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Latest post on 31 January 2017 - 11:37
Hi, sorry didn't mean to highjack ur thread but we vacated a beautiful cozy single level villa in Jumeirah 2. We put in a new kitchen and all the bathrooms and ceilings are new. Unfortunately we had to move back to the states and have vacated our villa after living their for only a year. My gardener told me its still available and it makes me sad that no one has moved in yet! It has a beautiful view of the burj khalifa. Please let me know if anyone is interested. Please leave ur email so I can give u the contact info/address. How many bedrooms is it Sal? Does it have any shared facilities?
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Latest post on 01 November 2016 - 13:51
I see two problems with eating "Organic" food here and would love your views: The first is that there is no clear worldwide accepted definition of "organic". As an example, vegetables which are not treated with pesticides and are fertilised with animal manure. The animal manure could have come from a cow that was fed non-organic, geneticaly modified feed. So are the vegetables still organic? The second is that vegetables are treated in order to prolong their lives so that they can be flown to Dubai and still look good after 2-3 days. Is that treatment organic?
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Latest post on 29 May 2016 - 19:16
I thought I was the only one! I can also only wear natural fibres but linen is usually not an option as it is so see through. 100% cotton T-shirts are hard enough to find. Work wear is impossible! Last year M&S had a great range of T-shirts in lots of colours but this year there is nothing at all worth buying. So annoying!
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Latest post on 31 January 2016 - 19:40
Personally I find lateness extremely rude (except of course in an emergency). And why would it be offensive to be mistaken for a nanny - that implies that you think it is beneath you. My DH often gets mistaken for being a driver and we laugh it off.
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Latest post on 20 October 2015 - 18:31
[i'> ilovethesun replied... Thank you ladies for all your replies. So I gather that the child has to be level 5/6 at the end of year 5. Do they expect a minimum level 5 in all the subjects? [/i'> Not necessarily. My child achieved level 5's in Year 6 and got in. He is doing well at DC.
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Latest post on 07 October 2015 - 18:15
My DH suffers terribly from it. He went to numerous ENT's who gave different opinions, prescriptions and even wanted to operate. Dr Bahgat was the only ENT who correctly said the problems he was suffering were not related to the ears and to check his jaw. The moment he said that we realised that a broken jaw at 21 and teeth grinding were the cause - not all the other rubbish we had been told. A correct diagnose has helped him live with it but he has not been able to get any further help. Anti-histamines sometimes help - not sure why. Coincidentally another friend was telling me about her tinnitus yesterday and I mentioned TMJ. She is also a teeth grinder so it fits for her too. She has also been to numerous doctors but none have mentioned TMJ. So sorry - No!
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Latest post on 21 September 2015 - 09:42
I also can't wear polyester and struggle to find cotton shirts. Even T-shirts now are more commonly a cotton mix rather than 100% cotton, even at M&S. Some shops don't stock any cotton tops at all - ridiculous in this climate.
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Latest post on 09 September 2015 - 19:15
20% got Level 6's???? At most other schools had a handful of very bright children get Level 6. In the UK in 2014 there were only 14 schools that achieved more than 10%.
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Latest post on 01 September 2015 - 16:22
A post that is titled is "My ****** gardener" is a whinge!
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Latest post on 31 August 2015 - 18:37
Please stop whinging! It has been the hottest summer ever and I have been here 20 years so I know. I have heard a lot of people say their gardens have died while they have been away and I think it because of the severe heat. Think for a moment about these poor guys working outside in 50 degree temperatures.
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Latest post on 31 August 2015 - 13:50
One last attempt - anyone?
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Latest post on 18 August 2015 - 13:03
Bump
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Latest post on 24 June 2015 - 08:16
Because it isn't tourist season it is actually a great time to go. We went for 2 weeks and could have stayed for 4. Some days were beautifully hot and sunny so shorts and T-shirts with a jumper in the evening. Some days it rained and snowed. We actually enjoyed having the variety of weather and there are plenty of indoor options for those rainy days. You will find accommodation is cheaper and nothing is crowded.
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Latest post on 07 June 2015 - 10:32
got it!
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Latest post on 07 June 2015 - 10:30
Milton - great guy 055 656 Nine five 28 He is also a handyman and can do basic electrical jobs like installing lights etc
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Latest post on 25 May 2015 - 18:46
We used to leave it empty but decided it was a bit of a waste. Now we rent it out for holiday lets through an agent. It only gets rented out 4-6 weeks a year which is perfect as it pays for the council tax but does not give too much wear and tear. And yes - lots of maintenance over the summer when we come back and use it for 6 weeks. We actually enjoy it because it is a contrast to life here where we don't have to lift a finger.
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Latest post on 06 May 2015 - 08:39
Completely disagree with some of these. Look for the smaller schools which don't have 10-11 classes per age group or 26+ per class. Or which charge extortionate fees. So basically JAPS, JESS, DESS. (there is a reason that their waitlists are so long!) I have also heard great things about NAS, Safa and Victory Heights.
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Latest post on 23 April 2015 - 08:36
No you are not reading too much into this. I am not sure what the answer is but follow your instincts to protect your child.
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Latest post on 12 April 2015 - 18:04
We would like to bring our maids children over here for a holiday this year as an alternative to her going back home. Before she gets too excited at the prospect, has anyone tried doing this before?
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Latest post on 11 April 2015 - 13:24
Great list except the tutors bit. Not necessary IMHO. Unless there are specific issues then parents can help with homework. Everything else is taught at school In the British curriculum anyway
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Latest post on 09 April 2015 - 17:52
Don't take it to heart. In some cultures it is not considered rude to make comments like that. I had to suffer them all the time from my DH's family who thought my child was too thin and that her hair was not growing fast enough. They also told me that my sister was much more beautiful than me. When I lost it one time and told them how offensive their comments were, they were genuinely surprised.
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Latest post on 07 April 2015 - 20:02
I think it is more to do with the type of families who expect their maids to work 7 days a week and from early until late at night rather than the type of cleaning. If you look around you, you will see what maids see and understand why they have preferences.
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Latest post on 07 April 2015 - 19:52
Has anyone seen these for sale here? They are available online but I need one for a gift tomorrow. Thanks
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Latest post on 05 April 2015 - 13:38
Of course we can expect more. It would not have been difficult to have toilets in several locations. I do expect it to take less than forty five minutes to get a burger. The Diamond car park was allowed to empty first before anyone from gold could even move their cars. And it was so dangerous with cars pushing out amongst pPoole walking down the road.
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Latest post on 05 April 2015 - 09:08
Never! Well never again after that. Inadequate food, toilets miles from everywhere, and over an hour late which is just rude. Took over an hour to get out of the carpark. Yes they were fantastic. Was it worth it? Absolutely not, especially for what we paid.
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Latest post on 16 March 2015 - 18:22
I eat differently from my kids every evening! They may have lasagne with veg, chicken and rice (with veg) or something similar, I prefer a salad. My DH is Indian so cooks himself a vegetarian dish with homemade chapati. We also eat at different times. So nothing out of the ordinary in our house. I am going to get a load of backlash here from perfect moms who sit down to a healthy dinner with their husbands and kids every night. Impossible in our house! We do eat the same thing and together over weekends.
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Latest post on 16 March 2015 - 15:28
As someone said above, there are "free foods" which you can eat. So I sit and eat a fruit salad with my kids at the breakfast table and then a salad while they eat their dinner. Actually setting quite a good example I would have thought. I don't make a big deal out of drinking the aloe juice so its not something they will even pick up on. Being fit and healthy for the kids is one of the reasons I am doing it, they are not an excuse!
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Latest post on 08 March 2015 - 11:35
A bit of an exaggeration there ladymary. Children got in from our school on Level 5's. Not many on Level 6's yet. It seems if you are better at Maths than English you stand a better chance. They introduce verbal and non verbal reasoning tests this year so practice those. You are asked to do a one page A4 sheet of extra curricular activities / additional information. Some very bright kids got in with not a lot of extras. Some kids who do a lot of sports and music didn't get in although they must be level 5 ish also. There are just so many children applying! They tell you specifically not to tutor your child. If you need to - it is the wrong school for them. Some tutored kids got in from our school, some didn't.
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Latest post on 17 February 2015 - 15:29
I found one thank you. In the music shop opposite the cinema in Dubai Mall.
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Latest post on 12 February 2015 - 13:29
I would love to find one too! My DH has suffered so badly for the last 5 years and we still haven't found anyone. The best relief he got was from an osteopath so maybe try that.
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Latest post on 23 January 2015 - 08:17
Not sure if I am allowed to post this but trevor.wilkes at thefrygroup dot co dot uk is excellent.
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Latest post on 21 January 2015 - 13:59
Thank you
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Latest post on 20 January 2015 - 11:39
It's simple - if you accept an invitation you show up. If you can't make it you let the host know ALWAYS. No excuses.
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Latest post on 20 January 2015 - 10:09
Has anyone got any suggestions? It is for a business function.
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Latest post on 19 January 2015 - 09:43
DIfferent trolleys and baskets?
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Latest post on 19 January 2015 - 09:38
There are only 3 lanes for non-muslim products. All the others including the express counters are for those with no pork products. Hopefully they will adjust the numbers depending on the queues!
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Latest post on 09 January 2015 - 23:21
She is Filipino and 23 years old. As long as the salary is fair, I think she would consider any opportunity.
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Latest post on 04 December 2014 - 13:31
I saw some on Satwa this morning. On Plant Street right down the end where the Iranian Hospital is there is a shoe shop. About 500 Dhs /pair
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Latest post on 29 November 2014 - 16:00
Is the 1st December evening ever dry?
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Latest post on 26 November 2014 - 19:52
JESS Night Market is on Friday 28th November from 3.30 to 7.30. (JESS Jumeirah)
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Latest post on 07 November 2014 - 14:09
JESS Night Market is on 28th November (JESS Jumeirah) From 3.30 - 7.30pm
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Latest post on 17 October 2014 - 16:46
My point exactly. The moms who do everything to avoid it, use excuses, say "$#!% off" or deliberately lose requests are the ones with the attitude who make the job so unpleasant. Do it once yourself and you will understand how hard it is and hopefully appreciate the moms who do it in future. It does seem to vary from school to school though and at my childrens school there is not much to do apart from pass on a few messages via e-mail, do collection at Christmas and end of year, and organise a couple of social events. BTW I can't believe any parent would think a class mum is responsible for complaining about the progress of their child.
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Latest post on 16 October 2014 - 19:37
One becomes a class mom if one has an interest in doing more for their children's education than dropping them off and picking them up again at the end of the day (unless your maid does that for you). Parents who can't be bothered because they are too busy doing something else (gym, coffee, shopping?) are unbelievable. Is it really too much effort to do a little extra?
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Latest post on 16 September 2014 - 08:59
Sometimes distance is not important. You can live close to somewhere in Dubai but still take ages to get there because of traffic. And some people may choose an extra ten minutes in the car for a nicer home. Which is why I suggested doing test drives to see what it is like in the mornings and school pick up time. Al Ghadeer is 15 minutes from the end of Al Khail Road and there are lots of schools in that area.
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Latest post on 15 September 2014 - 22:07
It's a pleasure - please pass them on.
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Latest post on 15 September 2014 - 19:14
Part 2 "As a Scot living in the midst of a very emotive, albeit admittedly enlivening debate about the future of our nation, here is my two pence on the issues surrounding independence, trying to be as rational and unemotional as I can be. Too many commentators I think deride the other side as "a nonsense" which only helps to entrench views on both sides without any advance in logical discussion. Clearly there are sound arguments on both sides of the debate, so I've attempted to put an exhaustive list of them together, and ranked them for how strong the argument is in each case. So here goes, with conclusions at the bottom: Arguments in favour of independence as I see them: 1. The political spectrum will align to Scotland's will, i.e slightly to the left of the average UK, meaning the system is more democratic. Strength of argument: 9/10 2. We can codify a new constitution from scratch, which will be both therapeutic and lead to a much cleaner political system (without the vagaries of hundreds of years of layered legislation). Strength of argument: 7/10 3. We will get new passports, a new country dialling code, and a new internet URL suffix which could be a nice novelty. Strength of argument: 2/10 4. If crude oil prices stay high and stable for the long term we could be fiscally better off, and even run a sufficient fiscal surplus elsewhere to siphon some revenue into a sovereign wealth fund. Probability-adjusted-strength of argument: 5/10 5. There may be some kind of unquantifiable national boost of confidence from being unleashed as a new country standing on our own two feet. Strength of argument: 6/10 6. In certain devolved functions since 1999, the Scottish Parliament has done a decent job in running things. Certain aspects of NHS Scotland for example are superior to the system in England and Wales, so it's hard to criticise the track record of devolved government. Strength of argument: 6/10 7. The act of independence itself will lead to job creation as new bodies will need to be set up and staffed. Whether this gross addition of jobs is enough to lead to a net job gain from the offsetting loss of jobs in Scotland from leaving the UK is hard to say (see below). Strength of argument: 5/10 8. The proposed cut in corporation tax, if combined with a business-friendly political environment, could attract international companies to HQ in Scotland over the longer term. Strength of Argument: 7/10 Reasons to vote Yes: 8 Average strength of argument: 5.875 out of 10 Arguments against independence as I see them: 1. Large and very important elements of the new state will need to be negotiated with a country that we've just turned our backs on. The likelihood of that being a friendly dialogue is pretty low. Strength of argument: 8/10 2. All options for currency policy are sub-optimal. Currency union is a fiscal straightjacket and very unlikely to happen soon (UK politicians would lose a lot of face); Sterlingisation is plain bonkers; the Euro is a mess (ask Ireland) ; and a new currency would be a very shaky road for a good few years. Strength of argument: 10/10 3. We would be likely to find Spain and other countries with noisy separatist movements being very hostile to easy EU entry. NATO would also have an issue with SNP anti-Trident agenda. Strength of argument: 8/10 4. We would need to spend a lot of money setting up mirror institutions like tax authorities, security services, the DVLA, and overseas embassies that already function fine. Strength of argument: 6/10 5. Uncertainty from multiple areas (currency, legal, political, the regulatory environment) would create a terrible business environment. Companies will withhold or limit investment and expansions plans in Scotland for a number of years (3-5 years minimum). Strength of argument: 9/10 6. We wouldn't spend enough money on defense or benefit from the scale of the UK military and security services at a time when the world is looking pretty shaky on a 5-10 year view. Strength of argument: 8/10 7. We would send a message to our neighbours in Wales, England and Northern Ireland that we don't value their opinion sufficiently to want to compromise our own views within the UK anymore . We would be acting in an inward-looking and parochial way instead of being open-minded and conciliatory. Strength of argument: 9/10 8. Daft threats to renege on national debt + uncertain revenue stream from oil + uncertain currency policy would mean the entire country would likely face higher interest rates. That will act as an economic dampener and ramp up the debt servicing costs of the housing stock (ie mortgages would cost a lot more). Strength of argument: 9/10 9. Crude oil is freely traded in global markets and is prone to periods of extreme volatility. It is unwise to rely on high and stable prices to fund a large chunk of national spending. It is likely an oil-sponsored sovereign wealth fund would only be viable if taxes were increased and/or spending were cut (i.e austerity). Strength of argument: 8/10 10. Voting against independence will lead to increase devolution on areas such as welfare and fiscal policy. We will have a left-leaning devolved government in charge of all the "soft" social stuff like health, education and welfare, and a right-leaning UK government in charge of the "hard" national security stuff like the military, security services and embassy networks. This seems like the perfect way to ensure good public services but higher levels of security, without the need to go through the costly and uncertain process of independence. Strength of argument: 7/10 11. Certain key jobs done in Scotland would inevitably move to the other parts of the UK as we would now be a foreign country . It's hard to see important UK functions like HMRC offices, military hardware production, or bank and asset managers with the majority of their customers elsewhere in the UK surviving in their present form. As above, whether this is a net job loss compared to the addition of new post-independence jobs is not clear. Strength of argument: 5/10 Reasons to vote No: 11 Average strength of argument: 7.9 out of 10 To me it's a simple case of cost/benefit analysis. I've thought long and hard about it and tried to absorb as much of the debate as possible when it comes to the REAL issues, taking out all the scaremongering and spin from both sides (for example the discussions of the NHS and Trident I find totally baseless and/or emotional rather than rational). Trying to strip it down to the genuine reasons for and against, it does seem to me that in both the quantity of factors, and importantly the strength of those factors, the arguments against independence are significantly more persuasive. This vote is not about Alex Salmond or Alistair Darling or how many posters you see on lampposts. This is not a protest vote against David Cameron or George Osbourne anyone else, and anyone that convinces of that fact is being reckless and incredibly short-sighted. This is a decision of the utmost importance for several generations of Scots. I will be voting No. "
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Latest post on 15 September 2014 - 19:13
Please take time to read and forward to any "Yessers" you know. (Not written by me) I make no apology for such blatant canvassing and if it converts just one of you its been worthwhile. As you are property owners or aspiring property owners let me just concentrate on that area now and I have cribbed a comment on the bigger picture which is set out below. Despite what Yes may say there is no guarantee that there will be a currency union with England and as such no guarantee we will have use of sterling,which is different to the "pound". Sterling is guaranteed by the Bank of England and we will only get that with a currency Union which will come with as many strings as we have with devolution but without the benefits. Yes we can introduce a scots pound as we had before 1707 but as was then it will be worth a lot less that a pound sterling because we dont have the Bof E guartantee. So what happens to the value of your home. Simple it crashes,no matter what sector. In Edinburgh especially those employed in the financial services industy will have to follow their jobs south of the border so the top end of the market will have lots of sellers and few buyers. There will be so much uncertainty during the 2 years after a yes vote to actual independence that nobody with any sense will invest sterling into this country and adopt a devalued scots pound. Indeed the smart money will be moving south with all individual cash deposits being transferred to english bank accounts where sterling will remain sterling. The big funds have already started this process. So nobody will be upsizing their property either. And at the bottom of the market no sensible first time buyer will spend their hard earned sterling on property whose value will shortly be calculated in devalued scots pounds when they can continue to rent and wait and see what happens, and indeed that applies across the market. Result, the residential property market ceases to exist save for those that have no choice,much as it was 7 years ago after the crash,but with no obvious exit, and values plummet. The commercial property market will go the same way. Investors big or small will not put their money in Scotland until they know whats going on so you can scratch the property investment and development market for the next 2 years assumng that after that we have the use of Sterling. If not it will be a long slow recovery while the offices vacated by the businesses moving south are filled up and people have enough confidence in the scottish economy to start investing here again.To be fair however tourism should not be affected so we may a few more hotels. The list of businesses that have said they will move is long and they are not just empty threats.Many property lawyers have deals waiting to be done but only after a no vote. If you were setting up a new business would you do so in an uncertain market with an uncertain currency or simply go to england where there are lots of enterprising regions waiting for the fall out,or indeed elsewhere in the world. Please just consider these simple realities which are not empty threats as the yes campaign suggest. Its common sense. If at the very best after 2 years of hard negotiation we get a currency union things might get back on their feet but that depends upon what else has been negotiated in the meantime,Europe/trident/tax rates/oil reserves/public spending etc. During those 2 years however we will be in the financial wilderness and if you thought the last 7 years were tough you aint seen nothing yet! Thereafter who knows as only then will the lies and empty promises of the Yes campaign become apparent,but its not looking good. Thats an awful lot to risk for not very much gain,although I accept thats because in my eyes I dont see a socialist utopia as a benefit. You can still be a scot and vote no,indeed a proud scot in a strong union with the rest of the UK is a smart scot, and respected as such. The bigger picture is set out below in a letter Peter Meiklejohn wrote recently which applied his analytical mind to the issues Happy to discuss any of the above if it helps you Andy Birrell Home 01333340379 Mobile 07718923989
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Latest post on 14 September 2014 - 12:39
Al Ghadeer is really not that far out and is easily accessible from SMBZ Road. The developer which built it, A...R, has a much better build quality than Na....l of Dubai. Why don't you try the drive times and see which works better for you at drop off and pick up times.
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Latest post on 14 September 2014 - 12:21
So if we re better together, why are nt we better now? The Westminster government are tearing the country to shreds! As far as I can see our only hope of a better future is to make our own! So what do you actually mean and how do you believe Scots will better off? How will they be better off, please explain why you would vote yes?
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Latest post on 13 September 2014 - 19:50
This is why I am terrified it will be a Yes. There are so many unanswered questions. For example, will my parents be forced to have a Scottish passport as they are resident in Scotland (and the UK will not allow dual passports) If not, will they need a residence visa to live in Scotland (outside the EU) with an UK passport. Will they need a visa to visit Dubai if they take the Scottish passport? If so, will there be somewhere in Scotland to apply for UAE visas? And will there be a Scottish embassy in Dubai if they need it? Where will that be and has the cost of worldwide embassies been accounted for? Will their travel insurance that they have taken for years through a UK company still be available to them? And the currency exchange issues. The mortgage issues for those who have homes back there with UK bank mortgages in pounds. The insurance on your home. I could go on forever. Tell your family back home to say No please.