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Latest post on 20 March 2011 - 14:46
Maybe count yourself lucky you have a job as many people might be grateful to have yours.
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Latest post on 20 March 2011 - 14:45
Medi centre is not an A and E Dept, American Hospital near Wafi is 20/25 mins . Hi, can anyone advise where is the nearest, child friendly A+E department/hospital to Arabian Ranches. I know of Medi Centre in Motor City but not always open. TIA
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Latest post on 20 March 2011 - 14:40
Wise, this I used to do as not everyone understands RSVP. I stopped writing RSVP after my child's first party here when only 10 responded that they were coming and 19 showed up, all nationalities I might add. I now put "Please contact me and let me know if you can or cannot make it" - can't be much clearer and put telephone number and email
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Latest post on 20 March 2011 - 08:00
That is great. It is the job of a doctor to look after patients is it not ? and with infection levels over 20 times the norm I would certainly hope doctors would follow up immediately. Customer service and patient care.
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Latest post on 20 March 2011 - 06:18
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that Person.. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need You have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with Guidance and support, To aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, This person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an End. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire Fulfilled, their work is done.
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Latest post on 20 March 2011 - 06:16
It is awful but this happens so much these days,people do get sick and cannot attend things but sadly not always the case. I also do wonder if there is too much pressure on parents to spend money on gifts, gifts for children, gifts for teachers, gifts for adults you don't know very well, gifts for people leaving you probably will never see again and have not been a close friend, gofts for collegues at work. Is it too much pressure ? It all adds up and may not be much to some people but is to others. ???????????????????????? I was at a one year old birthday party today, one didn't cancel at all, 4 just cancelled today. For me this is rude, the mum was almost into tears...plenty of food was thrown into the rubbish.Needless to say that the mother won't invite them again...
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Latest post on 20 March 2011 - 06:11
If carrefour was open at 8am , people would probably go there after school drop off as many schools start at 7.30 ish don't they ?
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Latest post on 19 March 2011 - 22:44
Was that through NHS , it seems very very cheap if private. It was £175, so about AED1000?
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Latest post on 19 March 2011 - 22:43
Did you have it done her in Dubai ? How much did it cost ? I had the gastric band put in about 8 months ago and I've lost 25 kilos so far - I have 15 kilos to go! Everyone's wondering how I lost the weight but I just tell them that I'm extremely busy these days. They also tell me that I look much younger than before - then I realized that excess weight really does make women look older. Anyways, best thing that I've done. It took a lot for me to get in there and do it, but I'm so glad I did. I'm fitting into my pre preganancy clothes, shopping is amazing, and I feel more energetic. Highly recomended - might be a bit scary at first, but you'll fall into it easily
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Latest post on 19 March 2011 - 22:35
Reading this has made me smile , gosh i know how you must have been , have been there in similar situations. Unfortunately people won't intervene as most of the time it would be frowned upon . Its a shame as a village raises children ( or used to ) not just a parent and if we all helped one another more the world would be such a better place. well, I didn't see the original post, but you know what, if I'd been there, I would have offered some help... and maybe even ushered her off for a coffee afterwards. This is from someone whose DD's last major public tantrum drew spectators and when, through hyperventilating screams, she indicated that she was then going to wet herself in the middle of the passageway, saw me, with 13kg of DS unceremoniously rugby-balled under one arm, drag DD along to the toilets (she refused to walk), again screaming to the extent that a security guard loitered outside, presumably to make sure that I wasn't actually killing her. Out of all the staring bystanders, NOT ONE offered to help out, not even to hold DS's hand when he was trying to run away. I can tell you right now, that if any one of them had muttered that I was a bad mum at that point, I would have told them that they can deal with it and gladly walked off. If any of you out there have a tantrumming child in a public place and a brunette 30-something gives you a sympathetic smile... it's me.
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Latest post on 19 March 2011 - 22:29
Ask sponge monkey, but this thread is ancient. Exactly what I was thinking. Do people not check dates? :) and what would be an appropriate punishment for this sin? or perhaps she dregged it up on purpose due to the unrest (sounds pathetic, calling it unrest)
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Latest post on 19 March 2011 - 22:28
Why would one check dates if it is the current section, SpPonge money brought it back to life ask her but this thread is ancient. Exactly what I was thinking. Do people not check dates? :)
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Latest post on 19 March 2011 - 22:26
Why raise an old post Sponge monkey ? ;)
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Latest post on 19 March 2011 - 22:12
Under the current unrest in the M E why put yourself in a higher risk situation if it not essential. My husband is going to Sana'a for 2 days and asked if I wanted to join him. I have read that it is in 1000 places to see and is supposed to be stunning, however I am apprehensive about the safety
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Latest post on 19 March 2011 - 22:07
Oh Yes parenting is the toughest job but ignoring their children who then upset others is not fair but people are not interested in the impact they have on others with their noisy children. Parents today think they should be able to take their children everywhere, concerts, rugby, tennis, restaurants etc etc etc All mothers have to endure children misbehaving at some point in time. What really annoys me though is those parents who allow their kids to run about in restaurants unsupervised just so they can have peace and quiet to have their meal: ironically these kids always mess about at the other end of the restaurant disturbing other diners from enjoying their evening out, and the parents just come along and collect them on their way out the door as if nothing has happened. :(
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Latest post on 19 March 2011 - 22:03
No one has said you in particular haven't tried or you in particular are not in control. It is difficult to manage small children . No one is having a go at you. Hand straps and harnesses are practical and useful. I've tried that thank-you! A harness for toddlers, fine (I use one for my DS who is 2), but not so easy on a 4 year old. I don't care about whether it's fashionable or not. Just because I chose not to use one for my 4 year old, doesn't mean I'm not in control. Yes she has wandered off if something (usually the sweetie aisle) distracts her, but believe me she is learning!
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Latest post on 19 March 2011 - 22:01
Why get upset. No one is the perfect mother but certain things help and reins and hand straps do and yes I had active children even when using these . Well if your brother escaped imaging if he never had them it may have been tougher for your mother so bet she was glad to use them. I am not having a go at you but just saying why parents don't use these things as they will help. How wonderful it would be to be the perfect parent and have the perfect kids!!! I used reins with my twins. They ALWAYS went in opposite directions. To this day, still hard when I have to go shopping with them (no maid!) and their younger sibling. My Mum used reins with my older brother who is over 40 now....and he still managed to escape and nearly get run over on, what would now be considered, a quiet street.....Mum in the shop...it gets easier, you will still have to go shopping but the little ones will learn to realise they can help out. One, two, three....or more.....it is not easy to do everything. We've all been there....as many posters have said.
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Latest post on 19 March 2011 - 21:45
This is true , but one thing I have noted here in Dubai is many teachers in some schools either seem to come from the Uk or India and have a major influence and as they have not worked in many countries can be narrow in approaches and understanding of other cultures. I think if more teachers were better travelled/ worked in a number of countries and not just with their own nationality the children and parents would benefit more. I think however it's approached, the school is a great cross cultural faciltiator.
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Latest post on 19 March 2011 - 21:36
What's wrong with parents today, why don't they use a harness or hand strap to hold onto the children and reduce stress for themselves and everyone else. Children of days gone by did ok by them and were more in control of their parents are not racing around all over grocery store etc etc. Not fashionable now I am told ! I can totally sympathise with her. My 4 year old daughter will frequently run off in a store when I'm doing a big shop and have my younger DS in the trolley. I want to go today, but the thought of taken them really feels me with dread. I may wait until tomorrow morning and just take DS with me when the other is at nursery.
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Latest post on 19 March 2011 - 12:47
Would it not be better for teachers to teach the actual children and put it in the curiculium. When I was in school we we taught to write letters and thank you notes. Why teach these adults ? Maybe put it in one newsletter but not every weekly email. I think that this would be a good opportunity for everyone to ask the school to add a note in their next 'weekly email' asking parents to take the time to respond to bday invitations. We can use the schools to educate those who think rsvp'ing is a situational thang. Great idea.
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Latest post on 19 March 2011 - 12:19
Wendopia What is there to be terrified about ? Nervous maybe. No one is going to kill or hurt you. Am about to start planning my sons party and now I am terrified after reading this thread! LOL I cannot afford to invite his entire class, so I was just going to let him invite a selected few. He takes the school bus, so I was going to ask the teacher to distribute them to the children's parents (but now after reading what the teacher wrote about how that is a bad things to do, I am stumped). Why does this have to be so complicated. We are going to do a small birthday at home (like we always do) but will people show up, or is that not fancy shmancy enough for here? (been here for only 4 months, so clueless).
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Latest post on 19 March 2011 - 12:13
I think it is very unfortunate that people in today's world have not been taught the nice things of life one of which would be to reply to an invitation yes/no or not sure at presnt but will know by Thursday if that is ok as my husband may be working. The other nice thing paopla have lost is the ability to pick up the Phone, most just text and i have found myself falling into it but try to remember phone sometimes. It is not just Dubai ! I ended up cancelling an outdoor event today (not a child's party as the thread title indicates but a gathering for grown ups) due to lack of response and have read through this thread trying to have the slightest understanding of why people do not RSVP and still do not have a grip on it - other than Gleeky saying she does the opposite of what I would call "regrets only" of an RSVP. There doesn't seem to be a solution!
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Latest post on 19 March 2011 - 12:07
Why is it some people are always looking to cause an arguement ? SW .... I cannot write what I want LOL
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Latest post on 19 March 2011 - 12:03
Not so , it can be kept in the fridge for 2 days ( not 2.5 days) depending on the time it was made. It needs to be sealed in a container or cling film. Haven't poisoned anyone in over 50 years and do know a thing or two about food. batter mix should only be kept for a couple of hours in the fridge covered with cling film, not two days! LOL
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Latest post on 19 March 2011 - 11:58
It is very costly also. Too many go to University now and have weaked the value of the degree. Alot have big debt when they leave. I had a look at DC website and I was quite surprised to see that only one child went on to Oxford. Not all children have the desire to go to Oxbridge. :)
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Latest post on 19 March 2011 - 11:56
V P will you stop justifying yourself on such a minor matter . There are too many poster on EW who have a go at people all the time and think it is funny but they don't care they prevent many others who would have good things to contibute from doing so. Good you pointed out to her it was going abit far. It appears some posters have nothing else to do but post on EW all the time and not necessarily constructive posts. we used to have a chilled water dispenser outside our wall for ANYONE to get a drink from, but a construction site started taking the water by the bucket load for construction purposes and then one worker was found kicking the machine because the water was running to slow out of it....
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Latest post on 17 March 2011 - 18:22
Naturally Thinks it depend how long they are married. One couple it stated apparently have xxx 6- 7 times a day if I recall correctly . . That has to be a tale that was told by the male of the couple!
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Latest post on 17 March 2011 - 17:55
I don't know anything about rabbits habits so agree a definition may be in order. Ha ha...Maybe we should define what we mean by 'at it like rabbits'! What would be considered normal for a couple anyway - that have been married for 1 year? 5 years? 10 or more? Do you think that couples that are at it like rabbits are in fact happy though? I'd have thought they were abnormal and sore.
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Latest post on 17 March 2011 - 17:48
Thinks it depend how long they are married. One couple it stated apparently have xxx 6- 7 times a day if I recall correctly . Where do they have the time if they work or one of the couple works, maybe they don't and wonder how long it will last and do they take anything to help that level of activity .
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Latest post on 17 March 2011 - 17:39
Your 2 questions on the heading of your thread. Are E W users intelligent . So where are your brains now ????????? Ha ha ha ha Yes and yes To what? LOL <em>edited by jewelsmiddle on 17/03/2011</em>
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Latest post on 17 March 2011 - 17:38
Didn't hear the whole show so didn't get that impresion but I may also have switched off as I do wonder if there is too much emphasis on xxx like too much emphasis on people living the high life and forgetting the basics of looking after one another and caring for one another in a marriage through its ups and downs and not always expecting instant gratification. Well [b'>MISS[/b'>Swann, had quite a bit to say about it and was very critical of those of us who have been married for a while who made any form of joke towards marriage. I almost called in and asked how she could even pass comment, not ever having been married en all! LOL Anyway to keep our marriages strong we should be all at it like rabbits accordingly. LOL oh LOL
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Latest post on 17 March 2011 - 17:34
Yes and yes
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Latest post on 17 March 2011 - 17:32
Silicon Oasis is a another place Arabian Ranches, Falcon City and The Villa would be the easiest places to live I think. They're about 20mins away from the school.
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Latest post on 17 March 2011 - 14:16
Thank you for your explaination and pleased to see you are aware of differences of the term in countries in the world but unfortunately many people do not , hence my comment , "Who really understands the term organic ". This term can be loosely used in some countries and as food is sent around the world there are times when we purchase organic and it may not be as organic as we think. What is your understanding of organic ? Chickens in the UK are not always the best and how many buyers are fooled by the people they deal with and do not even realise it. Who really ubderstands the term organic ? I do. For me, it'd be a product that has been produced without using commercial pesticides, fertilisers or GM elements, in a manner that respects the environment and is sustainable. In terms of production, it also involves not using any artificial colourings, flavourings or other additives. I would also argue that you have to also consider food miles as part of the organic process, so the act of shipping/ flying "organic" produce half way across the world to put on our shelves goes against the philosophy behind it. I know that the Soil Association (UK) has amongst the most rigorous criteria in Europe, so I trust that above all other organic certifications. For example, a farm needs a 3 year transition before being able to call its produce "organic". French organic certification allow some pesticides that the UK doesn't. In essence, it's the kind of food you would be able to produce at home (if you had lots of land and an amazing herb garden!). Oh, and just a little gem to finish... did you know that Xanthan gum is produced from the secretions of a bacteria that grows on cabbages? Hmmm.... yummy! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Xanthan_gum edited by Hello.Again.Kitty on 17/03/2011
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Latest post on 17 March 2011 - 14:06
I found a long worm yesterday in my soil when the gardener was mixing for repotting for plants. Good sign to have them. definatly caterpillers !! there are no worms in dubai ! pick them off and feed them to the birds x
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Latest post on 16 March 2011 - 21:17
Its always doing the rounds . Well, there is in our house anyway. Horrid,, horrid cramping at the top of the abdomen, vommiting and the other end too..... Does anybody else have it/heard of it doing the rounds? Please someone come on and tell me it's just a 24 hour thing......
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Latest post on 16 March 2011 - 21:13
1 in 6 people have hearing problems as they get older. Loud sounds may have something to do with it so maybe wisher to try and get a baby sitter. Thinking About going to Stevie Wonder concert,.. would it be ok to take my 9 month along? Our nanny cant baby sit on fri night.
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Latest post on 16 March 2011 - 20:39
What is your understanding of organic ? Chickens in the UK are not always the best and how many buyers are fooled by the people they deal with and do not even realise it. Who really ubderstands the term organic ? I do.
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Latest post on 16 March 2011 - 20:37
Well hung meat is a deep red colour . It's not just the Chicken... the Spinneys Beef Sausages, which my kids loved, are now 'bright red'... but at least the ingredients notes "colour" as one of the ingredients... unfortunately it does not note "Which" red colour they use... and my DS1 is highly sensitive to these artificial colours... my opinion is that if the meat on its own does not make a lovely pink sausage, then there is something wrong with the meat! I'm moving more veggie every day... and it's not because I don't like meat!!
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Latest post on 16 March 2011 - 20:33
Interesting and yes do all products in Europe or USA have the same standards ? I do not think so . Companies produce different items to different specifications and we consumers would be mistaken to think every item we buy in a European country is manufactured to the same level and ingredients and the same goes for U S A/ North /South America oe other regions. I don't think it really possible to compare prices in Dubai with around the world? When comparing prices, you compare like for like and the quality of produce/items here is like chalk and cheese compared to the western world. Yes (some items) in Europe, USA, UK, Australia etc may be more expensive than Dubai, but look at the quality of produce, meat, milk, bread you get with your shopping in these countries, compared to the stuff here! The Colgate toothpaste sold here is made in KSA. Sorry but I won't buy it - the regulations for food manufacture here is too hazy for my liking. So many times I've checked out pre-packaged food items (from UAE) and the "E" ingredients are things I've never heard of. Even washing powder, yes, it's cheaper here than home but then it doesn't seem to work! And there was the stories a few months ago regarding the local produce that was watered with sewage waste. Hormones in the milk. You can keep your weekly shop down to a minimum if you really try, no doubt about that, but if you opt for mainly regional goods, but you get what you pay for, look at the quality (or lack of) you are actually buying and taking into your home. If you stick to all imported stuff, then yes, your grocery bill will be insane. There is just no way to win ;) edited by Pomegranate on 16/03/2011
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Latest post on 16 March 2011 - 20:27
Unfortunately we pay less of a percentage on food now then many years ago and have got used to cheaper food but some still expect excellent quality. With the times we are in I find it hard to pay higher prices for good quality food but reading some of these threads I do wonder at times do some people know what they are talking about ? On a bad day we might think something is terrible but on a better day it might be ok. Chickens in the UK are not always the best and how many buyers are fooled by the people they deal with and do not even realise it. Who really ubderstands the term organic ?
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Latest post on 16 March 2011 - 20:17
Gosh very very rare but good to learn it happens ! The check out girl at the supermarket noticed that the toilet bleach had leaked onto the minced meat (it completely escaped my attention). She swiftly went on to asking a helper to get another bleach and another packet of mince. They even went to the trouble of making sure that the new packet of mince weighed the same as the previous one, by adding more and repackaging it. How good was that of them. I didn't even have to ask or try to explain anything which I usually find quite painful, it all just happened. Anyway, just thought I'd post.
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Latest post on 16 March 2011 - 20:14
Please explain someone ? getting closer to the 25th.....dum de dumdum So whats happening on the 25th ???
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Latest post on 16 March 2011 - 20:09
Yes like Many I compare prices but is not easy to keep it up as constantly changing but i do not necessarily find LU LU cheapest , yes for some products but think it can be a misconception. One really needs to keep going around the stores and keeping and eye on prices and remembering as we all forget or think we remember correctly as the years go on but may be mistaken. How many pepole actually check their receipts after they purchase and spot errors ? and then actually get the refund ?
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Latest post on 14 March 2011 - 17:31
Start contact shipping companies or check with the airline also if you can ship seperatly in cargo and may be cheaper. Would she need the equipment when she comes back . You may find if you can to have a set here and one there if its feasible.
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Latest post on 14 March 2011 - 17:10
Do a search for this on EW and info may help you. » HELP - WASPS IN GARDEN ARABIAN RANCHES - what do i do?
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Latest post on 14 March 2011 - 16:51
NO Correction i should have put body part/ organ donations Yes who would have said in days gone by this was not possible. Many have said many things in the past because they could not believe it was possible and in many cases poeple have been proven wrong. We are a very different world to 100 years ago. [ [b'> So are you suggesting there is some truth in the posted links and you are a believer in such claims (Japan)?[/b'> edited by Sticky Wicket on 14/03/2011
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Latest post on 14 March 2011 - 16:34
Correction i should have put body part/ organ donations Yes who would have said in days gone by this was not possible. Many have said many things in the past because they could not believe it was possible and in many cases poeple have been proven wrong. We are a very different world to 100 years ago. And how many said the same when they suggested one day people would have body transplants ? Oh for goodness sake! Is that why I have a different body now to the one I used to have? Did I get a transplant in the night? edited by spongemonkey on 14/03/2011
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Latest post on 14 March 2011 - 16:21
And how many said the same when they suggested one day people would have body part/ organ transplants ? <em>edited by jewelsmiddle on 14/03/2011</em>
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Latest post on 14 March 2011 - 15:27
I would check with parents of specific children as you may be able to use camel milk instead of cows and the same goes for other food intolerences. Many people have a wide range of intolences these days as they are diagnosed today . Camel milk Non gluten Flour ( expensive) Good Luck I am hosting my son's 4th birthday on Saturday and wanted to make something all of the children could in instead of singling one individual out who has a wheat, dairy and gluten intolerance. Any idea how i might make a batter for home made fish and chips using corn flour? Also any idea what 'tasty' alternative to birthday cake I could offer? Thanks very very much in advance...i'm getting desperate ;-)