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Latest post on 01 July 2011 - 08:50
don't mean to jump on your band wagon! but I too am not happy about a similar event that took place on Monday. We went out to Pizza hut as a family (the one on airport road) children (4, 7, 9 and 11) and as we were eating i noticed the content of the huge plasma TV was getting more and more unsuitable for the children (in the corner of the screen it said dracular 3000?!) anyway, after asking the children to not look and just eat (which was virtually impossible as which child is not going to want to see some gore?) I almost shot off my chair when the content turned to pure gratuitous violence (puling out hearts etc) I went straight to the waitor and asked for him to change the channel, explaining it was unsuitable for the children to see. I went back to my seat and waited, and waited! I could see the chap was busy, so thought I would give it a few mins. After 10 mins however the film came to its end, and the waitor never re- appeared to change the channel. We left soon after, with my intention to contact head office. I have however scoured the net to find an email ad to send my complaint to, and haven't managed to find one. I do believe there is an office in Abu Dhabi mall, so will head out to there. So inappropriate for any eatery, let alone a 'family' one :(
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Latest post on 20 June 2011 - 21:22
thank you everyone, will try to pluck up the courage to ring and make an appontment! I managed to get medicaion from the chemist which is the same as the ones prescribed by dentist back home, so am on those and pain killers!!
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Latest post on 20 June 2011 - 09:24
thank you anyway Highland Lass, I agree toothache is far worse than child birth!
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Latest post on 24 May 2011 - 13:16
We have 4 lovely children. We are so blessed to have them. It is not always plain sailing mind you. As with all children they are challenging and inspiring at the same time. I can not say I always agree or appreciate the challenges the children deliver on a daily basis, but it reminds me how they are all growing and learning individuals. I LOVE having a big family, and I think they do too. Yes we have to compromise on lots of things, 4 children are expensive and time though not priced is still in limited supply! I worked full time and am due to start again soon, I had no help at home, but have instilled in the kids that they must help. They all strip their beds, empty dishwasher and do their daily chores. Yes we are fortunate to have a fantastic maid now, but the children are still doing their daily jobs! 4 children = a busy, noisy, but happy house (well some of the time!!) Each to their own I guess :)
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Latest post on 16 May 2011 - 20:38
WOW what a small world!! I was at farnborough Hill for year 6 (upper and lower) from 89-91! I still get the yearly book detailing everything that is going on!
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Latest post on 16 May 2011 - 19:42
Now I feel homesick!! I grew up in Fleet (town nearby) went to school in Farnborough (good Catholic primary and then Farnborough Hill Convent school) married in Church Crookham,again lovely before heading to Uni in Exeter and settling in a small village called Warsash near Southampton. Seems really strange that we are on the other side of the world and yet so many of us come from the same places in the UK!!
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Latest post on 12 May 2011 - 17:48
Thank you so much, I will pass on the info. What I have managed to find on the internet are pretty damning reports from (I presume former) employees. However, I am always cautious to take these as gold as many poeple only take the time to write a negative report rather than a positive one, so perhaps the lack of positive blogs about the school isn't all that telling. Thanks again for taking the time to respond :)
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Latest post on 12 May 2011 - 15:03
Sorry, don't want to be naive (arrived in Abu Dhabi end of Feb, so still getting to know things!) but is she to be wary of Al Ain?
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Latest post on 09 May 2011 - 21:04
Hey Lori Pori, please don't feel like you are alone in any of this as you are not. Remember friends or even sites like this are a godsend when you are going through such tricky times. I remember sobbing, really sobbing and feeling such a failure as a mum because I wasn't coping. I used to dispise my husband leaving for work in the morning while I was left at home with a screaming, unhappy baby. I couldn't imagine why we thought it was going to be such a wonderful thing to have a baby, I was sick and tired of people stopping me in the streets telling me that my screaming child was hungry and needed feeding. I felt i was judged by everyone, and I hated every minute. I was totally exhausted, more than I have ever been in my life, but do you know what? I figured (as our family grew) that this little one was not going to bring me down and I started to put into practice sme survival techniques. I got a fantastic baby sling and would strap the child to me whilst continuing to do the household chores (cumbersome yes, but you can mop the floor and empty a dishwasher safely!) I would turn the hoover on when the crying became too much. I would go for a walk with headphones on, in the night I would ask husband to drive round for an hour just to give me some peace. I came across a wonderful 'white noise' cd that you played under the crib and it really stopped the crying instantly. I guess i just decided that enough was enough, I deaserved a life, as did the other children, and I was going to get tough. My children are all well adjusted stable kids, I don't think for one minute that my survival techniques have affected their development. Please, please keep communicating, you are not alone, and I promise you motherhood is absolutely fantastic when you get over these insurmountable hurdles..... and I can vouch for that as I have gone through it 4 times and would do it again. Please let me know if you want to talk about anything, talking and communicating will help.... I promise you. Goo luck tonight xxx
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Latest post on 09 May 2011 - 09:52
Dear all, my heart goes out to you. Reading your messages brings back so many awful memories of when my children were little babies. Firstly, please take any comfort you can in the fact that it does get easier as the children get older by the month. My first child screamed all day, would never settle more than half an hour during the day, and to say I was exhausted was an understatement. I ended up putting her on soya milk and the difference in her was amazing. In one week she had turned from a little terror to a fantastic calm baby. My number 2 went straight onto soya after a few weeks f breast feeding and all was great. My third child was protein intolerant, this was diagnosed after a stay in hospital due to blood found in his nappy (the consultant said his intestines were red raw) my son was on a very restricted diet until he was nearly 2, but once he had been correctly diagnosed (he too went down the reflux road!) he was much happier. My last child was prob the worst, and in fact due to the fact that all my children seemed to have tummy issues the consultant at the hospital also put her on a protein free formula. I can't remember the name, but we were living in the uk at the time and I know you could only get it on prescription. Please please don't feel like you are not doing a good job as you are, you are seeking as much advice as possible, but I know that doesn't help when you are absolutely at your wits end. Take every opportunity offered in terms of help. I remember a girl friend driving round to my house and telling me to strap my screaming baby in her car and she was going to drive around for an hour to give me some peace... what a friend!! If there is anything I can do to help, or talk you through then please contact me as I really can relate to everything you have written. Children are a blessing, but good God nobody points out that the initial months can literally push you near the edge!! Good luck ladies xxx
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Latest post on 24 April 2011 - 17:04
hi there I know in the uk you could get them from Claires accessories and I believe they have them here? Hope that helps!
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Latest post on 09 April 2011 - 22:51
Thankyou so much, am willing to give everything a go as don't really want to see her stop after doing it for so long.... and she is very good!!
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Latest post on 07 April 2011 - 21:15
Hi there! I felt compelled to let you know of my 4 experiences of giving birth. I can honestly say that the days I delivered each of my children were the mst precious and special days of my life. On each occasion when I felt the first contractions, my husband and I went for a long walk, and just talked and talked about how excited and blessed we felt. I then took my time and just let nature take her course. We had our first baby in a traditional hospital back in the UK, our 2nd was in a small cottage hospital, our 3rd was a water birth in a small birthing centre, and finally our last was at home in a birthing pool. My labours were not as bad as I was expecting, and i really just focused on getting the job done. i exercised throughout the pregnancies and believe that this helped me with my energy levels. All labours were pretty quick (around 4-6 hours) The birthing in water was great, the only pain relief I had was gas and air... that was fantastic (husband enjoyed it too!!) We were so connected throughout all births, laughing and just trying to work through it together. It sounds like we are the little house on the prairie couple...we are not! I just want you to try and create great memories of this exceptional and life changing event that you are so incrediably blessed to be given the opportunity to have. Please please do not worry, mother nature is fantastic, women give birth all over the world, in the most uncomfortable conditions, so just go with the flow, and I promise you, in a years time you will read a similar post, of a lady genuinely worried about giving birth, and you too will feel compelled to write and offer her the most honest, but most positive experiences that you experienced. Good good luck, i would love to hear how you get on, and if you ever want to ask me anything please feel free to contact me.xxx
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Latest post on 22 March 2011 - 10:16
Hi There, this is my first post, so new to the whole posting process! Just want to share with you our story of the schooling process. We have 4 children (years 6,4,2 and FS2) and when my husband and I came out on our look and see in Nov we were told by Al Yasmina and BSAK that is would be highly unlikely that we would be abe to place all 4 in the same school. Went home feeling very disappointed, figured we had nothing to lose by filling out application forms for Al Yasmina so spent a long Sunday evening filling in the most comprehensive forms! Had been told by Bisad that we would be able to get all 4 in, however my preference was Al Yasmina, but thought one offer was a God send so would continue with our move out here. Husband moved out in Jan and the children and i followed mid Feb. In that time we received an e mail statting that all 4 children had been accepted into Al yasmina! They started 4 weeks ago. Schooling is very important in any country, and a school is only as good as its current staff and the ethos that is promoted. (I am a teacher - primary) Remember that the children are at school for perhaps 6 hours and they have lots of holidays too, children will learn a lot from their parents and it is our responsibility to foster a love for learning, not perhaps in the conventional sit down and work with me way (as i have found this doesn't produce the best results or the happiest of child!) but in a more explore and question way. I guess what I am trying to say is firstly get all applications in and wait and see what happens, and secondly if your first choice doesn't come about, don't fret, your child will still learn if you continue to take an active part in their learning, children are like sponges drench them in this wonderful new experience they are going to have out here in Abu Dhabi.... now that is real learning! Good Luck