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Latest post on 16 November 2014 - 19:34
Not really cringe-worthy (which in itself is pretty yuck !! lol) but "touch base" and "dear" when used patronisingly are my two... We have learnt a lot of new words and phrases since we've been here, mostly used by other nationalities, but I actually think most of them are fun !! I love "doing the needful" and we use it lots at home..not such a fan of "prepone" though, mainly because it's usually inconvenient or done thoughtlessly... I love how certain languages don't seem to have a word for "behind" meaning at the back of, so use the word "backside" !! lol Someone once wanted to park in my "backside" :D My son still asks me to tell the story...Not making fun of these people but some languages just don't have the word for an exact translation... Oh DT I have had ' can we park in your backside ' and it took everything I had to not burst out laughing. We still giggle about it years later. I found ' your good name ' such a respectful way to ask your surname and connect it to my time in the ME. ' Whatever ' and the rolling eyes is my blackboard word...... <em>edited by Nomad on 16/11/2014</em>
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Latest post on 16 November 2014 - 19:24
My sympathies for your families loss. I had a similar experience my LO was also 3. When they are really little I found that it is best not to belabour the point. Change direction don't dwell on the issue with her.We used the the stars and told him that Grandma( picked the brightest star in the sky ) was watching over him from above. When we had to put our service dog down my Granddaughter, 3 1/2 at the time, was inconsolable. My son remembered the stars and they too picked out a star which is still ' Hennies Star ' and she is 7 now. I know it is easier said than done but try to get back to some form of routine, poor mite is probably so confused and hasn't a clue which way is up. Such a difficult time for you trying to grieve and carry on life as before but you will get though it. Sending hugs and positive thoughts your way. xxxxx :hug: <em>edited by Nomad on 16/11/2014</em>
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Latest post on 15 November 2014 - 22:11
When we lived in Japan everyone reversed parked, I asked a friend why, she said so they could leave quickly and efficiently. I loved it as being the only car in a vast car park that was parked front first it was so easy to find. Personally it doesn't bother me either way, just please park IN the lined space so I can get my door open and get out .:cool: Eta love the new smileys admin. <em>edited by Nomad on 15/11/2014</em>
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Latest post on 14 November 2014 - 21:05
I hope baby oil does not make a comeback Ewwwww ........overdone like everything else they do.
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Latest post on 14 November 2014 - 21:02
I have spent many alone, husband is a pilot but, then we celebrate the day when he gets back. Now, if there is not celebrating the day at a later date, Come to me!!!! and if I am also alone, we can be alone together!!!!! and have one hellofatime lol…..or…if he is here our house will be full and you do not have to be alone!!! come to us :):):) Awww Sue what a lovely invite......
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Latest post on 14 November 2014 - 20:58
I am yet to figure out why she is famous! I have heard it is the derrière !!!!;) So did anyone see the latest pictures. They didn't leave anything to the imagination. Would provide a link to the mag, but better not ;) edited by Alismum on 14/11/2014 Honestly I think it looks dreadful, more suited to a centrefold in a trashy magazine. Am having a good laugh at the skits taking the mickey ,now they are news worthy. :biggrin: <em>edited by Nomad on 15/11/2014</em>
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Latest post on 14 November 2014 - 00:43
I have spent many a Christmas alone, and it can be difficult. The way I coped was to treat it like any other day ,got loads of DVDs lined up to watch and stayed away from watching Christmassy stuff. It was really hard sometimes and there were many tears but I just had to deal with it. Sincerely if I was still there you would be more than welcome to join us.......
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Latest post on 13 November 2014 - 23:25
So sorry you are having to go through this. EW is a wonderful help at times like this and hopefully you have contacted Guinnesse 2, but hold back on posting too many personal details as being an open forum anyone can access the site. Hoping you can get it sorted and are on your way back to your family soon.
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Latest post on 11 November 2014 - 19:18
:lol: that's hilarious they are a nice group of team. i actually like working with them and I don't think they do it on purpose. but i can't handle it because i always feel weird, awkward and like i don't belong there. My colleagues are fab, actually, it's just the boss. And part of it, I am fairly sure, is that he doesn't like Westerners. He thinks only his own country people are competent, smart, etc. and often we are subject to monologues and diatribes on the topic. He tries to exclude the rest of us when he can because he thinks we are imbeciles. I actually heard him through our (paper thin!) adjoining wall tell a fellow employee that you can't trust white expats to work hard, and few of us have masters degrees or PhDs and our only skill is speaking English, so hiring us for "too much" salary is a necessary evil. Talk about a wide brush to paint with. What a chip! Sounds like the supplier was right ;)
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Latest post on 11 November 2014 - 19:09
i hate it when they do that. they call me in for a meeting and they are all speaking their native language. i usually stand up and leave without saying a word. i still do it and i told them a million times what's the point of me being there if i can't understand you. they apologise but they still do it. Wow, they apologize? I have come to just ignore it, but when it bothers me on the wrong day, I string together a sentence of the few words I know in their language, like "What has happened? Do you want bread? I am strong" :) That usually does it! :) Seriously sometimes I feel like I was hired just to be the proofreader or the dictionary. My boss forwarded me an email once, asking "What does this mean? IS this bad??" The supplier called him a D-bag. I was dying!!!! edited by Beebers on 11/11/2014 Oh Bebeers you just made my whole day. :lol:
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Latest post on 11 November 2014 - 18:54
We have decided equally between two siblings. I like Beebers mom have sat down with both children and listed what I want each to have, based on their interests. Youngest son is very interested in family history so he will carry the torch into the future generations,passing on these treasures. One has done very well for himself while the other is a plodder. People have taken advantage of his generous nature in the past but we have made sure it is 50/50 with as Geordie says provisions that take care that the funds won't be frittered away.As far as precious jewellery etc is concerned I have sat them both down with DIL and gone through exactly who is getting what and why. As one isn't married I have made provisions if he does in the future. Having moved so many times internationally I used this as an excuse to stay lean on the clutter front which really helps should I hop off the twig unexpectedly. I lost my Mom just over two years ago and the drama after her passing was just shameful so I just walked away. There were a few pieces I would have loved as they meant an awful lot to me but deep down I still have those memories tucked away in my heart. :heart: <em>edited by Nomad on 11/11/2014</em>
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Latest post on 10 November 2014 - 20:25
Thank you for the replies. She has been the most perfect daughter anyone could wish for so to change all of a sudden is hard to deal with. We have always spent a lot of time together and this has now stopped. Its so heart wrenching, I feel like I have lost a best friend and daughter at the same time. I have also found a lump in my breast and have a appointment with a surgeon tomorrow. I was desperately trying to resolve whatever is going on with her before I go as I don't want her to feel bad that shes been mean to me if something is wrong. Shes is very happy with her friends and doing really well at school in fact she's just been predicted all As at A level so no issues there. I do remember what its like to be 17 so I am trying to let go but its so hard :brokenheart: Sending hugs and positive thoughts your way... This too shall pass...and you will have a whole new different relationship with your DD once you both get out the other side. Despite the teenage issues she sounds like a lovely young lady and you sound like a loving caring mom.:hug: <em>edited by Nomad on 10/11/2014</em>
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Latest post on 06 November 2014 - 07:34
So glad to hear you are doing well dally :)
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Latest post on 05 November 2014 - 20:46
Sending positive thoughts your way. XXX
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Latest post on 05 November 2014 - 20:43
I really understand your predicament ,having been there a few times. I was never asked but felt an obligation to help and did it willingly, thinking that it was appreciated. It wasn't and in fact got thrown back in my face with the attitude you thought you were better than us. Being family I never expected to be repaid as a very wise person once told me don't ever lend money you can't afford to write off. It festered through the years and burst like a boil after a family death. PLEASE save yourself the heartache and remove yourself as the family ATM as in the long term they will not change their attitude no matter how much money you throw at the situation. Far better the money stays in YOUR pocket for YOUR future, just imagine if the tables suddenly turned and you needed help from them. <em>edited by Nomad on 05/11/2014</em>
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Latest post on 01 November 2014 - 20:07
@arohadxb great post ,thank you. I stood by a very dear friend who went through the most terrible PND at a time when it was considered ' the baby blues' . If you felt down for longer than 2 weeks it was a case of come on now dear buck up time to pull yourself together. She was in the depths of despair and just couldn't get out of the big black hole she found herself in. My heart just broke for her. ummuhammad you did all you could under the circumstances, being thrown in the deep end so to speak,don't beat yourself up over it. As you say arohadxb if things don't fit into a tidy little box of a diagnosis there are those who judge from the side lines labelling people. I really hope that she gets the help she needs and soon.
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Latest post on 29 October 2014 - 05:44
The only advice I can give is that you do what is best for your dog. Yes it is different having a dog in DXB as opposed to the UK and will be an adjustment for both you and the pooch, can it work, yes. The most important issue is that it costs a lot to bring pets out and you get to do it all over again when you leave...... I have done both ,bringing my animals with me and at times leaving them at home.When I have left them at home I really missed the companionship so became a foster mom which did help fill the gap. All the best with your decision. <em>edited by Nomad on 29/10/2014</em>
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Latest post on 29 October 2014 - 05:32
Many years ago at a birthday a friend who never allowed her kids to eat any form of candy brought them their own birthday treats. Of course they got into the taboo stuff and scarfed it down like a Hoover, eventually throwing it all up as soon as it hit the tummy....all over the table. The rest of the party had to be cancelled......my boys were so upset at missing out on the Mr. T cake.
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Latest post on 29 October 2014 - 05:24
So sorry about your leg. Not the same but I had major back surgery in May. I am extremely hands on with everything and had to work really hard to learn to relax and concentrate on resting and allowing my body to heal. As someone suggested get a wheel chair to help you get about and the part time maid is a great idea.Make a list of all things you wanted to do for yourself , like reading, watching girly movies, the little things we never have time for as busy moms. Wishing you a good recovery xxx <em>edited by Nomad on 29/10/2014</em>
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Latest post on 23 October 2014 - 09:31
Does anyone know any proper 'authorised' pet shops we could check out too? How can one tell if a pet shop is authorised to sell pups/dogs or not? Adoption centres don't seem to have any really small dogs, and being in an apartment I don't want to take on a dog who is bigger. Define ' authorized ', if you mean licensed to sell pets they sell pets. There are NO ethical breeders in the region, loads of backyard breeders and pet stores who import puppies from east block puppy mills. Any breeder who is prepared to send puppies to pet shops all over the world to an uncertain fate are purely in it for the money.Their breeding practices are shameful producing genetically unhealthy pups and the documents are usually altered. If you are set on getting a particular breed why not try and adopt from a rescue organization that specializes in that breed. Depending on where home is I would start there .If it is a puppy you are after source an ethical breeder in your home country. Any breeder worth their salt will make you jump through hoops with lengthly questionnaires, face to face meetings, spaying contracts etc. and that is before you start the importing process.Some breeders won't let their puppies be exported. If you are prepared to wait, the right fit will come along and it might not be what you had in mind. ETA have you considered just how loud Yorkies can be, their bark is much louder than their size. <em>edited by Nomad on 23/10/2014</em>
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Latest post on 22 October 2014 - 19:04
Almost knocked Penelope Cruz over running for a flight in Toronto. She is truly gorgeous even without makeup. <em>edited by Nomad on 22/10/2014</em>
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Latest post on 22 October 2014 - 18:59
Showed DH original Rene photo asked him who she is, his reply ' that girly movie about the girl with the big nickers'.... Showed him the new Rene and he had no idea ! She should just be honest , as should they all or is it just ' my lying eyes ' <em>edited by Nomad on 22/10/2014</em>
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Latest post on 21 October 2014 - 19:40
Absolutely LT, I agree he will pay for the rest of his life. He has to look in the mirror everyday. What sticks in my throat is the fact that because of who he is his justice was so very different from others who serve much longer sentences for far lesser crimes.
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Latest post on 21 October 2014 - 17:40
I'd read that he wasn't appealing the sentence Not the actual sentence but how he serves it. I don't think they would dare change that. It may be that he spends his 10 months or whatever in the prison hospital, but I very much dout he'll get house arrest immediately. Let's wait and see.....after things have quieted down in a few months, hope I am wrong......
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Latest post on 21 October 2014 - 17:38
Hi All, I'm kind of getting the impression I need to visit the schools when we arrive. My eldest is only 6 so I figure if she misses a few days of school whilst we make a decision it's not going to prevent her becoming a Doctor (or similar) if that's what she wishes!! I'll draw up a short list and visit when we arrive I think. I've heard parking/driving for schools runs are a nightmare and as we currently walk to school this will be a big consideration for us so thanks for the advice Kaba - it would bother me too!# I've seen photos of the Villas and they are extremely close but I've also heard renting can be hard work in terms of landlords and expensive so my husband isn't keen at all. Everything is hard from afar however I haven't got time to visit before we move, unfortunately. Can't face bringing the kids alone and no one will want them all for a few days either. Guess we'll just jump in when we arrive and get on with it! Ha ha. If I can give you any advice it would be to stick with company housing, once you opt out there is NO WAY of ever getting back in.Had friends who opted out and always regretted their decision.
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Latest post on 21 October 2014 - 17:32
I'd read that he wasn't appealing the sentence Not the actual sentence but how he serves it.
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Latest post on 21 October 2014 - 17:27
He already has been found not guilty of murdering her. Oh please...........that side show of a trial. edited by Nomad on 15/10/2014 As I was saying........and the odds are after the appeal it will be back to the 3 years of house arrest the defence wanted all along.Great message here, if you are famous and wealthy you can get away with murder.
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Latest post on 20 October 2014 - 19:00
So brave,considering others right to the end.
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Latest post on 15 October 2014 - 18:09
He already has been found not guilty of murdering her. Oh please...........that side show of a trial. <em>edited by Nomad on 15/10/2014</em>
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Latest post on 15 October 2014 - 18:08
When you have walked a mile in their shoes......... Not one of us knows exactly what Reeva's parents circumstances were when she was MURDERED we only read what is said in the press.My point was IF they were after his money they would sue him in civil court. He is from an extremely wealthy family and in the bigger picture $600 ( and we can only speculate about why they accepted this as this has only come to light during the sentencing stage ) a month is a drop in the bucket compared to what they could possibly sue for. What amazes me is the lack of empathy by some, not many of us can even imagine what it is like to lose a child never mind losing one to murder.I think it is ' pretty disgusting ' to imply that they are making money out of their daughters MURDER. My brother was killed by a drunk driver and at the time my parents were so devastated that any suggestion to get back at the man who ' murdered ' him might have seemed a good idea. <em>edited by Nomad on 15/10/2014</em>
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Latest post on 14 October 2014 - 20:18
I just can't believe the lawyer for Reeva's parents asked Pistorius for support, they accepted monthly payments from him for 18months, it's a bit of a sickening twist to the sorry tale. I would starve and sleep on the side of the road before I would take money from my daughters killer. A 3 year house arrest is just laughable. Apparently they will be paying everything back.....they have been in a dire financial situation what with her father suffering a stroke. They turned down the blood money outright and have said they won't pursue a civil case against him....that speaks volumes about who they are.
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Latest post on 14 October 2014 - 19:31
When I see the strain on the faces of Reeva's parents and what they endured my blood boils. A bully with an uncontrollable temper must get a lenient sentence because of his past problems......where do you draw the line, how will this bear on similar cases in the future. Agree DT lock him up and throw away the key would have been justice but on the lesser count I fear he is going to get away with a slap on the wrist.
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Latest post on 11 October 2014 - 22:00
I spent whole last weekend out in the sun, but still look extremely white, like a sick ghost. Just think how lucky you are and enjoy your beautiful dark tan ;) It will fade away, it is not forever. Yuck, suntans give you wrinkles! and you would be lucky if wrinkles were your biggest problem! edited by Stix on 11/10/2014 Come on guys, you need vitamin d. You gotta see my skin, and my mother's skin too. We both love the sun and both have perfect skin, looking younger than our age. :) Sorry Dentro but I have to disagree. Some types of skin do not do well in the sun,I have many family members who have skin cancer due to too much sun exposure. One caught it just in the nick of time having to have the skin removed from half of their face and years of skin grafts.Sun damage is forever on the skin it doesn't heal and can bite you in the butt later. As a child in the 50s no one knew about the effects but today we have all the proof we need that sun tanning is bad for the skin........ As has been mentioned SPF does give protection but nothing gives 100% protection ,you still get exposure. One of the many skin specialists we consulted said that in fact anything over SPF60 was merely a selling ploy as 60 is the most protection you can get. The key is to keep on applying SPF as long as you are exposed through the day. As far as Vit D is concerned the drops work a treat,my whole family takes them due our cold winters.
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Latest post on 07 October 2014 - 01:00
Sounds like you have got it covered WG...good luck and let us know how it goes..
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Latest post on 06 October 2014 - 19:46
Hi WG sorry I am on the other side of the planet . The first thing to do is to try and calm the poor mite down and a really good start is a tin of tuna. Slow movements nothing sudden.Gradually move forward and try to touch it gently. Have a box with a lid handy and if you are lucky enough to catch it pop it in the box and close the lid over. I know this sounds totally daft as it is at a service st. but I never let that bother me looking like a total fool ;) Alternatively put out some food for it and a semi regular basis until you gain its trust ( I have given attendants food and 'hired' them to help me catch a cat or two) and catch it that way. Hope this helps.....
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Latest post on 30 September 2014 - 21:24
I know ....the tall and good looking ones ;)
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Latest post on 30 September 2014 - 21:21
Lost for words.....well not really but can't say them here.... Poor mites.
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Latest post on 30 September 2014 - 19:12
Really happy for you...made my day ! Edited to change reply ,scary LT typed same time as you with the same first sentence ! <em>edited by Nomad on 30/09/2014</em>
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Latest post on 27 September 2014 - 21:31
Many moons back we would take an avo pit and 3/4 of the way up around the rim push in about 6 match sticks. Put pit on top of a class that will hold the matches around the rim but allow the bottom part of the pit,pointy side down ,to rest in water you put in the glass. Roots will start sprouting and when they look long and healthy plant in a pot and then out into the garden. Sounds odd but it works. ETA it starts to look grungy after a few days, the top of the pit will dry out in layers and the water goes green so use maybe an old jam jar instead of a drinking glass edited by Nomad on 27/09/2014 <em>edited by Nomad on 27/09/2014</em>
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Latest post on 27 September 2014 - 20:58
Cut the whole fruit in half remove the seeds. Rub the seeds between a few pieces of paper towel to remove the juicy part of the seed. Leave out to dry a few days. When they are dry plant as you would others seeds.When you get a decent shoot transfer out into either garden or pot. <em>edited by Nomad on 27/09/2014</em>
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Latest post on 23 September 2014 - 21:14
Can I get a sick note? Go home, watch soppy movies, cry and eat comfort food? One of the most ridiculous things I've read. Are we back in the stone age? No I think someone has fallen through the stones with Clair Beecham.. <em>edited by Nomad on 24/09/2014</em>
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Latest post on 23 September 2014 - 20:57
Having been an expat most of my married life and now finding myself settled in my corner of the planet there are many times when I share something about my travels with a friend or acquaintance ,who's furthest travels have been the next province, and get a blank stare. No one knows expat life like and expat, and frankly I miss the ME at times dreadfully but would also not give up my wonderful life I now share with my family and amazing grandchildren. For me it is more a case of possibly rolling a stone out of someone's way and also to keep up with opinions and what is going on in the region and in other parts of the world. Personal attacks are unacceptable and this nonsense of the thumbs down just because of who the poster is, is just childish. What really scares me is these bloomin pink stars and the labels Newbie etc. it seems the next one I have to look forward to is EW Addict !!! @Nikita thank you. ETA Hi Maroosh hope all is well and daza always great posts. edited by Nomad on 23/09/2014 <em>edited by Nomad on 23/09/2014</em>
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Latest post on 23 September 2014 - 20:31
ummmuhammad123 having had only sons can't give much advice about handling possible friend problems. The fact that she and your son have opened up about firstly how these families treated these poor mites and secondly how the children are treated when they visit is a major red flag.I would be actively encouraging new friends...... As far as your late night rescue, what is obvious is your care and compassion, yes probably not that wise charging around in a strange area with an 11 year old late at night but you did what you thought was best given the circumstances. I think we are preaching to the converted here as far as spaying is concerned, it is done now. As far as adopting out I would always have the family come around and see how they integrated with the kitten as the first test. The second was did they come with a carrier ( I would insist on it at first contact ) it shows commitment. Thirdly we would sign a spay/neuter contract that the kitten be fixed as soon as they were 6months old. I would follow up at the 6 month mark and became quite a pain in the butt about it. On one occasion I eventually fetched the cat had her spayed myself and found her a new home...... I have no doubt you will find these mites wonderful homes and can only think that your children will be just fine...they have a super mom to learn from. edited by Nomad on 23/09/2014 <em>edited by Nomad on 23/09/2014</em>
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Latest post on 22 September 2014 - 20:04
' you can't be in our club anymore ' just priceless LT :)
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Latest post on 22 September 2014 - 19:57
FairyDust, this topic is about swimming with dolphins in Atlantis, not about protection of the animals. You should not be too aggressive imposing your points of view. Create your own thread and express yourself there. And yes, I dream to obtain an alligator bag! And I've got a mink coat already :) edited by marykar on 21/09/2014 It is the money that we pay to swim in these places that is funding the cruel murder and kidnapping of these animals. In Japan every September dolphins are trapped into bays where they are sold to aquariums from around the world. Those that are not bought are brutally murdered. If we didn't go to aquariums to see them perform or swim with them there will be no demand for these places to exist. I have watched both the documentaries and I am ashamed that I have contributed to this cruel enterprise. Apart from the distances these animals swim, their family pods are like our family units. They stay together for life until death or kidnapping by one of these institutions. They mourn their loved ones that have passed like we do. Like many people I bought into the line that they are being protected, it's good for our education etc. this is not the case. No one is trying to push their view onto anyone, we are just trying to educate and inform people of what happens to these animals so that people an educated decision. If you watch the documentaries and still think it's ok to keep these creatures in captivity then that's up to you.. Great post starsouthern. When I worked with terminally ill children many years back I arranged for a little boy to swim with the dolphins, it's all he wanted. It took everything in my being to go ahead with the plan once we got there and I saw these beautiful creatures in this small pool,obese and bored. That was my turning point and from then on I promised these beautiful creatures that I would never support this cruelty. Anyone wanting to swim with dolphins on my watch got an amazing canoe/boat ride and I swear the wild dolphins knew that these children needed extra special treatment. Their antics were something to behold. You make a difference voting with your feet.......SW in the US have seen a massive dive in attendance and share values since Blackfish has circulated.
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Latest post on 22 September 2014 - 19:41
Silvstet, how do you know this? How do you know where they live? There are a few posters with high number of posts that have been given away there location and it's nowhere in the UAE and they are many times the ones that knows it all ;-) EW has introduced most countries to their site. Well before this happened I had continued contributing to the site even though I no longer lived there.Having spent nigh on 20years in the ME I think it entitles me to an opinion,or a word of advice on issues I have encountered. Some things are universal as is the very nature of Expatwoman, we come from all corners of the globe and when we return to those ' corners ' who decides that we can no longer be part of the forum... Personally I never say anything from behind a computer that I would not say if the person were sitting in front of me. Yes there are some who really do stir things up , you have the choice of ignoring the post and move on or reply without stooping to their level.
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Latest post on 21 September 2014 - 18:36
@Marykar, Fairy Dust's posts are in no way trying to impose her view on anyone.....she is merely stating facts. If you haven't watched the related videos you can't pass judgement.She as am I are urging people to watch the videos before making a decision to support this inhumane practice. Her post points out the facts,cruelty at its worst. As far as posting on the thread the OP asked about a child swimming with dolphins and we all have a right to reply wether in the positive or the negative. @Blondie007 please watch The Cove before bringing the kids in ( depending on their ages ) as it is terribly distressing and not appropriate for young children.
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Latest post on 20 September 2014 - 22:12
LT thanks for putting it across so well....
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Latest post on 20 September 2014 - 20:09
@Carambar , I see the point you are making but the key is dogs were domesticated thousands of years ago. It would be pure insanity at this point in time to ' free ' all domestic animals, at the rate rabbits , cats and dogs breed the planet would be overcome with ' ex-pets '. It's not practical and IMHO the next best way to deal with the cards that have been dealt by the domestication of dogs etc. is to provide the best homes and care one can for our pets. In fact I couldn't have managed my life without my pets, they teach unconditional love and forgiveness....qualities sadly lacking in the human species ! . Domestic animals have served man well, just google what help they bring to the blind,and any number of other conditions. Putting your head in the sand and saying sorry I won't have them because they are not free won't solve any problems , they no longer have the ability to fend for themselves if they were 'set free'. Just wander the streets of DXB and see all those that have been turfed back out on the streets to roam freely ,their lives are nothing but misery and suffering and finally a painful death. Sorry for the thread drift....;) <em>edited by Nomad on 20/09/2014</em>
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Latest post on 20 September 2014 - 19:42
My granddaughter ( 7 ) informed me she is no longer marrying Justin Bieber as he has ' just had too much trouble with the police nan....' She was so sincere that we all turned our backs so she couldn't see the giggles. <em>edited by Nomad on 20/09/2014</em>
 
 
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