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wuffles1183

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Latest post on 12 August 2011 - 23:38
Ikea, Home Center and Home R Us have a decent selection of dinnerwear, not expensive either. Carrefour stocks Corelle cheaply too
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Latest post on 12 August 2011 - 23:02
Yes-our schedules don't always match so I am happy if he can take a holiday when he needs it and vice versa. Of course it is nicer to go together but sometimes it just isn't possible
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Latest post on 12 August 2011 - 15:32
Wow this is great news! BH begs to differ!
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Latest post on 11 August 2011 - 21:53
Welcome Pink & Blue-hope the move went smoothly and the red tape isn't getting the better of you
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Latest post on 10 August 2011 - 22:23
Hugs to you-I lost my auntie around this time last year-only a week after I returned home to visit her-she took the place of my mum after she died of cancer and I still miss her like crazy. I used to Skype her everyday from here-she was in a nursing home and I was often the only voice she heard all day-apart from the staff-even now when 2pm comes round I feel I should be phoning her. It does get easier though I promise. Grandmothers are wonderful-so non judgemental with all the time in the world to listen-it is no wonder you miss her-take time to grieve but also to remember all the wonderful things that made her who she was-she will always be a part of you xxx
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Latest post on 10 August 2011 - 22:15
wots an NPD? dignosed? or diagnosed Narcissistic personality disorder
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Latest post on 10 August 2011 - 13:37
Are they huge boxes?-Emirates surface mail is cheap enough and we have shipped many large boxes back to Australia over the years-just keep under the maximum weight level (which I can't recall at the minute-sorry)-there is a postage calculator on Emirates Post site though
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Latest post on 10 August 2011 - 13:34
Why a US bank account-I use Paypal with an Aussie bank account with no problems-do they have a bank account from their home county they can use?
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Latest post on 09 August 2011 - 23:17
To CRX2 and wuffles I have had a bit of exposure with special needs children on a vounteer basis,and can honestly say they touched my heart in such a way that no other has. My heart aches for the plight of those with special needs who just want to fit in with others of their own age. I can only imagine how hard it can be for the whole family, especially moms as we instinctively just want to protect our children, I commend you both.As CRx2 said hopefully society will become more and more accepting in the future. There is a reason we use the term SPECIAL needs, it is because they are SPECIAL. On the contrary, I disagree with the term 'special'. Some people have 'different' needs and I think this is a fairer description because in my opinion everyone is special in their own way edited by manufan on 09/08/2011 To be honest DS hates being called special-it gets him quite worked up-also hates the label disabled-prefers to be thought of as someone living with a disability (if he needs to defne his condition for work etc)
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Latest post on 09 August 2011 - 20:57
To CRX2 and wuffles I have had a bit of exposure with special needs children on a vounteer basis,and can honestly say they touched my heart in such a way that no other has. My heart aches for the plight of those with special needs who just want to fit in with others of their own age. I can only imagine how hard it can be for the whole family, especially moms as we instinctively just want to protect our children, I commend you both.As CRx2 said hopefully society will become more and more accepting in the future. There is a reason we use the term SPECIAL needs, it is because they are SPECIAL. A big thank-you to those who volunteer so selflessly too-they make the load easier to bear-don't know how I would have managed over the years without them-some have become lifelong friends too <em>edited by wuffles on 09/08/2011</em>
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Latest post on 09 August 2011 - 20:19
A paste of baking soda and lemon juice or vinegar should do it. If the stains are really stubborn dissolve denture tablets in it overnight
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Latest post on 09 August 2011 - 20:05
I sent money back at over 4...so Really happy Me too-4 point something really hurt
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Latest post on 09 August 2011 - 20:03
Don't forget to wear your 'NO THANKS' T-shirt! ;) ...or distract them by saying sorry-I bought from you last time-it is someone else's turn tonight-drives them caazy trying to recall what they supposedly sold you!!! I love Karama at night.
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Latest post on 09 August 2011 - 19:58
Oh Wuffles it's true these children are really special in their own ways, often showing great empathy for other like my little one - it's hard tho when they excluded by their peers without really knowing the reasons why. Mine has discovered playing with children half her age means they don't pick up on her problems and she feels comfortable - I don't know what will happen in the next 10, 20, 30 years - hopefully society will become more & more accepting ... Oddly-I think DS feels happiest with old people-they accept him as he is without question. His peers often see him as lazy which infuriates him (but you try putting in a full day's work after 3 days of no sleep and hardly any food!)-he is highly intelligent which in some ways makes his limitations even more frustrating to him.
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Latest post on 09 August 2011 - 12:33
Thanks hun. Am really excited! all very surrreal! x Judging from what my 2 back home say the job market seems quite good at the minute-so fingers crossed for you
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Latest post on 09 August 2011 - 12:29
Thanks wuffles. Was made redundant so made the choice to leave easier! was planning on leaving a month later anyways so timing hasnt been so bad. Just working way through the bucket list now although in ramadan when 500 degrees outside and saving $ options are limited. Fingers crossed for all Aussies and some relief in their cash flow!!! x Good luck getting the bucket list done-and finding work back home too
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Latest post on 09 August 2011 - 12:23
I am watching like a hawk! am actually leaving for good in a few weeks and risked having to send all money at worst exchange rate known to man so this is fantastic news for me and my hard earned savings! Interest rates dropping also which is good news for those with mortgages. After a long stint of an overvalued dollar things are starting to look better for the aussie expats here!:) Fingers crossed for an excellent rate for you then-we have been debating leaving as the rate has been so bad-trouble is apart from that we are happy here
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Latest post on 09 August 2011 - 12:21
So tempted to make some now
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Latest post on 09 August 2011 - 12:19
Congratulations!
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Latest post on 09 August 2011 - 12:18
Ours goes home on the first of the month when BH gets paid-last month's rate was horrendous-sadly no extra to send so will wait and see-we are efectively earning about half of what we used to when we first came so fingers crossed the drop continues
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Latest post on 09 August 2011 - 00:17
I have read the book-bought up some interesting issues-Oprah did a show sometime back asking parents of severely disabled the same question-very moving and a bit close to home. I am against abortion so before my DS was born would not have entertained the thought.He spent his first 2 years in hospital -at the time his sister was 16 months old and had never been left alone without me for a day.He has a very rare syndrome but to outsders looks pretty normal. Children with this sort of hidden disability have a very tough road to follow as they get no special consideration from those who don't know them-and even those who do tend to forget how tough life can be. DS can eat very little and often only sleeps 2 hours a night so his concentration is negligable-even though his teachers knew his background there patience wore thin and gave DS a rotten time. His friends often exclude him-especially from parties where food is involved.There have been many times he himself has questioned whether he was better off surviving-and e still has intemittent treatment for depression. He is a beautiful person with incredible empathy for others and has just completed a degree in Social and Community Welfare. He spent 6 months working on a voluntary breakfast programme working with the homeless and loved it. However due to his health issues he may never work full time and is entering the stage where friends are marrying and he obviously sn't seen as very "marketable' as husband material-a fact he is just realising. Would I have had him knowing what I do-yes-does he agree?-at 23 the jury is still out.
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Latest post on 08 August 2011 - 14:45
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Latest post on 08 August 2011 - 14:39
Thanks-did you have to book in advance?
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Latest post on 08 August 2011 - 13:37
Has anyone tried Wafi Gourmet's Iftar buffet and if so how much was it-and was it worth the price-have some visitors coming and want to find a reasonably priced Middle Eastern iftar to take them to
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Latest post on 07 August 2011 - 23:21
Do you have other suitcase keys to try in the lock? -those kinds of locks are often interchangeable anyway-and hardly secure-otherwise cut the existing lock off and buy another lock and key set <em>edited by wuffles on 07/08/2011</em>
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Latest post on 07 August 2011 - 22:15
Have to say I have never found the radio worth listening to so I just don't bother
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Latest post on 07 August 2011 - 21:48
No I live in AR and need to go to Dubai Mall. I don't think there is bus that can take me there without having to change over a lot which in this heat I don't want to do, also I just want to run in and out. Anyway I have to agree with you, my chances are slim. However I think I am going to point out the extra costs to them. This at least will give me the feeling that I've done something rather then just smile politely and say: 'It's okay'. Sorry-live out the other side of Dubai so can't advise on bus routes-the bus to the mall does connect to the metro though-have you checked if the store has a branch closer to you?
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Latest post on 07 August 2011 - 21:41
Hi wuffles. Maybe that didn't come out right. There are three partners in the business, none of whom have experience. I have the experience, the formal training and the knowledge in many aspects of the business. I had completed all of the formal parts, and we were going to discuss the training, SOP's, do's and don'ts etc after all of these documents were completed. I don't want to say what the business is, but I'll use a restaurant as an example. Let's say I have the background in restaurants and the three partners don't. I have created a menu, decided on opening hours, madde up a list of equipment and supplies with pricing and sourcing, decided on the number of employees, the training on all of the items, the service standards, the training schedule. I've also made suggestions on uniforms, laundry, grooming standards, how to greet the customers, how to serve them from the moment they walk in to the end of their experience, how to get repeat business, upselling, on and on. When I say I held back, it wan't in the sense of suggesting that they serve steak, chicken, but no fish. Not like that. When I say I held back, it was on topics that we were going to discuss in the next couple of weeks. It was information that I had gained from a business owner here regarding some very good suggestions on how to make our business unique and to stand out from all the others. The business that we are dealing in is extremely competitive, much like the restaurant business. Sue R, that's what I'm telling myself now. I'm having to swallow my pride and write it off as you've said. The positive side of this is that I've learned a lot and I came up with some great ideas for when I open my own business in this field. Fair enough-hopefully they will realise they need more of your expertise-and will pay properly for it in the future
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Latest post on 07 August 2011 - 21:37
Sadly I don't like your chances of compensation-what a nuisance for you-any chance you can take a bus or train part way at least so it isn't such an expensive exercise for you?
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Latest post on 07 August 2011 - 17:17
Unfortunately no. I know, learn the hard way. But I still have a lot of info that I've held back. Sorry you have been underpaid-but just wondering why you held "a lot of information" back?-maybe if you had provided them with all the information they would have paid you fully?
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Latest post on 06 August 2011 - 14:17
There is also one near Carrefour at Deira. They want clothes, shoes, glasses (spectacles), books and mobile phones-the theme is see, hear, think, feel. You can pick up empty clothing donation bags and take them home to fill up and drop back in-I am up to my 6th already! It is being organised by Red Crescent. They also offer discount vouchers for selected retail outlets within the mall-which we will pass on to someone else <em>edited by wuffles on 06/08/2011</em>
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Latest post on 05 August 2011 - 14:35
I second Bloomingdales-Pottery Barn still has some bargains too
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Latest post on 05 August 2011 - 01:44
Sorry your news wasn't what you hoped for. I am sure being back with family and friends in a familiar environmnet will be the best thing though-home is where you need to be when your world has been turned upside down-praying for yout treatment to have the best results possible.
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Latest post on 05 August 2011 - 01:37
Ours offered a miserly 3000 dhs in total for 2 children per year-as the salary wasn't wonderful I stayed in Australia till our 2 finished their education while BH moved here-we couldn't have made the move otherwise. You will need to do your sums carefully-not forgetting to factor in the costs of extra-curricular activities as well
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Latest post on 04 August 2011 - 22:34
Dubai Mall Food court area (near cinema) Are you sure about this one ? I was there today, and after researches and asking to several shop attendants and information desks, they all said that all the food courts are take away only, and we didn't find any where we were allowed to eat on site. One also said that there is a cafe in Waitrose where we can eat in. Someone to confirm ? There are signs up on the tables in the food court opposite the cinemas at Dubai Mall that eating is not permitted until the call to prayer sounds-and they are enforcing it I have been to Waitrose many times and have never seen a cafe?! edited by Rebecca W on 04/08/2011
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Latest post on 02 August 2011 - 17:27
Not mindless but addictive none the less http://www.freerice.com/ Oooh, thanks, Wuffles, that's a good one :) You won't get anything done now!
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Latest post on 02 August 2011 - 17:13
Not mindless but addictive none the less http://www.freerice.com/
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Latest post on 02 August 2011 - 09:09
There's a good reason why bathrooms don't have electrical sockets, apart from enclosed shaver ones that is - water and electricity don't like each other ! Contact between them could prove to be fatal if you were holding a hairdryer or any other electrical appliance. They certainly have electric sockets in Australian bathrooms
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Latest post on 20 July 2011 - 19:54
Just in case your phone is ancient like mine I found out that I couldn't get reception in the USA as my phone didn't have sufficient bandwidth.
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Latest post on 19 July 2011 - 23:07
I put ours on about 10 minutes before BH arrives home in case he has had a hot taxi ride home-then turn it off within 10 minutes of his being home-we are lucky-our building is lovely and cool and that is the most we have had to use it in the 6 years we have been here <em>edited by wuffles on 20/07/2011</em>
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Latest post on 18 July 2011 - 16:09
DL-D*mn Landlord!-or Dear Landlord depending on the context-the former is more likely!
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Latest post on 17 July 2011 - 11:15
You are missing out, its addictive. &gt;;) No-I would be missing out on doing things I enjoyed if I spent yet more time on the computer-would rather write nice long emails to people I care about in the same time it takes to follow celebs I don't know from a bar of soap and some such And EW might have to take a back seat if you started tweeting, heavens forbid! It already does-would far rather be emailing my son
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Latest post on 16 July 2011 - 22:43
You are missing out, its addictive. &gt;;) No-I would be missing out on doing things I enjoyed if I spent yet more time on the computer-would rather write nice long emails to people I care about in the same time it takes to follow celebs I don't know from a bar of soap and some such
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Latest post on 16 July 2011 - 22:38
I must be the odd one out-have no desire to tweet or twitter whatsoever
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Latest post on 16 July 2011 - 22:37
The guide is if you are quilting in a grid design- (I have never used mine-grid patterns are rather boring anyway!)-if she wants to do this she can just rule light pencil or chalk lines on the fabric (depending if it is light or dark) instead and use these as a guide-the quarter inch foot is handy but you can also put a thick piece of tape along the sewing machine plate to act as a guide-and the stitch plate itself should have the quarter inch marked. The walking food helps you quilt evenly through the batting-if she uses a thin batting she may well manage without it. See how she goes with the basic machine before you worry too much about accessories
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Latest post on 16 July 2011 - 12:50
Thanks for the update-hope your DD feels much better very soon
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Latest post on 16 July 2011 - 12:45
Maybe the links outdate each tome more things are downloade to U Tube? Regardless the links don't work now
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Latest post on 15 July 2011 - 22:46
It will probably be cheaper to source one through eBay-there are different walking feet for different machines and some can be quite expensive-I bought a cheap Toyota quiltmaster sewing machine at Carrefour that came complete with these accessories to save me tracking them down later
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Latest post on 15 July 2011 - 16:12
She may just not like the piano-I had my daughter taught at around the same age by a teacher she just adored (her choir teacher actually) and she just did not enjoy it. Her lessons were fun and well planned and the teacher rewarded her for practising. That being said she went on the play clarinet, oboe, trombone,bagpipes, cello, viola and also the flute, piccolo and bassoon-the last 3 to professional orchestra standards winning 3 different university music scholarships--at the ripe old age of 24 she still doesn't like the piano-to play or listen to!
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Latest post on 15 July 2011 - 15:59
I know about HECS etc but it still has to be paid once you start earning-or if it is a second degree I think also-so not exactly free-just a deferred payment