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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 05 July 2017 - 00:37
Thank you so much for the detailed response! Is there any formal or informal support group for adoptive families in Dubai? I have been asking around and it seems that the process was lengthy for some couples but rather fast for others, and I wonder if those who were able to expedite the process had done so because they were better prepared, or because the chosen country of adoption was different. Also, we are an inter-cultural family. We don't subscribe to any religion, although on official documents I'm Muslim and my husband is Christian. We registered our son as 'other' on his school application forms. Will that complicate the process for us? Thanks again! Glad to help :) There are no official organisations here but there is one support group called Adoption Support Group (ASG) and they're really great. Here's the link: https://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/asgdubai/info Synergy Integrated Medical Center and HRI Dubai both offer home study counselling sessions. Few years back it was 10,000 dirhams at SIMC. As for the religion part, I'm really not sure if the fact that you're "officially" Muslim would pose a problem. Generally, Muslims aren't allowed to adopt in the UAE. However, I don't know if they apply that to expats. It's definitely something worth looking into. Personal opinion though, when it comes to official documents, I would suggest putting a religion for the child, whichever one, just to avoid unnecessary hassles. Best of luck!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 03 July 2017 - 09:05
Hi Miray, As an expat, you can't adopt from within the UAE but you can from overseas. When choosing a country, make sure there are no restrictions from your home country (contact your embassy to check). One of the first things that you'll go through is a home study programme, which basically assesses your suitability as parents and they'll help you throughout the process. This probably takes about 8-10 weeks with weekly sessions. In the meantime, you can get in touch with an adoption facilitator/agency/lawyer in your chosen country and get your documents ready. Make sure they're reputable. Once you're matched with a child, the agency should help get a court date scheduled to get the adoption certified. Expect a lot of paperwork! Everything will have to be authenticated from all countries involved (UAE, child's home country and your home country). You'll have to get exit documentation for the child as well. The child can come to the UAE on a visit visa then you'll have to apply for their residency. You'll also have to go to your embassy to legalise the adoption and apply for citizenship from your home country. Generally, you should fly out to the chosen country at least twice - the first time to meet the child once matched and the second time for the court date and formalities to take the child. Of course, keep in mind that this is just a general idea and can be different based on your circumstances and the chosen country. Generally, the whole process would take maybe nine months without extra delays. By the way, this is all assuming that you're not Muslim, since adoption won't be recognised here and you'd only be able to sponsor/foster a child (basically just can't take your name). This can be facilitated by the Emirates Red Crescent Authority. Hope this helps!
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 28 June 2017 - 23:25
My husband never gave him permission to help himself. Actually there has been afew incidents since they have been here, i know hes been having a nose into our personal drawers and took things before. I just didnt want the upset, but this time I had lost my patience as I really think her husband thinks we are stupid. I had never met him before they arrived, as soon as I met him I knew within an hour he was dodgy. I really want to tell my friend what has happened as I feel Ive been extremely let down and I consider what he has done as stealing. He has not spoke to me since Saturday, he moves about the apartment and completely ignores me. The atmosphere is absolutely awful. It's your house. They're guests. If they don't show you respect then out the door they go. I get that you are doing this for a friend but there are limits. Has the daughter not realized how he's been acting? If he is being childish and ignoring you then I would go talk to the daughter and explain that she is always welcome at your house but if her husband keeps this up then he is no longer welcome. Alternatively, call up your friend and talk to her about what's happening and let her deal with them. If you say there's already been a few incidents, why wait until he might take something valuable or sentimental? Staying quiet won't help anyone.
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 19 June 2017 - 15:03
I'm really sorry that all this happened to you, a wedding day should never be so disastrous! I'm just wondering why you kept on trusting this wedding planner with all the red flags? If someone is ignoring my calls, coming up with lousy excuses, giving bad recommendations, etc.. I would've let them go right then and there and found someone else. Was it because you couldn't get a refund? I know the point of having a wedding planner is not to stress and just let them take care of everything, but with someone so sketchy, why not at least check that they're doing things correctly? I hope this doesn't come off as putting any blame on you, I'm just trying to understand how it got so far :(
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EW NEWBIE
Latest post on 20 April 2017 - 18:21
Just wanted to comment on a few things you said - There is no income tax in the UAE regardless of what amount of time you spent here. However, you will have to check with your home country’s laws. Usually, you can declare yourself as a non-resident for tax purposes and not have taxes on income from abroad if you’re staying for more than 6 months, otherwise you will have to. But again, check the laws in the UK. - You also mentioned tax on housing - yes there is but it's 5% (not 15!) and it's added to your monthly DEWA bill (electricity and water) - Spending only 6 months here will be difficult for a lot of things. First, if the school is offering a limited contract, then it won’t be for anything less than a year. Rent here is also paid yearly, not by month. Please please make sure you have enough money to cover your initial expenses! Rent here is usually paid in 1-4 cheques, sometimes there are rare exceptions but they will raise the price. You will also need to pay A LOT of deposits (security deposit, agency fees, electricity and water security deposit, etc) – so budget those in. You'll likely need 20,000 dirhams one shot. Your other option would be sharing (getting one room in an apartment with others). If you think you'll only be here short term, I would definitely opt for sharing. You'll still need to pay agent fees and security deposit. - I HIGHLY advise you against living in International City. It’s a very low income type of place. - The UAE labour law, article 7, indicates that the employer must pay all hiring costs. - If you aren't planning on getting a car, at least try to be near a metro. Also check if the school has public transit close by. It's a pain to get around here in the summer heat and taxis can add up. - Yes medical insurance is required by law but not dental, so don't presume it's covered and check on that if it's something important to you as it's not cheap here.