That's it! it's unbalanced. I feel he has and knows he has all the power. Once i saw on Oprah Goldie Hawn and Susan Sarandon say that if the woman has money she has power and not in a material way but in a day-to-day way, I don't have enough money of my own. So as a result, what we do, where we go, how we do it, is all up to my husband. It always has to be his idea. And I think it's all because he pays. He certainly doesn't see being a taxi driver (driving kids to school, piano, swimming etc....) as a job. I don't want my kids raised by a maid.
On top of that, i think he's mean intentionally. For example, things that matter to me, he will deliberately do the opposite (ie: recycling)
I've thought over and over about leaving him. I don't think I have the courage or strength (or money) and then there's the kids....
I'm basically miserable. I've taken solace in yoga classes but he makes fun of me for that and says it's a cult.
grrrrrrrr
first things first: you can get Christian louboutin at Boutique One and Harvey Nicks...not sure if there is a shop in Dubai Mall or not....
angering me....where to start?
random things that mean nothing to him like not having the courtesy to recycle a water bottle but to me it's disrespectful of the environment and what kind of example do we set for our kids
leaving the kitchen in a mess because we have someone who cleans it up (well, i do before the maid sees what a mess it is) but again, I don't want to send that message to our kids--funny enough HIS office is neat as a pin and you wouldn't dare put a thing out of place in it.
driving like a maniac (texting/talking)
and yes, expensive, ridiculous things. (BTW I don't own a pair of CL, Jimmy choos or Manolos, i just like them)
doesn't give a rat's a$$ what anybody says and can't wait for his turn to talk
just the fact that he thinks he's God's gift
