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Latest post on 25 January 2012 - 18:13
Greenish, I have no time for arrogance and gross bias. You don't know my education, experience, and background, nor do I have any interest in tit for tat. I don't play that game. Bye. Sorry OP.
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Latest post on 25 January 2012 - 16:29
No kids at home, no need for edu info. Now noted! My apologies rsfactor, I was a bit distracted at the time of posting, and overlooked it! :) Greenish, I do stand by what I said about the state of Queensland's education as a whole. I don't want to hijack this thread on an irrelevant topic, or have a heated debate, but if you don't accept my view as valid whatsoever, I would suggest you speak to administrators of reputable schools throughout the UAE or Australia about their observations regarding Queensland's education standard for a wake up call. You might be surprised what you find. Agree to disagree me thinks. I have many dear friends from Brisbane and the region, and it's not my intention to offend. I never met a Brisbanite who didn't love their city, and totally expect all of you to defend your beloved city vehemently. Please be aware though, that some of us who have lived elsewhere (US, Canada, M.E, and other states in Aus) might not look on it as fondly as you, based comparatively on our own experiences elsewhere. I have spoken to many expats and non Queenslanders who have expressed similar views to mine. My point is that it isn't necessarily the right fit for everyone. I just wanted to provide the OP with another perspective. I lived in Brisbane for a month, and made many, many day trips over the course of a year, I believe I spent enough time to make an informed view, as did my husband who spent his weekdays in Milton in the CBD. Yet, I totally acknowledge that not having grown up there, or lived there for an extensive length of time, my opinion is based on a limited experience, and should be taken as such. Peace.
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Latest post on 24 January 2012 - 11:02
Hi rsfactor, Good luck with your Queensland adventure! I just thought I'd add a few things to consider. I lived in Dubai in '08, moved to Brisbane for my husband's job in'09. We returned to Dubai in2010 (never thought that would happen!). I must admit I'm not that fond of Brisbane as a city. I explored all the top suburbs initially and as an exoat found that the city just didn't have the charm and lifestyle I was after. I've lived in Perth for many years and also Melbourne, so in comparison I was disappointed with Brisbane. We found a beautiful home to rent in Buderim (1hour north of Brisbane) that overlooked the rainforest with views to the ocean, and lovely views north towards Noosa. What i do like about Buderim is that it is central to a lot of great family activities. Gorgeous Noosa is only 20 minutes away. We spent most Saturday mornings at famous Noosa beach. It is such a relaxing town with lots of little boutiques to explore, and lovely cafes. We were close to Mooloolaba beach, strawberry fields, rainforest trails, a quaint little town called Montville, and close to Australia Zoo. My husband's commute from Buderim to Brisbane CBD is the same commute time from Dubai to Abu Dhabi CBD ( where my husband now works). Also note that the Queensland education system is not on par with other Australian states. Even the Queensland school adminstrators admitted this to me. I ended up pulling my kids out of school even after they were advanced a grade, and homeschooled them myself until we returned to Dubai. They are now thriving at Gems World Academy. If you do consider Buderim, there are several private schools that have a good reputation within the state. My daughter went to one of these schools. I also found there was a higher rate of social problems among young people than other places I've lived. I don't want to offend any Queenslanders. There s much that I love and miss about Queensland. However, I think it's important for expats to hear all perspectives whether it be good or bad, so as to help OP make a decision on what is right for her and her family.
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Latest post on 23 January 2012 - 17:43
After experiencing many bad haircuts and hair colouring gone wrong from hair stylists around Dubai, I was so relieved to find Donna. She's really good. I'm scared now that I've given her a glowing review, she'll get too booked up to fit me in. :)
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Latest post on 23 January 2012 - 15:45
I have used kerastase for the last two years. I've tried 3 different kerastase product lines. The one I' m currently using is called nutritive. It has an orange lid. The shampoo and conditioner with the hot pink lid is great too. The conditioner lasted nearly a year! I have long hair and only needed a small dab of it. The kerastase shampoo and conditioner with the muted pink lid did not work on my hair at all. The bottle of conditioner only lasted one month because i had to apply so much to my hair. I buy my products from Roots al Barsha. They are priced the same as what I would pay in Australia. Donna cuts and colors my hair, so she's also great at advising on the best product for me. They also give free samples of Kerastase too try, which has helped me find the right product with the best formulation for my hair type.
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Latest post on 17 January 2012 - 10:46
My daughter is 4 and does ballet with Michelle from Core Dance Academy in the Green Community. She also teaches at Dubai Marina. My daughter loves her!
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Latest post on 17 January 2012 - 02:19
I would definitely recommend the western suburbs which is Wembley Downs border south to swan river. I lived close to Osborne Park for a number of years, in the Doubleview/ Innaloo area. The problem with these areas is that there is some public housing, mediocre neighborhoods, and a higher rate of anti social behavior. I would not feel safe to go for a run at night. I lived in Dalkeith for 5 years, and would never live anywhere but that district. This district is Nedlands/ Cottesloe/ Swanbourne areas. These suburbs are amazing for families! Great parks, cycling, close to river, good public schools, close to nice beaches, charming shopping districts, and a sense of community. I went running 9pm at night with my little dog, and felt completely safe. We rented a modest 3 bedroom character home in Dalkeith, but the overall community made up for what we lacked in terms of house luxury. The commute from these upperclass suburbs to Osborne Park is only 20 minutes. No comparison! If you are on a tight budget, or a forced savings plan -- like i am doing here in Dubai :), there are some pockets of Stirling, Karrinyup, and Doubleview that i can recommend. Good luck! I've been homesick for my cycling along the Swan River. Perth offers a great outdoor lifestyle. Enjoy your experience Clair k!
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Latest post on 09 January 2012 - 21:20
I nearly died when I was a youngster. I think it made me sensitive to 'visitors'. It's not really a big deal for me. I just think of it as someone like myself in a different form. If a visitor stops in, why should a contact be a scary thing? I come across people in every day life that give me more cause for concern than an 'afterlifer'. I did have one male ghost who annoyed me when I was visiting my parents for a month. This ghost (i don't like to use that word, but will for EW site purposes) would stand over and watch me at the side of my bed, other times at the foot of my bed, and near my closet throughout the night. He seemed to have a lot of anxiety. This went on for 2 weeks until my husband arrived. I later learned that he was doing the same thing to my sister who was staying in an adjoining room. If you have any supernatural experiences, consider it a privilege. I know it can be spooky, but it is insight into a realm that we know very little about. I am science-minded, but have a pretty significant body of evidence (from my own experiences) that has convinced me we might do the haunting one day??
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Latest post on 08 January 2012 - 22:01
I would love a Vitamin B shot! I just feel totally nutrient depleted. I will take some vit b tabs tomorrow. I don't know much about flaxseed. What does it do for the body?
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Latest post on 08 January 2012 - 21:45
Exactly how it developed in our family too!!
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Latest post on 30 December 2011 - 16:40
Mojodally, I think I can speak for Twinsmum and say, thanks so much! My email address is michymat@gmail.com. Just let me know when it's a good time to pick some boxes.
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Latest post on 29 December 2011 - 16:51
My hubby (aussie too) is a construction lawyer in Abu Dhabi. His colleague is moving back to Australia. He worked out of Qatar though. They will probably want to replace him. If you want more info, let me know.
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Latest post on 29 December 2011 - 12:20
Hi Twinsmum, since there were only 2 boxes, it didn't seem economical to each get just one. If anyone else has any boxes, I'm happy to share with you though! :) And thanks so much PreciousAmber!!
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Latest post on 28 December 2011 - 21:34
We pay 2600 dhs for a Honda Accord with Dollar Rent a Car. After 3 months, no problems to date.
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Latest post on 28 December 2011 - 19:22
Pretty please.
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Latest post on 16 November 2011 - 15:51
A few weeks ago, someone asked if anyone could recommend healthy snacks. I recommended my favorite daily treat, 'Love Life' dry mangoes. Guess what is sold out at Spinneys? :)
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Latest post on 16 November 2011 - 15:35
Wealth is a subjective topic. Wealth can be measured by freedom to travel, option to live overseas, financial access to lifestyle perks not possible for many of our compatriots, such as mani/pedicures/ facials/ maids/drivers/nannies/ luxury cars/ private schools, assets, travel allowance, beautican, and designer clothes. Let's be honest: Most of us are enjoying some of these and other material benefits to a larger degree than we did in our home countries, and to a larger degree than our friends and families at home. We might be weighed down in debt and bills ( who isn't), but our outward lifestyle certainly points to a better financial position than those at home. From their perspective, I agree, we are rich!
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Latest post on 16 November 2011 - 14:51
I live in a 3 bedroom + maids in Saheel 1. We paid 160000 plus we paid 5000 dhs for grass and landscaping. Saheel is a great family community with lovely tree lined streets, great pools, and playgrounds. Unfortunately, we are moving out because our Dewa bill was between 3000-4500dhs / month since February, and our landlord who lives outside the UAE is giving us a grief. i guess we're moving onto browner pastures! I just can't justify giving DEWA 1000 Aussie dollars each month. When you shortlist your selection, don't forget to factor in DEWA.
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Latest post on 06 November 2011 - 20:18
I'm a reformed chocoholic. After a summer in Canada binging on all my favorite chocolate and other junk food, I traded my bad habits for healthier habits. For breakfast, I love the 'jordan's' line of granola, or I will have eggs Benedict which is filling. If I'm craving something sweet later, I eat 'Love life' brand of dried mangos, or Appetiser grape juice ( i drink 2 bottles a day, also high in antioxidants). I find appetiser juice great at suppressing my appetite in the afternoon. Other snacks i would recommend is popcorn, and edamame (steamed soybeans with cracked sea salt), or salmon basted with honey and cooked. I add it to a salad with roasted pine nuts. I do add a little ranch dressing mixed with honey. Yum!
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Latest post on 27 October 2011 - 22:25
If you are laid off from work, or resign, and leave the country, or if you miss payments, the bank can terminate the contract (you have breeched the terms), and they can cash the check you signed, demanding the loan payment in full. If you do not have enough money in your account to cover the loan amount in full, the check 'bounces', and a police case can be opened at the bank's discretion. In our case, my husband's employment situation was insecure, so he resigned and left Dubai. When we arrived in our home country, he notified the bank and requested a reduced monthly repayment. They seemed appreciative we had contacted them, and there was mutual agreement on the monthly repayments evidenced in our email correspondence. In regards to checking if there's a police case, I would recommend calling a law firm. They might point you in the right direction. Sorry, I'm being vague. It's intentional.
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Latest post on 27 October 2011 - 22:02
I'd rather not say on EW. We are aware that other banks have similar policies on debt recovery, but I would like to hope they would not stoop to the level of our bank. This time we have minimized our debt exposure. Whatever debt we acquire here, we have cash on hand to pay it out if needs be. I recommend the same. We can afford the Jag and Lexus, but have opted for a humble alternative. I never want to be in that position again.
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Latest post on 27 October 2011 - 21:35
Boy, do I have a cautionary tale for you! This happened to us. We left Dubai with debt. We notified the bank from our home country, and arranged monthly repayments. Every month, we spoke to a bank representative via both phone and email, and asked for confirmation that no case had been filed against us. Each month, their response was the same: “No, the bank is taking no action because regular payments are being made.” When my husband was offered a job in Dubai, he contacted the bank and informed them we would be returning, and wanted to verify there was no case filed or pending. Again, several bank representatives reassured us there was none. Everything seemed ok. A few days before we were to return to Dubai, my husband started to feel uneasy, so he contacted someone who could check if there was a police case for him. A few hours before we were to board the plane we hear back from our guy. Indeed, there was a case filed, and an arrest warrant issued. We contacted the bank angrily, and they were unapologetic about the deceit. After 2 weeks of negotiating (yelling and arguing), we agreed to make a substantial lump sum payment and negotiated an exorbitant repayment plan to be paid over a short period. When we received this written agreement, I flew to Dubai to pay the agreed amount on behalf of my husband, and resolve the warrant. I met some smug bank representatives who I sharply chastised. I was about to hand over the money in exchange for 2 documents (one, was a receipt of payment, and the second was for the police, stating the bank would withdraw legal action) when I noticed there was no signature of authority, and a date error which would make the agreement null and void. It stated to the effect: ‘This agreement will only take effect if the agreed amount of x dirhams is paid by this date [ex March 25'>.’ It was in fact the 26th!! When I pointed out the error, they just looked at me smugly, but complied with my demands to correct it. After I met with the ‘loan sharks’, I handed the documents over to a polite officer at a police station, and the warrant was withdrawn. Points to consider: 1. You have better bargaining power from your home country. If you come to Dubai, they can put your hubby in jail. Logically, you might think it is in the bank’s best interest to not put him in jail, but really they don’t care. Their objective is to get the money back. He is their collateral! The bank knows that under pressure people will raise the money from somewhere. 2. Pay a fee to find out if there is a case filed with the police. 3. Have a repayment plan agreed upon, signed by both parties before you come back. If you need a contract template, I have one.