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Latest post on 02 March 2012 - 00:03
I have been having borderline blood pressure. I am monitoring it every day and visit my ob/gyn once a week. I hope it will be OK.
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Latest post on 02 March 2012 - 00:01
Sushi lover here as well. I am also pregnant and I ate California roll. Although I love tuna rolls and salmon, I did not eat anything raw. When you are pregnant it would not be a good idea. I would go back to eating sushi once I deliver the baby.
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Latest post on 01 March 2012 - 23:57
Good thread! I was looking for the same. I like my maternity bras wired for good support. I am thinking of Mothercare. When I get there I will get myself some. I think it is a good idea. I think Dubai Mall has some very nice stuff for maternity and baby. <em>edited by Pixie2011 on 01/03/2012</em>
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Latest post on 01 March 2012 - 23:56
hullo everyone, had my scan today. bubs is fine and definitely on the bigger side mashalla! Have next OB appt next wednesday and will get measured again and possibly review birth plan! how is everyone else doing? :) Aww how sweet! I will be in Dubai at the end of March. I am having mine via c-section. I wish you a safe delivery and a healthy, lovely baby.
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Latest post on 24 February 2012 - 00:40
I am due April 9, but since I am having a c-section probably somewhere at the very end of March or so. My back is killing me, but I have to be patient. Only 1 month left to go.
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Latest post on 24 February 2012 - 00:37
I am due to give birth at welcare in march inshala and Nurse Amanda (head of maternity ward) mentioned in our antenatal classes that they will supply everything from baby nappies to maternity pads, etc..we just need to pack what baby will wear when we are leaving plus our own clothes if we dont want to wear hospital PJs... I am due at the end of March maybe beginning of April. It is good to know, so I will pack only "going away" clothes.
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Latest post on 24 February 2012 - 00:35
Pixie2011, the hospital will provide you with a hospital grade double electric pump and sterilised bottles, if you need. You can just request the nurses. Yes, definitely will keep it in mind. Hopefully the baby will be on the breast, but I might need the pump. Maybe in this case I would not bother bringing manual pump at all.
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Latest post on 24 February 2012 - 00:34
I have been monitoring my blood pressure at home. I will see my ob/gyn this week again to make sure I do not have protein in the urine. My blood pressure so far have been in 130s. I will keep monitoring it as I know it may spike at any time. I really hope I will be able to sit through the pregnancy. Right now I am almost 34 weeks. I see some of you are not too far and I think if the gestational age is not too far along, bp medicine will be prescribed. I have been writing my blood pressure down to make sure I am not going 140/90. This week only once it went to 141. So far the rest of the days it stayed 135 on average. In those cases we need to be vigilant. I have cut all the salt from the food and I noticed my feet are no longer swelling that much. I really hope I can keep it below 140 until I deliver the baby, which will probably happen end of March/beginning of April.
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Latest post on 23 February 2012 - 01:31
Hi Pixie2011, I had my delivery at Welcare in september 2011 with the help of an epidural. My anesthetist was fantastic, his name is Dr Maneesh. He was very efficient, and calm. He kept talking to me throughout the procedure telling me what and why he was doing which made me relax a lot. I did not even feel the needle prick. As my labour was being induced, my epidural was administered before my strong contractions started, maybe that made a difference too. Needless to say, these things vary a lot on a case to case basis. Perfectly competent doctors could have a bad day, so there are no gaurantees. Before my delivery, I was worried about the epidural too as someone from the forum shared their story of a botched up epidural. If I remember correctly, her doctor was a short, blond female, I think her name was Dr Silvie. If you are having a planned C section, then it might be worth checking out who would be the aesthetist on call that day. HTH. Good luck! Thank you so much! I will definitely look who is the anestesiologist that day. I am definitely having a c-section, because I already have had 2 and the baby is in feet first position as of now. I will address my concerns with Dr. Janaki about that.
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Latest post on 23 February 2012 - 01:29
hi... i just underwent a csection at welcare... on the 9th of feb... and i cannot recommend Dr. Janaki and her team highly enough! They did a fantastic job :) i didnt have an epidural... but was given a spinal instead (i'm assuming ur aware of the differences)... the anesthesiologist got it in the first prick and the OT staff were guiding me throughout the entire procedure explaining what they were doing every step of the way... i felt the first prick of the numbing injection... but the actual injection that administers the spinal i couldn't feel at all... what also helped was that they put a numbing cream on the area an hour before i went in for the surgery (emla)... ask for the same if it helps... all the best with your delivery :) Awesome! I am scheduled with Dr. Janaki as well. I hope it all goes well. Yeah, I would need a spinal and this is what I meant. I will definitely ask for the numbing cream.
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Latest post on 23 February 2012 - 00:35
Good to know. I am planning to deliver end of March/beginning of April at Welcare. Definitely having a c-section and probably will be on the fluids for couple days. Hopefully will breastfeed and I will be sure to let them know. I wonder if you can rent an electric breastpump. I am planning to bring a manual one for myself. <em>edited by Pixie2011 on 23/02/2012</em>
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Latest post on 17 February 2012 - 21:18
Ugggh I so feell for you, I've had it most of the way through this pregnancy. It's been gross. I had 2 different antibiotic creams including canesten and the only things I found worked was 1) no sweet stuff!! Days I had no sugar at all other than what's natural in strawberries, were the days I wasn't suffering and redness would go by next day. Days where I did want something sweet I used an ointment called dermovate provided way more relief than the others (avail at chemist). I've also started on a probiotic (tablet) taking 2 a day and thankfully this past 8 days or o on that plus having a sweet tooth for ice-cream I haven't had it return at all. Hope you can sort it out, it's nasty! :( Same here. I hate it so much! I think during pregnancy when your immune system is not so strong, you tend to get it more. Also since I am gestationally diabetic, I am more susceptible to get this kind of thing. I have used canesten and I would hope it helps. In the US they sell "Monistat" and I found to be effective, but they don't sell it here.
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Latest post on 17 February 2012 - 21:13
Sorry i can't tell you the name of my anaesthesiologist as i had an emergency CS and looking at name badges in the operation theatre was not a priority :) but hubby can come in once they have given you the epidural and you are settled. Oh sorry... Silly of me. Yeah, if you had an emergency cs you can't tell who it was. It is a good thing that they let husband in. I would want someone to be with me and I would definitely prefer my husband. Definitely helps to relax. I am hoping my epidural will run smoothly without any problems.
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Latest post on 12 February 2012 - 12:00
Hi Presam, I'm also pregnant with PCOS :-) I wouldn't worry about it too much at the moment, stress will only put more strain on your system x With regards to the PCOS it can be confirmed by a blood test so I would get one done to set your mind at rest if you want to. From a pregnancy point of view the PCOS shouldn't have that a major impact and the fact that you have seen the sac and heartbeat means that your chances of miscarriage are the same as any pregnancy at this stage, about 2%. With regards to the medication, if PCOS is confirmed, you should take the Glucophage (I am) as it reduces the risk of developing gestational diabetes x Should be taken to about 4 months. But when in doubt, always get a second opinion xx Nic I am with the same thing and have been taking Glucophage throughout the whole pregnancy. Although I developed gestational diabetes, it still helps me to keep it under control. There is no family history as well, but I developed it as well. I also conceived naturally and due to deliver in a month or so.
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Latest post on 12 February 2012 - 11:54
Hi everyone, Thank you so much for you replies. I have had 2 c-sections in the US and both times they were very good. I am getting quite concerned that I may have similar experience where they will fail to insert the needle properly. I am scheduled with Dr. Janaki and I think I will address the issue with her and tell her that there are people with bad experiences when it comes to epidural. Can you guys recommend me a particular anesthesiologist? Do they allow husband to be in with you in the room?
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Latest post on 02 February 2012 - 21:43
Oh and I will be in Dubai at the end of March. During that time I will already be about 37 weeks pregnant. Would Dr. Janaki accept me at 37 weeks? I surely hope so, because I really want to deliver at Welcare, than at the hospital where I am living now.
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Latest post on 02 February 2012 - 21:40
friend of mine delivered there earlier this year (again with Dr. Janaki)... and she had a successful epidural but then had to undergo emergency c-section coz of complications related to her blood pressure... anyway... i'm preggers now (due Feb 2012) and have registered with Welcare and Dr. Janaki... i had an emergency c-section after induced labour with my first child (at Zulekha hospital) due to the fact that i was not dilating even after 48 hrs of labour pains (thanks to the induction)... Dr. Janaki seems pro VBAC but if u'd rather just avoid all the pain and dilemma why not just choose an elective c-section... no one will question u since normally majority of women who have their first child by c-section opt for second the same way... speak to ur doctor about this and see what her recommendations are once she's had a good read of ur medical history Same here, but I will probably end up having a c-section. I may discuss VBAC, but I have had already 2, so I am not sure they will allow me to go VBAC after 2 c-sections. I will definitely need to be in good hands (like all of us of course).
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Latest post on 02 February 2012 - 21:38
I am glad I found this thread. I am also due at the end of March/beginning of April, 2012 and I was wondering about the epidurals, since I am having a c-section. I also have scheduled with Dr. Janaki and I am glad to see there are positive experiences.
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Latest post on 11 December 2011 - 01:51
Yeah, I would talk to ob/gyn about it. I have had 2 c-sections and now pregnant with my third. I might consider VBAC, but I guess I need to talk to the doc first.
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Latest post on 11 December 2011 - 01:48
My FIL passed away several years ago, but my MIL is around. She is very nice and she really likes me. I consider myself to be very lucky in that respect.
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Latest post on 25 November 2011 - 23:38
I am going to that ballet. Unfortunately it is all sold out. My dear friend somehow got them for us. However, she said it was the last chance to get anything. I think now they are doing waiting lists.
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Latest post on 23 November 2011 - 11:57
I am planning to get Medela, which is electric and Avent Isis, which is manual.
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Latest post on 19 November 2011 - 16:45
I was just thinking Pixie2011, Have you ever heard of Spincter Law? It's a term coined by Ina May Gaskin. Here's an overview from this link: http://prenatalyogacenter.com/blog/the-sphincter-law-and-childbirth/ "Ina May Gaskin describes the Sphincter Law in the following way: o Sphincter muscles of both anus and vagina do not respond on command. o Sphincter muscles open more easily in a comfortable intimate atmosphere where a woman feels safe. o The muscles are more likely to open if the woman feels positive about herself; where she feels inspired and enjoys the birth process. o Sphincter muscles may suddenly close even if they have already dilated, if the woman feels threatened in any way" If you scroll down the page you will find a link to a video where Ina May talks about Sphincter Law. I found it really helpful. I think it's a great way to view the birthing process for mamas like us who were told in the past that we were unable to birth correctly. I was also told I was failure to progress and it took me a while after the birth (after talking to birth trauma experts, doulas, other mamas) to realise that it wasn't my failures at all but rather the failures of the hospital and medical system. I have also found Hypnobirthing to be really helpful also. There are a couple of great places you can go in Dubai for Hypnobirthing courses. I would say to check it out if it sounds like something that would really work for you. :) Thank you so much for the info! I would love to give birth naturally, because recovery process after c-section is quite painful. I definitely need to make sure there is a good atmosphere and less stress in the hospital. Some hospitals make it even more stressful than you need to be. Hopefully it turns out to be OK. Hypnobirthing sounds very interesting.
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Latest post on 19 November 2011 - 13:07
The way I see it, marriage is a two way street. I put in the effort, but he has to as well. It is not all about women pleasing men, men also have to please women. In some of our situations some things cannot be done. Cooking near naked? Not in my house. I have 2 children, my mom and a housemaid. It is just not going to work. I do not mind wife taking care of her husband, being sweet to him and giving him whatever he wants, however, a husband has to also provide the same for his wife.
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Latest post on 17 November 2011 - 23:02
Old? Oh heck no! The life is just starting. I am 31 and feel better than I was at 21.
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Latest post on 17 November 2011 - 13:17
Congrats! I wish you safe and fast recovery. May the baby bring you happiness and joy. I am delivering after 4 months also via c-section. Sending hugs to you.
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Latest post on 16 November 2011 - 00:02
She definitely does do C-sections - she did mine two weeks ago :). Oh congrats on your baby! How are you feeling?
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Latest post on 15 November 2011 - 18:19
Hello everyone, Really pleased to find a group of mums due in April next year - my due date is the 12th. Am quite new in Dubai and need to find a good hospital - is anyone going to American hospital and what is it like? Hope everyone is doing well. I am due in April of 2012 as well. I have been to Dubai before, but not for delivery LOL. I am going to Welcare.
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Latest post on 15 November 2011 - 18:14
Hi girls Just found out i am 6 weeks pregnant today this is my first one so very excited had a scan today and even heard the heartbeat. Due date is 4th July so far, no morning sickness so far but i just feel very tired and sleepy. Awww congrats. I hope you have a beautiful and a healthy baby. No morning sickness that is wonderful. I had no morning sickness at all and I was quite happy about it :-) Hugs. Thank you and same to you as well. Yes really lucky with no morning sickness helps a great deal too since i work full time and cant imagine puking in the shared bathroom! I don't work yet, but nevertheless, not throwing up every morning was a blessing for me. I am 5 months along now. Looks like I am having a boy, but might know for sure at the end of the week.
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Latest post on 15 November 2011 - 16:40
If your husband is a muslim, he is obligated to devote himself to his parents whether he is married or not. I know it can be a bit overpowering, but i've heard of much worse! (my friend's husband makes her sit in the back of the car and his mother sits beside him in the front :\: ) Hope it all works out. I do this my choice for MIL! (or any older person/guest for that matter). It is a matter of respect to your elders... I do that as well for my MIL. She loves me to death anyways and refers me as her daughter. Her husband also lets their 11 year old son sit in the front when he's with them and his wife in the back, because "his son is a man". That revolts me :( i feel like his wife comes last in everything Now that stinks. The son definitely should be taught to respect his mother and women in general. If my son acts snooty he will be grounded for a week! The father should also teach how to respect the mother. edited by Pixie2011 on 15/11/2011 <em>edited by Pixie2011 on 15/11/2011</em>
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Latest post on 15 November 2011 - 16:36
If your husband is a muslim, he is obligated to devote himself to his parents whether he is married or not. I know it can be a bit overpowering, but i've heard of much worse! (my friend's husband makes her sit in the back of the car and his mother sits beside him in the front :\: ) Hope it all works out. I do this my choice for MIL! (or any older person/guest for that matter). It is a matter of respect to your elders... I do that as well for my MIL. She loves me to death and tells me I am like her daughter. <em>edited by Pixie2011 on 15/11/2011</em>
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Latest post on 15 November 2011 - 16:35
When you have kids or if you already have them, they carry your blood and the blood of the family. They cannot simply dismiss you as a nobody, edited by Pixie2011 on 14/11/2011 Oh YES, they can and many do. Especially locals, they would never consider their grandchildren half local and half swedish (or whatever the other half). They might to try, to be polite to you, but really, they don't. A lot of women have been deported etc without their children, some families are ruthless and could not care less about the wife/mother. The children will be considered Arab. GCC law regarding marrying foreigners is ridiculous. In Islam is it not forbidden to marry a foreigner. Nowhere in the Quran it says Arab has to marry Arab and so forth. Some laws indeed are very cruel. The families who throw their their blood have no honor and respect for themselves. Thank God my husband's family loves me and the children. They are from a traditional tribal family, but they also have common sense and decency to accept their own blood. <em>edited by Pixie2011 on 15/11/2011</em>
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Latest post on 15 November 2011 - 09:58
Congrats! I hope she brings you lots of joy and happiness.
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Latest post on 15 November 2011 - 09:56
Dear Pixie2011 I hope this can help . Good luck !!! Can you have a natural birth after having two or more c-sections?Improve In: Pregnancy, Labor and Birth, C-section [Edit categories'> Michael Fakih MD/UAE-IVF www.fakihivf.com Over 10000 IVF babies delivered USA certified experts +97143497600 Sunflower Medical Ltd www.sunflowermedical.co.uk Couches Trolleys Seating Cabinets UK manufacturer, NHS approved AdsAnswers.com &gt; Wiki Answers &gt; Categories &gt; Health &gt; Sexual and Family Health &gt; Pregnancy &gt; Can you have a natural birth after having two or more c-sections? Answer: Improve Yes, you can, but it is something you should discuss with your obstetrician. First, you have to consider the reasons for the previous cesarian sections. If they were one time problems (breech presentation, placenta previa), then a vaginal birth is something to consider. If your previous cesarians were done for obstructed labor, a small pelvis, "CPD," dysfunctional labor, or other conditions which are likely to recur, it may not be a good idea. A uterus with a scar on it is much more likely to rupture (burst open) during labor, and this can cause fetal distress or death. However, even there is a less than 1% chance of this happening, it is still a possibility, and one with potentially catastrophic consequences. The type of scar is important. If you wish to attempt VBAC, you will want to make sure your previous surgeries were done with low-transverse incisions on the uterus. You cannot tell what sort of incision you had by looking at the scar on your belly--you need to consult the operative record or ask the doctor who performed it. A previous low transverse uterine incision does not cut into the body of the uterus, and is least like to rupture. A vertical, low vertical, or "classical" incision, which goes up and down on the uterus, and is performed for complicated presentation (transverse), prematurity (undeveloped lower uterine segment), unusual blood vessels, or scarring and/or adhesions from previous surgery, is much more likely to rupture, and is a contraindication to labor. Mind you, cesarean section also holds risks for the mother and baby. It is major abdominal surgery and has a maternal mortality rate 2 to 4 times that of vaginal birth. Cesarean births can lead to trouble bonding and breastfeeding. But, when compared to VBAC, the risks of maternal morbidity and mortality are similar. Most doctors will not induce someone with two previous cesarians (because of an even higher risk of rupture than natural labor), but will allow labor to proceed naturally in a hospital setting. If you wish to try and deliver vaginally after two cesarian sections, this should be done in a hospital (not birthing center) that can perform an immediate cesarian section in case of an emergency. If you've delivered vaginally prior to your cesarian section, this would increase the likelihood of a successful VBAC (vaginal birth after cesarian). Thank you so much for the info. Yeah, I need to consider many different factors before I make a choice. I will consult the ob/gyn as well. I may have to contact doc in the US (this is where I had my first 2 c-sections). I definitely need to take a look at the risks.
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Latest post on 14 November 2011 - 23:28
I responded to your other post, Pixie2011. :) It is totally possible for you to have a VBAC after 2 c-sections. Have you ever thought about meeting with a doula to talk about it? There are some great doulas in Dubai. Also, have you ever heard of Hypnobirthing? It is a fantastic way to view birth and the body. There are really great courses that go on in Dubai. They run for five weeks and are done in groups. Hypnobirthing really covers all of the 'failures' that we are told we have during childbirth. One thing it covers is how the body works during childbirth and how if you are watched, if the lights are on or if it is too loud, if you're not able to move around, if you feel stressed or under pressure, if you have fear, that will not allow your body to fully relax and open up. The failure there isn't the woman or her body at all, it's totally the medical system's failure to let the mother birth naturally. The book is fantastic, if you want to check it out. Hypnobirthing by Marie Mongan. I think that's where I would say to start (aside from checking out the links that I posted below and posted in your other thread). I don't know Dr. Janaki - I'm out in Al Ain - but I am sure the doulas in Dubai would and would be able to help you have a vaginal birth. I hope that helps! :) edited by SweetLily on 14/11/2011 Thanks darling! Yeah, I will try. Honestly the pain from the last c-sections really is still fresh in my mind! LOL I know that natural childbirth is painful, but I still think it would be much, much better than having another major surgery. I will consult with a doctor and I will find a doula. I will be in Dubai after 3 months or so. I will start looking from now.
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Latest post on 14 November 2011 - 23:21
I also think the husband has to explain traditions better with more details. During my first years here my husband, my mother in law and sisters in law practically coached me as far as what I should do and how I should do it. After a while I was able to do it all by myself. It sounds kind of funny, but when you are in a completely different culture, you become like a baby who is learning how to walk Of course there must be a red line too. It is true, traditions and family must be respected, however, they have to respect you as a wife of their son/brother/uncle, whatever... The husband also has to explain that you are trying (and indeed you are trying) and the family should welcome you as one of them. When you have kids or if you already have them, they carry your blood and the blood of the family. They cannot simply dismiss you as a nobody, while you can't dismiss them. It is all about understanding and compromise. I am speaking from experience, because my husband's family is very, very traditional and large, who never marry foreigners. In order to navigate smoothly I have to be diplomatic and understanding. So far my mother in law truly loves me and so do his sisters. I think if you get mother in law on your side, the rest is not a problem. <em>edited by Pixie2011 on 14/11/2011</em>
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Latest post on 14 November 2011 - 23:10
It's a tiny hole, Dr said 90% chance it would close before he is born... Just wondering if this happened with any of your babies to make me a little more confident about the situation. Thanks I think you will be OK, there is a person I knew who had similar problem and they live just fine. Sending hugs and prayers your way.
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Latest post on 14 November 2011 - 23:04
I also wonder about VBAC. I have had 2 c-sections and in the other thread (Dr.Janaki one), we talked about the VBAC after 2 c's. I would want to have it naturally, since the recovery is much faster and better than from a c-section, the only thing is with my other labors I failed to progress (4 centimeters only) and I wonder if it may be the same thing with my third one.
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Latest post on 14 November 2011 - 22:59
Flip your thoughts from misery to happy... your kids will grow up tolearn from their dad, to love their parents (you), to respect them (you), to be there for them when they need them (you), to be around not just disappear when they hit 18 (you again).... your husband is a good man.. he loves his family.. and your point is he loves his family and he loves you.. so let it, let him share the love with everyone.. just start being accepting, b/c like he said and any other arab man would tell u.. u dont like it, u leave... thats how it works... Another thing is that if the family is large you will always find a family member or even several that will never like you no matter how nice you are to them. Those are the people who are not worth time and attention. I think as long as there is a good relationship with husband's immediate family members (mom, dad, sister, etc...), then you should be OK. <em>edited by Pixie2011 on 14/11/2011</em>
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Latest post on 14 November 2011 - 21:39
I am 5 months and I have had 2 c-sections with my daughters. This is my third child and I will definitely need c-section this time as well, since it would be risky to do it naturally. Totally understand. I think a mama should birth whichever way she is most comfortable and confident. But all the research shows it is safe to have a vaginal birth after sections, even if you've had two. And totally possible to do it here in the UAE. Don't want to overstep my bounds because I know this isn't what you were posting about in the first place but if you're interested at all here are a few links about VBA2C. If you're not interested please just ignore. :) I'm a VBAC mama myself. http://www.homebirth.org.uk/vba2c.htm http://www.plus-size-pregnancy.org/CSANDVBAC/vbac_after_2_cs.htm http://www.plus-size-pregnancy.org/CSANDVBAC/VBA2Cstories.htm And a birth story: http://www.homebirth.org.uk/bernadette.htm http://www.caesarean.org.uk/articles/ElectiveSection.html Oh, thanks for the info. Very interesting. Well, originally I planned natural birth with my first one, but I failed to dialate. I was only 4 centimeters (even after they tried to induce labor) and then my baby's heartrate would drop to dangerous levels everytime I had a contraction (it was in the US). I wanted to try VBAC with second one and I had problems with labor. I agree that natural birth is better and recovery time is much faster than the c-section. Maybe I will also consult with Dr. Janaki to see what she says about it after she looks into my case. My youngest daughter is 6, so I had plenty of time to heal. <em>edited by Pixie2011 on 14/11/2011</em>
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Latest post on 14 November 2011 - 19:36
I had a scan today. My baby is moving around quite a bit. The doctor says it's a boy based on Egyptian tradition, but I know that means nothing. :) I am having my scan next week. They said it is a boy based on previous one. :-)
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Latest post on 14 November 2011 - 19:34
Thank you so much for the reassurance. I definitely feel better. I also have gestational diabetes and need c-section, so this is why. I think I will be OK. I looked at the hospital website and it seems great, just like the ones in the US I have been to. Sorry to jump off topic. How far along are you? You have GD and were told you needed a section? I am 5 months and I have had 2 c-sections with my daughters. This is my third child and I will definitely need c-section this time as well, since it would be risky to do it naturally.
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Latest post on 14 November 2011 - 19:27
I agree with people here. Cultural differences have to be taken into account. Also, maybe it is not your case, but some cases they do not approve of foreigners to be in the family. Although my mother in law and sisters accepted me, other family members were quite angry that my husband did not marry a local girl and it reflects in their behavior. I think you should also have your own "household order" so to speak (as other posters said). I think you should try to invite them and see how they act with you then.
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Latest post on 14 November 2011 - 16:51
i had both my babies under the care of Dr. Janki, and i can only but highly praise her, i can assure you that you are in best hands under her care. Her appointment waiting time has also reduced from when i used to visit her for my first child. Welcare after care post delivery for the baby and mother both is great. So, dont worry u r in great hands. edited by jhea123 on 14/11/2011 Thank you so much for the reassurance. I definitely feel better. I also have gestational diabetes and need c-section, so this is why. I think I will be OK. I looked at the hospital website and it seems great, just like the ones in the US I have been to.
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Latest post on 14 November 2011 - 16:43
I understand where you are coming from. I am married to an Arab as well (he is a Gulf Arab) for about 13 years now. They are indeed attached to their families, some more than others. My husband for example is more independent and even though he is close to his mom and loves her dearly, he does not get attached to her like you are describing. Thankfully my mother in law is a great person too and she really likes me. Maybe you need to sit down and talk to your husband. Plan some time together and go out together. As far as your Arabic goes if they said it once I would let it go, however if it is an everyday type of thing, where you are becoming butt of the jokes, then I would talk to the husband and explain the situation. Do you have any kids? <em>edited by Pixie2011 on 14/11/2011</em>
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Latest post on 14 November 2011 - 00:37
Oh you poor thing. I find ginger tea has been helping with mornng sickness. Hopefully you will be better once you get past the 12 weeks. Thanks. Nothing works for me... have tried ginger tea, ice chips, lemons, salty biscuits etc. I guess I am one of those very lucky women that suffer with morning sickness all day long :( . Everything irritates my senses right now. It eased off at around 14-15 weeks during my last pregnancy so I just have to wait it out. At the end of it all, I had a healthy little girl so thats something to look forward to :) Awww, I hope you get better soon. Yeah, some women have it much worse than others and some not at all. Sending hugs and positive vibes your way.
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Latest post on 14 November 2011 - 00:17
Dr Elsa, shes well worth waiting for. I've incredible things about her so I am willing to wait for a good doctor :) I heard Dr. Elsa is very good, but does she do c-sections? Is she very busy? I also wonder if they accept late pregnancies. <em>edited by Pixie2011 on 14/11/2011</em>
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Latest post on 14 November 2011 - 00:15
I know this thread about City Hospital, but I wonder which one is better? Welcare or City? I am also picking a hospital to deliver. So far I have an appointment in Welcare. I have heard that City Hospital is very good as well. I am going to have a c-section (sure thing 100%) and I wonder which one would you choose? It is my third one. My first two were born in the US. Delivering here would be a different experience. I already asked about Welcare and many people had positive reviews. I am looking into City Hospital as well... <em>edited by Pixie2011 on 14/11/2011</em>
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Latest post on 13 November 2011 - 20:46
Hi girls Just found out i am 6 weeks pregnant today this is my first one so very excited had a scan today and even heard the heartbeat. Due date is 4th July so far, no morning sickness so far but i just feel very tired and sleepy. Awww congrats. I hope you have a beautiful and a healthy baby. No morning sickness that is wonderful. I had no morning sickness at all and I was quite happy about it :-) Hugs.
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When I was in the US my first scan was at about 7 weeks of pregnancy. Here it is about the same.
 
 
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