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Latest post on 15 January 2011 - 09:32
why not go to the website and get the right information?
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Latest post on 15 January 2011 - 09:14
maybe it is comfort he is looking for? when babies finish eating from their mother they stay in the warmth of her body and go to sleep. You could try warming up a blanket and wrapping it around him while feeding and when he is finished leave the nipple in his mouth. the warmth of the blanket might comfort him. Also if you are still putting a hot water bottle in his bed? do this so it is nice and warm and toasty after his feed.
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Latest post on 15 January 2011 - 09:08
What a perdiciment! Have you had a behaviourist come and evaluate her? It does not sound as if your girl will be able to fit into many families especially if she manages to get out and terrorize people :(....you said she has been getting mor and more unreliable over the past year, but she is only a year old.....it does sound as if she has this aggresiveness in her nature :(
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Latest post on 15 January 2011 - 09:00
Well, I am one of those old people who followed the Lamaze method when I was pregnant for my 2nd :)...I went to weekly classes though, not read the book and it was darn good. I had both labours without drugs except for a pain pill to dull the pain. Yes, it was painful but my husband helped me through it. I am not sure if I would have an epidural and been comfortable. The thought of not having control over my body was a bit daunting, at least without the major drugs I could help myself through it and I knew it would not be forever, just felt like it at the time lol....anyway, some have major drugs, some not, some go to classes, some dont, some have a doula, some dont, all different and if reading a book on the Lamaze method will help the OP in her journey toward a delivery she might be able to manage as much as she is capable of, so be it :)...I sure do recommend childbirth classes though where your husband goes with you so he can support you :)
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Latest post on 15 January 2011 - 08:34
That is very sad that the MIL did not think to leave a token for the eldest. I would certainly let her know how you feel. I cannot understand SalsB why you would tell your daughter something that would only hurt her more? I would think when the time came that you receive the jewellery and split it between the girls without either knowing the actual truth.
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Latest post on 14 January 2011 - 20:10
CanadianInDXB We have a friend coming in on Feb 4th and since the friend isn't staying at a hotel or flying emirates we have to sponsor him. We've spoken to everyone under the sun, Abu Dhabi Canadian consulate, Abu Dhabi Ministry of Foreign Affairs, Dubai Ministry of Foreign Affairs---everyone tells us a different story and sends us to someone else. The latest is the Ministry of Immigration is supposed to know more about it. Since our Canadian friend is living in Sweden he doesn't think he can do any of this thru the Ottawa one?? ANY help would be fantastic ;) I went through a few websites and found this ...finally lol.....your friend need to contact the UAE CONSULATE in Sweden to obtain a visa. Anyway, it said to contact the Consulate directly. good luck. The Consulate - Contact information Visiting address: Torsgatan 2, 5th floor 111 23 Stockholm Postal address: Förenade Arabemiratens Ambassad Box 883 101 37 Stockholm Telephone & Fax: Tel: +46 (0) 8 411 12 44 Fax: +46 (0) 8 411 12 45 E-mail: [email protected] Visiting hours Monday 10.00 - 12.00 Tuesday 10.00 - 12.00 Wednesday 10.00 - 12.00 Thursday 10.00 - 12.00 Friday Closed Saturday Closed Sunday Closed Please note: The consulate section will be closed on last working day of every month and on UAE and local public holidays.
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Latest post on 14 January 2011 - 20:09
CanadianInDXB We have a friend coming in on Feb 4th and since the friend isn't staying at a hotel or flying emirates we have to sponsor him. We've spoken to everyone under the sun, Abu Dhabi Canadian consulate, Abu Dhabi Ministry of Foreign Affairs, Dubai Ministry of Foreign Affairs---everyone tells us a different story and sends us to someone else. The latest is the Ministry of Immigration is supposed to know more about it. Since our Canadian friend is living in Sweden he doesn't think he can do any of this thru the Ottawa one?? ANY help would be fantastic ;) I went through a few websites and found this ...finally lol.....your friend need to contact the UAE CONSULATE in Sweden to obtain a visa.
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Latest post on 14 January 2011 - 17:01
Since this is a complaint about a service she will need to go down with contracts, receipts etc and to fill out a form. The company will then need to go there and discuss it. Not a simple 'they won't refund my money for the vacuum cleaner' case. oh, I just faxed everything to them.
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Latest post on 14 January 2011 - 13:04
I think we should all write our ****** Prime minister Harper and tell him to just smarten up and fix this fued. We peons are the ones having to pay and the next thing you know, all Canadians will be booted out of UAe. Geez
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Latest post on 14 January 2011 - 13:00
you dont have to go down, you can phone them and lodge the complaint...you will find their phone # on most retail counters.
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Latest post on 13 January 2011 - 13:34
time to start toilet training in earnest lol...what about pull up pants then buy suspenders so he cant get them off hisself at night lol
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Latest post on 13 January 2011 - 13:31
We bought a wood 6 seater/round table at Home Center 7 years ago and it is still hanging in there. We oil it 2x a year and it looks great....we could actually do it 3x but we are lazy. Friends have the exact set and it looks terrible because of non oil, so, you do have to care for it. The cusions have faded, dont look great. Will replace in the Fall :) Look on Dubizzle in the gardening section, also on here in the classified. You can now buy furniture covers at ACE I believe. You can order them online though or have a tailor whip you up some. <em>edited by SueB on 13/01/2011</em>
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Latest post on 13 January 2011 - 13:27
is there an organization that are collecting canned food, meds, warm clothes/blankets etc to send?
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Latest post on 13 January 2011 - 12:40
derbend, why not start with just walking 15 min away then 15 min back and see how you like it :)...the weather is lovely right now. Put your baby in the pram and start walking comfortably for a couple of minutes, then speed up a bit until at 5 min you have a bit of a glow on :)....THEN ramp it up for 30 sec and bring it down for one minute.or 2....do this for 20 min if you can, then go home. Your baby gets air and so do you and you get to exercise rather than stroll :). It is a start while you are thinking what you should buy. You might find you enjoy this much more than being inside on a machine. The machine can wait until summer :) Here is a great site for walking music. You can download a whole 30 min to music you like and you can walk to the beat which is very motivating and mood uplifting lol.... www.mywalkingmusic.com they have both singles you can download and complete walks.....give it a try, it is alot cheaper than a machine. You might also (if you feel ambitious) do this in the afternoon as well. On the other end of the spectrum doing it 3x 15 min also works but you have to work harder in those 15min :) the whole idea is to 'move' <em>edited by SueB on 13/01/2011</em>
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Latest post on 13 January 2011 - 11:21
The gym fitness equipment is usually heavier/sturdier as it has to withstand alot more use but you certainly can find home equipment that mimics the gym equipment. We have a nordictrax treadmill which we love, it is sturdy, takes abuse etc and is equal to any at a gym. You have to try a machine at least 6 times before your body gets comfortable with the new rhythm, that is why taking a month to find the right machine is a good idea :)
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Latest post on 13 January 2011 - 10:51
it is a flea market after all.
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Latest post on 12 January 2011 - 21:13
go and enroll in gym on a 1 month trial. try all the machines to see which you enjoy the most and will use. A week on each machine will tell you because yu body will have to get used to the motion..so, dont rush out, test run then buy...sales are coming soon anyway ;). The machine will only be of benefit if you like using it and you are consistant :) if you buy one you have not tried, you might not use it so it will look lovely with clothes hanging from it because you will begin to hate it lol
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Latest post on 12 January 2011 - 19:14
no problems ;)..got the mail.
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Latest post on 12 January 2011 - 19:05
'sharp intake of breath' I cannot believe your husband said that. He must be the shallowest person around at this moment. He needs one heck of a slap up side the head!!! You go get yourself a gorgeous dress, get your hair done, get your makeup done (most cosmetic counters will do it for free :))....pamper yourself and dump the bum once inside the door. Fake it until you make it.....you do not need his approval, you go to that party and be the Belle of the Ball.....if you dont feel it, fake it, pretend you are doing a play.....lol.....(walks off grumbling to herself, I Cannot believe he said that!!)
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Latest post on 12 January 2011 - 17:58
hmmmm jwal, I wonder if someone is leaving their little gifts on your property for a reason????? and on purpose????? What a ridiculous thing to say! For a start I don't know anyone in the neighbourhood who owns a dog and have never reprimanded anyone about their dog, how am I meant to find out who it is when countless people walk their dogs, am I meant to stand outside all day waiting for this to happen! It's ridiculous, I can't believe people on here who think it's fine for this to be happening, no regard for childrens health. Disgusting attitudes! jwal, it is a ridiculous as saying Dubai should Ban all dogs because 'some'people do not pick up after them. I dont believe I read where anyone said it was fine, quite the contrary. They agree with you on the not picking up the poop etc...most do not agree on the blanket dog banning because of it. I think you need to step back, find out who the culprits are since you said you find the poop under your rear bumper 4 times this month, please tell me how a dog can poop under your rear bumper and if it is in the same place every day, I would say it is the same dog. Rather than complaining on here, why not go out and see if you can put a notice in everyones gates to explain the situation? You might be able to meet a few people that might help educate the owners and helpers. It is also highly possible that the maids dont pick up but the owners dont know, or it is the owners who have not lived in a country where it was pretty much mandatory to clean up or get fined. Or, you can continue blowing a gasket and vent your anger on the dogs ......and I noticed, on the people here. <em>edited by SueB on 12/01/2011</em>
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Latest post on 12 January 2011 - 15:20
hmmmm, it seems we have not heard back from Ga on how she is feeling. I think the lovely lady has decided to live her life and is out there :)!!!!!
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Latest post on 12 January 2011 - 15:16
hmmmm jwal, I wonder if someone is leaving their little gifts on your property for a reason????? and on purpose?????
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Latest post on 12 January 2011 - 13:57
Galleries Lafayette has it (low fat) have not seen Quark there though. I am on the lookout for no fat yogurt that might be flavoured (not fruit yogurt) more like lemon flavour etc or just plain no fat I can make into Greek :)...have done...Spinneys Jumeriah, Big Spinneys, both choitrum on al Wasl, spinneys Mercato, C4 Mirdif. Just not having any luck at all. The only one we have found is Yoplait Vanilla which is nice but a chnge would also be nice :)
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Latest post on 12 January 2011 - 13:07
there was a thread on here a few days ago about lamenting the demise of 1 sock so you are left with a whole lot of socks for people with 1 foot :) If you take your biggest sock and stuff it with the other socks to make a tube then sew the end closed with strong thread (canvas thread is great) then take rope and tie the stuffed sock in the middle and ,,,,voila, a doggie toy. You can also take a sock and just stuff the toe and make it round and then tie a good rope around the neck and use the sock as a ball or swing it from the unstuffed part :) then, you can give these sock toys to Kylie to take to RAK :)
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Latest post on 12 January 2011 - 13:01
Kylie, I havent heard back about the water cooler that was donated? do they still need one? I also have other 'stuff'....could you drop me an email :)
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Latest post on 12 January 2011 - 12:54
They do not have a vet at the moment. look on the left panel under Pets and Vets and the number should be there in the Feline Friends section :) DUH, obviously this lack of sleep is makibg me a bit stupid lol. Erm the # is on my stickie post at the top of this page under Vet numbers ;) Dubai Municipality Vet. Services Section 04-2891114 [email protected] Mushrif Municipality Clinic 04 2891114 Vaccination, Free Registration & Tags. <em>edited by SueB on 12/01/2011</em>
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Latest post on 12 January 2011 - 02:14
melted away along with the fat :)...might have had a tummy tuck but sounds like alot of hard work and dedication :)
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Latest post on 12 January 2011 - 01:54
did you find your cat?
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Latest post on 12 January 2011 - 01:32
js put her picture on the main forum
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Latest post on 12 January 2011 - 00:09
absolutely she will have a chip!!!! she has just been spayed recently so she belongs to someone :)...take her in tomorrow and she could be with her family tomorrow night :)..fingers crossed that the vet registered her chip!!!! Start with the vet closest to you and work out from there. If no luck, send her picture to all the vets (list on the top) then follow up with a phone call to an actual vet, not just reception. Hang, on I might be a bit ahead of myself. If she has her shots she has a chip so hopefully she had all her shots before the op!!! edited by SueB on 12/01/2011 <em>edited by SueB on 12/01/2011</em>
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Latest post on 12 January 2011 - 00:05
It is great that you are taking 6 months to find a home. I can suggest that first, you put up a link to the pictures of your animal family. 2nd be very aggressive in sending out posters of your animal family to all the vets, grocery stores tat will let you put them up, flyers in your area with pictures of course, dubizzle etc. This way, if someone comes forward and offers a home to any or all of your animals, there is time for you to help settle them in, be there to answer questions and if it does not work out, find another home. Good for you for taking a long time but....as I said, be aggressive as right now you have the time to do that. The last month before you leave, it will be difficult and you want them settled before then. Also, make up a list of questions for the potential adopters and because you have time, take the animals yourself to their new home so you can see where they are going. Go with your gut as it is usually right. All the family must come and see the animals...anyway,. good luck in your quest for new families :)
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Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 23:58
emails crossing lol. I just saw that the owner of the cats sister has put a message to Gareth on FF FB so they will I assume, take it from here :)
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Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 23:56
oh I see the problem. I said ïs the cat on this thread"but forgot the link. \ http://www.expatwoman.com/forum/messages.aspx?TopicID=126952 (hope I got the right thread) anyway, I did not take time to go through the whole thread to see if there was any contact info for the woman who has the cat. I suggested your friend do that rather than us on EW doing it for her :)....hence, the suggestion she read the thread.
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Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 22:38
I sent the man (Gareth) an email yesterday but have not heard back yet.
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Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 22:36
Well, now I would not know that! does your friend live in Al Mahra. Why not send her the thread and let her read it herself to see if it is the cat and put a note on here if it is :)
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Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 21:25
is this the cat on this thread?
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Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 21:22
take a look at the clothes on this site. Ulla advertises her company on here and her shop is in Mirdif City Center :)http://www.ullapopken.com/
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Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 19:59
tell her to close her doors for heavens sakes. She needs to call FF as they might know who the owner is.
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Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 19:57
that was a rotten thing for him to say to you. there are lines that should not be crossed and that is definetly one of them!!!!! So, what to do. Well, stop mopping and feeling sorry for yourself. Get out of the house, meet friends for dinner without him, make sure your hygiene is up to par, that you look nice for YOURSELF NOT HIM, go buy something wicked for you and get out there and live your life... I was just at the Mirdif Mall. Let me tell you, I saw way more normal people that tall skinny perfectly coiffed females, but, then I was not looking because I am who I am, I take care, am short, overweight at the moment and know I will nev er be tall and skinny so why worry about it lol...but I can be the best I can be and proud of myself for making an effort for me and no one else :)....SO, let him wonder what you are up to and you can tell him *sweetie, I am just living my life*!!!!
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Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 19:00
tell the husband about the rumours. If it is true he probably will stop. Honestly, you dont go to the wife unless you absolutely know for sure and the be prepared for her to never speak with you again, it is a possibility but not necessarily a given :)
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Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 13:32
are you sure you would not like to try integrating Mr. pat into your family of animals?????
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Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 13:31
Cheeky, another way you can tell is if you have a good face picture of your cat and compare the markings :). anyway, I sent the guy who is feeding her a message so he will get back I am sure ;) would that not be lovely if it was your boy!!!
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Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 01:36
I got some at Choitrums, landry section, very small box, top shelf. also spinneys. if not, I have a box you can have What did the vet suggest you do? that is tough to get rid of if he has had it along time
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Latest post on 11 January 2011 - 01:35
make sure you also clean outside around the doors to remove any oder so she does not continue to spray. What a shame that that was her home ;(.. any chance of rehoming her? <em>edited by SueB on 11/01/2011</em>
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Latest post on 10 January 2011 - 22:50
because he is a coward and wants you to beg him to come home rather than say he did anything wrong and beg you to let him come home. BB, you have started a new life, listen to your kids, reread everything you have written. You have a life. this time next year will be 12 months in your new life.....live it well :)
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Latest post on 10 January 2011 - 22:43
Can i suggest you move the stray cats feeding station away from the door where your cat cannot see them ;) I am assuming your boy is neutered? if not, that is certainly the reason the spray smells so strong so you must get him don asap. Usually once the reason for the spraying is removed or at least removed enough so it does not upset him the spraying should stop, or not. anyway, here is an article that might help a bit. http://www.catsofaustralia.com/cat-spraying-urine.htm
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Latest post on 10 January 2011 - 20:03
awww take a couple of pictures of Mr. Pat and put the link here. I would love to see him :)
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Latest post on 10 January 2011 - 20:00
I got some at Choitrums, landry section, very small box, top shelf. also spinneys. if not, I have a box you can have :) What did the vet suggest you do? that is tough to get rid of if he has had it along time :( <em>edited by SueB on 10/01/2011</em>
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Latest post on 10 January 2011 - 19:56
good replies mshari, but next time please put in the whole quote so it does not look different than what was written :) <em>edited by SueB on 10/01/2011</em>
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Latest post on 10 January 2011 - 19:52
if you do start feeding a cat, you cannot very well stop without alot of noise. the neighbours will just have to shut their windows for now. have him checked for a chip, does he have his bits that you noticed? What Marycatherine says plus, feed him by a bin if you can and leave water.