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Latest post on 16 October 2011 - 15:09
What did they have in mind for the "river cruise?" Like dinner, or something more casual? On Friday we went to the Gold Souk because I hadn't seen it yet. We got there early, and nothing was open so we started wandering around the "port" area on the Creek just looking at all the cargo and ships. We were approached by an RTA employee asking if we wanted a boat tour. We had the time to kill, so we said yes thinking that we'd be put on a boat with a larger group. Turned out that we were given the entire boat (a small dhow) to ourselves and paid 100AED for a tour up and down the Creek that lasted a little over an hour. It was spur of the moment, but we had a really great time and got some wonderful pictures. I know that my parents would love something like that. I think it's so cool that your parents are making the trip to come see you! I sincerely hope that I'm that adventurous when I'm that age!
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Latest post on 16 October 2011 - 15:01
I second the antibacterial wipes! I came over on the flight from ATL and by the middle of the flight, the bathroom was disgusting. I had hand sanitizer, but I would have given anything to have something to wipe everything down with before I touched it. I will say that Delta economy class offers the smallest ammount of legroom I've personally ever seen in coach from any other airline. I'm 5'10 so leg room is essential for me to be comfortable and I thought I was going to die about 8 hours into the flight. Spent as much of the time as I could walking around. Hopefully your kids are small enough that this won't bother them.
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Latest post on 16 October 2011 - 14:43
LOL! No! :) Though if I could do anything I wanted, I would be a social anthropologist so I'd have a legitimate excuse to study people's lives and behaviors. Sadly, there's not much money to be made in that field. :(
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Latest post on 16 October 2011 - 14:38
When I first got here, I found Blue Bell ice cream (being from Texas, Blue Bell really is the only acceptable brand of ice cream) at Choithrams. But we didn't have a freezer yet, so I just made a mental note that I could buy it at Choithrams.... Wrong! I haven't seen it there since. :( It's taken a lot of work, but I now manage to complete all of my shopping at Geant. The first few weeks, I made myself crazy driving to tons of different stores looking for specific American imports. But I finally started researching what local things could be used as substitutes for the ingredients I'm used to (i.e. labaneh for sour cream) and started trying to incorporate more local recipes into my menu planning. I still make American meals most of the time but I've found that trying local recipes is fun, easier, and often much cheaper. That being said, if I want good bakery cookies or sandwich bread, I send DH to Waitrose because no matter how many different brands of those items I try from Geant, what I can get at Waitrose is MUCH better.
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Latest post on 16 October 2011 - 14:22
I can see that this board is as diverse as the general population of Dubai, and I'm curious to know a little more about all of y'all. Forgive me if this has been done, I can't help that I'm naturally a bit nosey. :) Feel free to skip anything that is too personal. I'll start! [b'>You and your family....[/b'> [b'>Where are you from?[/b'> I'm from the US. Texas, to be specific. [b'>Are you married or single?[/b'> I've been married for 7 months. DH and I dated for 3 years before getting married. [b'>Children?[/b'> I have two beautiful stepdaughters, ages 7 and 5 who live in the States with their mother. DH and I keep in touch with them via skype 3 times a week, plus a couple of phone calls and emails. They're precious and we miss them so much! [b'>Do you have any extended family living in the UAE?[/b'> No, it's just us. We're trying to talk DH's mother into coming over at least for a visit and possibly to stay. [b'>Your life as an expat.....[/b'> [b'>Is this the first place you've lived as an expat?[/b'> As an adult, yes. When I was a child we lived in Mexico City for a short period of time. [b'>How long have you been in Dubai?[/b'> DH has been here for 7 months (he left a week after we were married). I've been here exactly 4 months today. [b'>What do you do? What does your DH do?[/b'> I was just hired last week as an executive admin, but haven't started yet. Prior to this, I was a district manager for a major retailer in the States, but was laid off over a year ago and was never able to find work. DH is a law enforcement instructor. Back home he was a police officer. [b'>How long do you plan to stay in Dubai?[/b'> We initially thought that we would just be here for a year, but now we've decided to stay for at least 2. DH isn't under contract at his job, but I will be. [b'>Do you feel that the life you have here is better than what you could have "back home?" If so, in what ways?[/b'> Right now, yes. With the state of the US economy, there was almost no chance of me finding work in the forseeable future. With the tax-free income that we bring in here we're able to provide a better education adn standard of living for my stepdaughters both now and in the future and that alone makes being here worth it. Still, we miss our families and look forward to when we can move home. [b'>What is your favorite thing about living in Dubai?[/b'> I love how everything is new and different for us. DH and I are seeing things and having experiences here that are new for both of us and exclusively OURS together. I think that's been invaluable as newlyweds. [b'>What is your least favorite thing?[/b'> The heat, easily. There are other frustrations of course. But I've had days where I felt like the heat and humidity were literally sucking my soul from my body! [b'>What has been the biggest challenge for you living in Dubai?[/b'> Really just getting used to the way things are done here. At first, nothing seemed intuitive at all, especially with regard to finding a place to live and then setting up everything related to establishing a household. Also, learning our way around and dealing with insanely bad drivers has been difficult. But everything seems to be coming more easily these days. [b'>What do you miss most about your home? (Other than family and friends)[/b'> Really good Tex-Mex food with frozen margaritas. [b'>Just for fun.....[/b'> [b'>Where is your favorite place to shop for clothing?[/b'> Banana Republic! [b'>Guilty pleasure?[/b'> Reality tv. It's embarassing, but I can't help it. The "Real Housewives" series are a major weakness for me. [b'>Favorite hobby?[/b'> Reading. Give me a great book, or even a not-so-great one and I will get so caught up in it that I'll read the entire thing in less than a day. [b'>Favorite movie?[/b'> The Sound of Music. [b'>Pet peeve?[/b'> Messiness. I'm more than a little obsessive-compulsive about cleaning.
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Latest post on 13 October 2011 - 12:48
Thanks, ladies!
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Latest post on 13 October 2011 - 10:50
I work out at Fitness First and the trainers there are amazing! I'd definitely recommend visiting one of their locations and meeting with a trainer who can advise you properly. Other than that, in the past when I've had sports injuries I've always used swimming to stay in shape. Swimming laps is zero impact and uses almost every muscle in your body. Plus, the feeling of solitude you get with your head in the water is very relaxing. It's pretty much my most favorite way to work out! ETA: There are supplements you can take to reduce joint pain. You might visit a nutrition/health food store and ask about that. <em>edited by APetty on 13/10/2011</em>
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Latest post on 13 October 2011 - 10:26
My new employer is asking for TWENTY passport size photos. No idea why they need so many, but anyway.... Does anyone know where I can get these done around the Dubai Marina or Ibn Battuta? Back home they do them in pharmacies, but I haven't noticed that being offered here. Thanks in advance!
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Latest post on 13 October 2011 - 06:51
I'm American - ancestors on both sides fought in the Revolutionary War. My father's people came to Texas from the East Coast around the time of the Civil War, and my mother's people came to Texas from Tennessee in the 1910s. I've lived in Texas my entire life, except for one year in Mexico City. I've been in Dubai for 4 months and I love it! Both of DH's parents are 1st-generation Americans. His paternal grandparents came to the US from Japan after WWII, and his maternal grandparents came to the US from Ireland around the same time. Somehow, they all ended up in Texas by the 1960s.
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Latest post on 13 October 2011 - 06:43
Guinness: My grandparents met on the boat from Slovenia to America, so my dad was born in Leadville, Colorado. My mom was also born in Leadville, and so were my brother and I. So in Leadville (a very small town perched on top of the Rocky Mountains) was a very large Slovenian community, imported to work at a large mine. I grew up with polkas and povitiza. I loved to hear my grandparents talk, with their lilting accents. Sadly, they didn't teach my brother and I Slovenian. They were more interested in making sure we spoke proper English. On the other side, my brother and I went to powwows and were taught traditional herbal remedies by our Cherokee grandmother. I am the first person in our family to leave the USA since my Grandparents immigrated. They are all quite alarmed that I am here, and it has been a job to convince them that I like it. PS I love the answers on this thread, so many of you have interesting stories. I'm never bold enough to ask, but I do enjoy hearing about a person's cultural history. edited by Aleta on 12/10/2011 Off topic, but I absolutely love Leadville! We've rented a house there twice to spend a week skiing and it is stunningly beautiful! <em>edited by APetty on 13/10/2011</em>
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Latest post on 12 October 2011 - 19:13
If you didn't report it earlier, maybe you should call the security office at Ibn Battuta and just tell them what happened. That way, they can keep an eye out in case the guys come back. Maybe you scared them off for good by confronting them though. I once noticed a guy taking pictures of my stepdaghters as they were playing in a fountain at a park in the US. It made me feel instantly sick and angry. Fortunately, my husband was there and he took the guy's camera away and gave it to a nearby police officer. It turned out that he was a registered *** offender and it was illegal for him to even be in the park. Just goes to show that you can't be too careful where your kids are concerned!
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Latest post on 12 October 2011 - 19:08
Honestly, I never considered that someone might find that question offensive. It seems to me to be a pretty standard "getting to know you" question here in Dubai. My husband is very outgoing and so we end up talking casually with just about everyone we encounter and "where are you from?" is almost always asked at some point in the conversation; whether it's by one of us or the orther party. A lot of times, people flat-out tell us that they can't place our accents and are curious where we're from. MANY people have incorrectly guessed that we're from South Africa (we're from the US, but I guess we have pretty noticable Texas accents and I guess maybe that's why a lot people never place us as American). It honestly never ocurred to me to be offended by that. I sincerely hope I haven't offended anyone by asking where they're from!
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Latest post on 12 October 2011 - 13:37
Thank you ladies! I really just needed at least one person who had done it before to tell me that it would be okay. Y'all have really set my mind at ease! :) ETA: We went through Hatta the last two times. We were considering maybe making it an overnight trip and going to Khasab and then spending the night at RAK on friday. <em>edited by APetty on 12/10/2011</em>
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Latest post on 28 July 2011 - 15:10
[b'>Thank you ladies, so much! I'll definitely take advantage of your suggestions. Unless I find a job here, then our budget is 50,000AED. My husband's employer provides accommodations for him only, and they don't offer a housing allowance. It's just the two of us, so we're just looking for a small studio or one bedroom. If/when I find a job, then we'll probably want to move into a bigger/nicer place once our first lease is up.[/b'>
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Latest post on 28 July 2011 - 09:24
[b'>Hello all! I'm an American and recently moved to Dubai and I have tons of questions! My husband is working at Zayed Military City, but as I can't live on the base with him, we are looking for an apartment in Dubai (bit of a commute but we just don't like Abu Dhabi as much). This has proven to be more confusing and difficult than we initially thought it would be. Most of the realtors we have worked with so far have been disorganized and unreliable. I'm hoping that some of you ladies can help us out with some advice/recommmendations. Firstly, we've more or less settled on the Dubai Marina area. We've seen several apartments in Zumurud Tower and each of the Marina Diamond buildings. We really like Zumurud, but were not at all impressed with any of the Diamond buildings. It would be wonderful if any of you could recommend some nice buildings in the Dubai Marina area, so that we don't waste any more time arranging viewings for apartments that we'll hate. It's so difficult to really tell how nice a place is from the ads.... Secondly, if anyone can recommend a specific realtor (either an agency or a particular agent), that would be fantastic. As I said, everyone we've met with so far has been a total flake and it is extremely frustrating. Finally, I've been using gnads4u.com and bayut.com to search for apartments. Is there another site out there that would be good to check out? Thank you in advance for any suggestions you can offer![/b'>