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Latest post on 02 May 2016 - 14:13
It's a difficult situation that you're in and you've already been given some very good advice from the other members in particular to seek legal advice if you're going to divorce. I don't know if your marriage is worth saving; only you know this and if it is then seek a good marriage counsellor and see if you can keep your family together. Also, I don't know if this affair is serious or is your husband just going through a mid life crisis type of fling or is he just a selfish man. He can be arrested for having an affair in Dubai/UAE as it is illegal...does he realise this fact? Anyway, only you know how much you love him and how strong your marriage is, think of yourself and think of your children...wish you all the best x
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Latest post on 02 May 2016 - 14:00
This clinic offers Glutathione, I was researching for a friend who's visiting soon and came across your post - not sure if you found anywhere else but here are their details : http://www.healthcall.ae/glutathione.html
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Latest post on 21 February 2016 - 18:20
Hi, Not sure if you received IV therapy in time for your visitors but there is a clinic in JLT that has started doing the treatment, I had it done this last weekend after fighting flu and although skeptical at first it turned out to be amazing. I believe the clinic is called healthcall, and the good thing is that they came to my flat, the nurse was very professional and explained all of the options to me. I went with a basic package but i noticed that they had lots of additional things I could have chose. I will definitely use them again next time me or my family gets sick. Thank you....I actually used the Healthcall clinic in JLT that you've mentioned although I went to the clinic direct which was convenient for me since I live nearby, I agree with you that the IV therapy was really good and helped me a lot in my time of need Jet lag and a bad cold are not a good combination especially when visitors are looming but this really did the trick for me :sick::)
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Latest post on 18 February 2016 - 18:15
I was just thinking the same :thinking:
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Latest post on 18 February 2016 - 11:26
I don't have personal experience of either of these schools but in my time in Dubai I have heard reviews about both schools, I also have friends with kids in each of these schools. From this I would choose Dubai British school, again I don't have first hand experience but this is my input. Maybe check out the KHDA reports for each school, also a visit to each school with your daughter will let you know which school gives you both the best impression..best of luck ;-)
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Latest post on 18 February 2016 - 11:14
Email insurance supermarket.com, I got great service and a better quote from them last month for our family health insurance.
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Latest post on 08 February 2016 - 18:12
Okay ladies...decided I should see what the fuss is about and venture down to Karama this weekend....what are the opening hours and where's best to grab a bargain on nice bags?
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Latest post on 07 February 2016 - 17:30
Thanks, I'll let her know.
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Latest post on 07 February 2016 - 09:28
Depends on her age but there are plenty of options for all ages - So many soft play areas have party packages, Trampoline park like Bounce, Café ceramic, Kidzania, Magic planet, Ski Dubai, Ice skating, Aquarium, Adventure HQ...lots of choice. Good luck!
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Latest post on 07 February 2016 - 09:25
There is a gluten free kitchen in DIFC...sounds like it would be worth a try.
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Latest post on 08 September 2014 - 10:29
Cant remember the restaurant names but there is one Iranian in madinat (Anar...?) that's licensed and the Arabic restaurant in atlantis is good although not been there for year or two, they had Arabic dancer when we went.
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Latest post on 07 September 2014 - 14:30
Just checking if anyone knows of any others to recommend...? On further investigations (me googling :) DH may 'just' be narcissistic which is better than sociopath too I guess. Anyway, TBH he's a bit of a chauvinist too which is why I feel he might feel more comfortable with male doctor, I don't doubt Dr Magda Zaki is good but just thinking what would be better for DH. Maybe he can relate and open up more with another man... Thanks again ladies
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Latest post on 05 September 2014 - 20:23
Dr. Magda Zaki at Dubai Community Health Centre. Thank you Sanddy_Dogg :)
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Latest post on 10 May 2014 - 13:23
Thanks doubting Thomas (love the name :), I thought about her travelling with another name but I guess no chance of that as your name must match your passport! I looked at the surviving infidelity website...if it was the right one it seems to be a US based site and made my DHs behaviour seem like a walk in the park compared to many of the stories on this site....some crazy and unbelievable affairs etc.. Thank again, apprecaite your support. I agree Sanddy _dog and so I'll share my experience.... I just called emirates and told them my cousin should have been on this flight, shes not called us...we're worried etc etc.. He was adamant that he could't divulge passengers details etc..as I'd expected....unless I had the ticket number so obviously no luck. Anyway, i dont give up easily and I tried again a few minutes later and spoke to another person... Before even asking my name he searched the flight looking for this passenger. He told me her name wasn't showing on this flight and went on to send an email to Dubai airport and the other cities airport to verify is she has departed or arrived! At this point i panicked as I already had the details I needed and told him it was fine and not to bother. It shows you how two different people can treat you in a different way as to how much details they'll give you or trust you with. Sadly my mind still wonders though....she could have flown separately, at a different time, on a different airline etc etc.. So even though I feel a bit better I'm still not fully satisfied. Thank you all for your advice, I know I have a problem with trusting and I don't know how to deal with it...it's slowly destroying me, my marriage and I'm sure will impact my kids. While I'm on if anyone can advice any good therapist for my issues I'd be most grateful. Basically been cheated in many times and extreme issues with trusting my DH and in fact most people around me, feeling suspicious all the time and very moody at times. Thanks again, off out now for a much needed swim and relax with my little ones x omg..i'm with Sandy Dogg - I too would be furious that an airline would give out my details. And in any case, if she's having an affair with a married man in this part of the world she will know how dangerous it is and may well be using a different name... I would !! Sounds to me like you need to be doing what LolaCat advises... This will only eat you up - you need to focus on taking positive steps toward getting your life back.. I don't know if it's the one LC was thinking of but there is a website/forum called survivinginfidelity.com. Good luck.
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Latest post on 10 May 2014 - 13:19
Lolacat....I was originally just going to 'unlike' your post which some others did already but I know that you are correct and have a very valid point. I needed help and this public forum is a place to ask for advice...or so I thought. I want to save my marriage if it's worth saving and what I did just now was trying to find out if it's worth saving or not. Granted what I did was not good but it has resulted in me not being in suck a dark place as I was this morning. I appreciate everyone's help and points of view. I'm off now to enjoy what's left of the weekend. You could get on serious trouble for doing what you did, there are rules in place for a reason. You need to find a lawyer and divorce your DH if you are going to behave like this. Be warned if your DH gets wind that your behaviour is becoming this erratic he could well use this against you for custody. Get a shrink, get a lawyer, speak to your close friends/family and clear your computer out of all your history . There is also a group that helps with divorce, if you do a search on here you may find the name, they can help guide you and support you. A public forum is not the place to deal with this.
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Latest post on 10 May 2014 - 12:31
I agree Sanddy _dog and so I'll share my experience.... I just called emirates and told them my cousin should have been on this flight, shes not called us...we're worried etc etc.. He was adamant that he could't divulge passengers details etc..as I'd expected....unless I had the ticket number so obviously no luck. Anyway, i dont give up easily and I tried again a few minutes later and spoke to another person... Before even asking my name he searched the flight looking for this passenger. He told me her name wasn't showing on this flight and went on to send an email to Dubai airport and the other cities airport to verify is she has departed or arrived! At this point i panicked as I already had the details I needed and told him it was fine and not to bother. It shows you how two different people can treat you in a different way as to how much details they'll give you or trust you with. Sadly my mind still wonders though....she could have flown separately, at a different time, on a different airline etc etc.. So even though I feel a bit better I'm still not fully satisfied. Thank you all for your advice, I know I have a problem with trusting and I don't know how to deal with it...it's slowly destroying me, my marriage and I'm sure will impact my kids. While I'm on if anyone can advice any good therapist for my issues I'd be most grateful. Basically been cheated in many times and extreme issues with trusting my DH and in fact most people around me, feeling suspicious all the time and very moody at times. Thanks again, off out now for a much needed swim and relax with my little ones x
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Latest post on 10 May 2014 - 11:30
I think as its on my mind I'll probably regret not at least trying to check, your option of saying she's a sister or friend might be worth a try. I know it's not a good sign on our future relationship but I can't help my feelings. Thanks again Hi ladies, many of you may recall my last message couple of months ago after finding out my DH cheated on me..again! He admitted it all but told me its over and he wants to stay together, anyway, things haven't been great and now he's gone on a business/social trip for a week. My instinct or poossibly over imagination tells me she's gone with him but I've no way of knowing for sure short of actually turning up where he is....but with 3 kids at home this is not an option. Is there any way I can find out if she was on the same flight as him....? Do any of you know any way I can find this information out? At least then I'd know exactly where I stand instead of putting myself through **** like this. Appreciate your help and support as always. Thanks in advance If you name of that woman, its not that difficult. I have called many times to different airlines including Emirates to confirm similar things.I would call and tell them that my sis/bro/friend was suppose to travel from xyz to this destination on abc flight and she/he left. Since than I haven't heard from her/him. Can you please check if they actually has traveled on this flight? And than provide them names. It always worked. At the other hand. Won't stay with a person if I doubt him this much.
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Latest post on 10 May 2014 - 10:56
What you both say is very true...thank you, as I said drastic measures. Thanks Marroosh, my hope was someone online here worked for Emirates or the airport and knew of a way to find out...my other thought was to pretend she worked for me and call them saying I suspected she'd left Duabi without my permission....drastic measures I know. :-0 Sorry but this means you are asking someone to be fired of his/her work and stand a trial. Plus as an employer you have no authority over your staff as to whether they are allowed to leave the country or not.
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Latest post on 10 May 2014 - 10:39
Thanks Marroosh, my hope was someone online here worked for Emirates or the airport and knew of a way to find out...my other thought was to pretend she worked for me and call them saying I suspected she'd left Duabi without my permission....drastic measures I know. :-0 I guess if I knew for sure that he was with her now then I'd just give up on him and move on with my life and the kids, I wouldn't try any more to keep him. If on the other hand he's innocent then I need to clear these thoughts from my mind and move forward with our relationship. I'm making myself ill and can't focus on anything, my kids already missed a friends birthday party this morning cos I forgot about it...got all this stuff on my mind. I doubt Emirates staff or management have the authority to disclose the names of their passengers, unless there has been an accident and they need to. It's like in hotels where they are not allowed to give out the room numbers of their guests. It seems you have no trust left for your husband, and rightfully so. Can you live on in doubt, with in the back of your mind that he could possibly be with someone else? I am sure it must be awful, though. What would you do though with the information if you did find out if the other woman was with him or not? Would it make a difference? I hope you find a way forward, OP. Sorry you are going through this.
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Latest post on 24 March 2014 - 13:02
why not try couple's counciling for a few months and then re-evaluate. This is what I was thinking of trying (in my calmer moods) , TBH we tried it last time and after only a couple of sessions we didn't go back but I think we should have had much more and it could have helped much more. I still remember her telling me to try not to spy on him or snoop as it wasn;t good for me (which is true I guess) but my thought was should I just let him have an affair behind my back then? Can anyone recommend anyone good for this kind of issue?
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Latest post on 24 March 2014 - 12:58
I don't know of anywhere but would be really interested if there;s such a place around here, it would be great to take him with us instead of always being left at home with the maid (although she does love him and usually spoils him too much)
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Latest post on 24 March 2014 - 12:55
No advice but thanks for putting a smile on my face ;-)
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Latest post on 24 March 2014 - 12:53
Thanks for you replies, I really appreciate all your support. At this point I just hate him and what he's done, I hate how he makes me feel and that his selfish actions could break our kids hearts if we divorce. The kids are so close to him and I know theyd be devastated by this. So I ask myself do I stick around for a few months and give it a go? Do I leave now while I have the strength and courage, young enough to move on? Do I submit myself to this life and hang in for the kids sake with the very real possibility that I'll divorce him when we're older...or on the optimistic side that we grow in love again and all ends happily ever after? Could he change for the better? That's what keeps me going. I feel like I;ve got 2 voices in my head telling me to stay or to go, Im really confused as I don't know a life except of one with him or being married with him. The complete unknown life of being a single parent with upset and possibly traumatised kids is scary but so is staying in a bad marriage with the possibility of a divorce when Im older and the kids have left home. I know Im the only one who can decide and that also scares me, in some ways it would be easier if he wanted to leave us but to put the ball in my court makes me feel so indecisive. Thanks again ladies, grateful to you all. x
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Latest post on 23 March 2014 - 11:53
Thank you all for your input, so many of you have been through similar experiences and others offer valuable points of view and perspective which is helpful. This recent affair lasted for a few months, I've spoken with the other woman and she didn't know DH was married and was upset herself with him. Our children are all under 12 years with the youngest 7. I put on a good show in front of them and our family and friends, even sometimes with DH if we're out alone. I know that only I can decide what to do and although he swears he won't do it again I remember him saying this to me when I caught him 4 years ago with having an affair for one year. Thanks again and wish you all well x
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Latest post on 22 March 2014 - 23:58
Thanks Dinks, this is exactly how I feel just now and if we had no kids I'd have left him a long time ago. I just don't want them hurt and damaged cos of DH stupidity. Appreciate ur reply so much x
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Latest post on 22 March 2014 - 23:54
You could try local schools/church halls or possibly Ductac..?
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Latest post on 22 March 2014 - 23:53
From friends recommendations theres Dr Khan and Dr Buthainah.
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Latest post on 22 March 2014 - 23:50
As KFXgirl has said it should be straightforward and can be concluded within 5-6 weeks if both parties agree, best if luck to you
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Latest post on 03 October 2013 - 22:38
Thanks, I'll check them out
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Latest post on 02 October 2013 - 10:20
Atlesta u know where they are stocked...ask them when the next delievery is and try and be the first in. They r in the pork section because the charms are made of marshmallow which contains pork gelatine Thanks, I'll do that....my research was not in vain and I'll be on standby to grab them when they appear :-)
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Latest post on 02 October 2013 - 09:53
Aargh.....just called them to check before heading out and they said they're out of stock :-(
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Latest post on 02 October 2013 - 09:48
They have it at the park n shop next to safa park on al wasl road. It is in the pork section, not sure why. I am sure you could ask someone to go in and get it for you. Great! I'll pop in there today, no problem going to the pork section I just didn't think of looking there although assume the 'charms' must have pork gelatine..? Thanx
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Latest post on 02 October 2013 - 08:04
No luck....just called them both and they're out of stock.....the search continues....
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Latest post on 02 October 2013 - 07:59
Thanks, I'll give them both a call....actually went to the large park n shop in green comm and searched the whole store.....except the pork section :-() Fingers crossed x
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Latest post on 17 September 2013 - 23:41
You could try More Cafe or The Chocolate bar in MOE. I think Jones the grocer does one too. Or high tea in Address hotel dubai marina (entertainer vouchers for this one)
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Latest post on 17 September 2013 - 23:28
I would highly recommend The Cove Rotana, stayed twice with visitors and had a great time....kids and adults well catered for and lovely setting.
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Latest post on 17 September 2013 - 23:26
Embassy empress from 8pm at Grosvener house. Free drinks and nibbles.
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Latest post on 17 September 2013 - 23:24
Thanks so much everyone. I think the lesson here is better safe than sorry, even if it seems unnecessary at the time or extrem. I guess it's still going to be peace of mind or even early detection of any possible issues. Goodnight all x Edited to add : health is wealth! <em>edited by Emirates Mum on 17/09/2013</em>
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Latest post on 17 September 2013 - 23:22
and.........nothing beats self checks either, once a month is important (always keen to promote this one as that's how I found my tumour!!!) Im religious about this. Well highlighted! Hope you are doing well now! 18 months clear and fighting fit :o)))))))))))) Hi Scribs, I got confirmation of bc this week (found by self examination previous mammogram 18 months ago was clear), seeing oncologist soon, before surgery during the next few weeks. Everything is happening so fast and can't get my head around it all, would you be willing to chat to me about your experiences as I am sure you realize talking with someone who has gone through it all would be beneficial. Sorry to have hijacked this thread, but if offered mammogram and ultrasounds I would not hesitate to have them done. Thank you Dally, wish you all the best x
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Latest post on 17 September 2013 - 20:19
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=539694446062266 FABULOUS! Love it! Thanks for sharing x Thank you for all your comments. It makes sense to get checked but I didn't want to get ripped off as you hear so many things here with unnecessary medical tests and checks etc..just to make extra money. If its something common then I'll go for it.
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Latest post on 17 September 2013 - 17:56
Hi ladies, I went for a routine smear test today; first time in Dubai and went to see Dr Anna at the DL clinic as recommended on this site, she was lovely and it all went well. I'm 42 years old with no history of gynecological issues or any other health problems. However, she's recommended that I return next week for a breast scan, mammogram and a TV scan (trains vagibal scan). I'm not sure if these are all really necessary as I thought mammograms usually started from 45/50 years or younger with a family history. I've never even thought about having a TV scan...except if pregnant which is no chance. I'd appreciate your views on this. Basically if it's common practice now and purely for my own benefit then I'll go for it, however, if it's not necessary then I'd rather not go through the additional hassle and expense. I don't mind paying if it's necessary but don't want to waste money on something that's not really relevant. Thanks in advance
 
 
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