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Latest post on 16 December 2014 - 18:19
Did you draw that one yourself. I haven't found a festive one yet. Am a bit under the weather will look later. Goodness no, my children were driving me mad so I googled 'pulling my hair out'. I'm so artistically hopeless that I can't even draw a stick figure :lol: Me neither, I don't have an artistic bone in my body. :( I tried to draw a Santa hat on a little stick figure for an avatar but it looked a bit sad.
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Latest post on 16 December 2014 - 18:11
Did you draw that one yourself. I haven't found a festive one yet. Am a bit under the weather will look later.
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Latest post on 16 December 2014 - 18:08
Hi carymama , well I would like to have the books for my children . If it possible ? Rizlane how old are your children? I may have some you are welcome to. Am thinking of having a clear out.
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Latest post on 15 December 2014 - 20:06
I have been on it many times and it's always been busy.
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Latest post on 15 December 2014 - 20:04
I have just made some christmas modifications to mine. <anxiously waiting for admin to return> I might change mine to something more festive. :)
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Latest post on 15 December 2014 - 20:00
[b'>We took it yesterday and didn't like it. To get from JBR 2 to JBR 1 had to go all the way to Marina metro and change there. [/b'>Huge waste of time, it runs very slowly, only one machine to buy tickets and there were queues on every station, check in/check out point is inconveniently located and I couldn't even find it without asking. Won't use it again. edited by Alemania on 15/11/2014 They have another tram now just started that goes around the loop JLT, Marina, JBR1 and 2.
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Latest post on 15 December 2014 - 17:17
Bingo, I probably read the same websites as you. I used ACV and iodine and managed to get rid of a mole a few years ago and it never came back. My husband did the same thing with a wart and it worked as well. You have to sand it down a little first and put Vaseline on the outside as the ACV will irritate the skin. Soak cotton wool in the vinegar and tape it up. It took about a month to go. Try it and see. <em>edited by Alismum on 15/12/2014</em>
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Latest post on 13 December 2014 - 13:25
Tell him you wish to make a lovely salmon dish with a delicious chocolate dessert, and then add them to the shopping trolley. I am assuming you are the cook in your household (or maybe he is, that’s why he buys the ingredients he likes???) I really think it’s a bit too early to be discussing the D word, although he does need educating on how to act in a ‘partnership’ or a swift kick up the rear. Seems like you got the worse deal having to pay the rent, it’s not something that you can hold over him in the same way, like he appears to be doing with the grocery shopping. Maybe he feels a bit inadequate that you are paying the rent and this is way of taking a bit of control back. I think there’s more to the issue than chocolate and salad dressings though, is he controlling in other areas? Can you imagine spending the rest of your life with this man? Does he belittle you often? Is he happy he married you? That talk can’t come soon enough, put your cards on the table and tell him how you really feel and what needs to change. This sort of resentment is not healthy in a marriage. edited by Alismum on 13/12/2014 Thiss is an anonymous chat po. We know nothing abiu each other, other than what e pick up from reading what someone choses to tell. SO, having said that from the little I have read from the OP, she does not come across as the timid type. She has very confidently knocked down advice given to her which she deems not fitting. Timid people tend to silly say than yo for yor input, not challenge it. On that point, I believe there is a lot more at plat in this relationship personality wise than we are able to advise on. Again - how I see it. Not necessarily how it is. Yes I agree.
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Latest post on 13 December 2014 - 11:26
Tell him you wish to make a lovely salmon dish with a delicious chocolate dessert, and then add them to the shopping trolley. I am assuming you are the cook in your household (or maybe he is, that’s why he buys the ingredients he likes???) I really think it’s a bit too early to be discussing the D word, although he does need educating on how to act in a ‘partnership’ or a swift kick up the rear. Seems like you got the worse deal having to pay the rent, it’s not something that you can hold over him in the same way, like he appears to be doing with the grocery shopping. Maybe he feels a bit inadequate that you are paying the rent and this is way of taking a bit of control back. I think there’s more to the issue than chocolate and salad dressings though, is he controlling in other areas? Can you imagine spending the rest of your life with this man? Does he belittle you often? Is he happy he married you? That talk can’t come soon enough, put your cards on the table and tell him how you really feel and what needs to change. This sort of resentment is not healthy in a marriage. <em>edited by Alismum on 13/12/2014</em>
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Latest post on 12 December 2014 - 23:05
Cheeky Monkey, I like what you have said. Two people - equal - open your wallet not just your mouth. Equal is equal. I was in charge of money once and it really is a big responsibility when the other person is not a good spender. [b'>In this relationship, it seems he is in charge. So if bills do not get paid, OP, maybe OP's family, will come down on him - that he let the family down.[/b'> Every other thread on here is about how much it costs here now - [b'>if he is solely responsible for the family budgeting[/b'> he could be getting frustrated that you do not simply acknowledge that he is saying no as your daily is on a budget andyo are acting 'psycho' by not being switched on and seeing how expensive the world has become. The OP did say that she works as well and they share expenses, so he is not solely responsible for budgeting.. I have started working & we share expenses, grocery is entirely his responsibility Just a thought Hafsanaz but why don't you tell your husband that you will pay for the food shopping from now on from your salary and he can pay all other expenses. Would that be a fair exchange? <em>edited by Alismum on 12/12/2014</em>
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Latest post on 12 December 2014 - 18:44
Forthcoming marriage Marroosh?? Is that right, I must have missed that post. Congratulations.....
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Latest post on 12 December 2014 - 18:26
I feel you really need to sit down and have a good talk with your husband. Name calling is never acceptable and you should tell him this. Regarding the shopping, perhaps he thinks the chocs or salad dressings are frivolous purchases. There are many men who think this way when they see their wives shopping habits. These men would be happy buying non branded cheap items, it's not so much a control thing. They just have a frugal mentality. Because this has become a bone of contention that is causing friction in your relationship, I would suggest you tell him that you wish to take the responsibility for grocery shopping off his hands. After all grocery shopping is a woman's job, since we are the chefs of the produce, we need to have control over the products we buy. (I am suggesting you say this so you can take control of the grocery spending, not because I agree that grocery shopping is a woman's job). Tell him to give you the money he would normally spend weekly, and you will take this burden off him and he will have more free time to pursue other interests, hang out with his friends etc. Then you can go grocery shopping alone and buy whatever you wish. <em>edited by Alismum on 12/12/2014</em>
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Latest post on 09 December 2014 - 10:09
Trip of a lifetime, I'm not sure. Teenagers are probably not going for the cultural surroundings, visits to museums, places of interest....boring!!! They are going to hang out with their class in foreign lands and to take a few selfies to show off when they come back. In my opinion a few days in a tent in the desert would suffice, one does not have to pay 10k for this. Would I send my child on a 4 day trip back to my home town and pay 10K for the privilege of walking in the drizzle, not on your nelly. <em>edited by Alismum on 09/12/2014</em>
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Latest post on 07 December 2014 - 20:00
Saw the write up about this series in the DM today so have downloaded first episode to watch later. I could have sworn the same programme was advertised on one of the MBC channels last week, but I can't see it when searching. Anyone know.
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Latest post on 07 December 2014 - 19:15
Why can't you remove it yourself. Happened to me once in UK and I took it off myself. No I can't. First of all it's attacked to the stocking itself, and it needs the magnetic thingie to remove it. I managed to remove it with a knife and pliers (obviously it was a bought item :biggrin: ) If you do a Google search they will tell you how to remove one without the magnetic thingy. I would give you a link but am on my phone. <em>edited by Alismum on 07/12/2014</em>
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Latest post on 07 December 2014 - 18:59
Why can't you remove it yourself. Happened to me once in UK and I took it off myself.
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Latest post on 07 December 2014 - 12:02
Bus No 12 goes from FGB metro station to near Ace Hardware, every 20 mins. (have a look at google maps)... you may have to walk from Times Square though (8 mins it says) Oh and Ace Hardware is listed as Al Quoz. <em>edited by Alismum on 07/12/2014</em>
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Latest post on 05 December 2014 - 20:33
Interesting, my husband is currently doing this. He has lost 4 kilos so far. He has cut back a little bit, but before he started with the 8pm cut off he was snacking during the night til the early hours. Now he sleeps much better, doesn't wake up with a headache and snores less. I may try if myself, still got this Dubai stone to shift. ;) Sounds promising, how long did it take to lose 4 kg? About 6 weeks. Not really dieting, just changing eating habits a bit.
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Latest post on 05 December 2014 - 20:21
Interesting, my husband is currently doing this. He has lost 4 kilos so far. He has cut back a little bit, but before he started with the 8pm cut off he was snacking during the night til the early hours. Now he sleeps much better, doesn't wake up with a headache and snores less. I may try if myself, still got this Dubai stone to shift. ;)
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Latest post on 02 December 2014 - 22:24
I've just come back from the JBR beach fireworks, they were fantastic. The whole beach was buzzing, never saw so many people in my life..... loved it.
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Latest post on 02 December 2014 - 09:54
Looking forward to the fireworks tonight :biggrin:
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Latest post on 02 December 2014 - 09:51
How did this thread go from male manicurists to male gynacologists? [img'>http://www.animateit.net/data/media/smiley712/smiley-happy120.gif[/img'> Beebers very interesting in a macabre sort of way. <em>edited by Alismum on 02/12/2014</em>
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Latest post on 01 December 2014 - 20:34
lol @ Lolacat, you are on fire tonight :) Hate to break it to some of you ladies...I don't know if things have changed, but almost all of the mortuary cosmetologists I worked with were men. By then, I suppose no one will care! Did they do nails? Sorry Joyce, massive divert, this is more interesting than a bearded ozzie baby deliverer [strike'>who was great[/strike'>. How does one become a mortuary Cosmo thingy? What made them want to choose the non-living? Really funny. Honestly if wit was you know what, well you know what you'd be. :lol: :lol: <em>edited by Alismum on 01/12/2014</em>
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Latest post on 01 December 2014 - 20:10
I'm sure it said concert on beach from 5pm the fireworks at 9. ETA phew! have just looked and it is tomorrow. So happy as I just bought a hat and flag. Great news Cilla. I'm made up, it's gonna be a lorra lorra fun. :cool:
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Latest post on 01 December 2014 - 19:50
I'm sure it said concert on beach from 5pm the fireworks at 9. ETA phew! have just looked and it is tomorrow. So happy as I just bought a hat and flag.
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Latest post on 01 December 2014 - 19:39
I didn't hear the fireworks. Are they the ones in JBR?
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Latest post on 01 December 2014 - 19:38
Oops. :loser: :cry: :quite: :music: :angry: :\: but Ms CP tomorrow is National Day. How come celebrations are a day early? Don't they normally have them on 2nd December. I always go out on 2nd, now it looks like we missed the boat. :angry:
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Latest post on 01 December 2014 - 19:33
No way. Never. A guy touching my feet? Ugh. Manicure is for the hands. He will not touch your feet. Feet or hands ... No way! Facial or massage ... Never! Is it even legal? Perhaps you could find a man in the big tourist hotels but in local salons (there are male hair stylists, I know). edited by mrsb. on 01/12/2014 Where do you stand on male dentists? Specifically? Preferably not a bit that's attached to my mouth. :lol:
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Latest post on 01 December 2014 - 19:31
I thought the fireworks were tomorrow. I promised to take my little boy to the beach to see them.
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Latest post on 01 December 2014 - 19:26
Ha!ha! Couch tattie. I was just getting used to the scarecrow as well. ;)
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Latest post on 01 December 2014 - 19:07
I'd go to a male hairdresser and dentist, but seems a bit strange having a guy do a manicure. Maybe if he batted for the other side I might consider it, I mean what do you talk about, nail polish? . :biggrin: <em>edited by Alismum on 01/12/2014</em>
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Latest post on 30 November 2014 - 21:52
No, I'd feel uncomfortable with a guy putting nail varnish on my nails..
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Latest post on 30 November 2014 - 18:01
What is he charged with? OP may not want to reveal what DH is charged with.Does that affect her situation? Of course it does...... Depending on what he has done, affects whether people are willing to help. And sorry OP, i doubt your husband has done nothing wrong if he has been held for a year. Izzy, charged with ...........does NOT equate to guilty. And even if it did, the OP is an innocent party in great difficulty. OP, I no longer live in UAE and cannot offer you any constructive help or advice, except to wish you all the best. And, I have wanted to say this for a long time, EW used to be a very different forum. Perhaps we were more trusting, or more naive. but it was certainly a kinder place. Yes EW used to be brighter, sweeter, jollier etc...There used to be someone called "banana muffin" - in abour 2008 - what happened to her? edited by bingo12 on 30/11/2014 Banana Muffin is still here. :)
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Latest post on 30 November 2014 - 16:03
OP I did a bit of a Google and found a couple places that maybe worth a try. Al Ihsan Charity caters for women who have lost spouses due to divorce, abandonment or imprisonment. They may help with financial support [email protected] Tel 067457451 They are based in Ajman I got the details from EW under charities Also there's a non profit org called detainedindubai. They have a fb page. Maybe they can point you in the right direction for legal advice?? Please do a fb search for them as I can't give you a direct link, am on my phone. Maybe someone can find and link it. <em>edited by Alismum on 30/11/2014</em>
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Latest post on 30 November 2014 - 14:50
I have blown a tyre here on 3 occasions, someone has always stopped and changed it for me :-) I had a wonderful Emirati guy stop His Kandoora was covered in grease, I offered to pay the dry cleaning bill and he said not to worry as he had a wardrobe full of them at home. Well, that's good to hear - I guess one just stand about looking visible - if it is not too hot!:) [b'>I think being blond helped for me[/b'> :lol: Guess we should keep one of these in the glove compartment then just in case ;) [url=http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2014/11/28/2393F33900000578-2853479-image-13_1417206198637.jpg'>link[/url'> That made me laugh :-) I used to be a girl guide, so I know what being prepared means ;) I wonder if they sell them in Daiso?
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Latest post on 30 November 2014 - 14:15
I have blown a tyre here on 3 occasions, someone has always stopped and changed it for me :-) I had a wonderful Emirati guy stop His Kandoora was covered in grease, I offered to pay the dry cleaning bill and he said not to worry as he had a wardrobe full of them at home. Well, that's good to hear - I guess one just stand about looking visible - if it is not too hot!:) [b'>I think being blond helped for me[/b'> :lol: Guess we should keep one of these in the glove compartment then just in case ;) [url=http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2014/11/28/2393F33900000578-2853479-image-13_1417206198637.jpg'>link[/url'> <em>edited by Alismum on 30/11/2014</em>
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Latest post on 30 November 2014 - 00:37
All the accounts of days of old in Dubai are very interesting. :) [Di said'> [i'> I went home to have all my children, for reasons as Shaks described, and always traveled quite near my due date, with my third baby I only just made it home, had contractions on the flight all the way trying to convince myself must be indigestion,my mother took me straight from Heathrow to the London hospital I was booked at and I flew back days later with my new daughter. I must have been crazy to have risked it that late![/i'> Di, so did you have to cross your legs for the duration of the trip then? Giving birth sounded very primitive in those days, can't blame you for going home. I liked the pictures, especially the one with the plane full of falcons. Jumeirah mosque looks amazing from that aerial view as well. <em>edited by Alismum on 30/11/2014</em>
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Latest post on 30 November 2014 - 00:16
I'm out next year. It's too expensive and things just drive me crackers here now. [b'>Wait and see if the UAE follows Kuwait and only allows expats to stay for 5 years and forbids them from bringing families. [/b'>Wouldn't surprise me. Are you serious? I didnt know Kuwait is doing that now...how terrible. The new law will apply to unskilled and semi skilled workers, which will mainly affect the low paid Asian expats. GCC, European Union and US citizens are exempt, also new law will not apply to professionals and those in skilled jobs.
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Latest post on 27 November 2014 - 22:03
Since ladies on this forum come from or have lived in different parts of the world, where is a good city/town to raise children? if you are [b'>not worried about work and money[/b'>. This includes [b'>good schools, good houses, safe community, tolerant people, English speaking, mild winters [/b'>(preferably), and any other good thing you could think of.. Please share your thoughts. Money no object, safe community, tolerant people, English speaking, mild winters, decent housing, [i'>some[/i'> good schools, good place to raise children....... I would say the perfect place would be Dubai :biggrin: <em>edited by Alismum on 01/12/2014</em>
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Latest post on 27 November 2014 - 19:34
Crossroads? Mrs13b I like your nails. Very unusual. I've never seen that lace effect before.
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Latest post on 27 November 2014 - 18:11
Yes that's me dancing on JBR beach ;) Have cooked salmon with pasta. Vino at 6? Early start, guess you'll be :sleeping: soon. I am nodding off already, early mornings are a killer for me. It's dark as well.
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Latest post on 27 November 2014 - 18:01
I am just cooking dinner. Then gonna watch B&B. Like your avatar TB.
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Latest post on 27 November 2014 - 17:42
Is it only me or....................:idea: Thats my favorite topic these days. Can't tell you how much ****** off I am. Seriously considering to move from Dubai....but when doing calculations, Dubai is still cheaper than many other countries. I only fear, what if they remove rent increase cap? What if they make visas from 2 years to year and we need to do renewals every year? This year end is full of surprises, let see what new year brings for us. Not very optimistic I am !!!! I hope they don't lower the duration of the visa. I read that Saudi are introducing 5 year residency permits for expats, at the moment they have to be renewed annually. Maybe Dubai will follow suit, I certainly hope so. Will make a big difference.
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Latest post on 27 November 2014 - 17:33
Bright Eyes did they have the design in the shop or did you take the Arabic script and ask them to make it for you. What about the chain?. I might nip up there, sounds a very reasonable place. Cara do it all for you. All you need to do is give them the name you want. It comes in a lovely box with the chain. Thanks GE :)
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Latest post on 27 November 2014 - 17:25
Bright Eyes did they have the design in the shop or did you take the Arabic script and ask them to make it for you. What about the chain?. I might nip up there, sounds a very reasonable place.
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Latest post on 27 November 2014 - 15:42
Noddy you can also get Maca Root from NutritionZone in Ibn Battuta, although don't know if it's the same brand you asked about. <em>edited by Alismum on 27/11/2014</em>
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Latest post on 27 November 2014 - 13:15
You probably wouldn't want to travel so far, but when we used to do visa runs to Hatta, there were carpet sellers on the side of the roads. We bought a huge imitation persian carpet for couple hundred after haggling. Here's the place and I bought the red one ;) It's along the E44 road [url=http://cdn3.vtourist.com/1/2572055-Hire_a_car_and_drive_around-United_Arab_Emirates.jpg'>Mezereh roadside market[/url'> <em>edited by Alismum on 27/11/2014</em>
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Latest post on 27 November 2014 - 08:37
I knew we were the minority here - we are the taxi going people though. The Asians tend to car pool or will walk 1 nile to catch a bus. Yes true.
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Latest post on 27 November 2014 - 08:31
I agree Londiamond, for westerners the taxis may be cheaper than home, but here's the demographics of Dubai from 2013. [i'>Demographics of Dubai. The population of Dubai is 2,109,274. Approximately 85% of the expatriate population (and 71% of the emirate's total population) was Asian (chiefly Indian, Pakistani, Filipino, Bangladeshi and Sri Lankan). About 3% of the total population of Dubai was categorized as "Western".[/i'> So for a lot of the 85% Asian expat population, the 2 Dirhams per journey might not be so cheap. Only 3% Western, hmm that's interesting I never realised this. <em>edited by Alismum on 27/11/2014</em>
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Latest post on 26 November 2014 - 22:48
The Daiso in Dubai Mall is huge, a lot bigger than the other branches. They had a big selection of wigs around Halloween time. I bet you could find a blonde one in there, you could trim it a bit and back comb it to make it look like shaggy ;) <em>edited by Alismum on 26/11/2014</em>