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Latest post on 27 December 2012 - 09:33
Beachcombers at Jumeirah Beach Hotel is very nice.
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Latest post on 26 December 2012 - 23:15
PLEASE don't take any risks with your health. I know the insurance premium can be a huge stretch on a budget, but just imagine the costs if something really bad would happen and you would be in need of direct specialized attention. You cannot always control what hospital you will be taken, nor are you sure that a possible condition can be properly attended to in one of the government hospitals. You may be young and healthy now, but believe me, any illness will always take you by surprise. And once diagnosed, no insurance will take you on, so then what?
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Latest post on 23 December 2012 - 12:28
Finally: So it is Gargash, their insurance company, and we pay 3000 dhs/year (sorry, not 2500 as I mentioned before)
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Latest post on 23 December 2012 - 11:25
Look at the "Christmas Bonus" thread. Some call it a bonus, others a Christmas gift. As to the "why": Because it's Christmas, that's why. Muslim people will do it at Eid, Christians at Christmas. Even in Holland I would buy my hairdresser and cleaning lady a gift for Christmas. Her I give money (with a tiny gift) as I know that will be most appreciated. <em>edited by Oopsiedaisy on 23/12/2012</em>
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Latest post on 23 December 2012 - 10:40
Mum2girls, I have a totally different view. I have never encountered so many extremely friendly waiters as in restaurants in Dubai. True, they may not always understand you, but they mean well. And when I enter a shop I give the sales people a big smile and ask if it is oke to just look around. I've never been followed around. Most people I see shopping or having dinner wouldn't even look twice to a salesperson or waiter.
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Latest post on 23 December 2012 - 10:24
I guess the way a thread about rude behavior towards people in the services industry changes into a thread where EW complain about those same people just says it all!!
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Latest post on 23 December 2012 - 10:04
The only "norm" would be the one month paid vacation at the end of every contract year. If you want to give a bonus, that 's entirely up to you. I'm happy with my current maid and give her 500 dirhams at Christmas and 500 dirhams for her birthday. She's over the moon with that.
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Latest post on 23 December 2012 - 00:06
"Ordinary people" make way too much money, all of a sudden they can afford maids and gardeners and before you know it they think they are superior to people in the services industry who often make 12 hour days for a few dirhams.
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Latest post on 22 December 2012 - 23:58
Agree! I am often so embarresed when I see this happen, I overcompensate and try to be twice as nice as I normally would.
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Latest post on 22 December 2012 - 23:56
Wow Nippy, you have been so brave and handled this ordeal so well. I realize it is all far from over, but you are with your kids, among people that love you. Which is what we all want for Christmas. Well done and hope 2013 will get you back on track and brings you happiness an good fortune.
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Latest post on 19 December 2012 - 13:41
sawta is full of joy when you walk through it which wins for me! - DITTO this comment. i love walking around satwa. in fact i love old dubai around the creek too. you cant beat an abra ride or two or three.:) Love both Satwa and Creek area, for me They're the only places that don't make me feel like walking in Disneyland in the dessert.
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Latest post on 18 December 2012 - 21:14
Hi Lazylegs ;) Am sureI saw it at ACE. I believe they also provide a handy man service of some kind.
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Latest post on 18 December 2012 - 21:09
We just booked Table 9 at Hilton Creek.
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Latest post on 18 December 2012 - 12:01
To be honest, it is the ASAP that ticks me off a bit. You must have know you'ld be downsizing, so why the rush now? Give her some time to find a new family, or you shouldn't have waited until the week before Christmas.
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Latest post on 18 December 2012 - 11:47
Tears here too, but with a big smile. Congratulations with little Layla.
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Latest post on 18 December 2012 - 11:43
B2B, for me now that my ski-bum days of only wanting to ski are long gone, my preference is for nice skiing in a nice mountain village atmosphere with nice restaurants. So I prefer to ski in Switzerland and Austria rather than France ! I totally support mum2girls on this one. The atmosphere in Swiss and Austrian ski resorts us so much nicer then in France, and in some of them you can combine atmosphere with fantastic challenging skiing and high quality lifts as well. In Switzerland, be prepared to pay, as it is hugely expensive. Many villages are car free zones which I find a big plus. Best skiing in Zermatt, Saas Fee, Verbiers and St. Moritz. In Austria check out Ischgl and St. Anton. Accommodation will probably be similar as in Switzerland, but all other costs will be slightly less.
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Latest post on 18 December 2012 - 00:46
Nippy, I hope things will work out for you and that you and your kids may spend Christmas with your loved ones back in the UK. It may not be under the best of circumstances, but at least you will be loved. Take care and all the best.
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Latest post on 18 December 2012 - 00:40
Hi Gorobattie, First of all, good to have you back here. And adopting a kitten, what a wonderful way to start "anew". It seems you have really thought it through. That kitten is very lucky. Good luck to all of you.
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Latest post on 18 December 2012 - 00:35
Best leave it overnight in the fridge.
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 13:21
As far as I can tell, nanny and YDD will have to go fetch her in a taxi. Does this seem weird? Any thoughts greatly appreciated! Seems like a good plan to me.
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 13:12
There's probably a good deal because nobody else survives (or even wants to try).
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 13:07
Too much, considering it's fake and a result of child labour. But hey, that's just IMHO.
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 12:07
Thanks, both Jazz and Sey. Will order today! Seems like an excellent deal. <em>edited by Oopsiedaisy on 17/12/2012</em>
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 11:54
Nippy, don't do anything without speaking to a lawyer. You must have spoken to one by niw, as many other posters have advused you to as well?! He/she will advise you to stay or leave, what to do about court on Thursday, how to manage finances, kids schools etc. Everyone on this board means really well, but unless they are lawyers nobody really knows what the consequences to what actions will be. There are a lot of things I would want to say as advice, but it would be gut feeling and of no help to you at all. Please do go speak to a lawyer ASAP.
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 11:38
Received the book yesterday :) edited by jazz19 on 17/12/2012 Which one, or do you have the option to choose?
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Latest post on 17 December 2012 - 11:36
Strangely, I've also see antique Arabic jewellery in frame shops, such as Hammadco in Karama. Most of which is fake. Your best bet would be the Blue souk in Sjarjah, ir even better the jewelry souk in Muscat.
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Latest post on 12 December 2012 - 14:45
I decided to get a cleaner for the first time and asked my building conceirge (I live in Downtown too) which cleaning agencies are used in the building and I have been using an agency called City Maid Services which I find really good and I get the same girl everytime and she does 2 hours in the afternoon for me. Highly recommend the agency and I have only been using them for 3 weeks. How lovely and helpful of you to come on EW and make this your first post :\:
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Latest post on 11 December 2012 - 15:09
Most 50 year old's are very energetic (as I should know). They are probably a lot more responsible then someone younger as well.
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Latest post on 11 December 2012 - 02:41
Forgive my ignorance, but what 's the difference beteren HD and dynamic brows?
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Latest post on 10 December 2012 - 22:01
I bought it in Holland, only through certified dietitians. There are however websites that sell them as well. Don't know about delivery in Dubai. Try googling bio-hcg
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Latest post on 10 December 2012 - 19:29
I have, very succesfully, used Bio-HCG. It is a "copy" of pregnancy hormones, with natural ingredients only. As opposed to many other diets I tried HCG did control my hunger and cravings. I did it in combination with exercise. You are NOT counting calories with this diet, it is a matter of combining (low carb) fruits and vegetables with lean proteins. Sugar, fat, carbs and dairy are excluded for the first 30 days. Woman are said to loose max. 8% of their weight during the first month. By no means is it a miracle product. It is all about changing your lifestyle and eating habits. But using the drops helped me achieve that, whereas all my other attempts, with or without diet products, utterly failed. I lost about 20 kilos in 4 months and manage to maintain weight and lifestyle.
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Latest post on 10 December 2012 - 16:55
What a generalization! There are millions of Phillipinos, and you have seen a few brushing their teeth in public bathrooms. Same can be said about washing hands. This forum is always about generalization IMO
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Latest post on 10 December 2012 - 15:39
Why are new posters constantly reviving old threads to advertise their DJ's, photographers etc. for weddings, birthdays etc. I must have seen over 10 threads these last few days. :\:
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Latest post on 10 December 2012 - 15:26
shame most don't wash their hands on the way out of the bathroom. Why turn a positive into a negative?
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Latest post on 10 December 2012 - 00:45
Do you expect her to work from 6 am to 6.30 pm without a break? Does she have to clean the whole house between 4.30 and 5.30? Will it involve washing and ironing as well?It really depends on what is is exactly that you will be doing yourself, but in general 12 hour days without a break seems a bit stiff to me.
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Latest post on 09 December 2012 - 23:21
Good for you, having stood up to her. I know how convincing some maids can be. She'll sulk for a few days, but if she sees it won't get her anywhere, she is most likely to come around. Hope that at least for the duration of the contract she'll return to the maid you were happy with. Good luck to you. <em>edited by Oopsiedaisy on 09/12/2012</em>
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Latest post on 09 December 2012 - 12:17
If I had such a wonderful nanny, I wouldn't let her go due to a lack if space. I would find a way to keep her!!
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Latest post on 09 December 2012 - 12:12
Anouja, keep in mind she's only five. This is not a birthday she will remember for the rest of her life. So pick some fun things for the girls to do, but don't go over your budget. The girls will enjoy themselves anyway. Don't worry.
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Latest post on 09 December 2012 - 12:09
My MIL is quite nice, and really likes me. She does however have a couple of habits that drive me wild. However after reading your posts, as well as another one that was removed overnight (you know who you are, I feel very sorry for you!!!) I have vowed never to complain again.
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Latest post on 09 December 2012 - 02:35
'.... My common sense is telling me that we'll probably end up paying for the flight as well as losing the money"... Why on earth would you end up paying for the flight, unless you choose to do so?
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Latest post on 08 December 2012 - 02:29
Neat-Freak, you are way to kind. Don't waste another thought on this lady. She is not fulfilling her contract, so you are not obliged to pay for her flight home. Just tell her that when she asks again. Let her and her husband figure it out for themselves, it is not your concern. If I were you I wouldn't let her out if my sight until she boarded her plain. Good thing you still have her passport. Make sure you know if and how to cancel her visa.
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Latest post on 07 December 2012 - 23:22
Ahlan it is! Thanks all :). Oopsiedaisy, I've always found Ahlan to be reasonably quick, apart from when my MIL came through. But then if they'd carried her through on a golden chariot she'd probably have complained so I don't think that's a good example. :)
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Latest post on 07 December 2012 - 22:49
This thread gets me thinking. Will be returning next week. Have always stood in line for at least 1 hour. Does Ahlan fast track you, if yes, significant time profit? Or is it just a meet&greet. tia ETA: To the ladies who have used both Ahlan & Marhaba: Wich do you recommend? <em>edited by Oopsiedaisy on 07/12/2012</em>
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Latest post on 07 December 2012 - 22:19
T1 around midnight is just horrible:( !!
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Latest post on 06 December 2012 - 12:42
Did you ask her teacher? I would be quite horrified if my kids (not that I have any) would come back from school as you mention. Doesn't sound healthy at all.
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Latest post on 06 December 2012 - 12:36
Never used Churchill. Did use Sani Servive, only a few weeks ago. Was very impressed with their Swiss precision work.
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Latest post on 06 December 2012 - 12:28
Mercato Mall, downstairs at the P-entrance. Don't forget to bring your ID.
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Latest post on 05 December 2012 - 22:58
Have never eaten at Pai Tai, but Thiptara is fantastic. Excellent food and brilliant location. Get a table outside and you have stunning views of the fountains.
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Latest post on 03 December 2012 - 19:34
Thanks for your replies (and offer, muurtje). As I'm all for easy, I guess I'll pack a few boxes to bring along. Will check Vinkers as well. Hadn't thought of them.
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Latest post on 03 December 2012 - 19:29
Ah, this is so cute. Sorry I can't help.
 
 
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