research and let us know how you get on! Edited to add: the food us out of this world fantastic!!! And christmas is full of heart-warming traditions, the best time of the year!!! <em>edited by MissMoiselle on 17/06/2014</em>
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Latest post on 13 May 2014 - 22:53
Hi claire08 This is going to sound harsh and I'm sure many ladies will disagree but I will give you the same advice as I gave my friends who were considering moving to RAK.... If you care about the quality of your children's education (which I'm sure you do), do not move up here / send them to these schools. I can't give too many details as I don't want to get into trouble, but I would strongly advise you against it. If you go to these schools and ask to be shown around (without making an appointment beforehand), you will see for yourself. Unfortunately, the quality of teaching, the discipline, pupils behaviour and so on doesn't come close to what you get in Dubai. Sorry to be so negative, I rarely log in to comment on threads and only give advice when I genuinely know what I'm talking about. Hope you'll find a solution for your two cherubs.
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Latest post on 21 April 2014 - 12:29
DB, less than the truth. You make some strong comments at times on multitudes of subjects and posters respond, this is a forum. In fact there are other posters who have been particularly vicious towards your posts over the years, i am not one of them. I don't need to be vicious to voice an opinion nor do i deliberately intend to upset anyone, nor do i believe i have. I have disagreed with your statements made about SAHM, which you make from time to time. I have teenagers, if i wish to be on the receiving end of such conversations i direct to them not EW. Exactly - vicious posts, teenage conversations, thumbs down, bullying mentality, cliques, why on earth do I still post on here? I've always been candid about my experiences and tried to help people unlike many other posters who just crop up to be nasty then retreat back to anonymity but don't actually add anything else to the forum. If anyone is stupid enough or naive enough to expose any weakness or difficulty in their lives, it is remembered years on and used to mock someone. If someone has marriage difficulties or any other problem it will be used against them with venom. Yes when there is a debate I put my oar in but I try to back up what I say through facts not emotions and never intentionally nasty altho perhaps it doesn't always come across that way. Honestly it is time for me to leave EW, I'd rather focus on my real life friends and family than get into pointless discussions with "strangers". If I need any advice or information there are numerous Facebook groups where the ladies are nothing but kind and helpful. I agree with you, TDB, a thread that started off with a genuine concern and asking for advice has turned into yet another (albeit entertaining) cat fight, that's a shame.... But not really surprising... Everybody is entitled to their opinion, but I always wonder, why do some posters feel the need to question someone's choices and be judgmental about it, when they actually don't have any real advice to give?! The OP didn't ask "can you judge me on wanting to "spoil" my husband?" !? :) To the OP, I understand you want to make your husband's life easier when you're away. The easiest solution is, as suggested by other posters, to hire an agency maid that comes in once or twice a week, depending on how messy he is :) , and that also does the ironing. Regarding meals, either stock up on ready-made meals (wait rose has a good selection) if he's not a fussy eater, or surprise him with a voucher for a meal on the weekend with his friends. I know some companies to daily "basket deliveries" with all the ingredients and cooking instructions/recipes, might be something nice for him to try? At least he wouldn't have to dash to Spinneys after a long day at work and he wouldn't even need to look up a recipe for inspiration, everything comes in the basket :)
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Latest post on 19 April 2014 - 18:58
Mamoonafaisal, STOP reviving old threads for your own advertising purposes. A lot of us on here are looking for genuine advice and free ads like yours just ruin it.
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Latest post on 18 April 2014 - 15:36
If you're feeling brave, head to dragon mart, I saw them there I while ago when I was looking for cotton waffle weave bathrobes. Very good quality and affordable.
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Latest post on 18 April 2014 - 15:31
I would otherwise suggest the dodgy Classic City dept store in Satwa Had to smile at "dodgy".... I will try there, thanks. :) I remember a previous thread about Satwa not being like it once was anymore (prices and service), but I hope it will be cheap enough *fingers crossed*
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Latest post on 18 April 2014 - 14:46
I meant these tulle underskirts that make any skirt/dress stay pooffy and big
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Latest post on 18 April 2014 - 14:22
Really???!! Just to be more specific, it's an adult-size petticoat. Do you know where they have them? Underwear section?
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Latest post on 17 April 2014 - 23:06
Thanks mrsb. See, I thought the same thing with the "smart casual and cocktail dress" explanation... :) I think I will accessorise it a bit, find a matching pashmina, some nice jewellery, etc. I have cute orange and gold strappy sandals, so I will build on that. Thanks for the advice, much appreciated.
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Latest post on 17 April 2014 - 19:08
Thanks GE. Any advice on accessories? ( I am useless at co-ordinating anything...) Chunky jewellery? Hat? Scarf? Personally I don't like chunky jewellery, but that's just me. With a dress like that you could choose a contrasting hat and shoes etc. Do you have an idea of what the weather should be like as that will dictate what else you would need? DH checked online and according to the website it says high of 22 degrees and lows of 14 degrees.... But at the moment it's 26 degrees, so go figure...?! :)
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Latest post on 17 April 2014 - 19:03
I'd say head straight to this store called LIPSY... at most of the malls... they have a FAB collection of both daytime and evening cocktail dresses... check out their online uk store for specific items you may be interested in http://www.lipsy.co.uk/store/dress-shop I did have a looksie online and I'm afraid my knees are too chunky for their hemlines. But I'll go to MOE, you never know.... Thanks for the tip!
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Latest post on 17 April 2014 - 16:40
Thanks GE. Any advice on accessories? ( I am useless at co-ordinating anything...) Chunky jewellery? Hat? Scarf?
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Latest post on 13 April 2014 - 10:27
There are sooooo many empty houses in Al Hamra, sometimes it is better to pop in and ask around. Our real estate agent was from Hunt and Harris, his name is Jason, really nice guy who'll go out of his way to help you out. There is also an expat forum for rak residents al hamra village on google. Might be worth to post on that forum and ask if there is anything available or if someone is contemplating moving out of their house?! Good luck in your search, there really is no better place to live than Aaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhl Hamra ;)
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Latest post on 12 April 2014 - 18:53
I do recommend you find housing in Sharjah if you're going to work there. Commuting from another emirate may be time-consuming especially during rush hours. I believe Ras Al Khaimah is about an hour and a half from Sharjah although the outskirts may be closer. Driving from Al Hamra village to Sharjah takes 30 minutes if you take the 311, of course there have been ongoing roadworks, but you can easily take the 611 and then take the Sharjah exit into the city centre. Al hamra is a great place to live and the commute is really not bad. A four bed townhouse goes for anything between 65000 and 75000 at the moment. The four bed townhouses also have a biiiiiig landing on the top floor (with a big balcony) that some people have either turned into a master bedroom or storage space, so that could potentially give you 5 bedrooms. Edited to add that there are plenty of community pools around al hamra and private beach access. Lots of kids on their bikes, in the beach, in the pools, it really is a lovely area for families. There's a good school nearby and they have transport for their students, both pick up and drop off. The school is called RAKESS but I think they changed their name to something else.... <em>edited by MissMoiselle on 12/04/2014</em>
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Latest post on 12 April 2014 - 13:05
are you buying or renting? we would love to move back down I quit my job in dubai for the exact same reason (thought the commute would be too long) and have since realised that if you take the 611 it takes 50 minutes to get to safa park.... Had I known then what I know now, I would have stayed at my job... Something to think about..... :)
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Latest post on 12 April 2014 - 13:02
Hi moglet The cheapest bill we had was 650 DHS, the most expensive one was in September (we moved in August) at around 1500 DHS. We like to think we are quite frugal with the A/C and with electricity in general, but whenever we have guests, the A/C is on full blast, doors are left open and outside lights are kept on :), that of course reflects on the bill amount.... DH told me that here we don't have that added tax like in dubai (percentage of the rent), can't quite remember the name or the specifics, though.... Hope this helps... Have you made up your mind, yet? :)
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Latest post on 09 April 2014 - 21:32
Sorry to hear about your bad experience Miss Moiselle, but one bad experience doesn't make a bad hospital. Moglet the search for RAK hospital and you will find the website I didn't say it was a bad hospital, just said I had a bad experience, as well as two of my friends. Based on my experience, I choose not to go there anymore, if you don't feel comfortable with the doctor treating you and their knowledge about medicine, it is my decision as a patient to seek medical advice/treatment elsewhere. The OP asked about other posters experiences with RAK hospital, which I did. Sorry if I offended you, but just gave MY opinion....
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Latest post on 09 April 2014 - 19:45
Hi moglet! We moved to al hamra last August and it has just been pure bliss since then. Life here is very different from dubai... Slower pace, super friendly locals, much cheaper rents, etc. We had a gas stove installed when we moved in. We live in a remodelled three bed house and our landlord modified the kitchen, so the only thing we needed to do was to call al hamra maintenance. The stove was about half a centimetre bigger than the space provided, but the employees just fixed the problem within an hour. When we moved in, we got an information brochure with useful numbers on it. I have to say, we have called al hamra maintenance hotline numerous times and they show up within the half hour, get the job done and their rates are very cheap. They put up curtain poles, exterminated ants, replaced our lock from the outside gate and replaced our water heaters, every time quick and effective work! Regarding rak hospital, I had a very bad experience there with an OB/GYN.... It was such a ludicrous experience that I now share it with friends as a "can you believe it...?" Story. Sorry, but based on my experience and my friends experiences, I would definitely not recommend rak hospital and encourage you to find someplace else if you can. Shjbelle, regarding rents, we are paying 85000 for a remodelled three bed house. Our friends are living in a four bedroom house (but the bedrooms are fairly small) and they are paying 75000. Depending on the location (close to the lagoon/the beach/golf course views/sea views/installed pool/landscaped garden), you will find that prices will change. Also, keep in mind that rental contracts are different here, the landlord is only required to give you one months's notice and (in our contract, don't know if it's a general rule) our contract also states that the whole house needs to be repainted when we leave. There is also no such thing as rera or the rent committee, so make sure you are on good terms with your landlord, that helps :)
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Latest post on 02 April 2014 - 15:55
Thanks to everyone for their help! After many (many, many) contradicting phone calls, I finally managed to find a solution. Due to the "special circumstances faced by UAE residents", my embassy has agreed for me to keep my old passport and like tallybalt said, they'll cancel every page except the one with the visa (bonus: I get to keep my passport with all my multi-coloured stamped pages, yay!) :) Now I have to cross my fingers and hope that my embassy will get my new passport in time for my trip to the U.S... Thanks again, everyone!!!
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Latest post on 02 April 2014 - 15:55
Thanks to everyone for their help! After many (many, many) contradicting phone calls, I finally managed to find a solution. Due to the "special circumstances faced by UAE residents", my embassy has agreed for me to keep my old passport and like tallybalt said, they'll cancel every page except the one with the visa (bonus: I get to keep my passport with all my multi-coloured stamped pages, yay!) :) Now I have to cross my fingers and hope that my embassy will get my new passport in time for my trip to the U.S... Thanks again, everyone!!!
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Latest post on 01 April 2014 - 16:05
Thanks sandy_dogg, but unfortunately! as my passport "belongs to the government" I must hand it in when picking up the new one.... I suspected there might be costs involved but I am so dreading going through the whole process again.....
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Latest post on 01 April 2014 - 15:55
Hi ladies. I am planning in going to the States in May, and now (I know, I know.... Should have checked it earlier) I've realised that my passport expires in August which doesn't comply with the "must be valid for 6 month after departure" rule of the States. My questions: Will i have to renew my residence visa again for my new passport or is it just a case of getting a new "sticker" type sheet for my passport? Will I have to follow the same process (medical and paperwork) even though I only got my residence visa a couple of months ago? Who or where can I call to get the process going and if you have been in the same position, how long has it taken you? Thanks for all your replies, your help is greatly appreciated!
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Latest post on 26 February 2014 - 13:30
Hi Audrey Elizabeth I have been tutoring French and Portuguese to a beginner, intermediate and advanced level. Would you like to get in touch so we can meet up?
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Latest post on 25 February 2014 - 09:57
Sorry, don't know how to do that LiNk thing,... Anyway, the title of the thread is Shabby Chic Effect, you can easily search for it... Hth <em>edited by MissMoiselle on 25/02/2014</em>
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Latest post on 25 February 2014 - 09:50
Hi shaniqua I agree with cherry, it's fairly easy to DIY, and you can achieve the distressed look you really want (from only slightly worn edges to the very shabby). There was a thread about this not too long ago, let me see if I can find it....
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Latest post on 17 February 2014 - 11:44
I second ascots and chapels. DH had a shirt done by them and the service and quality are second to none. There's one branch at dubai marina mall, on the second floor, that's where we went to. Hth
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Latest post on 16 January 2014 - 10:55
I think OP's initial post has spiralled out of control. Bottom line is, nobody's saying they are anti BS, but some ladies, like myself, are just expressing that they are UNCOMFORTABLE with it, that's all. I don't see why this lady mentioned by OP walks around Dubai Mall breast feeding, when she can have one of this cover-ups, like mentioned by some posters and protect her modesty and avoid "shocking" locals, who are not used to seeing a partial b00b on display.
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Latest post on 15 January 2014 - 12:29
DH and i sat outside a cafe once, ejoying our beverages. Lady at the next table pops out (there really isn't another word for it) her b00b and starts breast feeding. Both DH were uncomfortable. I am not saying breast feeding is bad, but considering where we live I find it offensive. Like TDB said, what's wrong with covering your baby (and your b00b) while breast feeding?! Not everyone is comfortable around naked b00bs and we should also consider the local culture. OP said a local gentleman approached the breast feeding lady, so he must have been offended/uncomfortable in some way, so we should respect that. I am European and tbh I am uncomfortable every time I see a lady breast feeding. Don't be quick to judge, I am not saying I am against it, I think it is a beautiful bonding experience between mum and baby, but I don't think it's necessary for strangers to see one's b00b... :)
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Latest post on 03 December 2013 - 14:42
OP, I agree with Izzie and oopsiedaisy. You admit in your post that your daughter is outspoken and bold. That can be tricky to deal with in a classroom situation, and I am sure the teacher (in charge of 24 other pupils I assume) is doing the best he/she can. Maybe try and address some issues with your daughter first, she needs to understand that there are some rules in a classroom setting, she needs to behave and respect the teacher, after all, no? Shifting all blame onto the teacher is not realistic and unfair, but if things don't improve, try and set up a meeting with her teacher so that you can work together - at school and at home - on your daughter's "boldness". [b'>[b'>Your daughter hasn't had trouble with previous teachers. Therefore, the teacher is the problem.[/b'>[/b'> That's nonsense. Kids change. An outspoken child of 6 or 7 can easily become over confident and change into an obnoxious brat when getting older. Not saying this is the case with OP's DD, but instead of accusing the teacher, I think she should also have a chat with DD about do's and don'ts in class. So even if the OP says herself that her daughter is outspoken and bold, ALL and ONLY fault is the teacher's?! Come on.....!
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Latest post on 03 December 2013 - 13:19
OP, I agree with Izzie and oopsiedaisy. You admit in your post that your daughter is outspoken and bold. That can be tricky to deal with in a classroom situation, and I am sure the teacher (in charge of 24 other pupils I assume) is doing the best he/she can. Maybe try and address some issues with your daughter first, she needs to understand that there are some rules in a classroom setting, she needs to behave and respect the teacher, after all, no? Shifting all blame onto the teacher is not realistic and unfair, but if things don't improve, try and set up a meeting with her teacher so that you can work together - at school and at home - on your daughter's "boldness".
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Latest post on 02 November 2013 - 17:24
common sense and patience LOL I can tell you that if had known furniture and cosmetics/toiletries prices before I came here, I would have shipped my own furniture over and stocked up on my fav brands with the 3 for 2 offers at boots! I find nice and good quality furniture very expensive in dubai and my favourite moisturiser is not sold in the UAE....
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Latest post on 20 October 2013 - 18:05
Dubizzle is great, you can find old, tired pieces of furniture for under 100 DHS. I found a complete set of wooden garden furniture (two one seaters and one large bench) for 80 DHS. Granted, they look a bit tired, but nothing a lick of chalk paint can't fix! Also, you wouldn't believe what some people throw away. Since we moved to RAK, I have seen chandeliers, chunky wooden bookcases and my favourite are a large colonial wooden birdcage and a Balinese wooden chair that I snapped up presto!!! Upcycling is all about keeping your eyes open. Remember, one person's junk is another person's treasure! <em>edited by MissMoiselle on 20/10/2013</em>