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Latest post on 06 February 2014 - 08:10
OP, I just saw a stove gaurd with the same design in your link at Park n Shop in the baby food/gear section, on Al Wasl Road last week, it was quite reasonably priced as well as I remember it.
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Latest post on 05 February 2014 - 15:59
Why are there so many helicopters about... does anyone know if this is being telecast live ?
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Latest post on 03 February 2014 - 14:31
It all sounds definitely very creepy and lots of red flags going up. Sometimes if they notice an adult has been observing they slink away, which just confirms my suspicions but why would they move otherwise if not guilty of [i'>something[/i'> ?
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Latest post on 03 February 2014 - 14:28
There is not many of us who have not made foolish choices when young, impulsive and risk-taking. Some escape, others live with long-term consequences and still others die from it. Its so easy to sit in on judgment when your own life seems to be going fine. I feel sorry for his young kids, to grow up without their dad. And I feel sad for his fans and the greater audience in general, I feel like there was so much great work left in him which now we'll never get to see. Amazingly talented. Also I don't know why but this new 'thing' of tweeting condolences seems annoying and cheesy and not very genuine.
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Latest post on 29 January 2014 - 23:08
http://gulfnews.com/news/gulf/uae/general/change-in-age-criteria-for-kg1-puts-schools-in-a-spot-1.1284047 Like many others on this forum, I have a June born child and this directive would make things a WHOLE lot easier for my child if its true, but it only mentions a few schools (none BC/IB etc) and also nothing about whether its put in effect asap or for Sept 2015. Still thought I would share to get some thoughts.
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Latest post on 29 January 2014 - 15:56
I take it you have no children? Be upfront with him, ask him if he is having an affair, or if he wants this marriage to work and then you know it is worth your time! Life is too short to waste your time on men who don't want you - spend your time and life with someone who does! She mentioned conflict in the marriage over several things - one being parenting, so I assume this meant they do have a child/children together.
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Latest post on 29 January 2014 - 15:51
I gave way to a nice mum at a pedestrian crossing and someone behind me honked very loudly, so I didnt use the curse words I was thinking of, does that count?
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Latest post on 15 January 2014 - 22:47
Seem to recall there is a pupil at English College who performed at the recent Alicia Keys concert. Sorry, can't remember his name, but someone on here will probably know him. I remember Amelia, he's called Josh [url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nXpcdR8FW0c&hd=1'>link of him playing guitar[/url'> and is the nephew of HorizonMum2 here http://www.expatwoman.com/forum/topic215245-my-nephews-the-opening-act-at-the-alicia-keys-concert.aspx https://www.facebook.com/Josh96J edited by Alismum on 15/01/2014 He was also at the Burj Khalifa live coverage of the 2014 New Year's Eve fireworks countdown, saw him on tv and remembered HorizonMum talking about him in that thread.
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Latest post on 09 January 2014 - 23:30
A few things I wanted to say 1. To the OP, there will always, always be a range of responses, of a 360 degree variation, from little nuggets of wisdom, to symapthy, a cynic will come along, a poster who has a different opinion but is a little timid to voice it, ones who like to inflame for the heck of it, and those who are plain rude (you know who you are), with a thread generating as much interest as yours, its part of the deal, we are all there, you've got to take the good with the bad. Just know that since none of us know you this is just an opinion and isnt personal. If others hesitate to start a new thread, you will lose out on some seriously sound advice and as I have often seen, genuine offers of help that have made a real difference in someone's life, so please grow a thick skin and ignore the bad, and pay attention to the good! 1.1. Doesnt anyone else remember dozens of wind up threads that were completely false and deliberately started to kick up the forum a notch or two when it got boring? It became a sort of test of wits to sniff out the wind ups from the genuine tales of despair, and so may have set a pattern for those who have seen this before and are wary of being taken for a mug. It doesnt mean the OP is falsifying things. Its just our BS meter is always on. That said, I didnt read about the lady who asked for help and later died and it is horrible to think she was treated badly. Especially since so many others have recieved a lot of support in their time of need. Thats the crazy thing about EW, you post at the wrong time, and the thread can take a completley different turn sometimes. 2. Is anyone else curious about Coffeegirl's soap opera romance and wants to know more or is it just me? 3. Did anyone laugh at the thought of EW admin plotting this thread ? 4. Sorry but its blah blah blah. Thats about it I think.
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Latest post on 09 January 2014 - 12:31
I am beginning to doubt this story all over again now, also.
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Latest post on 06 January 2014 - 22:32
Ha ha good one, I see these specimens here a lot and feel sorry for them indeed. why do women insist on dragging men along on shopping trips? Did that a couple of times and saw how bored DH was, never did it again. I would rather go with a friend who is much more likely to be genuinely interested and honest, going solo is also better anyday.
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Latest post on 06 January 2014 - 17:48
It's the next EW Bestseller!! "Maid in the Majlis with the Melon" :D This after the maid got her employer slicing mangoes and another lady had a cucumber in her story. I call Fruit-gate!
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Latest post on 05 January 2014 - 20:20
Yes SD, who moves next??
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Latest post on 05 January 2014 - 18:18
lol I didnt mean you were imbalanced, I meant the fairness of the situation, obviously bad at expressing myself clearly!
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Latest post on 05 January 2014 - 17:58
I already feel that deepening sense, you know? Like before it had always been something that I hadn't felt ready for; it didn't feel bad. But as you say, seeing people around me it has been something that changed and then it all came to a bit of a head the other night when his son texted asking him to fix the situation he'd landed in. Of course, I can't say it'd be a great idea for this 14 year old couple to keep a baby, but I feel insanely jealous of these careless children who have accidentally landed something I might never have! Especially when the conversation is "it's just a bunch of cells" to be "taken care of"!!! The friends asking situation is also hard because I feel like I'm then made out to be the one who doesn't want kids, you know? I feel that if we're going to sit privately and say it's not on the cards yet he should do that publicly too... This is all soundng unbalanced from your perspective, based on what you have written. Just remember, your fertile years are like grains of sand slipping through an hourglass, while his is (relatively speaking) alive and kicking as long as he is! He can afford to be whimsical about it, while you must think hard and come to a decision that wont cause regrets either way ten years down the line. Just come out and say it, and let him deal his hand, you must be truthful if you feel strongly about it. Maybe if he knows how you feel inside, he would tell you honestly whether he can take this on. As it stands, this team is working for one individuals needs, but for it to really work, both must feel heard and understood.
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Latest post on 05 January 2014 - 17:48
Where can I find coach , tommy , Ralph Lauren , Burberry , Disney and Michel kors ... The brands ,, it's more cheaper than here in Dubai Coach, TH and Michael Kors are available at Great Mall, arent they. Ah, Ross, Marshalls, Burlington Coat Factory... shopping heaven as you dont have to faint at the prices!
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Latest post on 05 January 2014 - 17:44
Is that legal? I seem to remember a maid's thread from a while back where it was suggested that.
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Latest post on 05 January 2014 - 12:39
What kind of talk did you have before marriage? Were you very clear that you DID want kids? He has a son, and doesn't seem interested honestly, I dont know why he is putting up a front with your friends. No one should deny their desire to have a child, for the sake of a partner. But if this was part of some deal that you promised him no kids after marriage then he is right to stand his ground. Time for a serious, sit down chat where you refuse to be brushed off. If you insist on havng a child what do you think his reaction will be? Forcing someone to start a family sounds like its going off on the wrong foot. How old are you now?
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Latest post on 04 January 2014 - 17:03
http://anygag.com/2013/10/12/photos/1381567607/ Some good ones here too!
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Latest post on 04 January 2014 - 16:44
Have bookmarked it Marroosh, cant decide which ones I liked best.
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Latest post on 04 January 2014 - 16:28
Ugh, I had to delete the app, N started jumping all over the screen and then the rest of the iPad started acring funny as well, anyone else having this problem, and then re-installed it? I was enjoying it a lot. :(
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Latest post on 04 January 2014 - 13:56
Asian Night every Friday at the Taj Hotel in Deira.99dhs per person. Children under twelve 50dhs.Includes soft drinks.The food is fantastic, it includes, sushi,sashimi, tempura,terryaki and other asian dishes (it changes every Friday). Thank you fjcuiser - heading there armed with chopsticks very soon!
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Latest post on 04 January 2014 - 13:54
AnonDubai and DR1958, I have added you, does my real name show or my Username on EW? I played you yesterday with your EW username. Great - if anyone wants to have a go, my username is Red_Rectangle on there, all others were taken.
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Latest post on 04 January 2014 - 13:48
AnonDubai and DR1958, I have added you, does my real name show or my Username on EW?
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Latest post on 03 January 2014 - 20:34
Im playing with someone and two of my words are Fatwa and Boozes. I'm kind of hoping Maroosh didn't get her blackberry fired up :D lol - if anything reading this should be it
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Latest post on 03 January 2014 - 20:06
Yes, just added you DR. Get set to be dazzled by a lot of two and three letter words as I am learning on the go.
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Latest post on 03 January 2014 - 19:54
If someone is not tagged with anyone else I am up for a game too... except I need to actually find out how to play!
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Latest post on 03 January 2014 - 19:47
Dawn Venturas comes highly recommended, do a google or FB search.
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Latest post on 03 January 2014 - 19:45
Yes, why is sushi so expensive here? Its not like tuna is very exotic or rare. A Japanese friend of DH was aghast at the prices.
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Latest post on 31 December 2013 - 19:53
The madness began in downtown over an hour ago, watching the snail like traffic is giving me the shivers, dont know about beach road.
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Latest post on 31 December 2013 - 19:38
Would love to be in bed as usual, but I guess neighbours above will dance and drink and won't let us sleep anyway. Actually until what time is it allowed to be noisy this night? Oke, I've let all this negativity go on, but this is the limit. I really hope you're kidding! Do you people not have a couple of good friends to spent a fun and relaxing time at home with? There is something in between going to bed grumpy and paying a fortune for some lame party. Lighten up, it's New Years Eve ✨??? Excuse me, the sound of your party horn tooting is threatening to lift my spirits, we are trying to be practical early birds. There is another thread discussing fireworks where you can get your party shoes on.
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Latest post on 31 December 2013 - 15:21
No the best is the cucumber love story one - it was made up, but still great. I seem to remember the meat stamping one, but hazy on the details. There were others that had me howling with laughter, but cant remember them for the life of me.
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Latest post on 31 December 2013 - 15:04
Well, it wasnt the grooviest but Fairy or Pril was not bad.
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Latest post on 31 December 2013 - 15:03
Daza, you are the only poster thats possibly NOT blonde.
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Latest post on 31 December 2013 - 14:59
How much are his fees now? He gave my DS his very first haircut many moons ago. About 70 Dhs. as I remember.
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Latest post on 31 December 2013 - 14:47
NYE grinch here as well - the whole family actually.
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Latest post on 31 December 2013 - 14:29
George is at Caboodle in Dubai Mall, its on the 2nd floor next to Galleries Lafayette. Oh and I never went back to FT after he left either! <em>edited by Redrec Tangle on 31/12/2013</em>
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Latest post on 31 December 2013 - 14:23
well not much dumber than asking where to buy a diamond ring.... Oh about that, I went to carrefour last evening after reading this thread, and the salesperson there said they didnt have any diamonds to sell - never did. Wierd.
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Latest post on 31 December 2013 - 14:18
Do you think many people will gather to watch? Probably not.....I wouldn't expect Downtown to be much busier than on a normal night ;) Yes, I think I will call and ask for a table reservation for 10, should be a nice way to ring in the new year.
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Latest post on 31 December 2013 - 14:08
Do you think many people will gather to watch?
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Latest post on 30 December 2013 - 23:01
As GB said, this is your metamorphosis - the phase where a new you emerges. She is an upgraded, better version of herself.  When you fall sick, you will find you just get up and keep going and all on very little sleep. You will find ways to juggle family and work seamlessly (or more should you have another child soon) while fitting yourself into little slots in between. I agree with Daza - me time is a luxury in the first year - not a right, it may happen, mostly it does not. If I could get a shower and a pair of clean clothes on it was an achievement some days. I know it's easier said than done, but don't stress, it DOES get better. I completely agree with what Lolacat said, please first settle your baby into a predictable, safe routine, with the help of a friend, neighbour, family to get some ideas on how to get started. Going out every night, being around bright lights, people and a busy atmosphere must be confusing her natural sleep and body rhythms and it can't be easy for either of you this way. But that said, my baby was not sleeping through the night at 5 months - far from it, I had to give multiple feeds all through the night way past the first year. She was asleep during this time, but stirring for feeds, if that's what that meant. If you start to think about it all, it may become overwhelming, so don't think too much or too ahead, just put one foot in front of the other and keep going, think of only what you can accomplish now, and do it before you lose muster. We have all been there and have learned the hard way, the only way babies provide the motherhood course it seems!
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Latest post on 27 December 2013 - 23:39
The idea of sitting through hours of snarled traffic jams, overcrowded walkways, metros and taxis, or the nightmare of finding a parking spot, to sit on damp grass for 20 minutes of fireworks, and to go through it all again to get back home sounds mildly nauseating, but with little children, is a self-inflicted marathon torture session. Between that, or having them tucked up in their cosy beds, fast asleep, with me and DH, at home in front of the telly - I know what I would choose! Happy and safe NYE to you whatever you choose to do.
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Latest post on 22 December 2013 - 14:36
How absolutely shattering for you. Even if you decide not to do anything now please forwards those messages you found and any other evidence to yourself, so that you can print it out later and forward to the school where this teacher works, they ought to know. <em>edited by Redrec Tangle on 22/12/2013</em>
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Latest post on 20 December 2013 - 12:59
I only gave a suppository cut in half if I saw her trying to go, just wait because she WILL try maybe later today. It sounded like you Have given two suppositories already? You may need to wait a few hours if that's the case before giving a third time. Mollydxb is right, I used to give my toddler 10 ml of Duphalac and it helped a lot but not sure what dose is correct for 5 month old baby, please verify.
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Latest post on 19 December 2013 - 21:11
At this point, diet wont help much, you need to have a bowel movement asap and rid baby of that blockage, for some its just discomfort but others are in downright pain, unable to eat or enjoy their routines very much. Once the baby has had a BM, diet and lots of fluids will prevent a recurrence. all the best.
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Latest post on 19 December 2013 - 20:03
Oh poor little one. You must be worried, its hard to see them in pain. Its very normal though. I have been around the block with my kids, and one had particularly bad episodes as she was prone to getting constipated. Glycerin suppositories cut in half work very well, dip a cotton bud/swab in a little olive/almond oil and gently swipe the area first before putting the suppository as it can chafe otherwise. Also, if the suppository comes out or hasn't worked, it is OK to repeat again, but I have not done it more than twice in a row, and only if I know the first one came out in the diaper. Sorry but please make sure its inserted a little higher, or else when baby tries to go, the hard stool will remain in while the softer suppository will just slip out, it needs to soften the constipated stool to work (Sorry gross I know!) It usually works quite quickly and she will be so relieved and ready to eat again. SO this is what you do every time she is constipated, but its always better to include a few things in her diet every two days till her body gets used to processing different types of solids . Fresh prunes, steamed till nice and soft, process it, adding pre-boiled water to make it runny and feed that to baby. Blueberries work well too, as does spinach. Oats need lots of water/hydration or else it will dry and harden inside her digestive system but oats are excellent. As time goes on you'll see what food works better for your baby, some work better than others. I agree with everything Coffeebean has said, avoid constipating foods in the beginning. I hope that you read this while baby still needs help, OR that baby's already had a bowel movement.
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Latest post on 18 December 2013 - 13:06
We need an EW flying squad that can go and deliver a good talking to and a sharp slap to some of these men. What like the Wicked witch in Wizard of Oz? Plenty of suitable candidates here
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Latest post on 18 December 2013 - 11:58
Think KenzaB must be at the interview. Rooting for you to get through. You have a fighting spirit, I would have been bawling in me mums apron by now.
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Latest post on 17 December 2013 - 20:11
If you have a backyard or a front yard you could encourage them to get outside and let them get on with exploring, biking, climbing trees or just burning off energy. We walk to the park in this nice weather and that keeps them busy for an hour on the swings and slides. If you have a community pool or your own you could take them for a swim too. At home, they can choose a book to read themselves, finger paint (mess-prep ahead), or I like to get my child busy with a puzzle or Lego model making, she loves that. I also keep some crafts like origami papers, and I have a big book of reading and math papers, I just choose some which may be fun to do and let her do that for some time. When presented with options they will never ask for a tv show or cartoon and would much rather be outdoors or doing something with you. That said, my kids watch tv at home. The cartoons I allow are almost always under-age appropriate and not over (I hate Disney anything) I have a time limit though, so I switch everything off and let them be bored, sometimes the best games they create come out of a state of doing nothing.
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Latest post on 17 December 2013 - 09:14
I agree with Redrec Tangle. Real friends don't just cut someone out of their lives like that. Not showing up on your wedding without contacting you? I would not bother, not worth your time. Real friends also forgive each other. People make mistakes and bad decisions all the time. Life's too short to speculate on the worst rather than try to make amends with someone you care about. The OP wants to renew friendship with a person who hasn't actually apologized. The friend isn't making any amends. When is the burden of responsibility going to be on the person who actually made the mistake? How about showing up, calling, saying something like, 'Hey, I messed up, sorry, can we start over?' If this very basic act of good intention is missing, technically its not a friendship at all, its just one person who really likes someone who couldn't care less about them, and will behave the same way going forward.