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Latest post on 18 April 2015 - 19:29
Can't help with getting rid of the cut trees, but just wanted to say that unless you have the root system removed they will grow back. They tend to grow back even bigger than before.
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Latest post on 12 April 2015 - 19:19
Very wise words littleone. In my early thirties I discovered lumps, doctor sent me directly to a cancer specialist. In those years we didn't have mammograms and I had a thermal thingy done ( being in the field LO you might have heard of it ).Thankfully it was what they referred to as fibroids but the doctor said was still important to keep an eye on them. Ever since I have NEVER taken a chance and at this time of life have a mammogram and ultrasound yearly and at times the lumps are questionable. Please don't self diagnose off the internet, have it checked out ,the mammogram is uncomfortable but really nothing to be concerned about.
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Latest post on 09 April 2015 - 17:07
I wouldn't worry too much about the garden if you have a working sprinkler system. See how it goes with the once a week visit and take it from there. I bought my own fertilizer and spreader and had the gardener apply it when he came. The animals always came first with me and the gardener had to just work around what suited us.
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Latest post on 07 April 2015 - 21:53
Thanks CM, my Grandkids are on Spring Break, guess what we are making today !....
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Latest post on 07 April 2015 - 21:48
There is a Pregnancy Section on the forum which is very active, open up a thread there with the same question. Lots of very helpful moms and moms to be. All the best.
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Latest post on 06 April 2015 - 19:35
1. Old Timers move on and when they post are faced with a barrage of "why are you still on here, didn't you move" comments 2. New Timers are told "do a search" when they ask anything that has been asked before so they never get a chance to build up some banter 3. Focus has moved away from Forums to FB groups 4. EW Admin direct people with questions to articles on other parts of the site, not the forum, so again people can't build up a thread with commentary 5. Some posters have little else to do other than try to belittle others and troll around. 6. The thumbs offend some people who take offence at their innocent post being thumbed down so don't come back. 7. Spammers are not picked up/removed efficiently so sometimes you look at EW and the whole page is full of the same person with ridiculous comments. All in all, bring back the old days! So right CP your points are spot on. I remember when I left a few " bully " types asked why I was still posting. Told them all to go jump they didn't " own " the forum. With the new International Forum layout it's a moot point now, but some still have a dig. The thumbs get really silly at times. I refer new posters to old threads because some of the answers are so much better than I could give. Recently on a thread an old timer gave a lengthly comprehensive answer and because it wasn't what the OP wanted to hear, not even a thanks........ Overall I have noticed that it is not just EW but a number of forums are suffering the same fate, could be that times are changing .It might have something to do with the no contact style of the forum as opposed to sites that give the option of personal contact. Sad really as I know it has helped many a newcomer to navigate their new life in DXB.
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Latest post on 01 April 2015 - 18:44
AM86 in a few of your post it seems you are a bit impatient with the replies you have got. A number of long time residents and contributors to the forum have given you honest opinions and answers to your questions. This advice is invaluable. Believe me we all know just how stressful it can be and yes I am sure some of the information maybe is not what you want to hear. You will find out that there is seldom one hard and fast rule in DXB and you will get different info from different departments about the same issue ! The advice you got to work through the PRO is your best option. I guess what I am saying is don't shoot the messengers. Personally I would take a step back ,take the extreme urgency out of getting everything done as quickly as possible. It is a big step your are anticipating. It is all do able but the sequence is important to ensure that your first expat experience is as smooth as it can possibly be. <em>edited by Nomad on 01/04/2015</em>
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Latest post on 28 March 2015 - 19:43
So very sorry you are in this situation. A lot depends on where you were married, how you were married etc. In a recent thread ( please do a search re marriage and divorce on the forum ) someone advised a trip to the courts for counselling/ mediation services and that the wife's rights are strongly protected. Please don't sign anything or agree to anything until you have had sound legal advice. Take care of yourself, never stop believing in yourself. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
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Latest post on 27 March 2015 - 20:07
JEAHHI45 being an anonymous forum open to all and sundry the thumbs allow open season for all. There are a few who thumb me down for saying hi !! Go figure.....but like water off a ducks back I say.As DT says maybe they were just sympathizing with you. With regards to your post yes there have been terrible tragedies which some if us feel outweigh news about boy bands or the Latest TV auto show debacle ( a hot topic in our household of petrol heads). However, bringing 911 into this seemed a bit strange and by that I mean many of us have lost loved ones tragically but you have to be able to move on or the world will leave you behind. You will NEVER forget your cousin and the sadness/hurt/anger etc. you feel connected to the tragedy but others on the board didn't know them. I can remember when my brother died I couldn't fathom how the rest of the world didn't seem to care......then it hit me ,why should they...... I couldn't give a hoot about a TV auto show or boy bands but some do and they have a right to give a hoot and their opinions. <em>edited by Nomad on 29/03/2015</em>
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Latest post on 23 March 2015 - 07:00
I was also an only child for many years, my siblings came along when I was a teenager. All I can add to Rubyslipper's post is, please enjoy your little one " in the here and now " and don't spend too much time worrying about "what if ", he will be just fine. ;) <em>edited by Nomad on 23/03/2015</em>
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Latest post on 17 March 2015 - 20:02
In reply to Izzy, My son is the first person to have a diagnosis but he has 2 second cousins who would get a diagnosis if one was sought. One of those youngsters is very high functioning and can get by whilst being considered a bit of a 'strange one' - not my description of people I must add. She is about 15 now. Then there is another girl who is a few years older than my son, she's on the spectrum but for years its been said she fell of the bed as a baby and ended up brain damaged. She's not. Then there are a few other quirky people who wouldn't get a diagnosis but who most definitely do have very strong ASD traits and I think the best way to describe them is extreme NT. Thats my husbands side of the family, and to be frank I would consider my husband to be amongst the extreme NT's in his family. Now mine - MY father is extreme NT, and his father I would place on the spectrum. There is also the fact that in my husband sides of the family there's schizophrenia as well as Bipolar Disorder, whilst in mines there's Bipolar. Autism is more common in families where these conditions exist. Its all very interesting and it can be quite 'funny' when you sit with a friend and she says I don't know where my childs autism came from, and you're there looking at her and thinking - really? :) edited by DesertRose1958 on 17/03/2015 Hi DR hope all is well in your neck of the woods...... Great post. Both my brothers were diagnosed with Hyper Activity ,the term used in the early years. It was most definitely genetic as my Dad showed the same symptoms and I am sure had a host of other undiagnosed conditions. He had severe depression ,mood-swings, changed from extreme highs to extreme lows.When he was a child he spent most of his school years in a corner for being "naughty " and when he got home he got a licking for being " naughty". My heart just aches thinking about it .He never got help , even when I suggested it after my brothers diagnosis,I think he was just so badly damaged by society's perceptions at the time.He was able to cope and hide any shortcomings on the job. I haven't been able to confirm it but I too had odd uncles and aunts on Dads side, things like "that" were always spoken about in hushed conversations in those years. Let's hope the research continues and unlocks the door. <em>edited by Nomad on 17/03/2015</em>
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Latest post on 05 March 2015 - 23:12
Absolutely agree keep the thread about Autism and it's causes. For those who want to discuss vaccines and their connection to Autism , @ Hungry _ Caterpillar the recent thread 'Has anyone chosen not to vaccinate their children' , both sides are debated. By the way the study by Andrew Wakefield linking MMR to Autism was proved to be flawed and withdrawn by The Lancet in 2010. <em>edited by Nomad on 05/03/2015</em>
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Latest post on 05 March 2015 - 20:43
The most valuable lessons I learnt about being a MIL came from my MIL. She never approved of me from day 1 , no matter what I did, said , etc. I was never good enough. FIL not much better. Luckily I have an amazing husband who put his foot down and told them both accept the marriage treat my wife with respect or butt out. The lesson I learned from my in laws was how NOT to treat your DIL/SIL.....I made a promise that no matter who my boys chose I would give them every chance. You raise your children with your values and have to trust that they will use what you have taught them in choosing their life's partner. My DIL loves my son and is a wonderful mother to my precious Grand children, I don't always agree with what she does or says but keep those opinions to myself , in the big scheme of things little niggely things are not important. Our common bond is how much her husband and children are loved by both of us.:)
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Latest post on 01 March 2015 - 22:58
Report them.......cruelty to animals is against the law. If you make enough of a stink they will be inspected and will at least have to clean up their act. Really?,,,, how does Satwa get away with their pet shops than? I'm sincerely asking. Thread title indicated that it is a " new " pet shop so I am sure they must have had to comply with licensing laws. A call to the municipality voicing your concerns won't go amiss,at least you tried to do something. In Satwa they get away with it because people just accept it.......:( <em>edited by Nomad on 01/03/2015</em>
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Latest post on 01 March 2015 - 18:49
Agree with sjpbingley depending on your time constraints best to have it planned for you.Give them a wish list. Fish market is a must......you do have to get up VERY early ! and the cherry blossoms...are just beautiful. sickofsand ( love the name ! ) good suggestions, Kyoto is a cultural must see and yes do it overnight. Enjoy your trip
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Latest post on 01 March 2015 - 18:42
Report them.......cruelty to animals is against the law. If you make enough of a stink they will be inspected and will at least have to clean up their act.
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Latest post on 01 March 2015 - 18:38
I am very happy with my "lot in life". We are definitely not wealthy; we both work hard; we support a huge family at home; we choose to be happy together as husband and wife, and as a family. In many cases, happiness is definitely a choice we make (or not). Such a lovely reply mrsb , pretty much sums up how we operate as a family.
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Latest post on 01 March 2015 - 18:36
No, nope. Not happy and I'll leave it at that for today. I think of you often Cherpie.....sending you prayers and very positive energy.
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Latest post on 24 February 2015 - 18:59
Hello LT & Nomad I hope you & yours are well & happy :) Im in Dubai for a few days . The wind has been making it really uncomfortable blowing the sand around. On the other hand the cloud cover has kept the temperature down. So quite nice to walk as long as you can keep the sand out of your eyes. It was freezing when I was at home & they had some snow again yesterday. That's three times in about two months. !!! That's more than I ever remember. Im praying they have a good Summer. Wouldn't it be lovely to distribute the heat a little more evenly & the cold of course :) Hi Neamhi, good to hear you are all well. We are all fine thanks. Enjoy your visit. xxx
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Latest post on 21 February 2015 - 01:18
Frankly, I can live with my children going their whole life not seeing a real live wild animal if it means that animal can be released to live free or in an approproiate sanctuary. They can watch them on Nat Geo. They can save up to go to Africa. What struck me was the contrast between the mute dignity of the animals in the cages and the frenzied bravado of the patrons who enjoyed taunting them. In the lion enclosure it was mating season and people were filming it on their mobile phones. People get their camera phones out for everything these days, so I dont know why I felt such anger, but also sad and alone in my misery that no one seemed to empathise with these powerful creatures reduced to side shows on a weekend. Everyone else seemed to be having the greatest family day out - popcorn, fizzy drinks and all. We happened by the cages housing the gorillas - young men stood outside taunting and making loud noises while one large male gorilla listened - it seeemed to go on for ages, he then lunged forward, and in a swift act, cupped his paws into the drinking trough and flung it on the men - who got a good smelly splash of water and a proper fright. It was bad enough that I was not near the cage and felt a few droplets on my feet. It wasnt funny, it wasnt revenge, it was sheer helplessness. It made it worse that these animals understood and felt the taunts and could not bear it any more. No, my children can live without learning about wild animals through these experiences, lest they too begin to think its normal. Redrec you so touched my heart with your thoughts. I as a small child grew up in the " wilds " of Africa before having to leave to be educated. It was a privilege that not everyone gets to experience, my own children included. Because of my very strong beliefs about zoos my boys NEVER went to one and I made it very clear to them from a very young age that it was not acceptable and why.I have taken them into the bush as youngsters and into their teenage years and today both are just as passionate about caging animals as I am. My statement will probably shock some but if survival of a species relies on that species being sentenced to life behind bars in deplorable conditions then I would prefer to read about it in books in the future, much like the Dodo. As a family we don't support zoos, but conservation centres like Al Ain will always have our support. On a trip to Disneyworld the travel agent couldn't believe that we wouldn't go to Seaworld..........in the nicest possible way we explained our reasons, but it fell on deaf ears. You vote with your feet........... With all the money being spent in DXB for the 2020 Expo, they should be ashamed of the pathetic sideshow of a zoo. Hopefully as another poster says something is being planned with Dubai Safari, let's hope they will take a page out of Al Ain Zoo's book. These poor souls should be given the dignity they deserve, or put them out of their misery and the sideshow CLOSED. <em>edited by Nomad on 21/02/2015</em>
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Latest post on 20 February 2015 - 22:30
Ski slopes in Western Canada closing for the season , snow has melted. Maritimes buried in snow some cars in the streets almost covered and folks digging tunnels out of their houses. The world weather seems to be on its head at the mo. It is weird, snow on lemon trees in fruit is a strangely beautiful sight. Never thought I'd be out de- icing the path in Cyprus! On a serious note.....be careful that the frozen lemons don't get too heavy for the branches. We had a freak snowstorm in Sept last year ( seriously !!!) leaves and some fruit on the trees, massive branches were just ripped off with the extra weight.The storm was nick named " Treemageddon ". Frozen lemons in your G&T I think The howling gales we had last week took care of any vulnerable branches, and not a few of the roof tiles. The goats are not happy, their shed is now a shipping hazard in the Med! Oh goodness, share the lemons with them that is if they eat lemons. We had one who ate the seat off my old Vespa.....
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Latest post on 20 February 2015 - 22:10
Ski slopes in Western Canada closing for the season , snow has melted. Maritimes buried in snow some cars in the streets almost covered and folks digging tunnels out of their houses. The world weather seems to be on its head at the mo. It is weird, snow on lemon trees in fruit is a strangely beautiful sight. Never thought I'd be out de- icing the path in Cyprus! On a serious note.....be careful that the frozen lemons don't get too heavy for the branches. We had a freak snowstorm in Sept last year ( seriously !!!) leaves and some fruit on the trees, massive branches were just ripped off with the extra weight.The storm was nick named " Treemageddon ". Frozen lemons in your G&T I think
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Latest post on 20 February 2015 - 21:59
Ski slopes in Western Canada closing for the season , snow has melted. Maritimes buried in snow some cars in the streets almost covered and folks digging tunnels out of their houses. The world weather seems to be on its head at the mo.
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Latest post on 17 February 2015 - 00:30
I do feel sorry for Moonflower. She gets to 'boast'' about whats essentially a house cat. It's not a glorified "house cat"! They had to breed at least 1000 cats in order to get this one to look the way it does and it cost almost $6000 American dollars to have it shipped all the way from the states. [b'>END OF SUBJECT![/b'> edited by MoonFlower582 on 16/02/2015 Oh dear, how much is it going to cost to ship it here when you move in April ?? I can't imagine it being too much- Is there a quarantine period for family pets at DBX? or DXB or whatever the're calling it nowadays? edited by MoonFlower582 on 16/02/2015 You haven't researched this ? What about your dog ? Research? lol No dear, when I decided to go along with this move I was promised that [b'>all I had to do was get on the plane in April[/b'> Hahahahahahaha !!! I bet you were....and you're expecting your husband to get on it too ??? :lol: With all the political (and now I see social) turmoil in the region I wasn't keen on the idea of moving to Dubai Surely, even you can understand that can't you? edited by MoonFlower582 on 17/02/2015 Have you actually looked at a map to see where Dubai is ?
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Latest post on 16 February 2015 - 23:15
The more I read I am with Fairy Dust here, this has got to be a "dude" with way too much time on his hands........nuff said.
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Latest post on 16 February 2015 - 22:58
I do feel sorry for Moonflower. She gets to 'boast'' about whats essentially a house cat. It's not a glorified "house cat"! They had to breed at least 1000 cats in order to get this one to look the way it does and it cost almost $6000 American dollars to have it shipped all the way from the states. [b'>END OF SUBJECT![/b'> edited by MoonFlower582 on 16/02/2015 Sorry, but I think you've been ripped off here. They are available in the UK for the equivalent of $690 Yes, we've seen those- They are not of this quality, they don't even looks like tigers What about "END OF SUBJECT" don't you people understand? Unless your DH bought EW for you ( well you never know !) your END OF SUBJECT does not mean the thread ,that you started by the way, will be closed. Oh and by the way after 38 years of marriage ,two wonderful children 2 grand children, relatively good health,believe me the last thing I am is jealous. In fact I feel rather sad for you that you have to brag about buying expensive animal fashion accessories to feel important.
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Latest post on 14 February 2015 - 20:15
Lolly gobble I was hoping by bringing up the thread again and a personal experience that a mother was going through due to a careless antivaxxers ,hoping to shed some light and inform, My niece is an antivaxxer her daughter has autism and although she would like to claim its true, she has NOT been able to scientifically link the two. As someone said it is unfortunate that autism symptoms COINCIDE with vaccinations . " Working with " autistic children gives you no more insight than me saying I work with children with cancer so I know the cause. A bit blunt I know but the argument you make has NO basis in science. I watched a young girl die at the age of 12 first going blind and then fading away losing her mind and eventually her mobility, measles lay dormant in her brain and manifested when she was 12. My 11 month old son was fighting for his life in the ward next to hers and although her mother and I weren't allowed to be in contact we spoke across the corridor. She blamed herself entirely......... You complain about people getting mean and nasty........remember you are dealing with a " mamma bear " who will do anything to protect her cubs from danger .In this case irresponsible parents who choose to take risks with not only their own children but the vulnerable members of society who don't have the luxury of being immunized ie. babies under 1 and immuno compromised children with any number of life threatening illnesses. Do yourself a favour, research the scientific evidence and not the pie in the sky fru fru nonsense spouted by celebrities and those with a alternative agenda.
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Latest post on 13 February 2015 - 23:05
After reading an open letter by Jennifer Hibben- White of Ontario Canada ( sorry have been unable to link it ) thought I would dredge this thread up again. Just google her letter ,written from the head and the heart. Hopefully it can get through to the anti vaxxers.
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Latest post on 08 February 2015 - 22:25
dear ladies; sorry to be depressing; we are very close friends to relatives of the pilot's family. I know its a few days ago now but I just cant get over it. I am still devastated and utterly broken hearted. I feel i shall never get over it. My oldest son is hooked on the news day in and day out. We are utterly proud of the king, really proud of him and i am really proud that he is showing the world how jordanians really are, something we already knew anyway. I just cant get over the news these days; nowhere feels safe. And i cant get over this terrible event. I dont know what to say. Just sharing that with you all as those on this thread felt the same way. May God protect us from this evil force and take our minds to moments of purity and goodness and lives to good works and safety. At times I too feel mans total inhumanity to man just gets too much for me. What I do is concentrate on doing something to help ease suffering or hardship in my immediate surroundings. This stops me from getting even more depressed,pulls me out of the cycle of feeling helpless and actively doing something.In your case do something positive in his honour. We as one person cannot heal the world but we can start with each of us easing the plight of just one person at a time........together with the power of prayer. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this terribly difficult time. <em>edited by Nomad on 08/02/2015</em>
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Latest post on 04 February 2015 - 23:38
As ummuhammad said Moaz is everyone's son today. My prayers to his parents, family and his country <em>edited by Nomad on 08/02/2015</em>
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Latest post on 29 January 2015 - 18:30
Thanks LTS and FD on my way down to find Manuka honey. LC we have been adding Omega 3 to her food for the past 6 months , but will give the coconut oil a try if we have another break out. I am so thrilled as she is an abused rescue and the head cone sent her into a terrible state so had to find an alternative. Hope it works for your pup Suzy. <em>edited by Nomad on 29/01/2015</em>
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Latest post on 28 January 2015 - 23:51
No I wouldn't. It's called " Potty Training " and you don't encourage a child to go to the toilet just anywhere.
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Latest post on 28 January 2015 - 23:47
Thought I would pass this on as I know some have had similar issues. I have been trying now for almost two years to treat a dry skin allergy on my Dobies belly and between her back legs. We have tried steroids ( makes her loopy and weight gain was terrible), changing to a grain free diet, washing every few days with special shampoo, spraying daily with a echo friendly brew of green tea and apple cider vinegar, poor thing smelt like fish and chips for days. Nothing worked, I was at my wits end and by chance read up about coconut oil.It apparently has antibiotic qualities and is good in the treatment of acne. Well after 2 weeks of lathering her belly with virgin coconut oil we have a happy girl once more, no more licking skin raw, scratching etc. It is a bit of a messy job but rub it in well and blot off the excess once you have rubbed it in. Such a relief and she smells great ! edited by Nomad on 28/01/2015 <em>edited by Nomad on 28/01/2015</em>
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Latest post on 28 January 2015 - 18:49
Thanks for all your concern on how I should treat my pup (if I can find one), however I would not be looking for one if I had never had experience owning, training, and taking good care of it. My place is very well set up for any type of dog (with an outside airconditioned house if it's a German Shephered or in my own house if it's a bulldog or pug). FairyDust, thank you for the websites. However, as mentioned I am looking for a specific type and breed. I've looked up K9 Friends already but still remain firm about my decision for a pedigree pup. Some of those that have replied are very active in animal welfare in DXB. I have have seen the results of people buying specific breeds that are NOT SUITED to the climate.......PUGS, BULLDOGS,BOSTON TERRIERS to name a few. Airlines are not keen on transporting these breeds for good reason, they don't travel well at altitude.....result ,they HOPEFULLY get adopted out but a large no are abandoned. You came on and asked for advice and have got it from long time members, some have been in DXB a long time seen it all. As far as Petzone is concerned "seeing a picture and reading a description" my reply is " I have a bargain bridge to sell , can send pictures "........... Personally I have no problems with the fact that you are after a specific breed but do the responsible thing buy from an ETHICAL breeder in a country that has strong animal rights laws.Any breeder worth their salt will insist on meeting you, filling out loads of paperwork, meeting the pups parents and endless questions on your motivations and reasons for wanting a specific breed. edited by Nomad on 28/01/2015 <em>edited by Nomad on 28/01/2015</em>
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Latest post on 25 January 2015 - 22:40
Sometimes circumstances change quickly and people are in a difficult situation. but so many questions arise with this particular situation - is the mom working and if so, how will she afford childcare/ school fees if she cant afford her own studio/ one-bed apartment? If she's not working, how will she pay the rent regardless of where she lives, or feed herself and her child? she must have known her lease was going to expire, why did she not find alternatively accommodation before the last minute? If she has no money and is homeless, she might be better off seeking assistance to return to her home country rather than remaining here in what can only be described as unstable and uncertain circumstances. This is not a place where you want to be homeless and broke with a child, living in a stranger's maid's room. IMHO the most valuable response on this thread. As far as the subletting issues, be really sure of what you are getting into is all I can add. Hope your friend gets sorted m_king.
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Latest post on 21 January 2015 - 20:31
We did. We tried to find a suitable rescue dog but as first time owners they didn't want us to have a puppy and there weren't any we were confident enough to take on so we looked into bringing one from a reputable breeder in the UK. Neither worked out for us unfortunately. We heard of a puppy at Europets and she is beautiful and healthy and we are thrilled to bits with her. Yep and supported the practice of unethical breeding.Having been part of rescues from puppy mills NOTHING could induce me to buy from any breeder that is: *Prepared to send a hopefully 8+ week old puppy to anyone who can pay the price. *Has no back round info as to who is buying the puppy ( why do you think the rescue group were wary about giving you a puppy without any prior experience of having dogs ) *lets anyone buy a dog without having seen the parents. *sends any breed to anyone without checking if it will be a right fit for their new home and circumstance. <em>edited by Nomad on 21/01/2015</em>
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Latest post on 21 January 2015 - 20:20
ChillieChai thank goodness these two found you, if not one can only imagine their fate. Thank You . Your post should be part of a sticky on the main forum and the pets page. To OP hopefully this answers your query, straight from the horses mouth.
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Latest post on 21 January 2015 - 19:47
If you support the cruel practice of Puppy Mill farming, mothers kept in crates stacked one on top of each other producing puppies constantly with no genetic screening as to possible deformities and health issues, then support Europets. They ply their trade in East Block countries where animal rights are very lax.Puppies are taken from their mothers way too early and posted like a parcel to anyone who can pay for them. No one Is screened so who knows what life lies ahead for these poor babies.Not having had their mom to teach them normal acceptable behaviour they are at a terrible disadvantage to start with. If you buy from pets stores in DXB they also import from the same sources with questionable papers as to age and the health of the puppies. If you are after a particular breed and not open to rescuing a puppy from any number of the overflowing rescue societies in DXB, then contact an ethical breeder either in your home country or from a country that has strong animal rights laws in place. <em>edited by Nomad on 22/01/2015</em>
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Latest post on 18 January 2015 - 22:35
Nomad, my husband has already tried that, with no niceties as far as I'm aware, but the watchman clearly didn't pay much attention! You hit the nail on the head with your comment about watchmen ruling the roost with fear and intimidation. We've had problems with harassment of gardeners, problems with harassment of kids playing ball and being threatened with acid on the grass, intimidation of maids now with stories of killing cats.... It's so out of order and causes so much stress and never ending debates. Some of these things have been going on since we moved in 2 years ago......but there is no management or leadership for our compound and no rules so we carry on wasting our time going round in circles! You are the paying tenant, paying his salary. The acid comment would be enough for me to go to the police. Why should you move and incur further expense. Report him.
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Latest post on 18 January 2015 - 17:57
He did not tell ME this, he told my maid. But he denied it when my daughter challenged him on it. I have not been able to find him to clarify. I think he will deny it to my face, so he is lying to someone. I just really feel he/they (the are 2 of them like this) are totally unprofessional trouble makers who stir things up. My husband told him yesterday to talk to us about it rather than to our maid, poor lady. Is he seeking her out to tell her all this? yes possibly, he approached her to comment, with a big smile on his face, about my husband going to complain to him, and the conversation then moved on to other issues. I have rarely encountered such a ridiculous "he said, she said" situation and wish we could sort this out sensibly. The problem is partly that he is always smiling so it is very hard to tell when he is being serious and when he is just joking. VictoriaM time your husband put a stop to this.No smiling just matter of fact. Get DH to tell him directly to leave your maid alone (why is he seeking her out ?) and that if he continues DH will contact the authorities and management. Looking on the brighter side I am hoping he is just trying to get a reaction from the maid, his ham fisted way of trying to woo her. I might be totally out of line here but have seen how watchman rule the roost with fear and intimidation. <em>edited by Nomad on 18/01/2015</em>
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Latest post on 18 January 2015 - 17:02
Victoria, if what you are being told is truthful, that is grim, shocking information. I feel so bad about the dire situation here re stray cats, it's very sad. Awful to read your posts Victoria, get out of there as soon as possible. This ugly issue raises it head every time the cat population gets out of hand and yes they do go around trapping and euthanizing, however that does not give this watchman the right to do his own thing.
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Latest post on 18 January 2015 - 16:54
I couldn't agree with you all more! It is quite unbelievable and this man is a total disgrace, as you say. I'm on the Bin Kitty page so will post something and see what they say. However, contacting the municipali wont help, as its is the municipality that has given him carte Blanche to kill the cats! He contacted them about the problems the compound is having with cats. As I said in my last post, He was to,d he could kill them, even if they have collars and are outside the compound. Frightening stuff for pet owners. I would question this VM as it is not illegal to let your cats outside, phone them yourself and let them know what he is doing. Cruelty to animals is against the law and he can't go around deciding which animals he can kill, he isn't the Municipality <em>edited by Nomad on 18/01/2015</em>
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Latest post on 18 January 2015 - 16:48
Beebers, I agree, some people are very kind to them and I've never heard of watchmen killing cats before. Nomad, I totally agree with you about contacting a feline organisation, I can't imagine that this is in anyway legal to just kill cats like that. I would make such a stink, they are nothing but a bunch of bullies. Possibly a call to the media ?
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Latest post on 18 January 2015 - 16:42
Well the peace didn't last long did it! Turns out its more the watchmen/maintenance guys in the compound that are fed up with the cats, stray and owned, fighting at night, causing other problems like the neighbour and her dirty cushions. So the neighbour might be ok, but these guys are not! They have been stirring things up with our maid for the last 2 days. Today the watchman said he had killed one of the stray cats that was fighting, and possibly some kittens he found in the compound (he was very evasive). The municipality has told him he can even kill cats with collars outside the compound as they are not allowed out. Think we definitely need to get out of here! I've got to the end if my tether and don't think we can rationalise with these guys. Cats in general just seem to be too much of a problem at the moment in areas like this where I'm told the locals half heartedly 'own' them with no responsibility and let them breed. VictoriaM this is animal cruelty and you should report it to the Municipality. The watchman have no right to go around arbitrarily killing cats. Who knows what they will try next, poison ?. Please report this and tell your maid to not engage with them regarding the cats....it sounds like this is just egging them on. Should you have the time and inclination, contact one of the rescue groups to possibly start a small TNR program, even one sterilized cat makes a huge difference.
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Latest post on 16 January 2015 - 22:17
So true Cherpie. Bonbon I was pleased to see that you have put the wedding on hold. I don't want to come across as negative Nellie but the first thing an abuser does is say " I am so sorry and will never do it again " , followed by a short period of euphoric bliss. They then revert,sometimes subtly, to their previous ways. I say this not as a professional but as a child who grew up in a dysfunctional marriage, my beautiful vibrant independent mother was a surrogate mother to my father. It was not his fault as he grew up in sad circumstances totally unprepared for life as a husband and parent, however he was also not prepared to try to work through these demons with therapy. The typical Alpha male I am the man of the house and you will listen to me. Take your time, think very carefully and realise that in time to come if you have children they will be part of this mix and ultimately they pay the biggest price. All the very best to you..... :hug: <em>edited by Nomad on 16/01/2015</em>
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Latest post on 15 January 2015 - 08:12
Hi Beebers, I would fix him ASAP, sounds like he might be looking for a date ! Next step could be spraying to mark his territory. I know a few men who feel sympathy for males who get neutered ! Recently took a stray male cat in and even the vet admired his endowments, he is an enormous fellow.....Seriously they live a healthier and longer life and I am sure your boy will be a lots less needy and god forbid but if he ever got out he would be less inclined to wonder. Well that settles it. I am going to lay down the law. Thanks, Nomad! :) He thought he was too young, but apparently this is not the case. edited by Beebers on 15/01/2015 As long as he is older than 6 months you are good to go. ;)
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Latest post on 14 January 2015 - 20:10
Hi Beebers, I would fix him ASAP, sounds like he might be looking for a date ! Next step could be spraying to mark his territory. I know a few men who feel sympathy for males who get neutered ! Recently took a stray male cat in and even the vet admired his endowments, he is an enormous fellow.....Seriously they live a healthier and longer life and I am sure your boy will be a lots less needy and god forbid but if he ever got out he would be less inclined to wonder.
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Latest post on 14 January 2015 - 19:25
I agree with Artemis2 it sounds like something happened while you were away. I have seen things that have forced me to take action with regards to maids left with animals to care for. Not having a go at maids but some have a very different idea of animal husbandry...... To be on the safe side treat them as if there has been some sort of issue, lots of love cuddles patience and reassurance from you. Let the maid know that they are REALLY important members of your family and teach her how to treat them. Maybe consider boarding them next time you are away.
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Latest post on 14 January 2015 - 19:05
Sounds to me like he is looking for a surrogate mother. Someone who looks after him, carts him around , accepts lady his friends and believe me once you are his working wife you will be his ATM. I Am with Izzy when it comes to going Dutch and would rather not go out at all than split the bill,especially in view of the fact that he pays for his friends. As Beebers said 39 going on 18 , another alarm bell ,why is he now suddenly at the age of 39 getting married and why not choose one of his hip lady friends. You sound like a lovely person who is fiscally responsible and independent, don't settle for the sake of getting married. To me it sounds like you will be mother, wife,housekeeper,provider of offspring,chauffeur,and ATM all while still holding down a full time job.........PLEASE RUN as fast as you can. <em>edited by Nomad on 14/01/2015</em>
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Latest post on 13 January 2015 - 21:32
No - read my post, I want to see more women in the work place to change and influence government and the betterment of mankind. Unfortunately, this will only happen through the lobbying of governments by commercial enterprises and if there were more women in the senior management you'd see more lobbying of 'emotionally' intelligent change. Pressure for a better world longterm not a short term buck. I guess this is very idealised but look around you who is leading this world and look what is happening - sorry but it isn't the SAHM I don't believe I have misunderstood you. I also don't disagree that more women in senior roles is a good thing. I take issue with you trying to erode the importance of stay at home mothers. I have three degrees and have had a wonderful career so far. If my daughter knows that I was able to achieve at university and professionally, but was prepared to sacrifice that in order to support and guide her during her formative years by being there full time that's a role model that I think she is lucky to have. It is also a legacy I'm happy to leave. Well said Stix. I come from a long line of strong independent woman. My grandmother left home because she refused to marry the man chosen for her by her father. She moved into a boarding house and qualified as a secretary. Her family were scandalized. She was very active in the Suffrage movement landing in hot water many times, however at the end of the day she CHOSE to stay at home and raise 3 children. When said children were raised she returned to her passions. Helping the less fortunate and getting her ' soap box ' out once more. My mother had no option but to return to work and my siblings paid a heavy price. I know she would have been much happier as a stay at home mom. I CHOSE to be a SAHM and my now grown sons who have their own children, have never stopped thanking me. Capital in my view you are very much trying to preach to the converted here.... as far as woman and self worth are concerned. I grew up in a continent where a woman's job was to have children work the fields and take care of the household. Not being a smart Alec but these are the areas where a woman's worth should be encouraged not one about the cost of living. I am all for cutting the cloth to fit the pattern, have done it many times, but having a go at SAHM moms doesn't fit. ER I never walk past an Air Fryer without having a giggle and thinking of you. Sorry to hear you are not too well at the mo sending you positive thoughts your way. :) <em>edited by Nomad on 13/01/2015</em>
 
 
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