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Latest post on 31 August 2014 - 22:29
Are you looking for a 1/2 size one? I have a violin that my daughter used at that age. I will have to check with my husband regarding the price. We brought it with us from Canada.You can email me at [email protected] <em>edited by Marsbar on 31/08/2014</em>
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Latest post on 12 August 2014 - 14:45
Hi Katcalls, I would like your accountant's details. Thnx!
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Latest post on 09 August 2014 - 14:35
HI, just a note about the store at Dragon Mart, JA08. I went there because of this thread and they were very insistent that they do not make or do repairs on outdoor furniture cushions. I was hoping that they would be able to repair or replace the sling back part of my outdoor swing seat, but the woman was very clear that they do not do that type of work. From there it was a frustrating time of trying to find someplace with outdoor fabric. I ended up back in Satwa. Good luck on your quest; I hope you have more success than I did. <em>edited by Marsbar on 09/08/2014</em>
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Latest post on 01 August 2014 - 08:57
Another psychologist you might want to consider is Johanna Richmond, 050 345 8076. She has been very helpful for our family, including my 19 yr old daughter.
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Latest post on 30 July 2014 - 15:02
If the clothes are 'name brand' you could try Garderobe on beach ave. http://www.garderobe.ae They might buy it all.
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Latest post on 28 July 2014 - 20:53
Borax is usually sold in a box in the laundry detergent section of a supermarket. Having said that, I have not seen it in Dubai for a number of years. Best bet is to have someone bring you some from another country.
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Latest post on 26 July 2014 - 22:00
There is a store in a mall on beach road that has a great store for swimwear. I can't remember the name of the mall but it is near the magrudy's and spinneys. It is the mall that has the Tim Hortons on the corner. You have to go to the second floor and you will find the shop there. I know the store has been mentioned in other threads, you could do a search and you might find the name of the mall or the store. Just found the thread:http: //www.expatwoman.com/forum/topic201637-that-dreaded-time-again--swimsuit-shopping-help.aspx Hope that helps! edited by Marsbar on 26/07/2014 <em>edited by Marsbar on 26/07/2014</em>
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Latest post on 21 July 2014 - 09:50
Nestlé has been in the news for a while with their controversial approach to selling water. If you google it you will find that the CEO has made comments regarding water and how access to it may not be a basic human right. Here are a couple of articles: http://www.globalresearch.ca/the-privatisation-of-water-nestle-denies-that-water-is-a-fundamental-human-right/5332238 http://www.independent.co.uk/environment/nestl-calls-worlds-water-scarcity-more-urgent-than-climate-change--as-it-sells-bottled-water-from-droughtridden-california-9608067.html Perhaps this is why they are in unmarked vans! edited by Marsbar on 21/07/2014 edited by Marsbar on 21/07/2014 <em>edited by Marsbar on 21/07/2014</em>
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Latest post on 02 July 2014 - 18:19
I see this is an old thread as I had replied when my user name was cafe au lait! Anyhow, I was just at this shop, 'endust', last week. They are across from Lulus, just before the bend to DAA. Still happy to recommend them. Yikes, not exactly sure of the name, thought it was Endust. Try www.ndustshoes.com 04325 5016 edited by Marsbar on 02/07/2014 <em>edited by Marsbar on 02/07/2014</em>
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Latest post on 26 June 2014 - 15:28
Me too, but mine was in Arabic so I have no idea what it said.
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Latest post on 25 June 2014 - 17:20
Thanks! Got through to Sohail! All set for tomorrow.
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Latest post on 25 June 2014 - 15:58
Thanks! I had Noor's number in my contacts, and I tried reaching him before I posted my question. He never answered his phone so I thought he must not be here. I will try again. Thanks to both of you! <em>edited by Marsbar on 25/06/2014</em>
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Latest post on 24 June 2014 - 22:00
Wonderful! Thank you for your suggestions and input. We are looking forward to our time in Switzerland!
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Latest post on 24 June 2014 - 13:27
There are two stores on Jumeriah beach road that sell lovely cotton fabrics. One is in Town Center, Craftland, the other is in Jumeriah plaza. Just a word of caution when sewing costumes, be aware of fabrics that ignite easily. I know that cottons aren't that thrilling for costumes as they aren't as shiny and sparkly but it's always a good idea to keep the flammability of fabrics in the back of your mind. Same goes for sewing pyjamas. As for price, these stores are not inexpensive, but the quality of fabrics is excellent. <em>edited by Marsbar on 24/06/2014</em>
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Latest post on 23 June 2014 - 21:12
Thanks, I was wondering about this place. I think we will try it out.
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Latest post on 23 June 2014 - 20:56
Thanks for the comments. Still debating what to do. Sigh.
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Latest post on 22 June 2014 - 11:37
We had one earlier this year and it was very successful. We gathered a few of the neighbours together and put all our stuff in two garages. We had it all set up the night before so we were ready to start at 7 am. With this heat, I would suggest you aim for 7-10 am. Unfortunately, many people have already left for the summer, so I am not sure who your sale will attract, but it's worth a try. We advertised on dubizzle and put up posters at Spinneys and park and shop. We also did a classified ad on expatwoman. A few tips: have lots of people to help you keep track of everything, and start saving small dirham bills and coins. Be prepared to bargain! Good luck! Just one more thing: on the day of the sale, make sure you have good signage and markings so people can find your place. We had balloons outside our villas as well. <em>edited by Marsbar on 22/06/2014</em>
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Latest post on 18 June 2014 - 12:24
On a slightly different note, a tip I heard about and I think is very prudent: as soon as I get into the taxi, I ask the driver for his taxi number and name. I then either call my husband, or friend with this info, so the driver can hear me or I announce that I am just texting that info to my husband. Either way, the driver knows that I know his name and number and so does the person who got my call or text. I also have my teen age kids do the same. (If they are reluctant because it seems like a 'stupid idea', have them watch the BBC Sherlock Holmes episode where the taxi driver is the bad guy. After my kids saw that, it has never been a problem for them to remember to send me the info.) I only started doing this AFTER I lost my prescription sunglasses in a taxi and I hadn't sent the number to my husband. Sigh. I do agree that the OP's incident should be reported to the police. <em>edited by Marsbar on 18/06/2014</em>
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Latest post on 16 June 2014 - 18:40
Thanks! I will check it out!
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Latest post on 16 June 2014 - 17:42
Hello, anyone know of a reasonably priced hotel for 3 people in Lyon? Doesn't have to be fancy, just good value for money. Thanks.
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Latest post on 15 June 2014 - 22:42
I would just like to add that the discussion on this board has been about girls being attacked, but when we moved here we were told to guard our sons as closely as our daughter. Make the teens aware of the dangers for both boys and girls.
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Latest post on 15 June 2014 - 12:22
This is a very difficult situation to cope with, from both the parents and the children's point of view. For my kids, who are now 18, 20 and 22, we always maintained that 'if we don't know where you are, we can't help you'. this helped when they were little because they understood that mom and dad could usually 'help' as long as we knew where they were, so they were good about letting us know if they were going to be delayed or where they were going to be. It has helped through the teenage years as well, but we have had a few times where we weren't sure where they were and that was awful. The whole idea of 'sneaking out' in this day and age is frightening. For those of us who have been here long enough to remember some of the very tragic stories of kids partying all night in empty villas, it's enough to make our hair turn grey and fall out. Our 'jobs' as parents, is to parent the child, not be a friend. Yes, parenting is hard work; no the kids won't always be our 'friends', but that is okay, we aren't supposed to be friends when they are young. Being 'friends' with our kids is something we all hope for, but it's something to hope for when they are older, in the meantime, we have to parent, and parent actively.
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Latest post on 14 June 2014 - 15:38
Craftland in Town Centre sells needles, so does Classic Quilts on Jumeriah Beach Road. Classic quilts sells Bernina machines.
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Latest post on 08 June 2014 - 10:36
You could ask on this board: http://www.myprivatetutor.ae/tuitions/2/tuition-jobs-Dubai.php/1/2/14 <em>edited by Marsbar on 08/06/2014</em>
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Latest post on 08 June 2014 - 09:16
I would suggest you call the AmidEast office in Dubai Knowledge Village. They may be able to provide the information that you require. http://www.amideast.org/uae
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Latest post on 05 June 2014 - 09:16
I think it will be difficult to find out specifics about packages on this forum for many reasons, specifically, many contracts forbid disclosing the details of them. To help you find the answers you need, I would suggest that you do a 'search' regarding job seeking and you will find that schools pay differently based on nationality, so a package you may be offered may not be what other nationalities are offered. Second, there may be issues with a single woman bringing a child into this country, you could also do some research about that topic. I am sure that there are women who have experience with that issue, who can address it much more directly. Your education and experience are excellent, however, you may find that they are not 'valued' as much as you would expect, especially if the school can hire someone who is already here and avoid the larger financial package that you would require. I don't want to sound negative about your desire to move to Dubai, but you really need to do a lot more research. This forum is an excellent place to start, good luck. <em>edited by Marsbar on 05/06/2014</em>
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Latest post on 02 June 2014 - 18:46
I don't know about Lloyd's, but we just went to an info seminar by Swissquote. It sounds good, so you might want to check it out.
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Latest post on 31 May 2014 - 10:42
Thanks ladies for the empathy and suggestions. I felt weird posting this at all, as it is such a 'first world problem', but I was completely floored at the way the entire situation was handled by the company. It was not a 'Groupon deal' so I can't even blame them! We found this deal through a benefit company through my husband's work, ahem, without getting too specific, large airline, flight crew discount card. We will be contacting this benefit association to let them know that this limo company is a nightmare and they should disassociate themselves with this limo company. I am still debating my options as I may look into my consumer rights, however, that doesn't make up for the additional stress and the fact that the event is over and nothing can make up for the fact that many of these kids were looking forward to their first limo ride. Oh well, live and learn. Again, thanks for your thoughts.
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Latest post on 30 May 2014 - 20:37
Thanks for that suggestion, too late for this time, but will save the info for next. The kids were very gracious about it. The company did send a small vehicle so some kids just went with their parents. All in all, very disappointing.
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Latest post on 30 May 2014 - 15:52
Seriously???? This is unbelievable!!! What a letdown for everyone.
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Latest post on 27 May 2014 - 21:46
Hello, just wondering if anyone has used their services or worked for them? Just looking for feedback from both sides. Many thanks.
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Latest post on 21 May 2014 - 14:26
Hello, I was in a salon this morning and they were advertising Nu skin products. Here is the link: http://www.royalretreat.net/gallery.html. It's a salon near Satwa.
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Latest post on 14 May 2014 - 07:05
Hi, I see that many people have looked at your post, but so far there aren't any replies. First of all, I think it is excellent that you are researching this option so far in advance. There is a lot you need to know about living here, much more than I can give, but the first topic that comes to mind is that it is illegal for you and your boyfriend to live together here. I know that many unmarried couples do live together here, but at the end of the day, it is illegal and if you are discovered, the penalty can be harsh. Secondly, I would suggest that you do a search for some of the previous threads about job hunting, for both you and your boyfriend. From those threads you will find the difficulties that many of us have encountered while job hunting. As well, be sure to look at threads about rentals as prices are going through the roof right now. Dubai can be a fabulous place to live, however, you are doing the right thing by finding out about the challenges and obstacles that you may face if you decide to move here. Good luck. <em>edited by Marsbar on 14/05/2014</em>
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Latest post on 10 May 2014 - 18:35
Hello, there are many threads on this board regarding therapists, it's probably a good idea to do a search. As well, are you looking for adult, child or teen? <em>edited by Marsbar on 10/05/2014</em>
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Latest post on 10 May 2014 - 16:57
This must be a very difficult time for you. The fact that you do not trust your husband is only one part of the issue that you are now facing. Your issue of trusting others is very important and as you have commented, it's slowly taking over and destroying your life. I think that trust issues may also be connected with self esteem and a variety of other issues, too complex for this board. I do hope you find a therapist to help you build your self esteem and self confidence. From there, perhaps you can tackle the issue of the state of your marriage. One thing to keep in mind, if you do decide to continue with your marriage, it would be beneficial if your husband also attends therapy. The issues that you have described are not ones with a 'quick fix', unless you decide to end your marriage immediately, but rather ones that you should tackle together. Whether or not you can ever convince your husband to attend therapy may be a discussion on a different board. Ending your marriage may solve the immediate problem with this husband, but you still have some underlying issues that you need to address. I know that many therapists have been recommended in other boards, but a few that come to mind are: Lifeworks on Al Wasl and Johanna Richmond. I am sure that other posters will have some great suggestions too.
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Latest post on 07 May 2014 - 10:13
It has been very interesting to follow this thread. For those of us who may be a bit older and looking at your situation with the advantage of life experience, it has made me stop and think about the choices that I have made over the years. When posting this type of question, it's always important to remember that each respondent comes to this forum with their own situation in mind, their own experiences, wishes and expectations. I am glad that you are realizing that your perspective has changed. As moms and wives, we have to make our children and our marriages a priority. Don't get me wrong, I am fully supportive of women working, but I had NO idea that raising kids, of which I have 3, and making a marriage work, could be such hard work. My husband travels a lot and over the years, I have worked full time, so I have seen both sides of this situation. Many times I remember thinking that 'I never signed up for this' but when you reflect upon your values and the overall picture of your life, then maybe working out a compromise with your husband is in the best interest of your family and your marriage. I often think of the Oprah quote that has given me perspective when times have been tough. "You can have it all, just not at the same time". Good luck with your decision.
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Latest post on 04 May 2014 - 21:19
I am not sure if I am missing something, I am sure someone will let me know if I am. I am not quite 'getting it'. Think long and hard before you make a move. There is a price to pay with every decision that you make. The price, it seems is that you would have the comfort of friends and family around if you move to NY. What about the price to the kids? You would go back to work, you have worked long and hard to build your career, but what about the kids? Being a single parent is HARD, if you think working all day and then coming home to your kids is manageable, think again. What about groceries, housekeeping and actually parenting your kids? Who is going to do all that? It is hard to be the supportive wife, but if you made the decision to move here for your husband's career and his career is going well, then what is the issue? If you are truly unhappy, then maybe you need to do some soul searching to figure out why you are so unhappy. Marriage and raising kids is all about compromising. Moving to the States would seem to solve some problems, but it would introduce a whole other batch of issues. I agree this place is transient, but there are loads of great people here. We are all building 'extended families', but that is what makes this place so interesting as well. I agree, schooling is expensive, but if you can afford the schools, then what is the problem? I would hate for you to move back, doing it as a single parent, thinking that it will be so much better. You made a commitment when you got married, you agreed to move here, so unless I am missing something like your marriage is a mess, I would suggest that you do a lot of thinking before you make any moves. If you truly honour the wedding vows you made, then remember that the 'for better or for worse' means just that. Marriage is not easy, nor is raising kids, but being divorced is not easy, nor is raising kids as a single parent easy.
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Latest post on 28 April 2014 - 01:28
Dr. Johanna Richmond is very good. Her contact details are 050 345 8076.
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Latest post on 25 April 2014 - 20:08
I think it depends upon what qualities/characteristics you are comparing. What age are your kids? ASD follows an American curriculum with advanced placement courses in the senior year. DAA follows an American curriculum as well, however the over-riding program for the final years is the IB program which has very different requirements than the ASD program. If your kids are in high school, then you have to consider where they may attend university. If they are heading for a school in Europe, then the IB may be a better option, but many universities are accommodating for either program. Cost is definitely much higher at ASD so as blondie007 mentioned, it may be a deciding factor for you as well. Consider also the 'student body' of the school. ASD caters mainly to American passport holders, DAA doesn't have the focus on American passport holders, so it has a very international feel to the school. <em>edited by Marsbar on 25/04/2014</em>
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Latest post on 16 April 2014 - 09:22
Both of these tests are designed to test you knowledge of English. They are quite different in format. The TOEFL has three main sections 1. Listening comprehension: 50 questions: multiple choice 2. Grammar: usually 40 questions, you have to know your grammar rules very well for this section. 3. Reading: usually 5 passages with about 10 questions per passage. The topics vary but usually have to do with science, business, natural history. You don't have to know about the topic as the information is provided and then you have multiple choice answers. There is also a test of written English with this exam. You have 30 minutes to write an essay on a topic that is provided. The grade for this written essay is separate from the TOEFL exam. The IELTS test has four sections, including a speaking component. The writing section is based on two essays, one that is 150 words and one that is 250 words. The IELTS does not focus on grammar the way that the TOEFL test does. You will have to decide what your strengths are with regards to the English language as the tests are fundamentally quite different. Also, be sure to check what the minimum score required is for the university that you wish to attend. I hope that information helps.
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Latest post on 08 April 2014 - 16:00
I think it is going to be a Marvel Comic based theme park. It is huge!!
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Latest post on 05 April 2014 - 11:25
My son goes to Gore tutoring in knowledge village. http://ae.enrollbusiness.com/BusinessProfile/9237/Gore-s-Tutoring-FZ-LLC
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Latest post on 05 April 2014 - 11:24
DAA sent a letter out this morning outlining the changes. They did state that even these new dates are subject to change in the future.
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Latest post on 04 April 2014 - 18:49
Be sure to check out the Expat woman coffee mornings as well. They are always a good starting point.
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Latest post on 26 March 2014 - 09:35
You know you have been here too long when you read all of the replies and agree with all of them because they sound perfectly 'normal'!! :)
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Latest post on 16 March 2014 - 13:56
We must have the same landlord! :)
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Latest post on 16 March 2014 - 11:44
Hello, we are in a rented villa and the landlord won't replace our garage door openers. It's a pain in the neck so we are going to buy replacement controls. Any idea who sells them? I have been to Satwa and no one there seems to know. We don't want to replace the entire system, we just need the little open/close controller. Thanks.
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Latest post on 15 March 2014 - 19:22
My son gets Math tutoring here: http://www.dubai-tuitions.com/dubai-tutors.htm I think this place has tutors for all subjects.
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Latest post on 15 March 2014 - 19:20
Okay, just let me know. I hope it has arrived.
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Latest post on 15 March 2014 - 18:25
Did you have any luck? I have some maple leaf fabric that might work. I bought a bunch of Canadian fabric last time I was home and I could share some if you are really in a pinch.