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Evinry

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Latest post on 11 June 2014 - 21:51
OKAY.... Forgive my inaccurate wording... But the sentiment is correct .... Except in specific circumstances which I doubt this perfectly well qualified woman fills, women cannot sponsor their husbands or children(unless divorced or a widow I'm guessing).... This is linked to the Local law
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Latest post on 10 June 2014 - 14:55
Hi, we just moved and are in totally different jobs but so can't help you on the midwife thing but you have to bear in mind that as a woman you cannot sponsor you husband or child, I know that sounds bizarre but it's Sharia law and only in exceptional circumstances can you do this. It's not necessarily an issue, you husbands and child will come on visit visa's and will need to do visa runs to Oman once a month until your husband gets a job, he would then apply for residency for your child. It's not actually as complicated as it sounds but there is a bit of bureaucracy here that you wouldn't be used to. I would recommend the move though for quality of life. It's very multicultural and surprisingly liberal. if you are both professionals you will live very comfortably and it really is a great place for a family, I have a 3 and 1 year old and we moved a few months back. Do a lot of research on start up costs though as things like rent have to be paid in fail up front for the year as do other childcare costs etc. it's just the way it works. Good luck.
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Latest post on 08 June 2014 - 07:41
Sorry forgot to say if one or both get a job before leaving the UK you might get flights and they will pay for your certs to be attested, you may even get a relocation package. There is defiantly work for civil engineers and they would pay for you to go out, 2 months is probably a fair length of time but will depend on the company. If you need anything else just ask.
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Latest post on 08 June 2014 - 07:35
Hi, I moved here with my husband and 2 young kids about 2 months ago, my husband transferred with his company and I have found a job while here. I tried contacting companies direct but my CV just disappeared or only made it to HR and I got a generic letter back. I ended up using a recruitment agent and had 3 interviews almost immediately and a job in 2 weeks. I am a consultant engineer and it is getting busy here again. It possibly depends what sector you work in but I'd say use and agent, they only get paid if you get a job so it's in their interest to get you placed and for a good wage, they can also advise about any local requirements. See if you can get a recommendation for an agent in your industry or use a UK based one(assume that's where your from), there are specialist ones. If you are a professional get your degree certs, marriage certs and any kids birth certs etc attested before leaving the UK and have shipped to the UAE as you won't pay VAT on them and getting it done here is expensive, it is necessary for any visa's. It is pretty amazing here and I'd recommend the move but very expensive to start, rent for the year and any nursery fees etc have to be paid up front, we found it a similar cost to London living but all costs up front so you need a big chunk of cash at the start. Once you have a Few wages cheques in the bank though you're fine. Anyway hope that is some help and good luck!!
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Latest post on 07 June 2014 - 20:05
Hi, thanks for the feedback. We are sponsoring this lady and she has been here a few years so hopefully as you say it will be in her interest to do a good job, to be honest I think we 'll probably be the easiest job she's ever had. I'm usually such a sensible practical person but the older I get the more I realise having kids makes you turn into a neurotic mess!
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Latest post on 07 June 2014 - 19:23
Hi, I am having a bit of an irrational few weeks and I'm hoping an irrational reaction to a new situation. I've been on maternity leave for a year, moved here from the UK about 6 weeks ago. I start work at the end of June, my 3 year old and 1 year old start nursery TOMORROW(aaaahhhhh) and our new maid/nanny will start hopefully this week. We had her recommended by a friend of a friend and she is moving from a nursery, has 4 kids in the Philippines and seems as normal as someone can after meeting them twice. We have no reason to doubt she is anything but lovely and my 3 year old warmed to her immediately. Anyway I am completely freaking out, the nursery (heartbreaking) but is fine, it's safe, clean and the kids will be looked after. The maid will only have the children for 2 hours before we're home, no time but I am totally petrified she will run off with them/mistreat them/insert horrible scenario!! I really don't want to put in cameras as I feel if I need to do that I really don't trust her and therefore wouldn't want her with my kids. I know people may disagree but that is how I feel re:cameras. The whole nanny thing is so alien to me but we really don't have another choice other than me not working which isn't really an option. I'm looking for someone to tell me this reaction is totally normal and it will be okay and I'm just being crazy paranoid. Did anyone else feel like this and did you settle?? Would appreciate any experiences people had and please don't scare me too much!! Thanks