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Latest post on 17 December 2011 - 07:54
Perhaps try to find a secondhand tandem stroller? Unless you always have a second adult with you to push one of the strollers, two separate ones would be impossible to manage. All three of my little ones are close together in age so for four years I had two in a stroller. A tandem/twin was invaluable to me. I prefer one of the light-weight, side-by-side types. (mine is a Peg Perego Aria Twin, which you can't get in Dubai any longer) Some twin/tandems will still fully recline or attach a car seat for the newborn. Make sure when you 'test drive' that you put some weight in it. Some are really easy to steer when not loaded up, then a nightmare with two heavy children in them!
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Latest post on 17 December 2011 - 07:44
Tragic, can't believe he's so ill. I grew up on Coundown and Hey Hey it's Saturday, would be awful to loose such a great Aussie character. edited by littleone on 16/12/2011 I know! I think I still don't believe he's in such a bad way. :( No change today apparently. They will keep him under heavy sedation for at least another day or so to give his brain time to recover. :( Get well Molly!!! xx
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Latest post on 17 December 2011 - 07:40
Nil, is there a problem with the formula you have chosen? What are you looking for in a new one? If you think you need to change, it's probably best to talk to a good GP or paed who can match the right one for your baby. :)
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Latest post on 17 December 2011 - 07:28
In any particular area? Dr Khan at Cooper Clinic on Al Wasl Rd is amazing. :) http://www.cooperhealthclinic.com/
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Latest post on 16 December 2011 - 15:05
Lol at "a few". ;) I hope you're keeping warm over there.
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Latest post on 16 December 2011 - 13:50
... Ds has never been a good sleeper, think we attended to him so much when he was younger rather than giving him the chance to settle himself first so have shot ourselves in the foot really. PLEASE do not put that pressure on yourself. Tiny babies are supposed to be attended to. They need you to help them feel secure and safe. You have done nothing wrong! xx
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Latest post on 16 December 2011 - 13:48
Wow...you must be utterly physically and emotionally knackered. :( I have used CIO before with the assistance of a sleep specialist. With apologies for adding to your stress, I really think that if "His little voice is so hoarse with all the crying." then it's not working. :( CIO is not for every baby/toddler/family. It saved us and I'm always happy to try to support parent's trying to implement it, but sometimes you just have to admit that it's not working as you are currently doing it. Sorry. :( Did you have a chance, despite your exhaustion, to look at the Marc Weissbluth site that kiwispiers suggested? I have his book "Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child" and it's brilliant. Really easy to read, broken into sections specific to the child's age and it worked for us later on when CIO didn't. He does suggest a version of CIO in some cases, but you can absolutely follow his plan without CIO. I wish I had the book before I ever used CIO in the first place. ;) [u'>Sometimes[/u'> it really is as 'simple' as tweaking your soothe-to-sleep routine and the timing of naps & bedtime. Fingers crossed for more sleep for all of you soon.
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Latest post on 16 December 2011 - 13:32
How are you and your cat doing now JS?
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Latest post on 16 December 2011 - 13:31
Oh no...yet another vile business. From their "About us" page - "I became a breeder because I truly love the animals" C R A P!!! People who "truly love animals" will not breed without purpose and will not sell to the first person with the cash. Well, he clearly has a purpose - to take advantage of animals for cash. PLEASE do not support them. :(
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Latest post on 16 December 2011 - 13:27
Would so love to take one of these pups, fact is, they're here and we cant change that, and at least we would make the effort to take the best care of a breed not so suited to the climate, but paying for one would only encourage the owner to breed them again i think... :( Exactly...as I have said with boring repetition in the past, buying one does not 'rescue' it. Buying one ensures that the jerks who bred it have the money to produce even more. :( It breaks my heart to leave animals in pet shops, but I will not contribute to the industry.
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Latest post on 16 December 2011 - 12:39
... In the States I'm pretty sure that cots with the drop rail have stopped being sold due to the risk of the drop rail falling and pinching baby. I know some will say they are safe but there must be some merit to the safety concerns for the drop rail system to stop being sold in some parts of the world. You're right. Some will say they are safe...I did. ;) I do believe it's important to check the cot thoroughly though. We clearly got it right with ours...three active children and 6+ years later and the side has never failed. I've just done a bit of reading on the US ban. In all 32 (or 46 dep which article I read) cases, the infant deaths (tragic!!) were attributed to cheap imported cots and that those same brands had 9 million recalls in the time they were on sale. In most cases the drop mechanism was plastic and failed after lengthy use; in some cases the cot was assembled incorrectly. :( I'm sure the decision to ban them was a considered one, but it also sounds a bit 'knee-jerk'. It makes me wonder what the US safety standards were on cots available for sale at the time. Drop side cots have been used safely by many, many millions of families for generations. Sure, there is some merit to the safety concerns...in the US in that case. Other countries have some of the most stringent safety standards in the world. My only other experience is in Australia and I cannot find one reference to an infant death from a drop-sided cot. My heart goes out to those families...
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Latest post on 15 December 2011 - 12:13
We bought cots from Babyshop as they were the most sturdy in the budget market. We chose the only one they stocked at the time that has an extra brace across the bottom...makes it far more stable. It has a drop side which, for me, is the most important factor after an adjustable base height! It's SO much easier to get a baby in and out with the side lowered...especially if you end up with a bad back, as many new Mums do! I ruptured a disc before number three was three weeks old and I simply could not have gotten her in and out of a cot over a high side. Ours requires lifting the side while you simultaneously apply pressure with your knee at the base of the cot. Sounds odd but it's dead easy even with sleeping baby in arms and the side cannot drop no matter what the baby does inside the cot. ;) I *think* ours is the one labelled "rubber wood crib" on [url=http://www.babyshopstores.com/product_pages/product.aspx?CTIPTI=NC80OA=='>this[/url'> page. We ruled out cots that convert to a bed because we hoped we would have small enough gaps between children that it would be in constant use as a cot for a few years. :) My third child now sleeps in that first cot so over six years of constant service for three babies, and it's as rock solid as ever...it just has three sets of teething marks along the top. :D
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Latest post on 15 December 2011 - 10:10
You could start by contacting one of the pet relocation companies...DKC, for example, will know which animals can be moved to which countries. - http://www.dkc.ae/ The only two countries I know of in relation to tortoises...UK, Yes; Australia, No.
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Latest post on 15 December 2011 - 02:35
... There are problems in many areas but there are also lots of good things happening as well. I'd rather be home in Scotland any day. Wild horses wouldn't drag me back to the Middle East. So, with the utmost respect Joyce, I'm genuinely interested to know why you still spend time on EW. I can't tear myself away because I loved my time in Dubai and, while I'm very happy at home in Aus, I miss Dubai and my mates there. Lol...as more time passes, I do often think I need to 'rip off the bandaid' and stop checking in with EW. :D
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Latest post on 15 December 2011 - 02:31
No expert on animals here, but can huskies survive this heat? Numerous threads on this in the pets section. In a word this environment is not suitable for Huskies and they have a really really hard time of it, especially in summer. Bear in mind these are working dogs, who live in Arctic temperatures. They have specialised coats to protect them from extreme cold and cannot be clipped. Put simply, to keep these dogs in a climate like we have here is nothing short of cruelty. We've had several comments like this from total strangers since adopting our husky cross from k9. Of course they are not naturally meant to be in this environment, in addition to the weather it's nigh on impossible to find any big open areas where they can run. However, as they are bred here by some untoughtful people, in my mind they're better off with loving ffamilies if they must be here than with a shelter or breeder. Your comment that its animal cruelty is a little upsetting. Please continue this dicussion on another tread.... Of course it if difficult to have Huskies in this climate but reality is that they are here so please be pleased with everyone willing to adopt one (heard that K9 had a lot of them lately...) Can we please go back to "my" Husky...the poor guy is very unsettled, not used to being indoors and definately misses his family....anybody heard of a adult Husky going missing today in Al Barsha 2 (around street 24)?????? Lol...this is the nature of the beast is it not? There will almost always be discussion that goes a titch off topic. ;) Have you started calling all of the vets or emailing pictures to them? You could put an ad on Dubizzle; call K9; take him for a long walk around the area without drawing undue attention to yourself...you'll need proof that anyone who wants to claim him actually owns him. ;)
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Latest post on 15 December 2011 - 02:20
Here are their locations - http://www.jackys.com/retail/retail_new.asp
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Latest post on 14 December 2011 - 13:18
Our Samsung fridge/freezer (side by side) is brilliant. Six yrs old and only one part has needed replacing...that was damaged during the shipping back to Aus. Our Siemen's dishwasher and FL washing machine are also excellent. If you bake at all, spend the money on a GOOD cooker. Many of the 'cheap' ones leak heat badly through the oven door so are dreadful to bake with, not to mention the electricity wastage...
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Latest post on 14 December 2011 - 11:42
Exciting times for her!! Given that she'll get all of the medical training she needs and probably the text books too, do you think she'd be interested in books on natural birthing? If she's genuinely passionate about birth, you can't go past anything by Ina May Gaskin or Dr Sarah Buckley. :D If you have a look on http://www.bookdepository.co.uk/, shipping is free. :)
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Latest post on 14 December 2011 - 11:37
We used to take our dog to the very edge of the desert just behind Mirdif/Waqaa. Early on a Friday morning there would not be a soul there and the dog could run and sniff to his heart's content. I believe there's also a walking group that meets near the dump out there.
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Latest post on 14 December 2011 - 11:33
My friend has a CK Charles and she is fine in summer and winter, they walk with my guy in the mornings and have no issues... They have so much energy though so you have to make sure htey are adequadetly walked and given love or they will become destructive... she came home the other day to find her 2 dogs had attacked the xmas tree out of boredom..... That's classic CKC anxiety...they are not particularly high energy dogs. They are definition companion dogs and not good being left on their own (ie without human pack leaders).
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Latest post on 14 December 2011 - 03:10
Thank you all for the motivation and the reminder of the simplest things in life to cherish. Happy Holidays :) :D Enjoy Touti.
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Latest post on 14 December 2011 - 03:09
My middle girl has also always been covered in nasty bruises. No GP or Paed we've ever seen has been even slightly concerned. I'm guessing that as long as there actually was a bump or scrape and that your little one's bruises fade away in a reasonable time, there's nothing to worry about. Perhaps just wait until next time you're at the Dr and seek extra reassurance then? Have you used Arnica cream? It's a lovely, gentle, herbal remedy that helps the body to heal from bruising and strains. If you're looking for something to *do* for him, perhaps you could try that. :)
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Latest post on 14 December 2011 - 03:04
with the water,sand table- i looked at the link and it says it can even be used inside?? we dont hae a garden and know my son would love one,but how does that work? obviusly u be cleaning everything all day long then? We tried using it indoors and it was a nightmare! Sand gets EVERYWHERE no matter how careful you are! We were lucky enough to have a (tiny) courtyard that was shaded almost all day so it went back outside and he played out there on and off every day throughout the summer. Even a small balcony would be ok as it's fairly easy to sweep the sand up and put it back in. :) For a short time I did have it in a rather large bathroom with water only in it...he liked that too but I really preferred him being outside and getting some fresh air.
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Latest post on 13 December 2011 - 12:40
I di think about telling the teacher as I get on well with her but I didnt want to look like im telling tales, Im nearly 40 and can not be doing with this playground childish behaviour from another grown up woman!!! Yes, but it cannot be healthy having kids coming into class like that. Anyway,[b'> then the teacher can ask that child why and maybe get some answers[/b'>. At least you will find out what went down... No no no! I don't think anyone should be asking the children anything!! It's nothing to do with them. It's an adult issue and not for them to worry or be pressured about...they will already be aware of the tension. I think, 1972nessie, you should mention it to the teacher only so that she's aware there may be some tension the children could react to.
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Latest post on 13 December 2011 - 12:35
No school/kindy for six weeks for us now...and I LOVE the idea! I love not having to organise school lunches, get everybody dressed and out the door at a specific time etc etc. Don't try to pack in lots of activities. You'll just wear yourself out. Why not have a playdate or two at home with friends and otherwise just chill out and read stories or do puzzles together. The paddling pool and a few bath toys is a great idea too. If you want to go out, the soft play area in Mirdif City Centre is lovely...and you can take a (decaf) coffee in too. :)
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Latest post on 13 December 2011 - 12:31
I can't help with those specific areas, but why don't you spend a couple of days now having a good look around there? Best time of year to go and wander around with your husband to see what the areas 'feel' like and how safe it is for pedestrian access etc. Have a good look at the walking distance facilities. We moved house the day I delivered baby number three. You'll find it easy. ;)
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Latest post on 13 December 2011 - 12:26
I want to buy lots and spoil him but he won't remember it and will out grow toys fast. Any suggestions on what to get? I ideally would like toys to learn from - suggestions? Said in the most caring, kind voice...DO NOT BUY LOTS! ;) You're right...he won't remember. In fact, on the day he'll have no idea of what's going on anyway. :) If you buy lots now, you'll have less options down the road (learnt that one the hard way) and you set yourself a very expensive precedent. The sand/water play table was also the best gift we bought for our son, followed closely by a Tonka dump truck. Almost 6 yrs later, he still uses that one. :)
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Latest post on 13 December 2011 - 12:14
I didn't get a clip on one- I got more of a booster seat; one that sort of fastens onto a chair (any chair) highly portable and light, and once the mini seat is fastened onto your chair- you fasten your baby on the high chair :) Mine is by this italian company and it's Called Pali-Up and it grows with your child. You can get a good couple of yrs of use out of it. I got it from the dubai mom and baby show but I have seen it at the Organic Shop's baby section in Dubai Mall. Booster seat style ones are much safer too. Those that go directly on the table can make the table really unstable depending on leg strength and placement etc; and they don't fit on every type of table. The handysitt is brilliant and can be used for children up to 5 yrs old. (the 'clip on' versions will barely take a 12 month old baby) [url=http://www.urbanbaby.com.au/epages/ecomm5000.sf/en_AU/?ObjectPath=/Shops/UrbanBaby/Products/MIHS-DETAILS'>HandySitt[/url'> They used to be available at Organics...
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Latest post on 13 December 2011 - 08:28
We were always happy with http://www.aaadubai.com/ - we used the Rashidiya garage
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Latest post on 13 December 2011 - 08:26
My friends have one each for their five year old twins. They live in a quiet area with wide, quiet streets, safe footpaths and lovely parks with plenty of bike tracks. The 'scooters' still look like brand new after almost 18 months and I have never seen them move from the exact same spot in the garage. ;)
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Latest post on 13 December 2011 - 08:22
never seen any rats or boxes.. The boxes were standard issue in DSO garages. DSOA could not care less about the cruelty or follow-on impact of them. :(
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Latest post on 13 December 2011 - 08:21
...Glasses (for me at least) were NOT cheaper in Dubai. I ordered mine online from the UK and paid about AUD$75, where the stores were quoting me upwards of 800dhs!! $75?? I can't even get just poor quality frames for that here.... Wow...I just had a look on good old Spec Savers' site. It's possible to by complete glasses for $39!! My lenses alone are over $300 so I can't afford to put them in frames that will only last 5 mins. :(
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Latest post on 13 December 2011 - 08:19
How much is electricity in Australia? If Dubai is cheaper then I can't imagine how much it is in Aus! When we were in Dubai we never paid more than 1300dhs per month for electricity AND water. Our houses were all bigger than the one we're in now and, obviously, fully air-conditioned. . But things have changed now, it is entirely possible you would pay 6000 dhs instead of 1300 dhs if you were in Dubai now In one year? People were paying that much when we were there. I always used to think ourselves very fortunate to have more reasonable bills than others. We were in Mirdif then DSO. If that's the case for everyone, we would have had to leave anyway. Who can afford to spend that percentage of a salary on utilities???
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Latest post on 13 December 2011 - 08:10
... green-ish your post sounds like us at home 5 years ago...how do people on lesser salaries get by? It's no wonder I keep reading articles about growing poverty, and as for being able to own your own home... I don't know aroha. It's a blinkin nightmare to be honest. Someone asked on here about min salary in Aus to rent a nice house, have two nice cars, private school, eating out, occasional travel etc. At the time I agreed with others who suggested 150K min. Now I think even that would not be nearly enough...not nearly. There's a camping spot not far from us that's become locally infamous for all of the families now living there, sometimes for free, because the private owners have opened their land and facilities to people who just cannot afford a house, electricity etc. I do not know how people on minimum wage here shelter, feed and clothe themselves. I guess that's true almost worldwide though isn't it?
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Latest post on 13 December 2011 - 07:58
...Glasses (for me at least) were NOT cheaper in Dubai. I ordered mine online from the UK and paid about AUD$75, where the stores were quoting me upwards of 800dhs!! $75?? I can't even get just poor quality frames for that here. Thanks for the tip. :) I'll investigate ordering online. How did you go about getting the lenses 'centred' correctly in the frame for your eyes? I have astigmatism and with my 'script, can never have stock lenses. They are always ground to order and I have to pay extra for 'thinner' lenses so I'm not walking around in coke bottles. ;) My current glasses cost me a shade under 700dhs in Dubai. Same 'script here with lesser quality frames will be at least AU$750...again with cost of living here, we can't afford private heath at the moment so no rebates for us. <em>edited by Green-ish on 13/12/2011</em>
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Latest post on 13 December 2011 - 03:57
They are everywhere - you see the black rat boxes all over the place. Remove the source of food from your garden and they won't be interested. Those black boxes are an environmental nightmare. They poison the rats who then wader off somewhere else to die. Sick or dead rats are eaten by other native and non-native animals, condemning them to to same cruel, slow death. I know many could (sadly) not care less about the painful death of the rat, but what about the local fox? The caracal? Local birds of prey? Even feral cats and homeless dogs?
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Latest post on 13 December 2011 - 03:53
They are everywhere - you see the black rat boxes all over the place. Remove the source of food from your garden and they won't be interested. Not quite true, as I still have them runnign around in the garden at night and there is NO food source what so ever! Really? No plants? No seeds? Not a single human or animal food scrap? No wood? No tree bark or roots? No water source? Rats will search everywhere for anything to eat or somewhere to nest...or they could be passing through to get from their nesting site in your roof tiles to get to the cat food next door (as common examples).
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Latest post on 13 December 2011 - 03:27
I... Booze for home consumption is cheaper here... I don't drink very often so forgot about alcohol. Again, beer, spirits and Australian wines are cheaper in Dubai than they are here due to all of the taxes we pay on alcohol.
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Latest post on 13 December 2011 - 03:25
How much is electricity in Australia? If Dubai is cheaper then I can't imagine how much it is in Aus! When we were in Dubai we never paid more than 1300dhs per month for electricity AND water. Our houses were all bigger than the one we're in now and, obviously, fully air-conditioned. Where I am now we have tank water so pay for electricity alone. I have a gas cook-top and solar hot water and no AC, yet our equiv of 'DEWA" is just over 1000dhs per month. Next year Australia's new Carbon tax comes into play which will add a minimum of 10% to that (more for higher income earners I believe) AND all of the electricity on-sellers are increasing their charges. It's estimated that household electricity here will double for some homes over the next 12 months. Seriously, if we were ever to return to Dubai, I would not spend a second whining about the cost of living. Aus used to be 'good value' but in just five years that changed to a degree I would never had thought possible. My husband earns a very good wage by Aus standards and some fortnights we struggle to pay the bills.
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Latest post on 13 December 2011 - 03:13
I would definitely be interested in a Nappycino morning! One problem for me...I live in an apartment and don't have anywhere to dry the nappies in the sun...do you think this is a problem...I hope not! :( Hi gingercat. Of course you can use them in apartment life. :) It's absolutely fine to wash nappies and put them through the clothes dryer (according to the manufacturers instructions). In your case there are two reasons you would want to find some sun...if baby is unwell or if you get any staining after washing. The sun will kill any residual bacteria and remove all stains (except paracetamol for some reason!). If you can, put them in direct sun through a window or on the balcony for just an hour, then finish them in the dryer if necessary.
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Latest post on 13 December 2011 - 03:04
... We can try again ladies if anyone willing to meet up What about a park since weather is so nice Or a coffee shop Somewhere convenient for the majority Beginning of next year may be best Hi pancakemum. If you want to try and arrange a Nappycino :D, it would be a good idea to run it past the EW admin first. They always used to be very supportive of these information sessions...best to double check since it's been some time and given the rules about meets outside of EW events etc... If admin isn't keen on a separate meet, maybe ask about incorporating it in one of the existing mum & baby meets? I hope you can pull one together! It's SO lovely to be able to show nappies to new Mums and share our research about what works and what doesn't etc.
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Latest post on 12 December 2011 - 15:28
One year back in Aus now and here's what I find was WAY cheaper in Dubai: - petrol - cars and all related expenses - all medicines except those related to mental health - services like cleaning, gardening, car washing - children's clothes...in the sales really. Never get things here as cheap as a H&M, MC, Pumpkin Patch or Carter's etc sale - dental care - glasses and contact lenses - local fruit and veg - meat (Aus beef is cheaper there than it is here!) - mani, pedi, haircut & colour - eating out - white-goods and other electricals - mobile phones - IKEA (a good 20% cheaper in Dubai) - soft drinks & bottled water (blinkin' 20dhs for a six pack of diet coke cans here!) - anything at the souks (spices, fabrics, pashminas) - electricity *sigh* I had better stop there. Where's that positive thinking thread again????
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Latest post on 12 December 2011 - 15:14
Thanks Claire and roysie...you've just made me smile too. :) I've had a horrendously crappy day and thought I needed to re-read my own post to get myself back into a positive frame of mind. :D Right...pot of tea it is then!
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Latest post on 12 December 2011 - 15:12
Oh Enigma...I'm so sorry things are so stressful for you. Apologies for being brief... Have you got a good paed who's helping you through this? Have you tried a IBC Lactation Consultant to help you with breastfeeding? Who suggested the formula top ups? Is someone supporting you though all of this? Changing formula may not help at all, best to talk to a paed with a genuine understanding of infant nutrition. It's scary how many practice and have NO CLUE about breastfeeding and nutrition. I have to run. I hope someone comes along and can be more helpful! Best wishes. xx
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Latest post on 12 December 2011 - 14:41
It's really easy. Take your keys and some ID to any post office. Takes about three minutes. I even got a pro-rata refund for the reminder of the year.
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Latest post on 12 December 2011 - 14:38
Oh...on brands...if you don't want to try a lot before you settle on your perfect set, I think you can't go past itti bitti or tots bots. (ETA - My fav's because they both work brilliantly, last forever and are mostly natural fibres. I don't love 100% synthetic nappies like BumGenius and Baby Cheeks but that's just my environmentalist-ish personal preference. BG's and BC's definitely do the job). itti bitti (Aus brand) - http://www.ittibitti.com.au/ Tots Bots (Scottish) - http://www.totsbots.com/ With the utmost respect to Sophia...as I say with anything like this, please check with the manufacturer that any brands she carries will be backed by their warranty. Cloth nappies are brilliant, but there are sometimes faults and you need to know your investment is covered. It would also be worth sitting down with her and looking at the nappies. There's no faster way to learn about the different styles than by actually looking at them. Is anyone still running Nappycino's???? <em>edited by Green-ish on 12/12/2011</em>
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Latest post on 12 December 2011 - 14:32
... Having said that, one of my friends in Dubai who has recently being a dad and who is a very keen environmentalist told me that it is very difficult to use washable nappies and they are not trying because to wash 10 nappies a day is quite a lot of work.... NO NO NO NO NO!!!!! I'm a mad keen cloth nappy advocate and we MUST NOT spread such nonsense! :D LOL I started using cloth nappies when my second child was born...I had two in nappies so the disposable land-fill contribution was making me sick! I switched and never looked back. Those same nappies that I bought over four years ago are still being used on my third child and almost all are perfectly good for another baby...I'll be offering them free to good home (in Australia :) ) in a few months. If you get yourself well set up, cloth nappies literally mean a sealed storage bucket and one extra load of washing every two days. Does that sound like "quite a lot of work"??? There is no soaking, no special chemicals or soaking solution required...just wash in non-bio detergent and dry in the sun. Especially in the early days, newborn nappies just go in with the rest of the wash so there are no 'extra' loads! A thorough wash and drying in the SUN will ensure everything is clean and hygienic. The single best resource I ever found for getting started is http://www.thenappylady.co.uk/ - click on the 'advice' tab near the top and there's an obligation free advice sheet to fill out. Every parent considering cloth nappies should do this form!!! In a nutshell...when you are considering cloth nappies, you need to think about WHY you want to use cloth. The honest answer to that question will determine which way you should go in the minefield that is selection-of-your-ultimate-cloth-nappy. :D Reasons: [u'>To save money[/u'> - cheapest is terry flats or pre-folds with a modern, fitted leak-proof cover. [u'>For the environment[/u'> - Bamboo is the way to go. It is the most environmentally friendly natural fibre out there. It's also far more absorbent than any other natural fibre. Organic cotton is possibly the next best bet, but if you're passionate about the environment, you'll know there's no such thing as 'green' cotton farming! [u'>'Cause there's nothing a cute as a cloth bot[/u'> - If money is no object, then there is an endless array of utterly gorgeous, often one-of-a-kind nappies out there. Yes, there is every chance you'll start choosing your baby's clothes according to the nappy you'll pair them with. :D Doing the Nappy Lady questionnaire will also teach you a lot about the types of nappies...flats, pre-folds, pockets, AIO, AI2 etc etc etc Once you've done the questionnaire, you will be presented with various suggested nappies. You *can* buy a full or trial pack of your chosen nappies...Nappy Lady prices are a tad higher than elsewhere, but you'll get free advice and support for the life of your nappies!! (note...the questionnaire really is obligation free. You can just use it for information gathering and not make a purchase) A couple of facts made my decision to switch very, very easy. - It takes more water to produce ONE disposable nappy than it does to wash a cloth nappy for the entire period of its use on a baby/toddler - Every single disposable nappy EVER MADE is STILL in landfill somewhere in the world. That's SHAMEFUL! - Even budget disposables will cost a minimum of 3500dhs (very conservative) from birth to potty training for one child. Use premium nappies, and you can double that. If you're on a budget, you can be set up with cloth nappies for well under 1000dhs and use those same nappies now and for one or two subsequent children. OK...enough for now. I could talk all day about cloth nappies!!! edited by Green-ish on 12/12/2011 <em>edited by Green-ish on 12/12/2011</em>
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Latest post on 12 December 2011 - 14:04
Wow Sweetlily...GREAT post! That's one we'll need to keep track of for next time this comes up. :D
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Latest post on 12 December 2011 - 01:49
I wish I can stop stressing myself but it is out of my hands.... No it's not. JS, I genuinely think you need to work on your ability to relax and look at things from a calm point of view. Some people can find ways to do this on their own; others need sometimes professional help. Given the significant health issues you already suffer, you NEED to start taking care of yourself JS. Like a mother of small children NEEDS to be healthy to care for her children, so you NEED to be physically and emotionally well so you can take care of your animals. It's always upsetting to see our pets unwell. It's always frustrating when we get conflicting information from the professionals we are trusting to care for them. It's not normal or healthy to suffer such stress as I 'hear' in your posts. From the bottom of my heart, PLEASE take steps to care for yourself. I think you need to talk to a trusted doctor who can help you to strengthen yourself and give you tools to reign in your stress. Your Dr might have to refer you to a specialist. Trust me, seeking help and getting truly well is like waking after living in a fog for years. The world is brighter on the other side. Be kind to yourself. xx
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Latest post on 11 December 2011 - 12:22
My rabbit have fur mites and i wud like to get something for it. does anyone know if theres a "pet pharmacy" here? shes scratching her skin out... Probably only the vets?